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MIRACLE 
PREMATURE BABY 
DEFIES THE ODDS TO SURVIVE 
NELL McANDREW 
FAVOURITE BABY ITEMS 
BABY HELMETS 
DO THEY REALLY WORK? 
Children’s Headaches 
CRAFTS FOR KIDS 
BECOMING A DAD 
A DAD’S GUIDE TO PREGNANCY 
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FEATURE 
FEATURES 
18 Becoming a Dad 
20 Top Ten: Lip Balms 
22 Health: Urinary Tract Infections 
26 Health: Using Stem Cells to 
Grow your own Organs 
28 Beauty: Add a touch of Sparkle 
30 Fashion: The Maternity Blues 
34 Health: Solving Teenagers’ 
Period Problems 
38 Children’s Fashion: 
Comic Strip Cool 
44 Children’s Clubs 
48 Health: Baby Helmets 
50 Charity: Wellbeing of Women 
52 Health: Children’s Headaches 
61 Crafts for Kids 
64 Fashion: Get Shirty 
67 How to access Private out-of-hours 
Care for your Child 
68 Health: Treating Children 
with Botox 
76 Toys: A Walk on the Wildside 
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 URINARY TRACT 
INFECTIONS 
 WEEKEND GETAWAYS 
AUTUMN 
2014 
 COMIC STRIP COOL 
 BABY HELMETS 
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AUTUMN 
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REGULARS 
11 News 
13 Listings 
14 Practical Parenting with Marina Fogle: 
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Weekend Getaways 
17 My Favourite Baby Things: Nell McAndrews 
22 What is Happening at  Weeks Pregnancy 
37 Parent Talk 
40 Real Life Story: 
Miracle Baby defies the odds to Survive 
55 A Day in the Life of: Dr Adrian Lloyd Thomas, 
Consultant Paediatric Anaesthetist 
71 Nurture Loves 
77 Contributors 
 SOLVING TEENAGERS 
PERIOD PROBLEMS 
 BECOMING A DAD 
 TOYS: TAKE A WALK 
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10 AUTUMN 2014 | 
WELCOME 
There’s no getting around the fact that pregnancy, childbirth and 
breastfeeding are all about women and their newborns – it’s just 
the biological facts of life. 
However, there’s also no doubt that dads play a crucial role in the 
whole process from conception through childbirth to nurturing 
the new addition to the family. 
Many dads feel at a loss during pregnancy and childbirth: theirs is 
a supporting role and one that, unfortunately, sometimes gets lost 
with all the focus understandably on the mother and baby. 
Yet dads need help and support too so that they know what to expect and how they can 
best help their partner. 
So with that in mind, in this edition of Nurture magazine we asked Portland Hospital 
experts to come up with the ten questions and answers about pregnancy and childbirth 
every new dad needs to know. 
From antenatal classes and pain relief to how soon you can resume a sexual relationship 
with your partner after childbirth, we have everything covered. 
We also talk to one of the country’s leading dad bloggers about his tips for surviving 
fatherhood. 
The amazing work of the hospital’s Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) also comes under 
the spotlight. The dedication and expertise of its staff means hundreds of sick babies 
every year are nursed back to good health. 
We also focus on groundbreaking research using stem cells which means that one day we 
could be growing our own body parts for transplantation. 
Added into the mix are the cutest animal inspired toys, the coolest comic strip children’s 
fashion and the definitive guide to the best jeans and denim for mums-to be. 
Happy reading! 
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NEWS 
STRESS CAN 
BE ‘CAUGHT’ 
| AUTUMN 2014 11 
LIFESTYLE 
REVERSED 
DAMAGE CAUSED BY AN UNHEALTHY LIFESTYLE 
can be reversed if you kick bad habits by the age 
of 50, research claims. The study of 5,000 people, 
published in the journal Circulation, found that giving 
up smoking, improving diet, maintaining a healthy 
weight and taking exercise in your 30s and 40s can 
control and potentially even reverse the natural 
progression of heart disease. However, scientists 
warned that picking up extra bad habits as you get 
older, will have a detrimental effect on the arteries. 
STRESS CAN BE PASSED FROM PERSON TO 
person just like a cold, claim researchers. A study by 
American psychologists found that stress can be 
‘caught’ from strangers through their tone of voice, 
facial expressions, posture and even odour. 'To find 
that in some people, some of the time, you can elicit 
these responses just by sitting and watching someone 
else under stress was somewhat surprising to us,' 
said Tony Buchanan, Associate Professor from Saint 
Louis University. 
READING ALOUD 
DOCTORS ARE ADVISING PARENTS TO READ 
aloud to their children every day from birth to 
help with brain development. The new policy from 
the American Academy of Paediatrics is based on 
growing evidence that crucial brain development 
occurs during the first three years of life and 
that reading to children, as well as talking and 
singing, enhances vocabulary and other important 
communication skills. 
LACK OF 
SLEEP 
LACK OF SLEEP CAN CAUSE THE BRAIN TO 
shrink, according to new research. A Singapore 
study found the less older adults sleep, the faster 
their brain ages and declines. However, other 
research concluded that too much sleep in middle 
age can be just as bad for you as not having 
enough. A study of almost 9,000 people by the 
University of Warwick found those aged 50 to 64 
who slept for less than six hours a night or more 
than eight had worse memories and decision-making 
abilities. Seven hours sleep is thought 
to be the optimum for adults.
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LISTINGS 
| AUTUMN 2014 13 
TOYS ARE WITHOUT DOUBT ONE OF CHILDREN’S MOST PRIZED 
possessions. A new exhibition of portraits by Italian photographer 
Gabriele Galimberti tells the story of 21 children and their toys from a 
wide range of countries and backgrounds. The exhibition at the VA 
Museum of Childhood, Cambridge Heath Road, London, E2 9PA, 
runs until Sunday December 14 and is free. www.vam.ac.uk/moc 
DELVE INTO THE MIND OF THE 
world’s most infamous detective Sherlock 
Holmes at a major new exhibition at the 
Museum of London. The Man Who Never 
Lived And Will Never Die asks searching 
questions about who Sherlock Holmes 
is and why he still conjures up such 
enduring fascination. The exhibition, the 
first on the detective since 1951, runs 
from October 17 to April 12 2015. 
Family tickets available. 
www.museumoflondon.org.uk 
THE ROYAL OPERA HOUSE, 
Covent Garden, opens its doors to families to 
explore the building, its artists and the world 
of opera and ballet. Sessions aimed at children 
aged six and over include live make-up and 
stage combat demonstrations, costume dressing 
up and creative activities led by set designers, 
and informal performances from Royal Ballet 
dancers. Tickets, costing £5 for 
adults, £3 for children, go on sale 
roughly three months in advance. 
www.roh.org.uk 
TREAT YOUR CHILDREN TO A PERFORMANCE 
of Hansel and Gretel at the Lyric Hammersmith 
Theatre. With sumptuous music, film, puppets and 
masks, this is a treat of a show as delicious as a 
gingerbread house. The 75 minute performance by 
the Horse + Bamboo Theatre is aimed at children 
aged five to 11, with daytime shows on 
February 6 and 7 2015. Tickets £8. 
www.lyric.co.uk
WEEKEND FAMILY GETAWAYS 
AS EVERY PARENT WILL ATTEST 
to, travel with children often ends 
up being more stressful and tiring 
than a weekend at home. Packing 
can take a week of planning and still 
you manage to forget something 
crucial, the journey quickly turns into 
a cacophony of squabbling and, once 
you finally get there, the children are 
out of their comfort zone – the bed is 
too small, the room too dark, the food 
not right or the pool too cold. So for 
a hotel to get it right for children is 
extremely hard. 
Ben and I had planned an indulgent 
week without the children in South 
Africa, something we try to do every 
year. But, at the eleventh hour, this 
had to be cancelled; Ben was needed 
on a fishing trawler in the North Sea 
before a month in Sochi for the Winter 
Olympics. Before he went, he really 
wanted to spend some quality time 
with all of us so we decided to go 
away for the weekend. 
Chewton Glen lies at the edge of the 
New Forest. It’s a convenient ninety 
minute drive from London but actually 
14 AUTUMN 2014 | 
feels like a 
destination. 
I had been 
obsessed 
with this 
folkloric 
forest where wild ponies roam when 
I was a child, and I knew it would 
appeal to my little ones. We had 
the added bonus of staying in a tree 
house and, within days of announcing 
this, our children had convinced 
themselves we would be surrounded 
by elves and pixies, and that baby 
wild ponies would be sleeping in 
their beds. 
Using natural materials where possible 
and glass, the treehouse embraces 
its magnificent setting. Even on a 
wet spring weekend, our treehouse 
was our little cocoon from which we 
could watch the rain drip off the trees, 
water trickle by in the brook and, as 
night fell, the owls hoot. While our 
room was indulgent with 180 degree 
windows, heated floors and a huge 
bath, the children had a little attic 
room, accessed by a ladder built into a 
bookcase. Two little beds were tucked 
into the eaves, and boxes of toys 
awaited their arrival. That night 
bedtime was a dream; no coercion 
just two happy children, leaping 
into their beds, excited for the 
day ahead. 
The next morning was one of pure 
indulgence. The children joined us 
in bed for cuddles and very soon 
we heard the ‘elves’ delivering our 
breakfast. We opened a little hatch 
and there was a wicker hamper, full of 
delicious breakfast goodies. We set 
up a little picnic on our balcony and 
talked about the magical creatures 
that lived in the forest while devouring 
warm croissants. 
That day’s mission was to explore the 
forest. Your imagination can run wild 
with you here, so two hours passed 
quickly as the children searched for 
elves, pixies and baby ponies who 
needed rescuing. We then went on 
to the technicolour gardens at Exbury 
which never fail to astound. 
We returned just in time for 
a swim before tea. An hour 
splashing, jumping and swimming 
in the light and airy indoor pool 
finished the children off and they 
practically fell into bed, allowing 
me a rare, indulgent bath before 
dinner at Vetivier, the hotel’s 
renowned restaurant. 
On Sunday morning, we explored 
the grounds, the outdoor swimming 
pool, play area and tree house before 
the ‘elves’ delivered our picnic and 
we headed off to the beach. In spite 
of the winter storms, the beaches 
remained spectacular and provided 
plenty of flotsam and jetsam for 
hours of exploring. 
Salty, sandy, wind burnt and tired 
we returned to our tree house with 
heavy hearts for the children’s final 
bath. The only protestations we had 
that weekend came at the end when 
they realised we had to leave our 
forest utopia. But we promised we’d 
return and, within five minutes of 
leaving, they could no longer fight 
sleep and we drove home listening to 
the contented snores of two happy, 
exhausted children. 
Chewton Glen, New Milton, 
Hampshire, BH25 6QS 
www.chewtonglen.com 
Room from £325 a night. 
Our treehouse was our 
little cocoon from which 
we could watch the rain 
drip off the trees, water 
trickle by in the brook and, 
as night fell, the owls hoot
| AUTUMN 2014 15 
MARINA’S TIPS FOR PLANNING A 
WEEKEND BREAK WITH YOUR CHILDREN 
Be realistic about the journey. Around two hours is easy, any 
more has the potential to become a nightmare. Also think 
about the timing of your journey. Children sleep beautifully 
in the car so try to tie it in with a good sleep. You might even 
avoid rush hour this way. 
Speak to the hotel beforehand to ask them what equipment 
they can provide. If you can borrow a cot and high chair 
you’ll have to pack less. Otherwise, I love the Phil and Teds 
MeToo Clip on high chair that folds flat. philandteds.com 
Check with the hotel about curtains in the room. If light 
pours in through thin curtains at 5am waking your child, 
your weekend will not be particularly restful. If you want to 
play it safe, it’s worth investing in the Gro Anywhere Blackout 
blind that attaches to any window. gro.co.uk 
You never know when your child might develop a 
temperature. Get into the habit of taking a small medical kit 
with you when you travel including a thermometer, Calpol 
and Nurofen. 
With little children, ask the hotel about food. Some provide 
puree menus or equipment to puree. Failing that, pack 
plenty of pre-made pouches such as Ella’s Kitchen or Plum 
Baby. If you’re storing food in your mini bar, remember 
often those fridges are cool enough to cool drinks but not 
for storing food or milk. 
Depending on the age of your children, remember to pack 
some toys. Think about what can entertain them for a long 
time but isn’t too cumbersome. 
If you’re heading to the country and have a small child, 
consider leaving your buggy behind. Country walks tend to 
be difficult even with ‘off road’ buggies. Instead take a baby 
carrier – Baby Bjorn is great for small babies and the Ergo 
baby is great for when they get older. babybjorn.co.uk 
FEATURE 
Practical Parenting WITH MARINA FOGLE 
OTHER FUN 
WEEKENDS 
FOR CHILDREN 
Rent a house by a lake in the 
Cotswolds. The Lakes by 
Yoo offers 3-6 bedroom houses 
to rent with a concierge service so it’s not 
dissimilar to staying in a hotel. There are 
plenty of activities to keep energetic children 
entertained including fishing, canoeing, cycling 
and even zip wiring across one of the lakes. 
If the weather’s bad, there’s a great spa and 
indoor pool. www.thelakesbyyoo.com/rentals 
Head to the beach. The Pig on the Beach is the 
newest of the hugely popular and reasonably 
priced Pig hotels and its location on Studland 
Beach makes it a perfect family getaway. 
Overlooking Poole Harbour, the miles of sandy 
beach are the perfect exploration ground for 
adventurous families. www.thepighotel.com 
Immerse yourself in Nature. For animal or 
tractor-mad children, a stay on Kate Humble’s 
working farm in South Wales is an experience 
few will forget. Stay at the Piggery, a two 
bedroom cottage at the heart of the farm. 
Collect your vegetables and eggs from your 
own garden each morning and days are spent 
mucking around with Farmer Tim. Lambing 
season is particularly magical. 
www.humblebynature.com 
Further afield. If the British weather has taken 
a turn for the worse, there’s nothing like a 
quick hop over to the Algarve for some early 
spring or late autumn sunshine. The Martinhal 
is a family friendly resort which is chic and 
luxurious enough to give the most discerning 
of parents a well-earned break too. 
www.martinhal.com
LIFESTYLE 
| AUTUMN 2014 17 
MY FAVOURITE BABY THINGS 
Nell McAndrew 
Nell McAndrew, 40, is a model, author, 
television personality and accomplished 
athlete (she has a marathon personal 
best of 2:54:39). She is also a full-time 
mother to son Devon, eight, and 
daughter Anya, one, her children with 
husband of 10 years, Paul Hardcastle. 
The family live in Surrey. 
2. MAM products, various, mamonlineshop.com 
I have tried out various products from this brand 
and have been pleased with all of them, especially 
the curved cutlery (£5.99) and first drinking cup 
(£2.99). I am now using the toothbrushes (from 
£3.50). How time flies! 
1. Oysterbaby sling, £75, 
oysterbaby.co.uk 
Made from bamboo which is 
gentle on baby's skin, this sling 
kept my baby close to me and I 
found that she slept more soundly. 
The sling position promotes 
correct hip joint development, 
prevents flat head syndrome and is 
great for breastfeeding discreetly. 
5. BOB running pushchair, around £400, bobgear.co.uk 
Without this I would not be able to get out for a run as often as I do. 
This pushchair has helped keep me fitter and happier as well as both 
baby and me getting lots of fresh air. 
3. Green People products, 
from £3.50, greenpeople.co.uk 
Again, I have tried out various products 
and like that both baby and I can share 
them. My favourite is the soothing baby 
oil (£10.95) which I have used for baby 
massage and even on my hair to tame 
my dry frizzy ends. 
