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                                                                                                                                            HYDERABAD FRIDAY 1,
                                                                                                                                                                                   DC

                                                         i can
                                                                                                                                            JANUARY 2010

                                                                                          I ASPIRE,
                                                                                          THEREFORE I AM
                                                                                                                                                             lifestyle
                                                           Out of the                                                                                        LUXE
                                                                                                                                                             ON LOAN
                                                           closet, finally
                                                       Rainbow
                                                                                                                                                                  Forget the
                                                                                                                                                                  old adage of
                                                                                                                                                                  ‘if you’ve got
                                              parades, queer pride                                                                                                it, flaunt it’.
                                          marches, decriminalisation of                                                                                           Now, if you
                                       homosexuality — India has surely                                                                                           want to flaunt
                                    stepped up for her gay population this year!                                                                                  it, you can
                                                                                                                                                                  rent it!

                          GAYATRI REDDY                                 its market. The recent Hero Honda ad which has a
                                                                                 guy asking his friend if he will sit behind him is
                                    wo thousand and nine will                              a great example of a gay moment. A


                       T            remain a special year for
                                    our homosexual citi-
                                    zens. After years of
                                    being traumatised
                      by a largely homophobic society,
                     they finally watched the government send
                                                                                               reassuring sign of the gay communi-
                                                                                                 ty being accepted has been that
                                                                                                    humorous and affectionate jabs at
                                                                                                     homosexual clichés are now as
                                                                                                       common as parochial jokes
                                                                                                        about accents or ethnic commu-
                                                                                                                                                cheap
                                                                                                                                                                             YATAN


