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Theresa Huang(Cuishan)


                                                                              Feb 11th, 2013


                                         A Child Called It


       “Mother simply grabs me and smashes my face against the mirror, smearing my

tearstreaked face on the slick, reflective glass. Then she would order me to say over and

over again, “I’m a bad boy! I’m a bad boy! I’m a bad boy!”(Dave Pelzer, P4) What a

horrifying fact about how a mother hurts her child like that. When I read of this book, A

Child Called It, which it is a real life story about the author, Dave Pelzer, from his age 4

to 12. I was shocking that he had that such a horrible childhood. This book is talking

about he is suffering any abused by his biological mother which is neglect, physical

abuse and emotional abuse.


       Dave is suffering neglect by lacking food and clothing. First of all, Dave is

lacking enough food to eat since his mother refuses to give him dinner and he only can

get the leftover cereal portions for breakfast if he is lucky. At night, he dreams of food

when he goes to bed and sometimes he even cannot sleep, “Hours later, I would drift off

to sleep, fantasizing about food. I mainly dreamt of colossal hamburgers with all the

fixings. In my dreams I seized my prize and brought it to my lips. I visualized every inch

of the hamburger.” (P30) Soon later, in order to survive, he begins to steal foods from his

classmates. When his classmates are playing outside the building, he sneaks to the

building right to the homeroom and steal portion of food from his classmates. But later,

he gets caught. Then he changes his mind to steal food from the grocery store. But finally,

he gets caught. When I read of these parts of the story, I feel pity that Dave does not have
enough food to eat and this leads him to steal food which it is not a good manner to do it.

It is all about his mother’s faults which she refuses to get food to him. Second, he is

neglected by clothes are old, torn and not clean. His clothes are all smelly since he wears

the same clothes every day. So his friends at school are isolating with him. He feels

lonely without anyone accompany with him.


       Dave is suffering physical abuse by his mother who is an alcoholic and is

unhappy with her marriage. Every time, when his husband is working, she goes to drink

and gets drunk. She abuse Dave by grabs his head, smacks, punches, and kicks him until

he is on the floor. One day, when Dave goes back from a Cub Scout meeting, his mother

is so angry and yells at him to stand by the stove, “Mother then reached over and turned

on the gas burners to the kitchen stove”(P28) Then, he uses his tactful idea to extend the

timing. He knows that his brother Ron is coming soon and he never acts so badly when

Ron is there. When Ron is arrived, he saves his life and he knows that “The more Mother

slugged me, the more I began to realize I had won!”(P28) Dave’s inner strength helps

him to take the courage to survive.


       Last but not least, Dave’s mother also emotional abuses his child. As time by time,

Dave’s mother tortures him even worst. When he is 10 years old, one evening, his mother

grabs a knife to threaten him to finish the chores on time, if not; she is going to kill him.

But something happen makes her lose the balance; she unfortunately stabs in his stomach

by a knife. At that time, she does not take him to the hospital instead he keeps going to

yell at him to finish the chores on time. His father does not go and help his son instead he

asks him to finish it on time since he does not want to upset his wife. What a helpless
father is that. His son is getting hurt by a knife and he just ignores it. It is a life for a child

and how can he does it like that?


        If Dave’s father has the courage to help his son, he would not suffer neglect and

physical abuse regularly by his mother at his age from 4 to 12 years old. Dave’s courage

to survive inspires us that we have the ability to change the shadows of the past and live

in a new stage of the life. Our inner strengths encourage us to success.

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Reflection -child abuse

  • 1. Theresa Huang(Cuishan) Feb 11th, 2013 A Child Called It “Mother simply grabs me and smashes my face against the mirror, smearing my tearstreaked face on the slick, reflective glass. Then she would order me to say over and over again, “I’m a bad boy! I’m a bad boy! I’m a bad boy!”(Dave Pelzer, P4) What a horrifying fact about how a mother hurts her child like that. When I read of this book, A Child Called It, which it is a real life story about the author, Dave Pelzer, from his age 4 to 12. I was shocking that he had that such a horrible childhood. This book is talking about he is suffering any abused by his biological mother which is neglect, physical abuse and emotional abuse. Dave is suffering neglect by lacking food and clothing. First of all, Dave is lacking enough food to eat since his mother refuses to give him dinner and he only can get the leftover cereal portions for breakfast if he is lucky. At night, he dreams of food when he goes to bed and sometimes he even cannot sleep, “Hours later, I would drift off to sleep, fantasizing about food. I mainly dreamt of colossal hamburgers with all the fixings. In my dreams I seized my prize and brought it to my lips. I visualized every inch of the hamburger.” (P30) Soon later, in order to survive, he begins to steal foods from his classmates. When his classmates are playing outside the building, he sneaks to the building right to the homeroom and steal portion of food from his classmates. But later, he gets caught. Then he changes his mind to steal food from the grocery store. But finally, he gets caught. When I read of these parts of the story, I feel pity that Dave does not have
  • 2. enough food to eat and this leads him to steal food which it is not a good manner to do it. It is all about his mother’s faults which she refuses to get food to him. Second, he is neglected by clothes are old, torn and not clean. His clothes are all smelly since he wears the same clothes every day. So his friends at school are isolating with him. He feels lonely without anyone accompany with him. Dave is suffering physical abuse by his mother who is an alcoholic and is unhappy with her marriage. Every time, when his husband is working, she goes to drink and gets drunk. She abuse Dave by grabs his head, smacks, punches, and kicks him until he is on the floor. One day, when Dave goes back from a Cub Scout meeting, his mother is so angry and yells at him to stand by the stove, “Mother then reached over and turned on the gas burners to the kitchen stove”(P28) Then, he uses his tactful idea to extend the timing. He knows that his brother Ron is coming soon and he never acts so badly when Ron is there. When Ron is arrived, he saves his life and he knows that “The more Mother slugged me, the more I began to realize I had won!”(P28) Dave’s inner strength helps him to take the courage to survive. Last but not least, Dave’s mother also emotional abuses his child. As time by time, Dave’s mother tortures him even worst. When he is 10 years old, one evening, his mother grabs a knife to threaten him to finish the chores on time, if not; she is going to kill him. But something happen makes her lose the balance; she unfortunately stabs in his stomach by a knife. At that time, she does not take him to the hospital instead he keeps going to yell at him to finish the chores on time. His father does not go and help his son instead he asks him to finish it on time since he does not want to upset his wife. What a helpless
  • 3. father is that. His son is getting hurt by a knife and he just ignores it. It is a life for a child and how can he does it like that? If Dave’s father has the courage to help his son, he would not suffer neglect and physical abuse regularly by his mother at his age from 4 to 12 years old. Dave’s courage to survive inspires us that we have the ability to change the shadows of the past and live in a new stage of the life. Our inner strengths encourage us to success.