4. Familia organic baby muesli, £2.80, 
health food stores nationwide 
I can't stop eating this! I always carry a 
tub with some of this muesli in then just 
add either water or milk when needed. 
I add extra oats and chia seeds and add 
either oat, soya or rice milk to make it 
extra nutritious and delicious.
FEATURE 
Dad 
By Sophie Goodchild 
A dad in the delivery room was once 
a taboo. However, today, the journey 
from the first scan to childbirth is a 
more inclusive experience for men. 
But many still end up daunted by the 
prospect of impending fatherhood. 
So what’s it really like having a baby if 
you’re the daddy? 
John Adams is a stay-at-home father 
to five-year-old Helen and Elizabeth, 
aged 19 months, while his wife works 
full time. He is also one of the UK’s 
ten most influential dad bloggers. 
His site Dadbloguk.com chronicles 
his experiences and is read by several 
thousand people a month. 
John says: ‘It makes sense for dad to 
attend ante-natal classes, read up on 
childbirth and visit the delivery suite 
prior to the birth (a visit is standard 
practice at most hospitals). 
‘In my opinion, dad needs to know 
about the experience and his partner’s 
wishes so he can act as an advocate 
for her. It is, after all, difficult to tell a 
midwife whether you are comfortable 
or not mid contraction while puffing 
on gas and air. 
‘Many people will tell you a birth plan is 
pointless. I strongly disagree. You should 
write a birth plan with your partner and 
get to know it inside and out. 
‘It’s true, things can move very quickly 
in the delivery room and the medical 
team might not be able to adhere 
to every single wish your partner 
has stated. If, however, you have a 
birth plan then people will know 
your attitude towards pain relief, for 
example, and whether dad is to cut 
the umbilical cord.’ 
John sees the greater involvement of 
dads in their children’s upbringing as 
wholly positive. 
‘If you hear men of older generations 
talking about their children, they often 
didn’t know them,’ he says. 
‘Everything was left to the mum and 
womenfolk of the family, and society 
had very low expectations of fathers. 
Thankfully that has changed. 
‘I was at home for several days while a 
builder was doing some construction 
work on our house. The man was 
in his sixties so I thought I’d better 
explain why I was always at home 
with my daughter. 
‘Expecting to get a rough-ride, I was 
very surprised when he said, ‘I wish I 
could have done what you’re doing. I 
didn’t see my kids growing up, I was 
always working’. 
After the birth, John advises letting 
standards slip for a while. 
‘Concentrate on your family and let 
the small things go. When my wife 
returned from hospital following the 
birth of our second baby, we went for 
nine days before putting a full set of 
sheets on the bed. 
‘We were so tired and so wrapped 
up in our expanded family we just 
kept forgetting to do it. It sounds very 
slovenly but so what? Did anyone get 
hurt? No, we just spent those valuable 
few minutes with each other instead 
of doing mundane housework.’ 
Becoming a 
John with Helen and Elizabeth 
A dad’s guide 
to pregnancy, 
childbirth 
and beyond 
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FEATURE 
| SPRING 2014 19 
Here Mr Emeka Okaro, Consultant Obstetrician and 
Gynaecologist at The Portland Hospital, answers 
10 questions every dad should ask about pregnancy and childbirth. 
1. What can I do to help during pregnancy? 
This can be an exciting and confusing time for dads-to-be 
and some end up feeling like a bystander. Prepare yourself 
by talking to other dads or reading parenting guides. And if 
you smoke, this is a good time to quit: second-hand smoke is 
bad for pregnant women and babies. 
2. Can we continue to have sex? 
Your partner may want to have more or less sex than before 
- let her guide you on what she feels comfortable with. 
Try different positions that avoid deep penetration. Do 
remember that sex won’t hurt your baby. 
3. Should I go to all the antenatal checks and classes? 
These will help you and your partner share the experience. 
She’ll appreciate you being there and you’ll benefit from 
knowing what’s going on. Your job during labour is to 
provide a calm presence, so it’s essential to be informed 
about what to expect. 
4. Why are her moods so up and down? 
Mood swings are common during pregnancy. Your partner 
is facing all sorts of hormonal changes, may be anxious 
about the future and is carrying a growing life inside her, 
while also coping with work and domestic demands. So, if 
she’s tired a lot of the time, teary or irritable, don’t take this 
personally - she needs your support. 
5. What do I need to know about pain relief? 
Your support is the foundation for effective pain relief. 
The options include use of the birthing pool, gas and air, 
medication or an epidural. Your midwife/obstetrician will 
guide and support you to make the right choices as labour 
progresses. 
6. How can I prepare for the birth itself? 
Make sure you’ve planned the route, know where her hospital 
bag is stored and have a relative/childminder on standby (if 
you’ve already got children). Discuss your partner’s birth plan 
so you both know what she wants - one of your key roles is to 
be her advocate during your child’s birth. 
7. Should I attend the birth especially if it’s a Caesarean? 
This is a matter for you and your partner to discuss. These 
days, most dads are there even with a C-section and you can 
help support her during labour which can last anything from 
two to 20 hours. 
8. How can I be of assistance with breastfeeding? 
Your support and encouragement is vital. Patience with 
helping the baby to latch on to the breast is important. 
Encourage her to drink plenty of fluid as the true milk 
production starts after 48 hours. Help her persevere with 
feeding as the colostrum fizzles out. Her nipples may 
become cracked and sore so do take care. 
9. What happens if I don’t bond with my child? 
You may be more concerned about supporting your family 
rather than excited about the birth. This is perfectly normal. 
Don’t panic if you don’t feel an instant rush of love when 
baby arrives. Instead, find quality time to bond with your 
newborn. 
10. How soon is it ok to begin having sex again 
after childbirth? 
Every woman is different - for some it may take weeks, 
others months. It’s best to wait until the post-birth bleeding 
has stopped and she’s had her six week postnatal check-up. 
If you have sex before this, there’s a risk of infection because 
her uterus is still healing. 
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4. Dr Lipp, Original Nipple Balm for Lips, £11.50, cultbeauty.co.uk 5. Dr Hauschka Lip Balm, £10, selfridges.com 
6. Eve Lom Kiss Mix, £18, evelom.com 7. Clinique Chubby Stick Moisturising Lip Colour Balm, £16, johnlewis.com 
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INFECTIONS 
By Sophie Goodchild 
URINARY 
TRACT 
A BURNING OR STINGING 
sensation when peeing is a common 
problem for mums and children. 
The most likely cause is an infection 
in the urinary tract, the system for 
making and getting rid of urine. 
This part of your body includes the 
bladder lining and kidneys, and 
you’re more likely to develop a 
bug or urinary tract infection (UTI) 
during and after pregnancy. 
There are three reasons for 
this, according to Professor Ellis 
Downes, a Consultant Obstetrician 
and Gynaecologist at The Portland 
Hospital. 
Firstly, it’s more common in 
pregnancy to have more glucose in 
the urine which can ‘act as a focus 
for infection.’ 
The bladder not emptying 
completely and hormone 
changes which continue during 
breastfeeding are other factors. 
‘The bladder may not empty fully 
in pregnancy due to the weight 
of the baby and fluid in the 
uterus pressing on it, and also 
compressing the tubes (ureters) 
coming from the kidneys to the 
bladder. This may leave a pool of 
urine in the bladder, which can act 
as a focus of infection,’ explains 
Professor Downes. 
‘Hormonal changes, chiefly 
progesterone from the placenta, 
cause the tubes going from the 
kidneys to the bladder to dilate, 
again making urine collect.’ 
Although UTIs are painful and 
uncomfortable, they are treated 
effectively with antibiotics which 
are completely safe for pregnant 
women to take. 
To prevent a recurrence, Professor 
Downes recommends drinking 
plenty of fluids to keep urine 
diluted so bacteria are flushed out. 
Cranberry juice is also a popular 
‘cure’ for cystitis, the most 
common type of UTI. 
Studies have shown special 
compounds in the berries can 
reduce the likelihood of UTIs 
but the evidence is ‘less robust’ 
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HAPPENING 
32 
AT 32 WEEKS 
OF PREGNANCY? 
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| AUTUMN in pregnant women, according to 
Professor Downes. In children, UTIs 
are more likely to affect girls than 
boys. 
It’s just the way girls’ bodies are 
designed - the tube (known as the 
urethra) that allows urine to pass out 
of the body is shorter. 
Feilim Murphy, a Consultant 
Paediatric Urologist at the Portland, 
says children in general are prone 
to these infections because they 
don’t realise the importance of 
emptying the bladder. 
‘Having residual urine is like a 
stagnant pond. You’re increasingly 
likely to get infection unless you 
allow the bladder to fill and empty 
fully,’ he says. 
‘Boys are just as likely to be 
dysfunctional (as girls). They’ll say: 
‘I don’t need to go, I’m busy on the 
Xbox’. That maturity comes later on.’ 
Any child with a suspected UTI will 
need a thorough investigation, and 
antibiotics if they test positive, says 
Mr Murphy. His advice is to make sure 
your GP sends off the urine sample to 
be analysed by a laboratory. 
Some children may have an 
underlying issue such as their kidneys 
not functioning effectively. 
So an ultrasound scan is important in 
boys under a year and girls under six 
months even if they’ve had only one 
infection, says Mr Murphy. 
To prevent recurrent problems, 
parents may need to re-educate little 
ones on how to empty their bladder 
and also ensure their child isn’t 
constipated as this can also prevent 
the bladder from emptying normally. 
Another tip from Mr Murphy is to 
make sure your daughter can sit on 
the toilet seat with her feet touching 
the ground. 
The urologist says: ‘If a child is trying 
to pee with her feet in the air, this 
contracts the pelvic floor muscles. So 
have toddler steps up to the toilet 
until her feet can reach the floor.’ 
YOUR BABY IS ALMOST FULL TERM 
now and he or she will be a fully-formed 
little human being, weighing 
almost four pounds and measuring 
just about 19 inches. 
All the organs and body structures 
such as the ribs will be formed at 
this stage, and more and more fat is 
accumulating under your baby’s skin 
so they are becoming less transparent 
in appearance. 
Their fingerprints and nails will be 
forming along with the nervous 
system which allows humans to send 
messages back and forth from 
the brain. However, there is still 
progress to be made. 
In the last few weeks of pregnancy, 
development is really about fine 
tuning. The muscles and lenses of the 
eyes won’t be fully mature yet - that’s 
why babies take a few days to focus 
after they’re born. Also their lungs 
are still developing. 
Babies will be practising for life in 
the outside world by breathing, 
swallowing and using their own 
kidneys to urinate. 
As your baby is getting bigger, it’s 
harder for them to move around. 
However, this doesn’t necessarily 
mean a breech birth if they’re 
feet down. 
Around 60 to 70 per cent of babies at 
this stage will be in the head down 
position and the others will be feet 
down (in the breech position). But 
there’s still plenty of time for the baby 
to move into the head down position. 
Professor Ellis Downes 
Consultant Obstetrician and 
Gynaecologist at The Portland Hospital 
Drink lots of fluids: 
women need the 
equivalent of around 
eight glasses of water 
(1.6 litres) and children 
six glasses (1.2 litres) 
a day. 
Try cranberry juice 
or cranberry tablets to 
fight bacteria. 
Probiotic yoghurts can 
increase levels of ‘good’ 
bacteria in the gut. 
Tips 
for 
Preventing 
UTIs 
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feet can reach the floor 
when she’s on the toilet. 
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risk of constipation. 
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Organs 
TO GROW YOUR OWN 
By Jo Waters 
26 SPRING 2014 | 
ELEVEN-YEAR-OLD CIARAN FINN-LYNCH 
made medical history in 2010 when 
he became the first child in the world 
to have a stem-cell supported trachea 
transplant. 
Ciaran, from County Down, was born 
with a very narrow windpipe and his 
lungs collapsed on the day he was born. 
Breathing problems meant he was in 
very poor health. Metal stents inserted 
to keep his airways open had eroded 
his trachea and caused bleeding, 
and a trachea transplant was his only 
remaining option. 
During the groundbreaking procedure, 
Ciaran’s own windpipe was removed and 
replaced by a donor windpipe laced with 
his own stem cells. 
Stem cells are capable of developing into 
any type of cells and they were added to 
the donor organ in the hope that they 
would colonise the structure so his body 
would not reject it. 
The operation, carried out by a team 
from Great Ormond Street Hospital and 
University College’s London’s Institute of 
Child Health, was a world breakthrough. 
Professor Paolo De Coppi, a Consultant 
Paediatric Surgeon at The Portland 
Hospital, led the Stem Cells and 
Regenerative Medicine team at the UCL 
Institute of Child Health. 
‘We showed that we could use a donor 
organ as a “scaffold” to build a new 
trachea with the child’s own stem 
cells and grow it in the body,’ explains 
Professor De Coppi, who was recently 
Pioneering 
research means 
we could be 
using ‘home 
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made Chair of Paediatric Surgery at 
the Institute of Child Health and Great 
Ormond Street Hospital. 
‘We stripped off all the donor’s cells 
leaving only a three dimensional web 
grow a new trachea on the structure. 
transplant tissue but this would have 
brought with it the the risk of organ 
scaffolds difficult it’s Professor ‘We are such as our stem cells found fluid 
surrounding the good 
potential for tissue engineering. The 
cells could one day used to grow 
more complex organs which are made 
up of different types of tissue. 
‘At the moment this work is being done 
on children partly because their organs 
are smaller but also because they can 
potentially benefit the most in terms 
of extra years of life – each stem cell 
transplant costs round £250,000. In the 
future, they will be done on adults too.’ 
Professor De Coppi has recently 
received over £3 million from the Oak 
Foundation, the Catapult Cell Therapy, 
Cell Foundation to 
oesophagus (gullet) using 
for babies 
oesophagus, he has 
prestigious 
Research 
‘‘We hope eventually to be able to 
harvest stem cells from the amniotic 
fluid of an unborn baby and grow 
organs for them which will be ready 
by the time they are born to be 
transplanted into them. 
‘We hope this will happen in clinical 
practice within the next five years. 
‘The next stage will then be performing 
the transplant in utero before the 
baby is born so they are born with 
everything in place.’ 
His team have also made progress 
towards engineering donated 
intestines so they can be implanted 
without rejection, but this is a more 
complex and challenging organ to 
replicate. 
Other organs being studied for stem 
cell transplant purposes include 
bladder and skeletal muscle to repair 
congenital defects of the bladder and 
diaphragm. 
‘We are also investigating using 3D 
printers to help replicate an organ and 
then use stem cells, polymers and gels to 
grow to the scaffold structure,’ he adds. 
Professor De Coppi currently performs 
general paediatric surgery at the 
including hernia repairs, 
removal and treatments for 
gastroesophageal reflux disease and 
problems, but says one day he 
stem cell organ transplants 
available at the Portland too. 
We are continuing to make advances 
recent discovery that stem 
in amniotic fluid surrounding 
foetus show good potential for tissue 
engineering. 
Professor Paolo De Coppi 
A Consultant Paediatric Surgeon at 
The Portland Hospital, led the Stem Cells 
and Regenerative Medicine team at the 
UCL Institute of Child Health. 
of collagen and then used stem cells 
taken from Ciaran’s bone marrow to 
‘In the past, we would have used donor 
rejection. Alternatives such as synthetic 
scaffffolds are diffiffiffifficult to integrate with 
the native tissue and do not grow with 
the child.’ 
Two years after the transplant, 
research published in the medical 
journal The Lancet revealed the 
graft had not triggered any immune 
rejection response and had formed an 
adequate lining. 
