Discover what text messages you should NEVER send to a hot girl, or any girl! Don't make these costly mistakes that nearly EVERY typical guy makes when texting a girl for a date. You don't want to be THAT lame guy because you'll never hear back from her again. Separate yourself from the pack of losers and avoid these awful text messages.

2. Genevieve Mullins knows her way
around the best social circles in major
cities across the United States. With
more than nine years of experience as
a VIP Hostess, Serving and Event
Coordinator and Planner, she is a
connoisseur in creating phenomenal
experiences for her clients. Yet, her
expertise far surpasses knowing how to
throw a great party. This lady
intimately understands what attracts
and keeps women interested in men.
She’s here to help you decipher the
texting code, now an all-important
weapon to add to your relationship
arsenal. Enjoy, and reap the rewards of
her knowledge!

3. Texting is the New Normal
This fleeting, half-committed form of
communication has surpassed the phone call
within the dating scenario.
While this is frustrating, you can use it to
your advantage.
Subway… by Thomas Luethard @ Flickr.com

4. Texting: An Art Form
Important Considerations
• Content
• Timing
• Tone
• Frequency
• Delivery
Yeah…don’t feel bad for being clueless.
But remember, it’s YOUR job to decipher the texting
code and translate that into dates.
Time is Running by Tetine @ Flickr.com

5. Texts that Drive Girls Insane
I get texts constantly that are:
• Hilarious, in a bad way
• Ridiculously dumb
• Annoying
If not for the amusement factor, I’d be highly irritated. Even my top
contenders send pathetic texts on occasion, poor guys.
Broken iPhone 4 by Peter Werkman @Flickr.com

6. View the collection of my most cringeworthy exchanges from:
• Texts
• WhatsApp
• Facebook Messenger
I screenshot and share these with my friends. Embarrassing, right?
I’m thinking about posting them to Instagram…
A Delightful Treat!
If your legwork is on par, a few texting mistakes are okay. BUT if what
you’re about to see is your normal, you’re in trouble.
Facebook Beachfront b mkhmarketing @ Flickr.com

7. The Too-Frequent Guy
The phone will not shut-up. If it buzzes more than
twice, somebody better be dead. When it’s the
same guy over and over again, it pisses me off.
Here’s the Deal
I don’t need a guy on constant buzz patrol.
I don’t want a novel.
Less is more.

8. Red Flag Responses
You’re in dangerous “two-frequent” territory if
you get the following curt answers.
Ditto for no response at all.
With these answers, you’re at first place in the text race.
“k” “ya” “cool”
First is a bad spot to be in.

9. Too Much Availability Guy
Women are attracted to an element of mystery and
allure in a man. There’s none of that when you’re
constantly available.
Fight those urges to rapid text.
Discipline is the key to success.
Remember, it’s all about the payoff.

10. Ultra Quick Meet-Up Guy
Make Me Like You More First
I don’t really remember many great
qualities about the guys I’m texting with.
It’s YOUR job to seduce me with new game.
That way, I can’t forget you.

11. The Salty Guy
If you want to sleep with a girl, no matter how pissed
off you are with her, don’t lose your cool.
Some guys act like I really care that they’re pissed.

12. The Late Guy
I absolutely LOATHE getting the
running late text.
You’re not exempt from being late just
because you text me seven minutes before
you’re supposed to show up.
Punctuality is important.
My time is valuable.

13. The Guy Who Doesn’t
Understand Emoticons
... or the guy who doesn't have an iPhone to accept Emoji's!
Remember:
A girl can use as many emoticons as she wants. You can’t.

14. An Emoticon Loser
Avoid gushing over a girl in general, and
especially in a text.
Overly Cute and
Sweet

15. Set the Tone with Emoji
• Texts may be taken the wrong way
without a smiley face or a wink.
• Be advised: My mood is going to
have a bearing on how I interpret
your message.
• My inner psycho may be released
if your text isn’t clear.
Make it clear when you’re joking, teasing or flirting.

16. Drug Addict Warning Guy
• Only drug addicts bring up
Molly at three in the
afternoon.
• This message leaves a
feeling of being used as arm
candy and a prop for handing
out blow.
• Needless to say, I did not
meet up with this guy.
Not Attractive

17. Careful, Careful
• Do not try to convince me to be naughty
or bad via text like Drug Addict Guy.
• Do not make me feel guilty. I’ll be hesitant
to go along, and you’ll only succeed in
creeping me out.
Huge Turn-Off
Lorena Sturlese 04 © studio by Vincent Boiteau @ Flickr.com

18. The Dimwitted Guy
• If you don’t understand
memes, you’re hereby
classified an idiot.
• Don’t ask stupid
questions. Unless it can’t
be answered via Google,
please don’t ask.
There’s little tolerance for ignorant guys.

19. The Guy Who Doesn’t
Get Jokes
This fellow isn’t dumb per se, but he’s clueless.
Joker by cursedthing @Flickr.com
Boring exchanges cause loss of interest.

20. The Non-iPhone Guy
Girls are iPhone snobs. You should be aware of the following:
• It’s annoying to get a text that isn’t Apple’s light blue.
• You will be judged if don’t have an iPhone.
• Girls wonder what kind of crap phone you have if you
don’t have that blue screen.
• Green messages are outdated and old-fashioned.
• If you don’t use an iPhone, I can’t see you typing,
which is irritating.
It’s all about convenience. Make it easy for her.

21. The Late-Night-Only Guy
Typically, this guy:
• Is attractive
• Doesn’t respond in a timely fashion
• Gives irrelevant responses
• Only talks at night
• Messages are full of sexual innuendo
It’s all in the timing.
Full Moon by gknuckx @ Flickr.com

22. The Predictably Boring Guy
Remember this: Girls like to have fun.
Remember, if you’re texting a hot girl, you aren’t the only one.
Don’t be like every other guy. Stand out.

23. Repetition Sucks
Miss Natalia 2 © studio.es by Vincent Boiteau @ Flickr.com
Skip the small talk!

24. The Flake
After a dynamic beginning, being flaked is a bummer.
Keep in mind…
• Really liking a guy might
make a girl cut him lose
quickly so she doesn’t
have to get flaked twice.
• You only get one flake
early on. Make sure it’s
worth the consequences.
Flake twice, and expect no response to texts.
Pumpkin Cruelty by Nomadic Lass @ Flickr.com

25. I Was Excited, and Then…
I was looking forward to this date, and then…he flaked.
He won’t be seeing
anymore of me.
Yes, even I get flaked on, too. ;-)

26. You’re Welcome
Alright guys,
Now you know how you should never, ever text a girl.
You can get more free dating tips by going to
www.InnerConfidence.com/bad-texting
Until next time,
Genevieve