This document discusses parenting and raising children in the Christian faith. It makes three key points: 1) Parents must raise their children with love and teach them about God according to the Bible. Loving discipline and teaching children about faith will help them develop spiritually. 2) Children need unconditional love, acceptance and encouragement from their parents. When children feel loved and supported, they will thrive. Parents should spend quality time with their kids teaching them about God. 3) Proper parenting requires balancing discipline with affection. Children need structure and boundaries, but also need to feel loved. The Bible provides guidance on how to raise children in a loving Christian home.

1. ISUA’N NAUPANGTE A HMANGAIH
- Rev. K. Lalbiakenga
Isua erawh chuan,”Naupang tête ka hnênah han kaltîr ula, hnar suh u;
Pathian ram chu hetiang mite ta a ni si a.” (Marka 10:14) a ti a.
Tûn laia kan hun tawng mêk leh naupangte: Mizoramah hian kum 1980
hma lamah kha chuan kan khawtlângah sual a la tam lutuk lo, tûna kan buaipui
ruihhlo chi hrang hrang leh TV, Social Media angte hi kan la hmêl hriat lo hle
a ni. Kum 10 (sâwm) a han vei a 1990 chho atang chuan kan la hmêl hriat ngai
loh ruihhlo chi hrang hrang Zoramah a rawn lût a, kan tapchhak zâwlah sual
chi hrang hrang en tur TV leh Computer hmanga thlun zawm reng an lo ni ta
bawk. Tûn hma kum 30 liam ta ai khan tûn lai kan khawvêlah hian sual a lêt
tam takin a pung tawh a ni. Tûn hmaa “tih suh, ti rawh” nu leh paten min tiha
kan awih mai ang khan tûn lai naupang chuan an awih mai thei tawh lova.
Theihtâwpa nunchang leh zirtîrna hrang hrang nêna kan fate tih takzeta kan
enkawl a ngai ta hle a ni.
Naupangte entawntlâka
nun:- Clinical Psychologist lâr tak
Haim Ginott-a chuan tihian a sawi a
“Naupangte hi cement chawh sa, la
ro lo ang an ni a, i kut emaw, i ke
emawa i nemna/rahna hnu kha an ro
hnan zêl a ni” tiin naupangte than
chhohna atâna anmahni enkawlnaa
fîmkhur a tûlzia a sawi a ni. Sâp
thufing pakhat chuan tihian a sawi a
“Naupang chuan i thu hrilh a zâwm
thei lo mai thei, i nun erawh chu a
entawninitihdânarawnzirzêldâwn
a ni” a ti a ni. Ni tin a nu leh pate
khawsak dân hi fa ten an rawn zir zêl
a, chu chu an puitlin hnu-ah a rawn
lang chhuak thîn a ni. Chuvângin
naupangte hi “Nu leh pa nun
dârthlalang an ni e” an ti thîn a ni.
Nu leh pate’n naupangte
enkawlna kawnga mawh an phurh
nasat zia kan hriat fiah theihna
Harvard University-in naupang dân
bawhchhiatna chungchâng a
zirchianna hi lo en ta ila;
Za zêla 85 chu an nu leh pate zu in
an ni. Za zêla 75 chu an nu leh pa
thunun loh, Za zêla 60 chu inhauh
thinna chhûngkuaa mi. Za zêla 70
chu inenkawlna awm lohna
chhûngkuaa mi. Za zêla 80 te chuan
fate thian kawm ngaihtuah lo, Za
zêla 80 chu nuhrawn hrawn, Za zêla
60 chu pahrawn hrawn.
He zirchianna hi engemaw
chen chu dik tûrah ngai ila, naupang
thlaraununlehanrilruthanchhohna
te, khawtlânga mi tangkai an nihna
atân mai ni lovin, mi hnawksak an
nih lohna atânte nu leh pate’n mawh
kan phurh nasatzia he zirchianna
(research) atang hian kan hre thei
awm e.
Deuteronomy 6:4-9-ah chuan
Pathianin a mite hnênah a thute chu
an fate a remchân hun ang zêla
thahnemngai taka zirtîr a, an thut lai
te, an kal lai te, an mut laite leh an
thawh huntea hrilh thîn tûrin a hrilh
a. Hei hi Israel fate tân chauh a ni
lova, vawiina Kristian nu leh pa zawng
zawngte tân hian a ni. Kan tu leh fate
thinlungah Pathian thu tuh ngheh hi
sual laka vênhimna pawimawh tak a
ni tih kan hriat a tûl hle.