However, most importantly, it’’’s helping 
Ciaran, now 16, to live a normal life 
after so many years of health problems. 
‘Although the trachea is a simple organ, 
we hope that in the future we will be 
able to engineer more complex organs 
using stem cells including hearts, 
intestines, kidneys and livers,’ explains 
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HEALTH 
teenagers’ period problems 
PERIODS ARE JUST ANOTHER PART OF PUBERTY FOR 
TEENAGE GIRLS. 
But some suffer more than others with pain and heavy 
bleeding or experience irregular cycles, particularly in the 
first three years of menstruation. 
Australian research, published in 2010, suggests as many as 
one in four adolescent girls suffer significant problems with 
their periods which affect life activities and result in time 
off school. 
‘Around 95 per cent of problems in the first couple of years 
after a girl starts her period can be attributed to the body 
‘settling down’ and developing a regular hormone cycle. 
Rarely will it be due to an underlying pathological problem,’ 
says Professor Sarah Creighton , a Consultant Gynaecologist 
at The Portland Hospital and Honorary Clinical Professor at 
University College London Hospitals. 
‘But that’s not to say we can’t give treatments to ease their 
symptoms while we wait for nature to settle down. 
‘If girls and young women are experiencing heavy bleeding, 
clotting and flooding, pain or their cycle isn’t improving 
and they are missing school for instance or, in rarer 
cases, developing anaemia and tiredness, then it is 
worth considering treatments that can help.’ 
Sometimes, all that’s needed is reassurance that what they 
are experiencing is normal and in most cases will settle 
down, she says. 
‘I advise them not to wait for period pain to start but to take 
painkillers such as ibuprofen or paracetamol as soon as the 
period starts as a preventative treatment. 
‘It’s also important they get enough sleep, avoid 
constipation, take enough exercise and eat healthily,’ 
explains Professor Creighton. 
‘I find not all young girls have had access to this type of 
information – they may have touched on it in a biology 
lesson, but that will just be the biological facts and not 
the useful stuff about how to cope with period problems, 
and some are too embarrassed to ask friends or family 
members.’ 
Apart from painkillers to treat menstrual pain, there are also 
drugs available to make problem symptoms more bearable. 
‘One of the commonest treatments for heavy periods is an 
oral progestogen pill such as norethisterone (NET). This has 
to be taken for 3 out of 4 weeks each cycle and can make 
periods regular, less painful and lighter. One study on NET 
showed it reduced blood loss by 83 per cent,’ explains 
Professor Creighton. 
‘For older girls, the contraceptive pill can be a very effective 
treatment. Some studies have shown it reduces blood loss 
by 43 per cent and cramping by more than 50 per cent.’ Girls 
can also be prescribed iron tablets for anaemia, medication 
called tranexamic acid for very heavy bleeding and non-steroidal 
anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) to relieve pain. 
Solving 
34 AUTUMN 2014 |
Teenagers suffer gynaecological problems just 
like older women but they can get overlooked or 
not taken seriously. Jo Waters reports. 
POLYCYSTIC OVARIES 
This term describes ovaries that contain many small 
cysts (about twice as many as in normal overies). The 
condition affects one in five adult women. Symptoms 
include irregular, less frequent periods or a complete lack of 
periods, oily skin and acne, weight problems, depression or 
mood changes and unwanted facial or body hair. ‘We don’t 
know how many teenage girls may have Polycystic ovary 
syndrome (PCOS) as there is very little research on this 
condition in teenagers,’ says Professor Creighton. ‘But it’s 
important to stress that acne, mood changes and irregular 
periods are common in the teenage years and that doesn’t 
always mean you have PCOS. 
‘Blood tests and scans can confirm a diagnosis and 
then the condition can be managed – there is no 
cure. A combination of diet and lifestyle advice and 
sometimes prescription of the contraceptive pill can 
improve symptoms.’ 
ENDOMETRIOSIS 
This is a condition where endometrial cells 
lining the womb migrate to other parts of the 
body, causing painful heavy periods. Each month 
these cells react to the menstrual cycle and also 
bleed. However, the blood cannot escape and 
causes inflammation, pain and the formation of 
adhesions (scar tissue). 
‘We used to believe that teenage girls didn’t 
get endometriosis but now we know they can. 
At The Portland I would refer suspected cases 
for laparoscopic (keyhole) investigation and 
treatment to remove endometrosis,’ says 
Professor Creighton. 
CONGENITAL 
ABNORMALITIES 
‘Very rarely girls can be born with 
gynaceological abnormalities such 
as a blocked or absent uterus or 
vagina. This may not become 
apparent until puberty and some 
of these conditions may require 
surgery,’ says Professor Creighton. 
HEALTH 
OTHER CAUSES 
OF PERIOD 
PROBLEMS 
When girls don’t respond to these 
treatments, there may be an underlying 
cause which requires specialist 
investigation. These conditions include: 
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Q. My daughter has just started primary school and I’ve found nits in her hair. 
How do I get rid of them and prevent her from getting them again? 
A. Nits are the bane of most primary 
school parents’ lives. No matter 
how clean you keep your children’s 
hair, there seems to be no escaping 
an infestation of nits or headlice at 
some point. Headlice are extremely 
common: girls are more likely to be 
affected than boys, and children tend 
to get them between the ages of three 
and 11. The good news is that they 
don’t transmit any other diseases. 
They also like clean hair so, if your 
child does catch them, at least you 
have the consolation that their hair 
was clean! 
However, it is important to treat these 
annoying but essentially harmless 
creatures because they irritate the skin 
and spread very easily - crawling from 
one head to another (they are only 
rarely passed on through bedding and 
clothing). If you don’t treat them, your 
son or daughter will be passing them 
on to other children and maybe even 
to you too! 
The first sign of your child having nits 
is often when they start itching their 
head – but some children have no 
symptoms at all so it is worth checking 
their hair every now and again. 
‘Diagnosis is by finding live lice or 
nymphs (early phase lice) or nits 
(eggs),’ explains Dr Gill MacLeod, 
a GP at Rood Lane Surgery. 
‘Eggs persist after successful treatment 
as they stick to the hair shaft and if 
they are more than a quarter of an 
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inch from the scalp they are unlikely to 
be active. 
‘The eggs (or nits) may remain glued 
to the shaft even when dead but will 
grow out with the hair. 
‘You may want to remove them for 
aesthetic reasons. Combing can help 
achieve this but they can be resistant 
as they are literally cemented to the 
hair shaft. 
‘Rinsing the hair with vinegar will 
weaken the cement and loosen them 
making it easier to comb them out.’ 
If your child has nits, anyone who is 
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parents and nannies may be infected 
and can reinfect the child if they 
are not treated too. So it is very 
important to check everyone’s hair 
with fine tooth combing and then 
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at the same time. 
‘To be thorough, bedclothes should 
also be hot washed and hot air dried 
to ensure any lice are killed because 
lice and eggs are killed by exposure 
for five minutes to temperatures 
greater than 53.5°C (128.3°F). The 
same applies to scarves and hats,’ 
says Dr MacLeod. 
There are several different ways of 
treating nits – chemical treatments, wet 
combing and homeopathic remedies. 
Whilst careful combing can be very 
effective, Dr MacLeod recommends 
PARENT 
TALK 
chemical treatments for severe 
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Before using medicated head lice lotions 
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old), pregnant women and people with 
asthma or allergies, always seek the 
advice of a healthcare professional and 
read the instructions carefully. 
A quick search on the Internet will 
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products too. 
Meticulous wet combing using a 
special nit comb will inevitably be 
at least part of your treatment of an 
infestation. It’s a pretty miserable, 
time-consuming task but if you lather 
the hair in cheap conditioner and then 
go through it with a fine tooth comb, 
it really does work. 
You need to repeat every couple of 
days until you are well and truly sure 
all the eggs and lice have gone. 
In short, it seems there is no avoiding 
getting nits among primary school 
children and there’s really very little 
you can do about it other than to 
be vigilant and regularly check your 
children’s hair. If your daughter has 
long hair it might also be worth 
tying it back. 
However, it’s not a reflection on you 
and your hygiene habits, and you are 
certainly not alone. Happy combing! 
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‘The staff at the Portland Hospital saved 
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within two days – that was very 
important to us.’ 
It was Laura’s second premature birth 
at the Portland - her elder son Nate was 
born at 34 weeks and spent one day in 
intensive care, five days in special care 
and a further eight days in transitional 
care in 2012. 
REAL LIFE 
STORY 
MIRACLE 
BABY 
defies the odds 
to survive 
Special care from the Portland’s 
Neonatal Intensive Care Unit 
saves baby Grey born at 31 weeks. 
By Jo Waters 
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REAL LIFE 
STORY 
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The Portland’s three-cot Neonatal 
Intensive Care Unit (NICU) and four-cot 
Special Care Baby Unit (SCBU) 
are both equipped with the latest 
equipment to monitor and care 
for babies with complex medical 
needs or post-surgical problems. 
This includes ventilators and brain 
function monitors. 
Dr Simon Bignall, a Consultant 
Paediatrician and Neonatologist and 
Director of the Unit, says: ‘We have a 
team of six neonatologists on a rota 
to give 24 hour care, all of whom 
have practised at a very high level in 
leading NHS hospitals. 
The team has a daily ward round and 
conference at which we’ll decide if a 
baby needs input from a sub-specialist 
as a cardiologists or a dietitian. 
baby is very sick, this happens 
twice a day. Babies can become very 
ill extremely fast and also recover 
very quickly, so we are always on the 
lookout for signs of infection.’ 
‘The environment of NICU is designed 
to reduce stress to babies – there 
is low level lighting and we try to 
reduce any sharp abrupt noises. 
We also involve patients in care as 
much as possible and encourage 
skin-to-skin contact. Parents get a 
very personalised service from the 
consultants and nursing staff.’ 
The unit has just taken delivery of a 
special brain function monitor which 
can measure brain activity. 
‘This is particularly useful where a 
baby has had a difficult birth - for 
instance, if they are born with no 
heart beat and have to be resuscitated 
- as we know the 6 to 12 hours after 
the birth, the brain can produce toxic 
chemicals which can cause secondary 
damage to the brain,’ explains Dr 
Bignall. 
‘Low levels or abnormal brain activity 
can be detected by the monitor and 
we can transfer the baby to a nearby 
centre for brain cooling treatment, 
which can help prevent secondary 
brain damage.’ 
For Laura, the level of care Grey 
received was something she’ll 
never forget. 
‘Grey is really thriving now - he’s 
feeding well and is such a chilled 
baby, taking everything in his 
stride. He is seeing a developmental 
therapist to check he is meeting his 
developmental milestones, but all the 
signs are that he’s healthy. We are 
thankful everyday to have him home. 
He is a true miracle.’ 
The staff at The 
Portland Hospital 
saved our son’s 
life – it was their 
attention to detail 
and caring attitude 
that means Grey is 
here with us today 
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Children’s Clubs Increasing numbers of parents in London are turning to private members’ 
clubs to provide daycare for their children. So what can you expect? 
By Rachel Ellis 
FINDING DYNAMIC AND 
stimulating childcare in pleasant 
surroundings can be a challenge 
for parents. 
It sounds like it should be easy, but 
it can be surprisingly difficult to find 
classes or daycare that tick all the 
boxes. The location may not be ideal 
or the activities not quite what you 
had in mind for your young son or 
daughter. 
However, a rapidly growing new breed 
of childcare in London is designed to 
plug these gaps. 
With enviable locations in Kensington, 
Chiswick and Parsons Green among 
others, smart interiors, cafes and a 
wide-range of classes, 
private members’ 
clubs for toddlers are 
the answer for many 
parents. 
The first private 
members’ club to 
open its doors 
to children in 
London was 
Maggie  Rose. 
‘Being at home with 
children all day can 
be very difficult 
and sometimes you 
need someone else 
to do the thinking 
for you’ 
Its founder Maggie 
Bolger, 37, originally 
from New Zealand, 
decided to set up the 
business eight years ago 
after finding herself at 
home with three young 
children and nowhere 
to go. 
‘Being at home with 
children all day can 
be very difficult and 
sometimes you need 
someone else to do the 
thinking for you,’ she says. 
‘When I was at home with three young 
children, there was nowhere that 
offered relatively decent and stylish 
childcare and classes that weren’t 
plastic fantastic. So I decided to set 
somewhere up myself in Kensington.’ 
Today Maggie  Rose offers many 
different types of classes including 
dress up and dance, cooking, art and 
make believe. 
‘The idea is that you come to the club 
and do activities with your children in 
a friendly environment. It might be the 
mum or dad, nanny or grandparents 
who come with the child,’ says 
Maggie, who is now a mother of four. 
‘The club also allows you and your child 
to get messy but without it being in 
your living room. For example, we ran 
a Jackson Pollock workshop recently 
where children and parents had a great 
time throwing paint around. 
‘Working parents can drop their 
children off for a couple of hours too. 
We try to cover every option.’ 
Over the last eight years, the club, 
which is open every day except 
Christmas Day and Boxing Day, has 
gone from strength to strength and 
a second branch in Chiswick opened 
in 2013 which includes a full nursery, 
roof terrace and a double decker bus 
which serves as a great class location. 
Maggie and Rose 
co-founders of London’s 
first family members club 
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Maggie  Rose, Chiswick Enjoying Soft Play at 
The Kensington branch of Maggie  
Rose has recently been refurbished 
and now includes a pre-nursery and 
fully licensed brasserie. Membership 
fees have also changed from yearly to 
monthly starting at £190 a month to 
give parents more flexibility. 
The clubs are aimed at children aged 
one to five but they also run holiday 
camps for older children (ages 5-10) at 
their Chiswick branch. 
‘Many parents find there are not great 
options that are inspiring for their 
children. We try to plug that gap and 
offer spacious, inspiring and flexible 
surroundings with everything under 
one roof. You can do a class with your 
children in the morning and then 
meet up with friends for lunch. It’s a 
great place to get together with your 
baby network,’ says Maggie. 
‘We also do birthday parties and 
courses for parents on things like First 
Aid and cookery. The great thing about 
it being a members’ club is that users 
have the ability to shape how they 
want to use the club. 
‘We have had people from all over the 
world coming to look at what we are 
doing. My hope is that we have set a 
precedent and standard for childcare 
and family clubs for others to compete 
with. Raising the bar has got to be a 
good thing for parents and children.’ 
Cupcake Family Club is a newer 
addition to the children’s club market 
and is situated in Parson’s Green. 
Soft Play Area 
Maggie  Rose, Chiswick 
It is aimed at children aged 0 to 5 
and runs over 90 age-appropriate 
classes a week which children 
attend with their adult carer. Family 
membership starts at £79 a month. 
‘Our classes support every stage of 
baby’s development helping them 
to discover, imagine, explore and 
grow healthily,’ says Suzanne Warner, 
general manager at the club. 
‘We offer a broad curriculum 
including classes in cookery, crafts, 
drama, music, dance, gymnastics, 
ballet, football and tennis. Once you 
are a member you are free to pick and 
choose your daily activities to suit your 
little ones changing developmental 
needs or the ‘mood’ of the day.’ 
The club, which opened two years 
ago, has an on-site crèche, a café with 
children’s play areas and a soft play 
room. The crèche is also available to 
non-members and is a big draw for 
members of its sister club Slice Fitness. 
‘The idea is that you can spend the 
whole day with us if you want,’ says 
Suzanne. ‘For parents who have 
nannies, it means you know exactly 
where your child is being taken and 
parents can ensure their children are 
gaining access to a safe, sociable, fun, 
learning environment. 
The club also offers after school 
activities for children aged 3 to 7 years. 
