The document outlines 5 ways to make people feel comfortable: 1) Give full attention by maintaining eye contact and not interrupting. 2) Initiate conversations by greeting others and asking questions to find common interests. 3) Display welcoming body language such as smiling, nodding, and leaning in while speaking. 4) Mix in humor by telling jokes or short stories. 5) Engage others intellectually by discussing their work or interests to make them feel like experts. The document recommends reading jokes and practicing good grooming.

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5 WAYS TO MAKE
PEOPLE FEEL
COMFORTABLE
AROUND YOU
Ethan Musolini

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1. Give them your full
attention
1. Give them your full
attention

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Why?
 It shows that you care

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It shows you respect the
other person’s view

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How?
 Maintain eye contact
BUT don’t stare

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Don’t interrupt until they
are done

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2. Initiate
conversations
2. Initiate
conversations

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Why?
 It says you are interested

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How?
 Greet

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Comment on the weather
Ask about their likes or
dislikes

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Ask their opinion on a
subject
Find out similar interests

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3. Display welcoming
body language
3. Display welcoming
body language

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Why?
Makes you
 Approachable
 Less intimidating

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How?
 Use open and friendly
body language
 Nod occasionally

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Smile genuinely
lean in when you speak

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 Use friend cues like a head
tilt or eyebrow flash

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Avoid
Crossing arms or legs
UNLESS you are mirroring

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Looking away from the
other person

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4. Mix in some humor4. Mix in some humor

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Why?
 Makes you fun to be
around
 Makes you interesting

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How?
 Share a joke
 Tell a short story

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5. Engage the intellect5. Engage the intellect

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Why?
 Makes the other person
feel like an expert

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How?
 Hit on something they can
speak intelligently on
E.g. their work, travel, skills

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2 Actions
1.Read a lot of jokes
2.Practice good grooming (smell
good, look good)

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