This document discusses redefining decision making and moving away from consensus-based models. It argues that public consensus is not possible without oppression, and that focusing on individual gut feelings and intentions on a daily basis, rather than trying to reach group consensus on ideas, could be a better foundation for decision making. It also questions interpretations of feminist history that emphasize the development of consensus processes, suggesting the capabilities and imagination of the time may have led to misunderstandings. Overall, it advocates disengaging from consensus and giving people freedom and trust to change their minds freely without having to defend or sell ideas to others.