For more information go to: 
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‘Our classes support 
every stage of baby’s 
development helping 
them to discover, imagine, 
explore and grow 
healthily,’ 
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Cupcake Family Club, Parson’s Green
HEALTH 
BABY HELMETS ARE DESIGNED 
to address something called 
plagiocephaly - more commonly 
known as flathead syndrome. 
‘A child may have a flathead for 
various reasons,’ explains Mr Owase 
Jeelani, a Consultant Paediatric and 
Craniofacial Neurosurgeon at The 
Portland Hospital, Great Ormond 
Street Hospital and The London 
Craniofacial Unit. 
‘Sometimes it may be because of the 
way it was lying in the uterus, or if 
it was delivered using forceps, but 
we also know that babies who are 
described as ‘good sleepers’ can be 
prone to it.’ 
Part of the reason for this is because, 
by necessity, a child’s skull is quite 
malleable or plastic when they’re born. 
‘Plates of bone are connected by what 
are called sutures,’ explains Mr Jeelani. 
‘Because a baby’s brain grows a lot 
in the first two years, these spaces 
allow the skull to expand. In general, 
they have closed by the time the child 
reaches two.’ 
Mr Jeelani believes the incidence 
of flathead syndrome has increased 
BABY 
HELMETS They’re not available on the 
in recent decades, primarily due to 
the Back To Sleep campaign, which 
began in the mid 1990s and advocates 
putting babies to sleep on their backs 
to avoid Sudden Infant 
Death Syndrome. 
‘Before then, around one in twenty 
babies suffered from flathead 
syndrome, now estimates have it as 
closer to one in two,’ he says. 
But he is at pains to point out that 
flathead syndrome is primarily an 
aesthetic concern with no implications 
for brain function or brain growth. 
‘There’s a very rare condition called 
cranial synostosis, which causes these 
growth lines to close early resulting in 
an abnormally shaped skull which can 
put pressure on the brain, but that’s 
not what we’re talking about in most 
cases,’ he says. 
NHS, and can cost upwards 
of £2,000 a time, but infant 
helmets to correct misshapen 
heads are increasingly popular. 
So do they really work? And 
are there other alternatives? 
Flatness that is the result of 
positioning in utero or at birth 
should have resolved itself on its own 
by about six weeks. But if it’s caused 
by the way the baby sleeps, parents 
tend to notice it around the three-month 
mark. 
‘Babies who sleep on their backs 
looking upwards may have a flatter 
skull at the back, whereas children 
who favour one side over the other 
can get flattening at the side,’ says 
Mr Jeelani. 
Sometimes this preference is down 
to the way a baby’s head has been 
positioned in the womb, which can 
result in a tightness in the neck, 
making it more comfortable to lie on 
one side. A doctor can easily identify 
this by checking the baby’s range of 
motion, and while this can improve 
with age, a referral to a physio might 
be appropriate. 
‘Any flatness tends to get worse up to 
the six month point when babies start 
to sit up more, lie on their tummies 
and spend less time sleeping or on 
their backs,’ says Mr Jeelani. 
While he believes helmets - which 
have to be worn 23 hours a day and 
One in two babies 
are estimated to 
suffer from 
flathead syndrome 
By Claire Coleman 
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HEALTH 
HOW TO ENCOURAGE A FLATHEAD TO BECOME ROUNDER 
Rotate the position of the cot and which end you lay the baby in when you put him/her down 
to sleep. This gives them different focal points which may encourage a different position for 
the head. 
Similarly when changing your baby, lay them so that in order to see you they have to turn 
their head onto the non-flat side. 
Don’t rely too heavily on devices that mean your baby’s head is resting against something for 
long periods of time. Ideally children shouldn’t be in car seats or baby rockers for more than 
a couple of hours at a time. 
Make sure your child gets ‘tummy time’ - supervised periods of play where they’re on their 
stomach, which will strengthen their neck and shoulders. 
work by restricting growth in certain 
areas, but not the flat area - can be 
helpful in severe cases, for most 
mild to moderate cases, it’s simply 
not necessary. 
Indeed, a study in the Netherlands, 
published in the British Medical Journal 
earlier this year, which compared 
babies wearing helmets with those 
who hadn’t, saw no significant 
differences. Furthermore, parents of 
the babies wearing helmets reported 
downsides including skin 
irritation and sweating. 
‘A helmet is a major 
commitment. You can’t take 
weeks off, or not do it for a 
few nights,’ says Mr Jeelani. 
‘In the UK, where the weather 
is relatively mild, that’s not 
a problem, but I’m not sure 
you’d want to take a child on 
holiday to a warm climate 
and have them in a helmet.’ 
So how can parents know whether 
their child’s deformity is mild, 
moderate or severe? 
‘I would always advise anyone who is 
worried to see a specialist who sees 
this sort of thing all the time. And, as 
helmets are most effective when used 
under a year, if someone is undecided 
at the six-month point, I think it’s worth 
waiting until the child is nine months 
as you can usually see then if the 
situation is starting to improve its own.’ 
It’s worth bearing in mind that such 
deformities are more apparent in 
babies because they have so little hair. 
As their hair grows, any asymmetry will 
be far better camouflaged. There are 
an awful lot of adults walking around 
with less than perfect heads, but most 
of us will never even notice. 
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WOMEN’S HEALTH PROBLEMS 
NEED MORE INVESTMENT 
NOT ENOUGH IS KNOWN ABOUT 
many of the health issues that affect 
women and babies. 
Millions of women across the UK suffer 
from health problems related to the 
menopause and urinary incontinence, 
for example, and 4,000 babies are 
stillborn each year. Yet, despite 
affecting large numbers of women and 
babies, medical research into these 
areas is chronically underfunded. 
As Professor Peter Brocklehurst, 
Director of the Institute for Women’s 
Health at University College London, 
explains: ‘Research is limited by 
funding, not by ideas and enthusiasm.’ 
According to the charity Wellbeing 
of Women, there is an urgent need 
to fund more medical research into 
these problems. 
Since 1964, the charity has funded 
ground-breaking medical research into 
a wide range of health issues that have 
an effect on all babies, and all women 
at every stage of life. 
The results of this research have led to 
significant steps forward in the medical 
treatment of women and babies. 
The first revolutionary result of their 
research was a significant contribution 
to the creation of ultrasound 
technology in the 1960s. 
The development of in vitro 
fertilisation (IVF) 
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treatment to help women with fertility 
issues was another. 
Researchers have discovered that 
women experiencing severe hot flushes 
during the menopause may have an 
abnormality in the function of blood 
vessels, and there has been a major 
breakthrough in understanding the 
irregular cell activity which causes 
endometriosis. 
More recently, research into the 
link between the Human Papilloma 
Virus (HPV) and cervical cancer has 
been instrumental in the creation 
and implementation of a vaccination 
programme across the UK and beyond. 
These results are vital in continuing to 
understand women’s health problems 
and have become a standard part of 
medicine today. 
Equally impressive have been the 
breakthroughs in infants’ health. 
For example, in recent years, 
researchers funded by Wellbeing of 
Women have discovered that brain 
damage in babies deprived of oxygen 
at birth can be reduced by more than 
half if they are given melatonin. 
However, we still do not know 
enough. While 
research is 
progressing, it is not progressing 
quickly enough, says Wellbeing 
of Women. 
In 2011, around 12 women died of 
ovarian cancer every day in the UK. 
Around 4,000 mothers had stillborn 
babies and countless women had 
miscarriages, suffered menopausal 
symptoms or faced dealing with 
incontinence. 
Liz Campbell, Director of Wellbeing 
of Women, says: ‘If the same money 
spent on heart disease or breast 
cancer was spent on women’s health, 
these numbers would simply be 
much smaller.’ 
‘Greater investment into medical 
research would make a huge difference 
to the lives of women and babies. 
We do not know enough, 
but we will.’ 
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HEALTH 
What’s headache? 
causing your child’s Headache is a 
ALTHOUGH MOST HEADACHES 
in children are not due to a serious 
common complaint 
underlying condition, they can affect 
in children with up to 
their lives by interfering with school 
and other daily activities. 
75 per cent reporting 
‘Common triggers for such headaches 
at least one notable 
can include skipping meals, 
headache by the age of 
dehydration following sporting 
activities or not taking enough fluids, 
15. Here The Portland 
emotional stress and anxiety, allergy 
to certain foods or food additives 
Hospital experts offer 
and beverages and irregular sleep 
their tips for getting 
patterns,’ says Dr Dion Alexandrou, 
Consultant Paediatrician at The 
to the root cause of 
Portland Hospital. 
headaches. 
By Jo Waters 
‘Infections such as the common cold 
and flu, ear and throat infections are 
also possible causes. These can be 
treated by addressing simple lifestyle 
issues, using painkillers, tackling stress 
and treating infections accordingly.’ 
TYPES OF HEADACHE 
There are two broad categories of 
headache: primary headache - a 
headache without a significant 
underlying cause - and secondary 
headache, which is a symptom of 
an underlying serious problem. 
Migraine and tension headaches fall 
into the primary headache category. 
TENSION HEADACHES 
‘Tension-type headaches tend to be 
featureless and milder, and the child 
can continue normal activities, in 
contrast to migraine,’ says 
Dr Alexandrou. 
‘Tension headaches tend to occur 
during times of stress. They involve 
the neck and the back of the head, 
there is no sickness, vomiting or 
abdominal pain, and no family 
history of headaches. 
‘Children are under a lot of pressure to 
succeed at school these days and 
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exam season can be particularly 
stressful. Bullying at school may be 
another cause. They also pick up on 
relationship problems within the 
family, loss of a loved one and 
financial worries.’ 
If the headaches are not severe enough 
to affect the child’s daily activities, Dr 
Alexandrou usually talks to the family 
about what is going on in their child’s 
life and suggests making adjustments 
if necessary. 
If the child’s headaches are more 
severe and stopping them from going 
to school or socialising, a referral to a 
psychologist may be advised. 
MIGRAINE 
‘Migraine is a very bad headache. 
It is unpleasant but not dangerous and 
we don’t know why some people get 
them,’ says Dr Alexandrou. 
The main difference from an ordinary 
headache is that migraine can last a 
long time and it might only go when 
you sleep. 
You may also feel worse if you try to 
do anything, sick, light or sound may 
hurt your head and you may need to lie 
down in a dark room. 
Different people have different triggers 
and some people have warning signs 
before they get a migraine. 
‘Triggers can include light, noise, sleep 
disruption, changes in routine and 
even some foods including cheese and 
chocolate. Addressing these triggers 
can help prevent or reduce frequency 
of attacks in many cases,’ explains 
Dr Alexandrou. 
If you get migraines 
as a child, there’s 
more than a % 
chance they will stop 
when you reach puberty. 
If you get migraines as a child, there’s 
more than a 50 per cent chance they 
will stop when you reach puberty. 
However, if you start getting migraines 
as a teenager, they will probably 
continue into adulthood (although 
migraines tend to be not as bad as 
people get older). 
EYESIGHT PROBLEMS 
Headaches can sometimes be related to 
eye strain from staring at a screen too 
long – and computer screens, tablets 
and phones can all have this effect. 
‘This is caused by the eye blinking less 
so the muscle gets tired and the surface 
of the eye gets dry,’ says Consultant 
Ophthalmologist Jane Leitch, who 
practises at the Portland and the 
Epsom and St Helier NHS Trust. 
‘Some children will also develop 
headaches when they try to see the 
blackboard – they may be short-sighted 
and need to wear glasses to correct 
their vision. 
‘Most children are given a routine eye 
test between the ages of 4 and 5 and 
some of these problems can be picked 
up then. 
‘Distorted vision can be associated 
with migraines. Sudden onset double 
vision is rare, it can be an indication of 
pressure in the brain causing changes 
at the back of the eye which need 
urgent investigation.’ 
Red Flag Symptoms 
If a child’s headache gets worse when they bend forward or when coughing and 
straining, or it wakes the child (as opposed to the headache being present on 
awakening) it could be a sign of a more serious underlying problem. 
Other red flag symptoms include morning or persistent sickness and vomiting, recent 
change in personality or behaviour, gait and balance problems and visual disturbances 
(double vision). 
‘Acute onset of severe headache associated with high temperature and neck stiffness 
and fear of lights (photophobia), is particularly worrying and most likely due to severe 
infection, most notably meningitis, and the child should go to Accident and Emergency 
immediately,’ says Dr Alexandrou. 
‘Most of the children I see as a paediatrician suffer from tension-type headaches, 
followed by occasional migraine headaches and extremely rarely headaches 
accompanied by neurological symptoms and signs due to brain tumours or bleeds.’ 
‘All parents fear the worst when their child complains of a headache but thankfully 
serious conditions such as brain tumours and meningitis are rare.’
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A DAY IN 
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DR ADRIAN LLOYD THOMAS is a 
Consultant Paediatric Anaesthetist 
at The Portland Hospital and Great 
Ormond Street Hospital. Here he 
tells Claire Coleman about his typical 
working day. 
‘I arrive at the hospital at 6.30am and 
take all the paperwork for that day’s 
theatre list down to the operating 
theatre so that when the staff arrive 
they’ll know what medications need 
to be prepared and any special 
requirements for specific patients. 
There are three theatre sessions - 
morning, afternoon and evening - and, 
if they’re not already in one of the 
hospital wards, the patients for the first 
session start arriving from 7am, and 
I spend the next three quarters of an 
hour talking to them and their parents. 
My patients range from newborns 
to eighteen-year-olds and so you’re 
dealing with all sorts of different 
questions. With the very tiny babies, 
it’s about reassuring the parents that 
the approach and the medications 
we use are adapted to deal with their 
immature bodies. With the older 
children, it’s about talking through 
their fears that they might wake up 
in the middle of the operation or be 
in pain afterwards. These are quite 
normal concerns - after all you’re 
relinquishing control so you’re no 
longer a sentient being, you’re putting 
someone else in charge of your destiny. 
By 7.45am I’m down in theatre, 
checking the equipment. It’s like the 
pre-flight checks that a pilot will do 
to make sure everything works and 
the staff are clear with what’s going 
to happen. Then, at 8am, the first 
patient - and their parents too - are in 
the anaesthetic room. The parents are 
there to support and reassure the child 
while they go off to sleep. Sometimes 
we’ll play games with them, have them 
blow up balloons, or sing nursery 
rhymes. I’ve had to learn the Greek 
version of Old Macdonald Had A Farm 
as one little girl whose family is from 
Cyprus, comes in quite regularly for 
operations and likes to hear that as she 
goes to sleep. 
Handing over responsibility for your 
child to someone else at such a 
stressful time can be very upsetting; I 
hope that I manage to communicate to 
parents, at the pre-operative visit, my 
ability to manage the situation. 
There’s a bit of a misconception that 
anaesthetists just put you to sleep and 
that’s their job done. But we’re there 
throughout the operation constantly 
monitoring the patient, administering 
fluids and blood if necessary, as 
well as administering various types 
of pain relief, such as nerve blocks 
and epidurals, which will keep them 
comfortable after the operation. 
While they’re in the recovery room, 
coming round, the next patient is in the 
anaesthetic room. It really is non-stop. 
The numbers vary but I can see up to 
20 patients in a single day and, when 
one session is done, I go to talk to the 
patients for the next session. There’s 
not much time to eat or drink, but the 
theatre staff are very kind and I’ll often 
find a cup of tea - or a banana - waiting 
in the anaesthetic room for me. 
When surgery has finished for the day, 
I’ll do a final ward round to check on 
the patients that I’ve seen that day, 
and have a look at the schedule for the 
following day, telephoning parents if 
we need to discuss anything before the 
operation. I never usually leave before 
7, and I’m often there until 9, but it’s 
very rewarding work. 
