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Choices, Dreams And Destiny:
  Where Has The Space For
      Creativity Gone?
          By Lata Jha
Just a choice of 2
• “To beta, aap engineering kar rahe ho? Nahi? To medical?”
• It’s pretty bizarre that random people (who, I may add, have
  no other way to while away time) at social gatherings or any
  public place, for that matter, ask me questions like these that
  have the ability to ruin my day and bring out the nastiest,
  angriest and arguably the most anguished in me.
• No, I’m not studying engineering.
• Not because I didn’t have the marks, but because I never
  wanted to.
• I also think that people from colleges apart from the IITs of
  the world can make something of life.
A one way dream?
• While in many respects, we may have come a long way from
  the proverbial Indian way of life that for instance, favoured
  boys over girls but I’m saddened by how bound we still are to
  certain stereotypes.
• Children in many cities like mine and yours are brought up,
  knowing each day of their lives that they can dream only one
  dream.
• Creativity and experimentation are out of bounds.
• Get an engineering degree, take the UPSC exam, live your
  life only this one way.
Being different
• I don’t have a problem with engineering and medical
  students.
• A lot of my friends are studying those very subjects.
• But I do have a problem with the fact that even today, those
  are the only institutes and fields of study that the majority
  take seriously.
• Does somebody who qualifies for a National Law University
  not deserve as much praise as an IITian?
• Just because he’s chosen to look at cases rather than cars and
  chemicals?
So many questions
• Does the nation only need engineers and doctors?
• What about providing good media schools to generate
  quality press?
• In fact, how about taking journalism as a course a little more
  seriously?
• How about according more respect to History, Political
  Science and Sociology students who top your UPSC exams?
• Or who go on to become learned teachers at your own
  universities?
What about the question then of
      creativity and individuality?
• I agree it’s about a certain mindset that we’ve lived with since
  time immemorial that particular jobs give you security and
  stability.
• Aren’t we producing mere clones this way?
• If every child is supposed to take up Science and become an
  engineer, irrespective of whether he wants to or if he has the
  aptitude for it, what differentiates one from another?
• Or someone truly brilliant from someone who’s been pushed
  into it?
• Didn’t you yourself read stories of being brave and holding
  one’s own to your children?
• What happened then when he said he wanted to take up
  Commerce after the 10th?
Just the equality
• I’ve seen friends weep through two years of miserable +2,
  when Science didn’t turn out to be their cup of tea.
• Only to take up social science in college.
• What rationale is this? As anguished and cynical as it may
  sound, only engineers and doctors cannot make a country.
• You need the actors, the fashion designers, the lawyers, the
  accountants, the soldiers and the journalists.
• So while I’m not saying these professions do not deserve
  respect, my point is we should learn to value and respect
  other jobs just as much.
Parents listen please
• I don’t think I’ve made a better decision than my choice of
  study in my twenty years.
• And I was fortunate to have parents who completely
  understood what I was meant for.
• Which is why, this article that you may find overtly whiny is
  more for the parents of the world.
• Under the reams of star filled eyes and a vision for the future.
• I know what it is like when people look down upon and don’t
  take seriously your field of study.
• But you live with the faith that you have your parents and
  yourself to fall back on.
• And you know, if what I say still doesn’t make much sense, go
  by the lesson that otherwise grossly over rated film about the
  three friends taught us, about following your heart, running
  after excellence, not success.
• And success will come following the trail.
• Read more on Youth Ki Awaaz

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Choices, dreams and destiny

  • 1. Choices, Dreams And Destiny: Where Has The Space For Creativity Gone? By Lata Jha
  • 2. Just a choice of 2 • “To beta, aap engineering kar rahe ho? Nahi? To medical?” • It’s pretty bizarre that random people (who, I may add, have no other way to while away time) at social gatherings or any public place, for that matter, ask me questions like these that have the ability to ruin my day and bring out the nastiest, angriest and arguably the most anguished in me. • No, I’m not studying engineering. • Not because I didn’t have the marks, but because I never wanted to. • I also think that people from colleges apart from the IITs of the world can make something of life.
  • 3. A one way dream? • While in many respects, we may have come a long way from the proverbial Indian way of life that for instance, favoured boys over girls but I’m saddened by how bound we still are to certain stereotypes. • Children in many cities like mine and yours are brought up, knowing each day of their lives that they can dream only one dream. • Creativity and experimentation are out of bounds. • Get an engineering degree, take the UPSC exam, live your life only this one way.
  • 4. Being different • I don’t have a problem with engineering and medical students. • A lot of my friends are studying those very subjects. • But I do have a problem with the fact that even today, those are the only institutes and fields of study that the majority take seriously. • Does somebody who qualifies for a National Law University not deserve as much praise as an IITian? • Just because he’s chosen to look at cases rather than cars and chemicals?
  • 5. So many questions • Does the nation only need engineers and doctors? • What about providing good media schools to generate quality press? • In fact, how about taking journalism as a course a little more seriously? • How about according more respect to History, Political Science and Sociology students who top your UPSC exams? • Or who go on to become learned teachers at your own universities?
  • 6. What about the question then of creativity and individuality? • I agree it’s about a certain mindset that we’ve lived with since time immemorial that particular jobs give you security and stability. • Aren’t we producing mere clones this way? • If every child is supposed to take up Science and become an engineer, irrespective of whether he wants to or if he has the aptitude for it, what differentiates one from another? • Or someone truly brilliant from someone who’s been pushed into it? • Didn’t you yourself read stories of being brave and holding one’s own to your children? • What happened then when he said he wanted to take up Commerce after the 10th?
  • 7. Just the equality • I’ve seen friends weep through two years of miserable +2, when Science didn’t turn out to be their cup of tea. • Only to take up social science in college. • What rationale is this? As anguished and cynical as it may sound, only engineers and doctors cannot make a country. • You need the actors, the fashion designers, the lawyers, the accountants, the soldiers and the journalists. • So while I’m not saying these professions do not deserve respect, my point is we should learn to value and respect other jobs just as much.
  • 8. Parents listen please • I don’t think I’ve made a better decision than my choice of study in my twenty years. • And I was fortunate to have parents who completely understood what I was meant for. • Which is why, this article that you may find overtly whiny is more for the parents of the world. • Under the reams of star filled eyes and a vision for the future. • I know what it is like when people look down upon and don’t take seriously your field of study. • But you live with the faith that you have your parents and yourself to fall back on.
  • 9. • And you know, if what I say still doesn’t make much sense, go by the lesson that otherwise grossly over rated film about the three friends taught us, about following your heart, running after excellence, not success. • And success will come following the trail.
  • 10. • Read more on Youth Ki Awaaz