This document discusses creating relationships and marriage over 4 sessions. Session 1 talks about understanding one's needs and what they are looking for in a partner. Session 2 discusses important aspects of marriage like communication, conflict, forgiveness and commitment. Session 3 covers balancing work and personal life, intimacy, and financial management. Finally, session 4 provides tips for building the bond in marriage through trust, communication, spending quality time together, and considerations for starting a family.

1. Connections
Creating Relationships

2. Marriage
What is marriage?
History of Marriage

3. Session 1
Understanding my and partners needs

4. Why Should I get married?
Write down in your book:
List the reasons for me to get married
What am I looking for in a partner?
What am I ready to offer my partner?
How many years do I see myself married?

5. My Partner/Spouse
He/She is….

6. My Personal Interest
I like to…

7. Our Interest
We like to….

8. Friends and Spouse
My friends like my partner
We associate with them often
My partner is open to me meeting with my
friends

9. Session 2
Understanding the needs of Marriage

10. COMMUNICATION CONFLICT
FORGIVENESS COMMITMENT

11. Communication
What you speak is what they hear!
Honest Opinions
Share your experiences
Talk of common interests
Speak Out! They cannot read your Mind
Discuss and then discuss

12. Conflict
Set a time aside to discuss
Put forth the strengths and weakness
Realistic and Unbiased assessment
Mutual agreement
I cannot be right always!

13. Forgiveness
Keep the Happy Times remembered
Watch videos, photographs once a month
together
Remember the reason for being together
Think of the reason for anger (refer Conflict)
It is only right to be together

14. Commitment
There is no second option
Life is about stability not variety
You have a partner to rely on
Common Interests
Share a bond of trust with each other

15. Session 3
How to make a marriage?

16. Time
How many hours can I give at work and at
home?
Balance of professional and personal space
Use of marriage to better work
Happy married couples perform better at work
Growth in business and career with happy
marriage

17. Sex or Celibacy?
How often would I like to have sex with my
partner?
Do I like to get innovative?
Am I happy with a single partner?
Do I like to speak of sex with my partner?

18. Managing Finances
Save then Spend
Don’t let it rain
Use resources wisely

19. Session 4
Building the bond in marriage

20. Building Relations
Earn Trust
Maintain Communication
Share
Spend Time together
Have a Meal together

21. Building a family
Children
Do we want to have children?
How many children?
Have we planned ourselves?

22. Wishing you all the
best!
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