Naupangte tâna hun pêk tam:
Nu leh paten an fate tâna an tihsak
theih hluber chu, hun pêk a ni. Mi
thenkhat chuan hei hi kan hre lova,
kan fate kan kawm tlêma, chutihrual
chuankanfatenkawngdangahhlimna
an zawng a, kâr lovah kan fate nun
kan hloh mai thîn a ni. Kan fate tân a
tam thei ang ber hun kan pêk a, an tui
zâwng tuipui thiam leh an ngaihhlut
zâwngte hriat thiampuia kan phurpui
hian kan lamah kan pawt hnai sawt
sawt a ni. Mi thenkhat chuan an fate
thil man to tak tak an lei sak a, an
fate mamawh ber hmangaihna leh
hun tam tâwk an pêk loh avângin an
fate nun an hloh thîn. Pawisain a lei
theih loh khawp thil hlu leh tha, kan
fatekanpêktheihawmchhunchukan
hun a ni tih hi kan hriat thar a va han
tûl êm! John Wesley-a nu Susanna-i
chuan fa sâwm (10) lai a nei a, a fate
KOHHRAN PROGRAMME
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SCHOOL KAI DAN
Zirtu:
HMING ZIAK - KAI
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Senior A 87 - 59
Intermediate 96 - 85
Baptisma 24 - 22
Junior 43 - 41
Primary 43 - 39
Beginner 37 - 31
Nursery 23 - 17
Zirtirtu & Puipate
67 - 59
G. TOTAL 865 - 684
Kai Percent - 79.08 %
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TAWNGTAI INKHAWM PROG.
Phek hma Chhunzawmna
kawm nân chuan ni tin dârkâr khat
(1) hun a pe thîn a, fa Pathian tih mi
tam tak a lo nei ta a ni. Nu leh pa
thenkhat chu an fate bulah an awm
tlêmin ngaihsak nachâng an hre
lova, sualin an thinlungah bu a khuar
thuai thîn.
Sum lâkluh dân thianghlim:
Kan fate hi nungchang mawi leh
Pathian tihna nêna thanglian tûra
kan duh chuan nu leh paten thil
thianglim lo kan inchhûngah seng
luh loh a pawimawh. Hlêprûk sum
lehthildiklohmangachhûngkawdin
hian naupang nun a tichhe thîn.
Pathian thu chuan tihian min hrilh
“Mi, kut tling lova lo hausa chu
Varung, mahni tui ni lote awp keu
ang a ni a, A la dam laiin amah an
hransan ang a, a tâwpah chuan mi
â a lo ni mai ang” (Jeremia 17:11)
tiin.Sumbawlhhlawhlehthianghlim
lo hian chhûngkua a tingêt a,
naupangte nun a tichhe vek thei a
ni. Chuvângin nu leh paten kan sum
lâk luh dânah Lalpa ngaiha
thianghlim kan ûm a pawimawh a
ni.
Fak, zilh leh kaihhruai: Rilru
lam zir mi (psychologists) Eric Bern-
achuanmihringhi“Hauhnaaichuan
fakna hian min siam tha zâwk a ni,
entîrnân naupang kan enkawlna chu
za (100) ni ta sela, hauhna leh zilhna
chu 20 a ni tur a ni a; fakna chu 80 a
ni tur a ni” a ti. Hei hi naupangah
chauh ni lovin puitlingah pawh hian
a dik hle a ni. Sawisêl fo hian
nungchang a siam tha lova, fakna
leh fuih phurna hi naupangah chuan
a tam thei ang ber hman a tha a ni.
Tin thununna lâwng lâwng hi
Pathian thu a tel loh chuan a
hlawhtling lo fo thîn. (Ephesi 6:4)
Naupang chu khaptu awm lohna
hmuna zalên taka a awm hunah
kawng dik lo zawhna remchâng a
siam tam zâwk thei a ni. Nu leh pa
awmlohpawhakawngdikzawhthei
tura an naupan lai atanga Pathian
thu leh hmangaihna nêna buatsaih
hi nu leh pate mawhphurh a ni. ***
Siloam a Sermon chhuah tur neite
tan Editor hnenah thawn theih reng
a ni e, ziak tur pawhin kan insawm
e.
