In Samoa, males traditionally take on leadership roles in the family and community as matai (chiefs). They are expected to marry and have children to prove their masculinity. While boys have more freedom, strict gender roles exist - women care for the home and family. A third gender called fa'afafine also exist, identifying as neither male nor female. Traditionally accepted, fa'afafine take on feminine roles but attract masculine males. Modernization has impacted roles, with more women working and gender expressions changing, though abuse remains high.