The biggest compliment I’m paid is 
when a child comes back for further 
surgery, or I see a sibling, and the 
parents say, ‘oh I’m so glad it’s you, we 
were hoping it would be’. That’s very 
humbling.’
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  • 3. We know that becoming a parent is complicated enough, without worrying about changing their stroller when they outgrow it. So the revolutionary Armadillo Flip is the only pushchair you’ll ever need. Ready to go from day one, it’s the most compact travel system-ready design on the market that still manages to give them loads of wriggle room. The small wheels are ideal for nipping around your favourite suburban and city destinations, and a reversible seat means you can easily fl ip baby’s view from you to the world. But best of all, it doesn’t matter which way the seat’s facing. The innovative patented design lets you fold it down with one hand – forwards or backwards – in seconds, into the most compact fold out there. armadillo ÅPW because we’re family PRE-ORDER Call instore or go online for a demonstration at THTHZHUKWHWHZJVT HYTHKPSSVÅPW
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  • 8. FEATURE FEATURES 18 Becoming a Dad 20 Top Ten: Lip Balms 22 Health: Urinary Tract Infections 26 Health: Using Stem Cells to Grow your own Organs 28 Beauty: Add a touch of Sparkle 30 Fashion: The Maternity Blues 34 Health: Solving Teenagers’ Period Problems 38 Children’s Fashion: Comic Strip Cool 44 Children’s Clubs 48 Health: Baby Helmets 50 Charity: Wellbeing of Women 52 Health: Children’s Headaches 61 Crafts for Kids 64 Fashion: Get Shirty 67 How to access Private out-of-hours Care for your Child 68 Health: Treating Children with Botox 76 Toys: A Walk on the Wildside 8 SPRING 2014 | URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS WEEKEND GETAWAYS AUTUMN 2014 COMIC STRIP COOL BABY HELMETS AUTUMN 2014 |
  • 9. AUTUMN 2014 REGULARS 11 News 13 Listings 14 Practical Parenting with Marina Fogle: | AUTUMN 2014 9 Weekend Getaways 17 My Favourite Baby Things: Nell McAndrews 22 What is Happening at Weeks Pregnancy 37 Parent Talk 40 Real Life Story: Miracle Baby defies the odds to Survive 55 A Day in the Life of: Dr Adrian Lloyd Thomas, Consultant Paediatric Anaesthetist 71 Nurture Loves 77 Contributors SOLVING TEENAGERS PERIOD PROBLEMS BECOMING A DAD TOYS: TAKE A WALK ON THE WILDSIDE TOP TEN LIP BALMS
  • 10. 10 AUTUMN 2014 | WELCOME There’s no getting around the fact that pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding are all about women and their newborns – it’s just the biological facts of life. However, there’s also no doubt that dads play a crucial role in the whole process from conception through childbirth to nurturing the new addition to the family. Many dads feel at a loss during pregnancy and childbirth: theirs is a supporting role and one that, unfortunately, sometimes gets lost with all the focus understandably on the mother and baby. Yet dads need help and support too so that they know what to expect and how they can best help their partner. So with that in mind, in this edition of Nurture magazine we asked Portland Hospital experts to come up with the ten questions and answers about pregnancy and childbirth every new dad needs to know. From antenatal classes and pain relief to how soon you can resume a sexual relationship with your partner after childbirth, we have everything covered. We also talk to one of the country’s leading dad bloggers about his tips for surviving fatherhood. The amazing work of the hospital’s Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) also comes under the spotlight. The dedication and expertise of its staff means hundreds of sick babies every year are nursed back to good health. We also focus on groundbreaking research using stem cells which means that one day we could be growing our own body parts for transplantation. Added into the mix are the cutest animal inspired toys, the coolest comic strip children’s fashion and the definitive guide to the best jeans and denim for mums-to be. Happy reading! Published by The Portland Hospital for Women and Children 205-209 Great Portland Street London W1W 5AH United Kingdom Tel: 020 7580 4400 Email: info@nurturemagazine.co.uk www.theportlandhospital.com Rachel Ellis, Editor rachel@nurturemagazine.co.uk Follow us on Facebook or Twitter @ThePortlandHosp Nurture™ is a trademark owned by HCA International Limited. Editorial: Claire Coleman, Tamara Abraham, Deborah Arthurs, Jo Waters, Sophie Goodchild, Nicole Mowbray Design and Production: Sam Mitchell-Innes, Cindy Cash, Parul Babbar, Vicky Bell, Naomi Cox www.phoebusassociates.com Advertising Sales Manager: Katie Amps Direct Line: 07818 056651 Images: Corbis and Veer This publication may not be reproduced in whole or part by any means without the prior consent of the publisher. Whilst every effort has been made to ensure accuracy of the content at the time of publication, the publishers shall not be held responsible in any way for any inaccuracies or omissions. © 2014 HCA International Limited. All Rights Reserved.
  • 11. NEWS STRESS CAN BE ‘CAUGHT’ | AUTUMN 2014 11 LIFESTYLE REVERSED DAMAGE CAUSED BY AN UNHEALTHY LIFESTYLE can be reversed if you kick bad habits by the age of 50, research claims. The study of 5,000 people, published in the journal Circulation, found that giving up smoking, improving diet, maintaining a healthy weight and taking exercise in your 30s and 40s can control and potentially even reverse the natural progression of heart disease. However, scientists warned that picking up extra bad habits as you get older, will have a detrimental effect on the arteries. STRESS CAN BE PASSED FROM PERSON TO person just like a cold, claim researchers. A study by American psychologists found that stress can be ‘caught’ from strangers through their tone of voice, facial expressions, posture and even odour. 'To find that in some people, some of the time, you can elicit these responses just by sitting and watching someone else under stress was somewhat surprising to us,' said Tony Buchanan, Associate Professor from Saint Louis University. READING ALOUD DOCTORS ARE ADVISING PARENTS TO READ aloud to their children every day from birth to help with brain development. The new policy from the American Academy of Paediatrics is based on growing evidence that crucial brain development occurs during the first three years of life and that reading to children, as well as talking and singing, enhances vocabulary and other important communication skills. LACK OF SLEEP LACK OF SLEEP CAN CAUSE THE BRAIN TO shrink, according to new research. A Singapore study found the less older adults sleep, the faster their brain ages and declines. However, other research concluded that too much sleep in middle age can be just as bad for you as not having enough. A study of almost 9,000 people by the University of Warwick found those aged 50 to 64 who slept for less than six hours a night or more than eight had worse memories and decision-making abilities. Seven hours sleep is thought to be the optimum for adults.
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  • 13. LISTINGS | AUTUMN 2014 13 TOYS ARE WITHOUT DOUBT ONE OF CHILDREN’S MOST PRIZED possessions. A new exhibition of portraits by Italian photographer Gabriele Galimberti tells the story of 21 children and their toys from a wide range of countries and backgrounds. The exhibition at the VA Museum of Childhood, Cambridge Heath Road, London, E2 9PA, runs until Sunday December 14 and is free. www.vam.ac.uk/moc DELVE INTO THE MIND OF THE world’s most infamous detective Sherlock Holmes at a major new exhibition at the Museum of London. The Man Who Never Lived And Will Never Die asks searching questions about who Sherlock Holmes is and why he still conjures up such enduring fascination. The exhibition, the first on the detective since 1951, runs from October 17 to April 12 2015. Family tickets available. www.museumoflondon.org.uk THE ROYAL OPERA HOUSE, Covent Garden, opens its doors to families to explore the building, its artists and the world of opera and ballet. Sessions aimed at children aged six and over include live make-up and stage combat demonstrations, costume dressing up and creative activities led by set designers, and informal performances from Royal Ballet dancers. Tickets, costing £5 for adults, £3 for children, go on sale roughly three months in advance. www.roh.org.uk TREAT YOUR CHILDREN TO A PERFORMANCE of Hansel and Gretel at the Lyric Hammersmith Theatre. With sumptuous music, film, puppets and masks, this is a treat of a show as delicious as a gingerbread house. The 75 minute performance by the Horse + Bamboo Theatre is aimed at children aged five to 11, with daytime shows on February 6 and 7 2015. Tickets £8. www.lyric.co.uk
  • 14. WEEKEND FAMILY GETAWAYS AS EVERY PARENT WILL ATTEST to, travel with children often ends up being more stressful and tiring than a weekend at home. Packing can take a week of planning and still you manage to forget something crucial, the journey quickly turns into a cacophony of squabbling and, once you finally get there, the children are out of their comfort zone – the bed is too small, the room too dark, the food not right or the pool too cold. So for a hotel to get it right for children is extremely hard. Ben and I had planned an indulgent week without the children in South Africa, something we try to do every year. But, at the eleventh hour, this had to be cancelled; Ben was needed on a fishing trawler in the North Sea before a month in Sochi for the Winter Olympics. Before he went, he really wanted to spend some quality time with all of us so we decided to go away for the weekend. Chewton Glen lies at the edge of the New Forest. It’s a convenient ninety minute drive from London but actually 14 AUTUMN 2014 | feels like a destination. I had been obsessed with this folkloric forest where wild ponies roam when I was a child, and I knew it would appeal to my little ones. We had the added bonus of staying in a tree house and, within days of announcing this, our children had convinced themselves we would be surrounded by elves and pixies, and that baby wild ponies would be sleeping in their beds. Using natural materials where possible and glass, the treehouse embraces its magnificent setting. Even on a wet spring weekend, our treehouse was our little cocoon from which we could watch the rain drip off the trees, water trickle by in the brook and, as night fell, the owls hoot. While our room was indulgent with 180 degree windows, heated floors and a huge bath, the children had a little attic room, accessed by a ladder built into a bookcase. Two little beds were tucked into the eaves, and boxes of toys awaited their arrival. That night bedtime was a dream; no coercion just two happy children, leaping into their beds, excited for the day ahead. The next morning was one of pure indulgence. The children joined us in bed for cuddles and very soon we heard the ‘elves’ delivering our breakfast. We opened a little hatch and there was a wicker hamper, full of delicious breakfast goodies. We set up a little picnic on our balcony and talked about the magical creatures that lived in the forest while devouring warm croissants. That day’s mission was to explore the forest. Your imagination can run wild with you here, so two hours passed quickly as the children searched for elves, pixies and baby ponies who needed rescuing. We then went on to the technicolour gardens at Exbury which never fail to astound. We returned just in time for a swim before tea. An hour splashing, jumping and swimming in the light and airy indoor pool finished the children off and they practically fell into bed, allowing me a rare, indulgent bath before dinner at Vetivier, the hotel’s renowned restaurant. On Sunday morning, we explored the grounds, the outdoor swimming pool, play area and tree house before the ‘elves’ delivered our picnic and we headed off to the beach. In spite of the winter storms, the beaches remained spectacular and provided plenty of flotsam and jetsam for hours of exploring. Salty, sandy, wind burnt and tired we returned to our tree house with heavy hearts for the children’s final bath. The only protestations we had that weekend came at the end when they realised we had to leave our forest utopia. But we promised we’d return and, within five minutes of leaving, they could no longer fight sleep and we drove home listening to the contented snores of two happy, exhausted children. Chewton Glen, New Milton, Hampshire, BH25 6QS www.chewtonglen.com Room from £325 a night. Our treehouse was our little cocoon from which we could watch the rain drip off the trees, water trickle by in the brook and, as night fell, the owls hoot
  • 15. | AUTUMN 2014 15 MARINA’S TIPS FOR PLANNING A WEEKEND BREAK WITH YOUR CHILDREN Be realistic about the journey. Around two hours is easy, any more has the potential to become a nightmare. Also think about the timing of your journey. Children sleep beautifully in the car so try to tie it in with a good sleep. You might even avoid rush hour this way. Speak to the hotel beforehand to ask them what equipment they can provide. If you can borrow a cot and high chair you’ll have to pack less. Otherwise, I love the Phil and Teds MeToo Clip on high chair that folds flat. philandteds.com Check with the hotel about curtains in the room. If light pours in through thin curtains at 5am waking your child, your weekend will not be particularly restful. If you want to play it safe, it’s worth investing in the Gro Anywhere Blackout blind that attaches to any window. gro.co.uk You never know when your child might develop a temperature. Get into the habit of taking a small medical kit with you when you travel including a thermometer, Calpol and Nurofen. With little children, ask the hotel about food. Some provide puree menus or equipment to puree. Failing that, pack plenty of pre-made pouches such as Ella’s Kitchen or Plum Baby. If you’re storing food in your mini bar, remember often those fridges are cool enough to cool drinks but not for storing food or milk. Depending on the age of your children, remember to pack some toys. Think about what can entertain them for a long time but isn’t too cumbersome. If you’re heading to the country and have a small child, consider leaving your buggy behind. Country walks tend to be difficult even with ‘off road’ buggies. Instead take a baby carrier – Baby Bjorn is great for small babies and the Ergo baby is great for when they get older. babybjorn.co.uk FEATURE Practical Parenting WITH MARINA FOGLE OTHER FUN WEEKENDS FOR CHILDREN Rent a house by a lake in the Cotswolds. The Lakes by Yoo offers 3-6 bedroom houses to rent with a concierge service so it’s not dissimilar to staying in a hotel. There are plenty of activities to keep energetic children entertained including fishing, canoeing, cycling and even zip wiring across one of the lakes. If the weather’s bad, there’s a great spa and indoor pool. www.thelakesbyyoo.com/rentals Head to the beach. The Pig on the Beach is the newest of the hugely popular and reasonably priced Pig hotels and its location on Studland Beach makes it a perfect family getaway. Overlooking Poole Harbour, the miles of sandy beach are the perfect exploration ground for adventurous families. www.thepighotel.com Immerse yourself in Nature. For animal or tractor-mad children, a stay on Kate Humble’s working farm in South Wales is an experience few will forget. Stay at the Piggery, a two bedroom cottage at the heart of the farm. Collect your vegetables and eggs from your own garden each morning and days are spent mucking around with Farmer Tim. Lambing season is particularly magical. www.humblebynature.com Further afield. If the British weather has taken a turn for the worse, there’s nothing like a quick hop over to the Algarve for some early spring or late autumn sunshine. The Martinhal is a family friendly resort which is chic and luxurious enough to give the most discerning of parents a well-earned break too. www.martinhal.com
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  • 17. LIFESTYLE | AUTUMN 2014 17 MY FAVOURITE BABY THINGS Nell McAndrew Nell McAndrew, 40, is a model, author, television personality and accomplished athlete (she has a marathon personal best of 2:54:39). She is also a full-time mother to son Devon, eight, and daughter Anya, one, her children with husband of 10 years, Paul Hardcastle. The family live in Surrey. 2. MAM products, various, mamonlineshop.com I have tried out various products from this brand and have been pleased with all of them, especially the curved cutlery (£5.99) and first drinking cup (£2.99). I am now using the toothbrushes (from £3.50). How time flies! 1. Oysterbaby sling, £75, oysterbaby.co.uk Made from bamboo which is gentle on baby's skin, this sling kept my baby close to me and I found that she slept more soundly. The sling position promotes correct hip joint development, prevents flat head syndrome and is great for breastfeeding discreetly. 5. BOB running pushchair, around £400, bobgear.co.uk Without this I would not be able to get out for a run as often as I do. This pushchair has helped keep me fitter and happier as well as both baby and me getting lots of fresh air. 3. Green People products, from £3.50, greenpeople.co.uk Again, I have tried out various products and like that both baby and I can share them. My favourite is the soothing baby oil (£10.95) which I have used for baby massage and even on my hair to tame my dry frizzy ends. 4. Familia organic baby muesli, £2.80, health food stores nationwide I can't stop eating this! I always carry a tub with some of this muesli in then just add either water or milk when needed. I add extra oats and chia seeds and add either oat, soya or rice milk to make it extra nutritious and delicious.