                                                                                                                                                                                    CHIC



                                                                                                                                               E
                     out a strong message of social evolution.                                          nities in India.                               veryone today wants Louis Vuitton
                    Gay rights is no longer an impossible dream                                            The evolution will not be com-              on their arm and Manolo Blahnik at
                    with the decriminalisation of homosexuality                                          plete without the destruction of              their feet. This is the aspiration gen-
                    in the form of Article 377 and acceptance of                                         certain myths — that being gay         eration — they see style, they want it —
                    gay pride parades, gay conventions... this                                           is genetic or that certain             money is no object, even if they can’t
                    year demonstrated the reality of a great                                            nature-nurture realities can            afford it. So, if you must express your
                  future for gay people in our country.                 ‘turn someone gay’. Various media and activists are dis-               attitude with what you wear — get your
                 Harish Iyer, a gay rights activist, is thrilled with   seminating relevant information, but Shabana (not her real             bags on rent, jeans on EMI and pay for
              the outcome of things. He feels the media, film           name, she fears ostracism from family and friends), a stu-            your luxury in installments.
            industry, UPA government and law are some of the            dent and lesbian, believes it’s still early days, “People              Getting ‘the look’ has never been this easy
          factors responsible for removing the social stigma            have not become wholly accepting. Society is just a bit              and for a generation that thrives in their
        and legal hassles homosexuals have had to endure.               more tolerant of us today. As long as it is not their child,         live-for-the-moment lifestyle, haute couture
       “The media played a big role in bringing about this              people really don’t care and are indifferent. Taking part            is just rent-money away. Clothes travel from
     change, it highlighted our issues and ensured they were            in or being accepting of a gay parade doesn’t mean                   one aspiring fashionista to another, each
    very in-your-face. You couldn’t ignore them. And with               society has become liberal overnight. If this was the                making her own statement.
   ministers like Ghulab Nabi Azad speaking out in our                  case Article 377 would not just be passed by the                       The fantastic plastic lifestyle which made
  favour, it was a great help,” he says.                                Delhi High Court.” Still, she is relieved about the                  haute-priced couture accessible faced
   When Harish’s sister introduced him to her boyfriend                 significant steps forward but would like to see                      burnout this year. The recession made flash-
 (now husband), there was no awkwardness over the fact                  homosexuality being part of sex-ed in schools                        ing your card a bit naff not to mention not
that her brother was gay. In fact his brother-in-law who hails          and colleges.                                                        very sensible, but that didn’t stop the
from a conservative family told                                           Bobby Darling is very optimistic and happy                         youngsters who live by the mantra, ‘All’s
him that he would look for a                                            about the way things shaped up. She feels                            fair in this quest for labels’. Hopefully, it is
nice boy so that Harish gets                                            people can now come out of the closet and                            a trend we will lose as it’s anything but
married next. And homosexuali-                                          live their lives without apologies, “Gay rights                      healthy. Some youngsters sublimate their
ty is slowly permeating into                                            are very important. It’s a good thing that we                        need for big labels with rip-offs. Easier on
mainstream culture. Big budget                                          are being accepted in society and that the                           the wallet than on the conscience, a parallel
 movies like Kal Ho Na Ho and                                                        government has decided to                               industry and subculture exists that thrives
  Dostana highlighted the gay                                                        decriminalise homosexuality.                            on fake designer wear, watches and shoes.
  issue, though it was done in a                                                   Tomorrow no gay person will be                            And if youngsters have the spunky attitude
   non-serious way.                                                              forced into a heterosexual relation-                        to carry it off, nobody can tell!
      Talking about his pro-gay-rights                                        ship by his/her family.”                                         Keeping the young guns fashionable was
     stance, Tarun Mansukhani, director                                     Sadly, not everyone has Bobby’s                                  the huge market for customisation. Love a
      Dostana, says, “Gay rights are of absolute                        confidence or is ready to accept the                                 designer’s work, but can’t afford it? Get
        importance mainly to give a community social and                fact that what they want is more                                     your local darzi to emulate it and make you
         official recognition. People should not have to hide           important than what the society                                      an exclusive tailor-made creation. If you are
            themselves due to the long standing societal preju-         wants. An overnight change in a                                      getting expensive designer wear copied and
              dice. Decriminalisation has been the most pro-            massive country like ours is not                                     it doesn’t cost you a bomb, then why not?
                gressive step forward in making the country             possible, but 2009 is the year                                       Luxury on loan is one thing that made this
                  understand the minds and thoughts of a com-           that brought the realisation                                         year so special. It brought fashion to the
                     munity. We all are made equal. Why should          that a democracy owes all                                            masses without taking away from the exclu-
                        our rights or our duties in our own coun-       its citizens equal rights,                                           sivity of it. And Gen I Can sure made the
                           try be different?”                           and India has stepped                                                most of it.
                                 Even the world of advertising is       up for her gay                                                                                  The writer is a stylist
                                   playing with gay undertones          population.
                                         and including all sections
                                                of consumers into

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deccan chronicle, Jan 01, 2010

