1. A two-step load balancer setup is described using an AWS Elastic Load Balancer and HAProxy to route external traffic to Kubernetes services and pods.
2. Methods for making deployments automatic are discussed, including using a build server to push new Docker images to a registry after a successful build, and then triggering a Deployer to deploy the new version to environments.
3. Handling data stores like MongoDB and MySQL with Kubernetes involves using volumes like AWS EBS to persist data across restarts or crashes, and ensuring each node in the data store cluster is backed by a different volume to support scaling.