  • 18. FEATURE Dad By Sophie Goodchild A dad in the delivery room was once a taboo. However, today, the journey from the first scan to childbirth is a more inclusive experience for men. But many still end up daunted by the prospect of impending fatherhood. So what’s it really like having a baby if you’re the daddy? John Adams is a stay-at-home father to five-year-old Helen and Elizabeth, aged 19 months, while his wife works full time. He is also one of the UK’s ten most influential dad bloggers. His site Dadbloguk.com chronicles his experiences and is read by several thousand people a month. John says: ‘It makes sense for dad to attend ante-natal classes, read up on childbirth and visit the delivery suite prior to the birth (a visit is standard practice at most hospitals). ‘In my opinion, dad needs to know about the experience and his partner’s wishes so he can act as an advocate for her. It is, after all, difficult to tell a midwife whether you are comfortable or not mid contraction while puffing on gas and air. ‘Many people will tell you a birth plan is pointless. I strongly disagree. You should write a birth plan with your partner and get to know it inside and out. ‘It’s true, things can move very quickly in the delivery room and the medical team might not be able to adhere to every single wish your partner has stated. If, however, you have a birth plan then people will know your attitude towards pain relief, for example, and whether dad is to cut the umbilical cord.’ John sees the greater involvement of dads in their children’s upbringing as wholly positive. ‘If you hear men of older generations talking about their children, they often didn’t know them,’ he says. ‘Everything was left to the mum and womenfolk of the family, and society had very low expectations of fathers. Thankfully that has changed. ‘I was at home for several days while a builder was doing some construction work on our house. The man was in his sixties so I thought I’d better explain why I was always at home with my daughter. ‘Expecting to get a rough-ride, I was very surprised when he said, ‘I wish I could have done what you’re doing. I didn’t see my kids growing up, I was always working’. After the birth, John advises letting standards slip for a while. ‘Concentrate on your family and let the small things go. When my wife returned from hospital following the birth of our second baby, we went for nine days before putting a full set of sheets on the bed. ‘We were so tired and so wrapped up in our expanded family we just kept forgetting to do it. It sounds very slovenly but so what? Did anyone get hurt? No, we just spent those valuable few minutes with each other instead of doing mundane housework.’ Becoming a John with Helen and Elizabeth A dad’s guide to pregnancy, childbirth and beyond 18 AUTUMN 2014 |
  • 19. FEATURE | SPRING 2014 19 Here Mr Emeka Okaro, Consultant Obstetrician and Gynaecologist at The Portland Hospital, answers 10 questions every dad should ask about pregnancy and childbirth. 1. What can I do to help during pregnancy? This can be an exciting and confusing time for dads-to-be and some end up feeling like a bystander. Prepare yourself by talking to other dads or reading parenting guides. And if you smoke, this is a good time to quit: second-hand smoke is bad for pregnant women and babies. 2. Can we continue to have sex? Your partner may want to have more or less sex than before - let her guide you on what she feels comfortable with. Try different positions that avoid deep penetration. Do remember that sex won’t hurt your baby. 3. Should I go to all the antenatal checks and classes? These will help you and your partner share the experience. She’ll appreciate you being there and you’ll benefit from knowing what’s going on. Your job during labour is to provide a calm presence, so it’s essential to be informed about what to expect. 4. Why are her moods so up and down? Mood swings are common during pregnancy. Your partner is facing all sorts of hormonal changes, may be anxious about the future and is carrying a growing life inside her, while also coping with work and domestic demands. So, if she’s tired a lot of the time, teary or irritable, don’t take this personally - she needs your support. 5. What do I need to know about pain relief? Your support is the foundation for effective pain relief. The options include use of the birthing pool, gas and air, medication or an epidural. Your midwife/obstetrician will guide and support you to make the right choices as labour progresses. 6. How can I prepare for the birth itself? Make sure you’ve planned the route, know where her hospital bag is stored and have a relative/childminder on standby (if you’ve already got children). Discuss your partner’s birth plan so you both know what she wants - one of your key roles is to be her advocate during your child’s birth. 7. Should I attend the birth especially if it’s a Caesarean? This is a matter for you and your partner to discuss. These days, most dads are there even with a C-section and you can help support her during labour which can last anything from two to 20 hours. 8. How can I be of assistance with breastfeeding? Your support and encouragement is vital. Patience with helping the baby to latch on to the breast is important. Encourage her to drink plenty of fluid as the true milk production starts after 48 hours. Help her persevere with feeding as the colostrum fizzles out. Her nipples may become cracked and sore so do take care. 9. What happens if I don’t bond with my child? You may be more concerned about supporting your family rather than excited about the birth. This is perfectly normal. Don’t panic if you don’t feel an instant rush of love when baby arrives. Instead, find quality time to bond with your newborn. 10. How soon is it ok to begin having sex again after childbirth? Every woman is different - for some it may take weeks, others months. It’s best to wait until the post-birth bleeding has stopped and she’s had her six week postnatal check-up. If you have sex before this, there’s a risk of infection because her uterus is still healing. | AUTUMN
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  • 22. FFEEAATTUURREE 22 SPRING 2014 | INFECTIONS By Sophie Goodchild URINARY TRACT A BURNING OR STINGING sensation when peeing is a common problem for mums and children. The most likely cause is an infection in the urinary tract, the system for making and getting rid of urine. This part of your body includes the bladder lining and kidneys, and you’re more likely to develop a bug or urinary tract infection (UTI) during and after pregnancy. There are three reasons for this, according to Professor Ellis Downes, a Consultant Obstetrician and Gynaecologist at The Portland Hospital. Firstly, it’s more common in pregnancy to have more glucose in the urine which can ‘act as a focus for infection.’ The bladder not emptying completely and hormone changes which continue during breastfeeding are other factors. ‘The bladder may not empty fully in pregnancy due to the weight of the baby and fluid in the uterus pressing on it, and also compressing the tubes (ureters) coming from the kidneys to the bladder. This may leave a pool of urine in the bladder, which can act as a focus of infection,’ explains Professor Downes. ‘Hormonal changes, chiefly progesterone from the placenta, cause the tubes going from the kidneys to the bladder to dilate, again making urine collect.’ Although UTIs are painful and uncomfortable, they are treated effectively with antibiotics which are completely safe for pregnant women to take. To prevent a recurrence, Professor Downes recommends drinking plenty of fluids to keep urine diluted so bacteria are flushed out. Cranberry juice is also a popular ‘cure’ for cystitis, the most common type of UTI. Studies have shown special compounds in the berries can reduce the likelihood of UTIs but the evidence is ‘less robust’ WHAT IS HAPPENING 32 AT 32 WEEKS OF PREGNANCY? AUTUMN 2014 |
  • 23. FEATURE | SPRING 2014 23 | AUTUMN in pregnant women, according to Professor Downes. In children, UTIs are more likely to affect girls than boys. It’s just the way girls’ bodies are designed - the tube (known as the urethra) that allows urine to pass out of the body is shorter. Feilim Murphy, a Consultant Paediatric Urologist at the Portland, says children in general are prone to these infections because they don’t realise the importance of emptying the bladder. ‘Having residual urine is like a stagnant pond. You’re increasingly likely to get infection unless you allow the bladder to fill and empty fully,’ he says. ‘Boys are just as likely to be dysfunctional (as girls). They’ll say: ‘I don’t need to go, I’m busy on the Xbox’. That maturity comes later on.’ Any child with a suspected UTI will need a thorough investigation, and antibiotics if they test positive, says Mr Murphy. His advice is to make sure your GP sends off the urine sample to be analysed by a laboratory. Some children may have an underlying issue such as their kidneys not functioning effectively. So an ultrasound scan is important in boys under a year and girls under six months even if they’ve had only one infection, says Mr Murphy. To prevent recurrent problems, parents may need to re-educate little ones on how to empty their bladder and also ensure their child isn’t constipated as this can also prevent the bladder from emptying normally. Another tip from Mr Murphy is to make sure your daughter can sit on the toilet seat with her feet touching the ground. The urologist says: ‘If a child is trying to pee with her feet in the air, this contracts the pelvic floor muscles. So have toddler steps up to the toilet until her feet can reach the floor.’ YOUR BABY IS ALMOST FULL TERM now and he or she will be a fully-formed little human being, weighing almost four pounds and measuring just about 19 inches. All the organs and body structures such as the ribs will be formed at this stage, and more and more fat is accumulating under your baby’s skin so they are becoming less transparent in appearance. Their fingerprints and nails will be forming along with the nervous system which allows humans to send messages back and forth from the brain. However, there is still progress to be made. In the last few weeks of pregnancy, development is really about fine tuning. The muscles and lenses of the eyes won’t be fully mature yet - that’s why babies take a few days to focus after they’re born. Also their lungs are still developing. Babies will be practising for life in the outside world by breathing, swallowing and using their own kidneys to urinate. As your baby is getting bigger, it’s harder for them to move around. However, this doesn’t necessarily mean a breech birth if they’re feet down. Around 60 to 70 per cent of babies at this stage will be in the head down position and the others will be feet down (in the breech position). But there’s still plenty of time for the baby to move into the head down position. Professor Ellis Downes Consultant Obstetrician and Gynaecologist at The Portland Hospital Drink lots of fluids: women need the equivalent of around eight glasses of water (1.6 litres) and children six glasses (1.2 litres) a day. Try cranberry juice or cranberry tablets to fight bacteria. Probiotic yoghurts can increase levels of ‘good’ bacteria in the gut. Tips for Preventing UTIs Make sure your daughter’s feet can reach the floor when she’s on the toilet. Ensure your child eats enough fibre to reduce risk of constipation. o w ea
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  • 26. FFEEAATTUURREE USING Stem Cells Organs TO GROW YOUR OWN By Jo Waters 26 SPRING 2014 | ELEVEN-YEAR-OLD CIARAN FINN-LYNCH made medical history in 2010 when he became the first child in the world to have a stem-cell supported trachea transplant. Ciaran, from County Down, was born with a very narrow windpipe and his lungs collapsed on the day he was born. Breathing problems meant he was in very poor health. Metal stents inserted to keep his airways open had eroded his trachea and caused bleeding, and a trachea transplant was his only remaining option. During the groundbreaking procedure, Ciaran’s own windpipe was removed and replaced by a donor windpipe laced with his own stem cells. Stem cells are capable of developing into any type of cells and they were added to the donor organ in the hope that they would colonise the structure so his body would not reject it. The operation, carried out by a team from Great Ormond Street Hospital and University College’s London’s Institute of Child Health, was a world breakthrough. Professor Paolo De Coppi, a Consultant Paediatric Surgeon at The Portland Hospital, led the Stem Cells and Regenerative Medicine team at the UCL Institute of Child Health. ‘We showed that we could use a donor organ as a “scaffold” to build a new trachea with the child’s own stem cells and grow it in the body,’ explains Professor De Coppi, who was recently Pioneering research means we could be using ‘home grown’ organs for transplant ZLWKLQ¿YH years. AUTUMN 2014 | © PA IMAGES
  • 27. FFEEAATTUURREE | AUTUMN 2014 27 made Chair of Paediatric Surgery at the Institute of Child Health and Great Ormond Street Hospital. ‘We stripped off all the donor’s cells leaving only a three dimensional web grow a new trachea on the structure. transplant tissue but this would have brought with it the the risk of organ scaffolds difficult it’s Professor ‘We are such as our stem cells found fluid surrounding the good potential for tissue engineering. The cells could one day used to grow more complex organs which are made up of different types of tissue. ‘At the moment this work is being done on children partly because their organs are smaller but also because they can potentially benefit the most in terms of extra years of life – each stem cell transplant costs round £250,000. In the future, they will be done on adults too.’ Professor De Coppi has recently received over £3 million from the Oak Foundation, the Catapult Cell Therapy, Cell Foundation to oesophagus (gullet) using for babies oesophagus, he has prestigious Research ‘‘We hope eventually to be able to harvest stem cells from the amniotic fluid of an unborn baby and grow organs for them which will be ready by the time they are born to be transplanted into them. ‘We hope this will happen in clinical practice within the next five years. ‘The next stage will then be performing the transplant in utero before the baby is born so they are born with everything in place.’ His team have also made progress towards engineering donated intestines so they can be implanted without rejection, but this is a more complex and challenging organ to replicate. Other organs being studied for stem cell transplant purposes include bladder and skeletal muscle to repair congenital defects of the bladder and diaphragm. ‘We are also investigating using 3D printers to help replicate an organ and then use stem cells, polymers and gels to grow to the scaffold structure,’ he adds. Professor De Coppi currently performs general paediatric surgery at the including hernia repairs, removal and treatments for gastroesophageal reflux disease and problems, but says one day he stem cell organ transplants available at the Portland too. We are continuing to make advances recent discovery that stem in amniotic fluid surrounding foetus show good potential for tissue engineering. Professor Paolo De Coppi A Consultant Paediatric Surgeon at The Portland Hospital, led the Stem Cells and Regenerative Medicine team at the UCL Institute of Child Health. of collagen and then used stem cells taken from Ciaran’s bone marrow to ‘In the past, we would have used donor rejection. Alternatives such as synthetic scaffffolds are diffiffiffifficult to integrate with the native tissue and do not grow with the child.’ Two years after the transplant, research published in the medical journal The Lancet revealed the graft had not triggered any immune rejection response and had formed an adequate lining. However, most importantly, it’’’s helping Ciaran, now 16, to live a normal life after so many years of health problems. ‘Although the trachea is a simple organ, we hope that in the future we will be able to engineer more complex organs using stem cells including hearts, intestines, kidneys and livers,’ explains rofessor De Coppi. e continuing to make advances ur recent discovery that und in amniotic flui e foetus show e engin be and the UK Stem develop an oesoph stem cells. For developing this project born without their oesophagu been awarded this year a prestig National Institute for Health Resear (NIHR) professorship. He is also part of a consortium awarded £10 million of funding from the Wellcome Trust to develop stem cell therapies in the foetuses. ‘‘Congenital organ defects are usually detected in babies at the 20 week developmental scan,’ says Professor De Coppi. Pro gener Portland appendix re gastroesophag bowel problems hopes that ste will be avail continuin such as our rec cells found i the foetu engin
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  • 34. FEATURE HEALTH teenagers’ period problems PERIODS ARE JUST ANOTHER PART OF PUBERTY FOR TEENAGE GIRLS. But some suffer more than others with pain and heavy bleeding or experience irregular cycles, particularly in the first three years of menstruation. Australian research, published in 2010, suggests as many as one in four adolescent girls suffer significant problems with their periods which affect life activities and result in time off school. ‘Around 95 per cent of problems in the first couple of years after a girl starts her period can be attributed to the body ‘settling down’ and developing a regular hormone cycle. Rarely will it be due to an underlying pathological problem,’ says Professor Sarah Creighton , a Consultant Gynaecologist at The Portland Hospital and Honorary Clinical Professor at University College London Hospitals. ‘But that’s not to say we can’t give treatments to ease their symptoms while we wait for nature to settle down. ‘If girls and young women are experiencing heavy bleeding, clotting and flooding, pain or their cycle isn’t improving and they are missing school for instance or, in rarer cases, developing anaemia and tiredness, then it is worth considering treatments that can help.’ Sometimes, all that’s needed is reassurance that what they are experiencing is normal and in most cases will settle down, she says. ‘I advise them not to wait for period pain to start but to take painkillers such as ibuprofen or paracetamol as soon as the period starts as a preventative treatment. ‘It’s also important they get enough sleep, avoid constipation, take enough exercise and eat healthily,’ explains Professor Creighton. ‘I find not all young girls have had access to this type of information – they may have touched on it in a biology lesson, but that will just be the biological facts and not the useful stuff about how to cope with period problems, and some are too embarrassed to ask friends or family members.’ Apart from painkillers to treat menstrual pain, there are also drugs available to make problem symptoms more bearable. ‘One of the commonest treatments for heavy periods is an oral progestogen pill such as norethisterone (NET). This has to be taken for 3 out of 4 weeks each cycle and can make periods regular, less painful and lighter. One study on NET showed it reduced blood loss by 83 per cent,’ explains Professor Creighton. ‘For older girls, the contraceptive pill can be a very effective treatment. Some studies have shown it reduces blood loss by 43 per cent and cramping by more than 50 per cent.’ Girls can also be prescribed iron tablets for anaemia, medication called tranexamic acid for very heavy bleeding and non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) to relieve pain. Solving 34 AUTUMN 2014 |
  • 35. Teenagers suffer gynaecological problems just like older women but they can get overlooked or not taken seriously. Jo Waters reports. POLYCYSTIC OVARIES This term describes ovaries that contain many small cysts (about twice as many as in normal overies). The condition affects one in five adult women. Symptoms include irregular, less frequent periods or a complete lack of periods, oily skin and acne, weight problems, depression or mood changes and unwanted facial or body hair. ‘We don’t know how many teenage girls may have Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) as there is very little research on this condition in teenagers,’ says Professor Creighton. ‘But it’s important to stress that acne, mood changes and irregular periods are common in the teenage years and that doesn’t always mean you have PCOS. ‘Blood tests and scans can confirm a diagnosis and then the condition can be managed – there is no cure. A combination of diet and lifestyle advice and sometimes prescription of the contraceptive pill can improve symptoms.’ ENDOMETRIOSIS This is a condition where endometrial cells lining the womb migrate to other parts of the body, causing painful heavy periods. Each month these cells react to the menstrual cycle and also bleed. However, the blood cannot escape and causes inflammation, pain and the formation of adhesions (scar tissue). ‘We used to believe that teenage girls didn’t get endometriosis but now we know they can. At The Portland I would refer suspected cases for laparoscopic (keyhole) investigation and treatment to remove endometrosis,’ says Professor Creighton. CONGENITAL ABNORMALITIES ‘Very rarely girls can be born with gynaceological abnormalities such as a blocked or absent uterus or vagina. This may not become apparent until puberty and some of these conditions may require surgery,’ says Professor Creighton. HEALTH OTHER CAUSES OF PERIOD PROBLEMS When girls don’t respond to these treatments, there may be an underlying cause which requires specialist investigation. These conditions include: | AUTUMN 2014 35 BLEEDING DISORDERS Blood clotting disorders such as von Willebrand’s disorder, where individuals have either low levels or a complete absence of von Willebrand’s factor (a protein needed for healthy blood clotting), platelet disorders and haemophilia carriers, are rare, but can cause heavy periods. They may need treatment by a haematologist.