Junior TKP Pual:
KAN KOHHRAN INRELBAWL
DÂN TLANGPUI:
Kan Kohhran inrelbawl dân leh
kanhriatâwmthilpawimawhtawiteinhan
tarlang ila. Hriat kim vek theih ni lo mah
se a tlangpui chu hriat tum ta ila, heta kan
ziak lan bak pawh hriat tur pawimawh a
la awm nual awm e. Baptist Kohhran
thupui ber chu “Chanchin tha mi tin tan”
tih a ni. Kan Kohhran din Ni hi January
11, 1894 a ni. Biak In hming leh Kohhran
hmingziakdanbikkanneia,hetianghian;
BCM Biak In, Kikawn. Kohhran hming
ziak dan chu BCM Kikawn, Lunglei
(Kikawn BCM/ Kikawn Baptist
Kohhran ti emaw a ziah loh tur tihna a
nih chu). Constitution Bu kan nei a, Bung
25 lai a awm a ni. Kohhran member-te tih
tur kan Constitution-in a sawi thenkhatte
lo tarlang ta ila; Kohhranah a rinawm tur
ani.Kohhranmember-inKohhraninvawn
dân a zawm ngêi tur a ni. Pathian ram
thilpekSawmaPakhatapengêiturabeisei
a ni. Pathian nena inpawlna, Pathian
lehkhabuchhiarlehtawngtaianeitlattura
beisei a ni. Kohhran inkhawmte a ngai
pawimawhinmemberpuitlingtechuLalpa
Zanriah Sacrament inkhawmah chuan a
tel ngêi thin tur a ni. Lal Isua hnenah
midangehruaiatumtlatturani.Kohhran
member chu nun dan leh tawngkamah a
fimkhur tur a ni.
TualchhungKohhranrorelna,Bial
Rorelna,AreaBaptistCouncilRorelnaleh
Assemby te hi kan Kohhran rorelna kan
neih te a ni a, Assembly hi rorelna sang
ber a ni a, kum tin March Pathiani Vawi
hnihna hmanga neih thin a ni, ABC
InkhawmpuihiNovemberPathiannivawi
hnuhnungberhmanganeihthinania,Bial
Inkhawmpui hi October Pathianni vawi
hnihnahmanganeihthinani.Tualchhung
Kohhranahhianhengtehiaawmturani:-
Sunday School, BKHP,TKP, BMP, KNP,
MissionCommittee,WorshipCommittee,
Relief & Development Committee. Heng
bakah Committee peng dang chu
Tualchhung Kohhran Committee
remtihnain din belh theih a ni bawk.
BCMStatisticalHandbook 2021-
2022, BCM Assembly report in a tarlan
danintunahhianTualchhungKohhran637
kan awm mek a, Baptist Kohhran mem-
ber zat hi 1,73,952 kan ni. Pastor Bial 91,
ABC15aawmmek.MissionField&Sta-
tion 25kanneimeka,missioanry685
kan nei mek bawk (heng data hi tunah
chuan a danglam hlek mai thei bawk).
Tuna kan BCM President chu
Rev. Dr. R. Zolawma a ni a, President
Elect chu Rev. KV. Thanga a ni. General
Secretary chu Rev. R. Lalbiakliana a ni a,
AGS Mission chu Rev. Dr. R.
Lalthanmawia a ni a, AGS Service chu
Rev. R. Lalnunzira a ni. BCM hian kan
rawngbawlnahihlawmlianpuipuiSector
pathumah a then a. chungte chu Central,
Service, Mission tih te a ni.
CENTRAL:CentralCommitteehiAssem-
bly Committee tih a ni bawk. Hei hi kan
Kohhraninrelbawlnalianberania.Hemi
cont/-... 
hnuaiahhianDepartmenthranghranga
awm a, chungte chu; Finance & Pen-
sion Department(thawktu enkawlna
lam), Pastoral Department (hetah hian
Pastoral Committee bakah Kohhran
UpaExaminationBoardlehRevivaland
Evangelism Committee a la enkawl tel
a ni), Fellowship Department (KNP,
TKP, BKHP, BMP), Worship
Deparmtent, Christian Education De-
partment(SundaySchool).
SERVICE: Hemi hnuaih hian heng De-
partment hranghrangtehianawm;Bap-
tistLiteratureandPrintingDepartment,
Communications Department, Educa-
tion Department(Zirna School), Medi-
cal & Health Department( Christian
HospitalsSerkawnlehLawngtlai,Nurs-
inglehHnuchham-BaptistChurchOr-
phanage a enkawl), Relief and Devel-
opment Department.
MISSION:MissionDepartmenthnuaiah
hian Home Mission leh Outreach Mis-
sion ti a then a ni a, a kalphung tlagpui
chu kan hre tho awm e.
BCM hian Official YouTube
Channelkanneia,chuchu‘Khawnvar’
tih a ni. Kohhran chanchinbu kan neih
hranghrangtechhiaruarthinila,thildang
pawimawh te pawh la rawn tarlan zel
kan tum dawn nia. - Editor