  • 1. 24 GEN HYDERABAD FRIDAY 1, DC i can JANUARY 2010 I ASPIRE, THEREFORE I AM lifestyle Out of the LUXE ON LOAN closet, finally Rainbow Forget the old adage of ‘if you’ve got parades, queer pride it, flaunt it’. marches, decriminalisation of Now, if you homosexuality — India has surely want to flaunt stepped up for her gay population this year! it, you can rent it! GAYATRI REDDY its market. The recent Hero Honda ad which has a guy asking his friend if he will sit behind him is wo thousand and nine will a great example of a gay moment. A T remain a special year for our homosexual citi- zens. After years of being traumatised by a largely homophobic society, they finally watched the government send reassuring sign of the gay communi- ty being accepted has been that humorous and affectionate jabs at homosexual clichés are now as common as parochial jokes about accents or ethnic commu- cheap YATAN CHIC E out a strong message of social evolution. nities in India. veryone today wants Louis Vuitton Gay rights is no longer an impossible dream The evolution will not be com- on their arm and Manolo Blahnik at with the decriminalisation of homosexuality plete without the destruction of their feet. This is the aspiration gen- in the form of Article 377 and acceptance of certain myths — that being gay eration — they see style, they want it — gay pride parades, gay conventions... this is genetic or that certain money is no object, even if they can’t year demonstrated the reality of a great nature-nurture realities can afford it. So, if you must express your future for gay people in our country. ‘turn someone gay’. Various media and activists are dis- attitude with what you wear — get your Harish Iyer, a gay rights activist, is thrilled with seminating relevant information, but Shabana (not her real bags on rent, jeans on EMI and pay for the outcome of things. He feels the media, film name, she fears ostracism from family and friends), a stu- your luxury in installments. industry, UPA government and law are some of the dent and lesbian, believes it’s still early days, “People Getting ‘the look’ has never been this easy factors responsible for removing the social stigma have not become wholly accepting. Society is just a bit and for a generation that thrives in their and legal hassles homosexuals have had to endure. more tolerant of us today. As long as it is not their child, live-for-the-moment lifestyle, haute couture “The media played a big role in bringing about this people really don’t care and are indifferent. Taking part is just rent-money away. Clothes travel from change, it highlighted our issues and ensured they were in or being accepting of a gay parade doesn’t mean one aspiring fashionista to another, each very in-your-face. You couldn’t ignore them. And with society has become liberal overnight. If this was the making her own statement. ministers like Ghulab Nabi Azad speaking out in our case Article 377 would not just be passed by the The fantastic plastic lifestyle which made favour, it was a great help,” he says. Delhi High Court.” Still, she is relieved about the haute-priced couture accessible faced When Harish’s sister introduced him to her boyfriend significant steps forward but would like to see burnout this year. The recession made flash- (now husband), there was no awkwardness over the fact homosexuality being part of sex-ed in schools ing your card a bit naff not to mention not that her brother was gay. In fact his brother-in-law who hails and colleges. very sensible, but that didn’t stop the from a conservative family told Bobby Darling is very optimistic and happy youngsters who live by the mantra, ‘All’s him that he would look for a about the way things shaped up. She feels fair in this quest for labels’. Hopefully, it is nice boy so that Harish gets people can now come out of the closet and a trend we will lose as it’s anything but married next. And homosexuali- live their lives without apologies, “Gay rights healthy. Some youngsters sublimate their ty is slowly permeating into are very important. It’s a good thing that we need for big labels with rip-offs. Easier on mainstream culture. Big budget are being accepted in society and that the the wallet than on the conscience, a parallel movies like Kal Ho Na Ho and government has decided to industry and subculture exists that thrives Dostana highlighted the gay decriminalise homosexuality. on fake designer wear, watches and shoes. issue, though it was done in a Tomorrow no gay person will be And if youngsters have the spunky attitude non-serious way. forced into a heterosexual relation- to carry it off, nobody can tell! Talking about his pro-gay-rights ship by his/her family.” Keeping the young guns fashionable was stance, Tarun Mansukhani, director Sadly, not everyone has Bobby’s the huge market for customisation. Love a Dostana, says, “Gay rights are of absolute confidence or is ready to accept the designer’s work, but can’t afford it? Get importance mainly to give a community social and fact that what they want is more your local darzi to emulate it and make you official recognition. People should not have to hide important than what the society an exclusive tailor-made creation. If you are themselves due to the long standing societal preju- wants. An overnight change in a getting expensive designer wear copied and dice. Decriminalisation has been the most pro- massive country like ours is not it doesn’t cost you a bomb, then why not? gressive step forward in making the country possible, but 2009 is the year Luxury on loan is one thing that made this understand the minds and thoughts of a com- that brought the realisation year so special. It brought fashion to the munity. We all are made equal. Why should that a democracy owes all masses without taking away from the exclu- our rights or our duties in our own coun- its citizens equal rights, sivity of it. And Gen I Can sure made the try be different?” and India has stepped most of it. Even the world of advertising is up for her gay The writer is a stylist playing with gay undertones population. and including all sections of consumers into