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  • 37. Q. My daughter has just started primary school and I’ve found nits in her hair. How do I get rid of them and prevent her from getting them again? A. Nits are the bane of most primary school parents’ lives. No matter how clean you keep your children’s hair, there seems to be no escaping an infestation of nits or headlice at some point. Headlice are extremely common: girls are more likely to be affected than boys, and children tend to get them between the ages of three and 11. The good news is that they don’t transmit any other diseases. They also like clean hair so, if your child does catch them, at least you have the consolation that their hair was clean! However, it is important to treat these annoying but essentially harmless creatures because they irritate the skin and spread very easily - crawling from one head to another (they are only rarely passed on through bedding and clothing). If you don’t treat them, your son or daughter will be passing them on to other children and maybe even to you too! The first sign of your child having nits is often when they start itching their head – but some children have no symptoms at all so it is worth checking their hair every now and again. ‘Diagnosis is by finding live lice or nymphs (early phase lice) or nits (eggs),’ explains Dr Gill MacLeod, a GP at Rood Lane Surgery. ‘Eggs persist after successful treatment as they stick to the hair shaft and if they are more than a quarter of an 37 SPRING 2014 | inch from the scalp they are unlikely to be active. ‘The eggs (or nits) may remain glued to the shaft even when dead but will grow out with the hair. ‘You may want to remove them for aesthetic reasons. Combing can help achieve this but they can be resistant as they are literally cemented to the hair shaft. ‘Rinsing the hair with vinegar will weaken the cement and loosen them making it easier to comb them out.’ If your child has nits, anyone who is in close contact with them including parents and nannies may be infected and can reinfect the child if they are not treated too. So it is very important to check everyone’s hair with fine tooth combing and then treat all infected household members at the same time. ‘To be thorough, bedclothes should also be hot washed and hot air dried to ensure any lice are killed because lice and eggs are killed by exposure for five minutes to temperatures greater than 53.5°C (128.3°F). The same applies to scarves and hats,’ says Dr MacLeod. There are several different ways of treating nits – chemical treatments, wet combing and homeopathic remedies. Whilst careful combing can be very effective, Dr MacLeod recommends PARENT TALK chemical treatments for severe infestation. However, these are not 100 per cent effective and headlice do become resistant to them so could be used in conjunction with combing. Before using medicated head lice lotions on young babies (under six months old), pregnant women and people with asthma or allergies, always seek the advice of a healthcare professional and read the instructions carefully. A quick search on the Internet will throw up a wide range of none-chemical products too. Meticulous wet combing using a special nit comb will inevitably be at least part of your treatment of an infestation. It’s a pretty miserable, time-consuming task but if you lather the hair in cheap conditioner and then go through it with a fine tooth comb, it really does work. You need to repeat every couple of days until you are well and truly sure all the eggs and lice have gone. In short, it seems there is no avoiding getting nits among primary school children and there’s really very little you can do about it other than to be vigilant and regularly check your children’s hair. If your daughter has long hair it might also be worth tying it back. However, it’s not a reflection on you and your hygiene habits, and you are certainly not alone. Happy combing! PARENT TALK | AUTUMN 2014 37
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  • 40. When Laura Capstick-Dale and her husband Nick brought their tiny son Grey home for the first time this summer, the couple were in no doubt about one thing. ‘The staff at the Portland Hospital saved our son’s life – it was their attention to detail and caring attitude that means Grey is here with us today,’ says Laura, a jewellery designer, who lives with Nick, a property developer, and their son Nate, two, in London. ‘We had the best specialists on call to speak to any time, modern technology and the nurses were just amazingly kind and caring. They were our friends, our family, we cried with them, we laughed with them and they made a horrendous experience vaguely bearable.’ Grey was born premature at just 31 weeks in March this year after Laura started bleeding and having contractions. He was delivered by emergency Caesarean section weighing 4lbs and, initially, seemed healthy. However, later that day, he was put on a ventilator after he started having breathing problems, and heart problems were also detected including a hole in the heart and valves that hadn’t closed. Worse was to follow when Grey developed sepsis and lost all the weight he had gained since birth. Doctors suspected he was developing a disease that affects premature babies called necrotising enterocolitis, where parts of the bowel start to die. Only one in five who have a confirmed diagnosis survive. Luckily, Grey’s infection was caught early and treated with antibiotics and intra-venous nutrition, avoiding surgery. However, he still ended up spending eight weeks in hospital – five and a half of them in the Portland’s Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). ‘It was horrendous,’ recalls Laura.‘ I would sit by his cot for 10 to 12 hours a day, he had over 60 cannulas inserted in the first six weeks, and sometimes it would take five or six attempts to get them in as his tiny veins had collapsed and he would be crying and screaming. It was like a slice of heaven and hell – a beautiful new baby but one who was desperately ill and having to fight for his life.’ Grey was cared for by a team of top medical specialists including neonatologists and paediatricians. ‘I always felt we were in the best place and Grey would be safe at the Portland,’ says Laura. ‘There was one point where there was a possibility he might need a heart operation at Great Ormond Street. In the event, he didn’t need the operation but, if he had, he would have come back to the Portland within two days – that was very important to us.’ It was Laura’s second premature birth at the Portland - her elder son Nate was born at 34 weeks and spent one day in intensive care, five days in special care and a further eight days in transitional care in 2012. REAL LIFE STORY MIRACLE BABY defies the odds to survive Special care from the Portland’s Neonatal Intensive Care Unit saves baby Grey born at 31 weeks. By Jo Waters 40 AUTUMN 2014 |
  • 41. REAL LIFE STORY | AUTUMN 2014 41 The Portland’s three-cot Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) and four-cot Special Care Baby Unit (SCBU) are both equipped with the latest equipment to monitor and care for babies with complex medical needs or post-surgical problems. This includes ventilators and brain function monitors. Dr Simon Bignall, a Consultant Paediatrician and Neonatologist and Director of the Unit, says: ‘We have a team of six neonatologists on a rota to give 24 hour care, all of whom have practised at a very high level in leading NHS hospitals. The team has a daily ward round and conference at which we’ll decide if a baby needs input from a sub-specialist as a cardiologists or a dietitian. baby is very sick, this happens twice a day. Babies can become very ill extremely fast and also recover very quickly, so we are always on the lookout for signs of infection.’ ‘The environment of NICU is designed to reduce stress to babies – there is low level lighting and we try to reduce any sharp abrupt noises. We also involve patients in care as much as possible and encourage skin-to-skin contact. Parents get a very personalised service from the consultants and nursing staff.’ The unit has just taken delivery of a special brain function monitor which can measure brain activity. ‘This is particularly useful where a baby has had a difficult birth - for instance, if they are born with no heart beat and have to be resuscitated - as we know the 6 to 12 hours after the birth, the brain can produce toxic chemicals which can cause secondary damage to the brain,’ explains Dr Bignall. ‘Low levels or abnormal brain activity can be detected by the monitor and we can transfer the baby to a nearby centre for brain cooling treatment, which can help prevent secondary brain damage.’ For Laura, the level of care Grey received was something she’ll never forget. ‘Grey is really thriving now - he’s feeding well and is such a chilled baby, taking everything in his stride. He is seeing a developmental therapist to check he is meeting his developmental milestones, but all the signs are that he’s healthy. We are thankful everyday to have him home. He is a true miracle.’ The staff at The Portland Hospital saved our son’s life – it was their attention to detail and caring attitude that means Grey is here with us today l ‘T co bab such If a b
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  • 44. Children’s Clubs Increasing numbers of parents in London are turning to private members’ clubs to provide daycare for their children. So what can you expect? By Rachel Ellis FINDING DYNAMIC AND stimulating childcare in pleasant surroundings can be a challenge for parents. It sounds like it should be easy, but it can be surprisingly difficult to find classes or daycare that tick all the boxes. The location may not be ideal or the activities not quite what you had in mind for your young son or daughter. However, a rapidly growing new breed of childcare in London is designed to plug these gaps. With enviable locations in Kensington, Chiswick and Parsons Green among others, smart interiors, cafes and a wide-range of classes, private members’ clubs for toddlers are the answer for many parents. The first private members’ club to open its doors to children in London was Maggie Rose. ‘Being at home with children all day can be very difficult and sometimes you need someone else to do the thinking for you’ Its founder Maggie Bolger, 37, originally from New Zealand, decided to set up the business eight years ago after finding herself at home with three young children and nowhere to go. ‘Being at home with children all day can be very difficult and sometimes you need someone else to do the thinking for you,’ she says. ‘When I was at home with three young children, there was nowhere that offered relatively decent and stylish childcare and classes that weren’t plastic fantastic. So I decided to set somewhere up myself in Kensington.’ Today Maggie Rose offers many different types of classes including dress up and dance, cooking, art and make believe. ‘The idea is that you come to the club and do activities with your children in a friendly environment. It might be the mum or dad, nanny or grandparents who come with the child,’ says Maggie, who is now a mother of four. ‘The club also allows you and your child to get messy but without it being in your living room. For example, we ran a Jackson Pollock workshop recently where children and parents had a great time throwing paint around. ‘Working parents can drop their children off for a couple of hours too. We try to cover every option.’ Over the last eight years, the club, which is open every day except Christmas Day and Boxing Day, has gone from strength to strength and a second branch in Chiswick opened in 2013 which includes a full nursery, roof terrace and a double decker bus which serves as a great class location. Maggie and Rose co-founders of London’s first family members club FEATURE 44 AUTUMN 2014 |
  • 45. Maggie Rose, Chiswick Enjoying Soft Play at The Kensington branch of Maggie Rose has recently been refurbished and now includes a pre-nursery and fully licensed brasserie. Membership fees have also changed from yearly to monthly starting at £190 a month to give parents more flexibility. The clubs are aimed at children aged one to five but they also run holiday camps for older children (ages 5-10) at their Chiswick branch. ‘Many parents find there are not great options that are inspiring for their children. We try to plug that gap and offer spacious, inspiring and flexible surroundings with everything under one roof. You can do a class with your children in the morning and then meet up with friends for lunch. It’s a great place to get together with your baby network,’ says Maggie. ‘We also do birthday parties and courses for parents on things like First Aid and cookery. The great thing about it being a members’ club is that users have the ability to shape how they want to use the club. ‘We have had people from all over the world coming to look at what we are doing. My hope is that we have set a precedent and standard for childcare and family clubs for others to compete with. Raising the bar has got to be a good thing for parents and children.’ Cupcake Family Club is a newer addition to the children’s club market and is situated in Parson’s Green. Soft Play Area Maggie Rose, Chiswick It is aimed at children aged 0 to 5 and runs over 90 age-appropriate classes a week which children attend with their adult carer. Family membership starts at £79 a month. ‘Our classes support every stage of baby’s development helping them to discover, imagine, explore and grow healthily,’ says Suzanne Warner, general manager at the club. ‘We offer a broad curriculum including classes in cookery, crafts, drama, music, dance, gymnastics, ballet, football and tennis. Once you are a member you are free to pick and choose your daily activities to suit your little ones changing developmental needs or the ‘mood’ of the day.’ The club, which opened two years ago, has an on-site crèche, a café with children’s play areas and a soft play room. The crèche is also available to non-members and is a big draw for members of its sister club Slice Fitness. ‘The idea is that you can spend the whole day with us if you want,’ says Suzanne. ‘For parents who have nannies, it means you know exactly where your child is being taken and parents can ensure their children are gaining access to a safe, sociable, fun, learning environment. The club also offers after school activities for children aged 3 to 7 years. For more information go to: www.maggieandrose.com www.cupcakefamilyclub.com ‘Our classes support every stage of baby’s development helping them to discover, imagine, explore and grow healthily,’ Play Area Cupcake Family Club, Parson’s Green
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  • 48. HEALTH BABY HELMETS ARE DESIGNED to address something called plagiocephaly - more commonly known as flathead syndrome. ‘A child may have a flathead for various reasons,’ explains Mr Owase Jeelani, a Consultant Paediatric and Craniofacial Neurosurgeon at The Portland Hospital, Great Ormond Street Hospital and The London Craniofacial Unit. ‘Sometimes it may be because of the way it was lying in the uterus, or if it was delivered using forceps, but we also know that babies who are described as ‘good sleepers’ can be prone to it.’ Part of the reason for this is because, by necessity, a child’s skull is quite malleable or plastic when they’re born. ‘Plates of bone are connected by what are called sutures,’ explains Mr Jeelani. ‘Because a baby’s brain grows a lot in the first two years, these spaces allow the skull to expand. In general, they have closed by the time the child reaches two.’ Mr Jeelani believes the incidence of flathead syndrome has increased BABY HELMETS They’re not available on the in recent decades, primarily due to the Back To Sleep campaign, which began in the mid 1990s and advocates putting babies to sleep on their backs to avoid Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. ‘Before then, around one in twenty babies suffered from flathead syndrome, now estimates have it as closer to one in two,’ he says. But he is at pains to point out that flathead syndrome is primarily an aesthetic concern with no implications for brain function or brain growth. ‘There’s a very rare condition called cranial synostosis, which causes these growth lines to close early resulting in an abnormally shaped skull which can put pressure on the brain, but that’s not what we’re talking about in most cases,’ he says. NHS, and can cost upwards of £2,000 a time, but infant helmets to correct misshapen heads are increasingly popular. So do they really work? And are there other alternatives? Flatness that is the result of positioning in utero or at birth should have resolved itself on its own by about six weeks. But if it’s caused by the way the baby sleeps, parents tend to notice it around the three-month mark. ‘Babies who sleep on their backs looking upwards may have a flatter skull at the back, whereas children who favour one side over the other can get flattening at the side,’ says Mr Jeelani. Sometimes this preference is down to the way a baby’s head has been positioned in the womb, which can result in a tightness in the neck, making it more comfortable to lie on one side. A doctor can easily identify this by checking the baby’s range of motion, and while this can improve with age, a referral to a physio might be appropriate. ‘Any flatness tends to get worse up to the six month point when babies start to sit up more, lie on their tummies and spend less time sleeping or on their backs,’ says Mr Jeelani. While he believes helmets - which have to be worn 23 hours a day and One in two babies are estimated to suffer from flathead syndrome By Claire Coleman 48 AUTUMN 2014 |
