This document provides tips for avoiding gossip and discusses the negative effects of gossiping. It notes that gossipers will gossip about you just as they gossip to you. It advises being mindful of "forked tongues" and avoiding inquisitive people who enjoy spreading private rumors but won't keep confidential information private. As an example, it describes a group of five friends who spend 15 minutes gossiping each night before bed, despite knowing it will cause them to lose sleep. The document concludes by advising only criticizing friends if it causes genuine pain, and to hold your tongue if there is any pleasure in gossiping.

1. How to Avoid Gossips?
Ahammed Asrin
HNDM (Reading)

2. From the definition of gossip…….
 Its very name connotes idleness, time-
wasting, frivolity and worse.
 A person who habitually spreads
intimate or private rumors or facts.

3. Be mindful of forked tongues
 Whoever gossips to you will also
gossip about you…

4. Avoid inquisitive persons
For they are sure to be gossipers. While their ears are open
to hear, they will not keep what is entrusted to them.
Researches show…..
An example.
Every night the five of us will spend at least 15 minutes
gossiping when we are in bed. Although we know we will lack
sleep tomorrow, we can’t stop gossiping. What’s more, we
call the gossiping time as Girl generation.

5. Make this a rule in life
 What you don't see with your
eyes, don't witness with your
mouth

6. Think Again and Again!!!
 If it is very painful for you to
criticize a friend, then you are
safe in doing it.
 But if you take the slightest
pleasure in it, that's the time to
hold your tongue.

7. The End
THANK YOU
Ahammd Asrin
HNDM (Reading)