  • 49. HEALTH HOW TO ENCOURAGE A FLATHEAD TO BECOME ROUNDER Rotate the position of the cot and which end you lay the baby in when you put him/her down to sleep. This gives them different focal points which may encourage a different position for the head. Similarly when changing your baby, lay them so that in order to see you they have to turn their head onto the non-flat side. Don’t rely too heavily on devices that mean your baby’s head is resting against something for long periods of time. Ideally children shouldn’t be in car seats or baby rockers for more than a couple of hours at a time. Make sure your child gets ‘tummy time’ - supervised periods of play where they’re on their stomach, which will strengthen their neck and shoulders. work by restricting growth in certain areas, but not the flat area - can be helpful in severe cases, for most mild to moderate cases, it’s simply not necessary. Indeed, a study in the Netherlands, published in the British Medical Journal earlier this year, which compared babies wearing helmets with those who hadn’t, saw no significant differences. Furthermore, parents of the babies wearing helmets reported downsides including skin irritation and sweating. ‘A helmet is a major commitment. You can’t take weeks off, or not do it for a few nights,’ says Mr Jeelani. ‘In the UK, where the weather is relatively mild, that’s not a problem, but I’m not sure you’d want to take a child on holiday to a warm climate and have them in a helmet.’ So how can parents know whether their child’s deformity is mild, moderate or severe? ‘I would always advise anyone who is worried to see a specialist who sees this sort of thing all the time. And, as helmets are most effective when used under a year, if someone is undecided at the six-month point, I think it’s worth waiting until the child is nine months as you can usually see then if the situation is starting to improve its own.’ It’s worth bearing in mind that such deformities are more apparent in babies because they have so little hair. As their hair grows, any asymmetry will be far better camouflaged. There are an awful lot of adults walking around with less than perfect heads, but most of us will never even notice. 1 2 3 4 Make sure your child gets ‘tummy time’ - supervised periods of play where they’re on their stomach on
  • 50. WOMEN’S HEALTH PROBLEMS NEED MORE INVESTMENT NOT ENOUGH IS KNOWN ABOUT many of the health issues that affect women and babies. Millions of women across the UK suffer from health problems related to the menopause and urinary incontinence, for example, and 4,000 babies are stillborn each year. Yet, despite affecting large numbers of women and babies, medical research into these areas is chronically underfunded. As Professor Peter Brocklehurst, Director of the Institute for Women’s Health at University College London, explains: ‘Research is limited by funding, not by ideas and enthusiasm.’ According to the charity Wellbeing of Women, there is an urgent need to fund more medical research into these problems. Since 1964, the charity has funded ground-breaking medical research into a wide range of health issues that have an effect on all babies, and all women at every stage of life. The results of this research have led to significant steps forward in the medical treatment of women and babies. The first revolutionary result of their research was a significant contribution to the creation of ultrasound technology in the 1960s. The development of in vitro fertilisation (IVF) 50 SPRING 2014 | treatment to help women with fertility issues was another. Researchers have discovered that women experiencing severe hot flushes during the menopause may have an abnormality in the function of blood vessels, and there has been a major breakthrough in understanding the irregular cell activity which causes endometriosis. More recently, research into the link between the Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) and cervical cancer has been instrumental in the creation and implementation of a vaccination programme across the UK and beyond. These results are vital in continuing to understand women’s health problems and have become a standard part of medicine today. Equally impressive have been the breakthroughs in infants’ health. For example, in recent years, researchers funded by Wellbeing of Women have discovered that brain damage in babies deprived of oxygen at birth can be reduced by more than half if they are given melatonin. However, we still do not know enough. While research is progressing, it is not progressing quickly enough, says Wellbeing of Women. In 2011, around 12 women died of ovarian cancer every day in the UK. Around 4,000 mothers had stillborn babies and countless women had miscarriages, suffered menopausal symptoms or faced dealing with incontinence. Liz Campbell, Director of Wellbeing of Women, says: ‘If the same money spent on heart disease or breast cancer was spent on women’s health, these numbers would simply be much smaller.’ ‘Greater investment into medical research would make a huge difference to the lives of women and babies. We do not know enough, but we will.’ CHARITY AUTUMN 2014 |
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  • 52. HEALTH What’s headache? causing your child’s Headache is a ALTHOUGH MOST HEADACHES in children are not due to a serious common complaint underlying condition, they can affect in children with up to their lives by interfering with school and other daily activities. 75 per cent reporting ‘Common triggers for such headaches at least one notable can include skipping meals, headache by the age of dehydration following sporting activities or not taking enough fluids, 15. Here The Portland emotional stress and anxiety, allergy to certain foods or food additives Hospital experts offer and beverages and irregular sleep their tips for getting patterns,’ says Dr Dion Alexandrou, Consultant Paediatrician at The to the root cause of Portland Hospital. headaches. By Jo Waters ‘Infections such as the common cold and flu, ear and throat infections are also possible causes. These can be treated by addressing simple lifestyle issues, using painkillers, tackling stress and treating infections accordingly.’ TYPES OF HEADACHE There are two broad categories of headache: primary headache - a headache without a significant underlying cause - and secondary headache, which is a symptom of an underlying serious problem. Migraine and tension headaches fall into the primary headache category. TENSION HEADACHES ‘Tension-type headaches tend to be featureless and milder, and the child can continue normal activities, in contrast to migraine,’ says Dr Alexandrou. ‘Tension headaches tend to occur during times of stress. They involve the neck and the back of the head, there is no sickness, vomiting or abdominal pain, and no family history of headaches. ‘Children are under a lot of pressure to succeed at school these days and 52 AUTUMN 2014 |
  • 53. HEALTH | AUTUMN 2014 53 exam season can be particularly stressful. Bullying at school may be another cause. They also pick up on relationship problems within the family, loss of a loved one and financial worries.’ If the headaches are not severe enough to affect the child’s daily activities, Dr Alexandrou usually talks to the family about what is going on in their child’s life and suggests making adjustments if necessary. If the child’s headaches are more severe and stopping them from going to school or socialising, a referral to a psychologist may be advised. MIGRAINE ‘Migraine is a very bad headache. It is unpleasant but not dangerous and we don’t know why some people get them,’ says Dr Alexandrou. The main difference from an ordinary headache is that migraine can last a long time and it might only go when you sleep. You may also feel worse if you try to do anything, sick, light or sound may hurt your head and you may need to lie down in a dark room. Different people have different triggers and some people have warning signs before they get a migraine. ‘Triggers can include light, noise, sleep disruption, changes in routine and even some foods including cheese and chocolate. Addressing these triggers can help prevent or reduce frequency of attacks in many cases,’ explains Dr Alexandrou. If you get migraines as a child, there’s more than a % chance they will stop when you reach puberty. If you get migraines as a child, there’s more than a 50 per cent chance they will stop when you reach puberty. However, if you start getting migraines as a teenager, they will probably continue into adulthood (although migraines tend to be not as bad as people get older). EYESIGHT PROBLEMS Headaches can sometimes be related to eye strain from staring at a screen too long – and computer screens, tablets and phones can all have this effect. ‘This is caused by the eye blinking less so the muscle gets tired and the surface of the eye gets dry,’ says Consultant Ophthalmologist Jane Leitch, who practises at the Portland and the Epsom and St Helier NHS Trust. ‘Some children will also develop headaches when they try to see the blackboard – they may be short-sighted and need to wear glasses to correct their vision. ‘Most children are given a routine eye test between the ages of 4 and 5 and some of these problems can be picked up then. ‘Distorted vision can be associated with migraines. Sudden onset double vision is rare, it can be an indication of pressure in the brain causing changes at the back of the eye which need urgent investigation.’ Red Flag Symptoms If a child’s headache gets worse when they bend forward or when coughing and straining, or it wakes the child (as opposed to the headache being present on awakening) it could be a sign of a more serious underlying problem. Other red flag symptoms include morning or persistent sickness and vomiting, recent change in personality or behaviour, gait and balance problems and visual disturbances (double vision). ‘Acute onset of severe headache associated with high temperature and neck stiffness and fear of lights (photophobia), is particularly worrying and most likely due to severe infection, most notably meningitis, and the child should go to Accident and Emergency immediately,’ says Dr Alexandrou. ‘Most of the children I see as a paediatrician suffer from tension-type headaches, followed by occasional migraine headaches and extremely rarely headaches accompanied by neurological symptoms and signs due to brain tumours or bleeds.’ ‘All parents fear the worst when their child complains of a headache but thankfully serious conditions such as brain tumours and meningitis are rare.’
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  • 55. adayFEATURE A DAY IN THE LIFE OF in the life of | AUTUMN 2014 55 DR ADRIAN LLOYD THOMAS is a Consultant Paediatric Anaesthetist at The Portland Hospital and Great Ormond Street Hospital. Here he tells Claire Coleman about his typical working day. ‘I arrive at the hospital at 6.30am and take all the paperwork for that day’s theatre list down to the operating theatre so that when the staff arrive they’ll know what medications need to be prepared and any special requirements for specific patients. There are three theatre sessions - morning, afternoon and evening - and, if they’re not already in one of the hospital wards, the patients for the first session start arriving from 7am, and I spend the next three quarters of an hour talking to them and their parents. My patients range from newborns to eighteen-year-olds and so you’re dealing with all sorts of different questions. With the very tiny babies, it’s about reassuring the parents that the approach and the medications we use are adapted to deal with their immature bodies. With the older children, it’s about talking through their fears that they might wake up in the middle of the operation or be in pain afterwards. These are quite normal concerns - after all you’re relinquishing control so you’re no longer a sentient being, you’re putting someone else in charge of your destiny. By 7.45am I’m down in theatre, checking the equipment. It’s like the pre-flight checks that a pilot will do to make sure everything works and the staff are clear with what’s going to happen. Then, at 8am, the first patient - and their parents too - are in the anaesthetic room. The parents are there to support and reassure the child while they go off to sleep. Sometimes we’ll play games with them, have them blow up balloons, or sing nursery rhymes. I’ve had to learn the Greek version of Old Macdonald Had A Farm as one little girl whose family is from Cyprus, comes in quite regularly for operations and likes to hear that as she goes to sleep. Handing over responsibility for your child to someone else at such a stressful time can be very upsetting; I hope that I manage to communicate to parents, at the pre-operative visit, my ability to manage the situation. There’s a bit of a misconception that anaesthetists just put you to sleep and that’s their job done. But we’re there throughout the operation constantly monitoring the patient, administering fluids and blood if necessary, as well as administering various types of pain relief, such as nerve blocks and epidurals, which will keep them comfortable after the operation. While they’re in the recovery room, coming round, the next patient is in the anaesthetic room. It really is non-stop. The numbers vary but I can see up to 20 patients in a single day and, when one session is done, I go to talk to the patients for the next session. There’s not much time to eat or drink, but the theatre staff are very kind and I’ll often find a cup of tea - or a banana - waiting in the anaesthetic room for me. When surgery has finished for the day, I’ll do a final ward round to check on the patients that I’ve seen that day, and have a look at the schedule for the following day, telephoning parents if we need to discuss anything before the operation. I never usually leave before 7, and I’m often there until 9, but it’s very rewarding work. The biggest compliment I’m paid is when a child comes back for further surgery, or I see a sibling, and the parents say, ‘oh I’m so glad it’s you, we were hoping it would be’. That’s very humbling.’
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  • 61. TOYS by Nicole Mowbray THE WEATHER’S LOUSY, THEIR beloved toys have fallen out of favour and both the children – and you - are reaching the end of your proverbial tethers. If this scenario sounds as familiar to you, perhaps you should consider a good old-fashioned craft session. “Making stuff with kids is brilliant, especially when they don’t have to follow strict instructions,” says Perri Lewis, author of Material World, the Modern Craft Bible. “Give children a box of paper, felt and a tube of glue and you’re giving them a chance to flex their creativity and stretch their imagination.” Indeed, making things helps children develop key skills that they will go on to use later in life. For example, art-based activities (those that involve few rules such as painting, drawing etc) teach children the benefits of free expression and using their imagination. Craft, on the other hand, is more geared towards following rules, order and structure. As Perri explains: “Give a child a specific project - to create an origami plane, for example - and they’ll discover how satisfying it can be to set goals, complete something themselves and be proud of what they’ve done. “And when they get stuck - they can’t work out why the glue isn’t sticking or the paper mache won’t dry - it gives them a chance to hone their problem-solving skills.” One of Perri’s favourite activities - for boys or girls - is creating origami – the Japanese art of folding paper into decorative shapes or figures. Another activity which is fun for any child is making papier mache – although this one is a bit on the messy side so have some sheets or spare newspaper to hand. All you need is a bucket, some newspaper, wallpaper paste, flour or white glue and a paintbrush (instructions are freely available on the internet). “You can make dinosaurs, money boxes... A favourite is the papier mache pig money box. Simply cover a balloon in your paper solution (you pop it after) and use a cut up egg box for feet, ears and a nose.” You never know, it may bring out the artist in you too. Other crafty ways to keep your kids entertained: 1. Make-at-home finger puppet kits. Straightforward fun for all the family, from Not On The High Street, £11, for ages 7 and up. 2. Want to put a spring in your girly-girl’s step? Invest in one of these glitter-tastic fairydomes from Galt Toys. £7.99. Suitable for children over the age of three. 3. Both arts and crafts are involved in creating this space mobile. First decorate the planets then hang together. Suitable for children aged over 3. £5.00, from HobbyCraft 4. Kids love Hama beads which can be pressed onto a special pegboard to create patterns, images and even models. Get started with this £16.99 starter kit from Argos (suitable for children aged 3 and up). 5. The Cra-Z-Loom Collectors Case is the ultimate storage item for looming fans. Including 1800 multi-coloured rubber bands neatly divided into compartments for different colours, £9.99, John Lewis, for ages 6 and up. crafts for kids TO 1. 3. 5. 2. 4. 4.
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