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10 Reasons Why Men and Women Avoid Emotional Intimacy.docx
1. 10 Reasons Why Men and Women Avoid
Emotional Intimacy
In This Article
Dysfunctional family
Fugitive
Low-down
Mental problems
Inadequate social skills
Personality
Rejection
Shy
Substance abuse
Trust issues
2. There are many reasons why people can be afraid of emotional intimacy. There have
been reports that people have been married many years before they found out about
their spouse’s identities or families that they never knew about.
Later in hindsight, it was reflected that the spouse seemed to have avoided deep
emotional intimacy in the marriage or relationship.
In this article, we will explore a few of the observed reasons why men and women
prefer avoiding emotional intimacy in marriage.
1. Dysfunctional family
Let’s face it, and we are a product of our environment. If you come from an unloving
home, there are some psychological blocks to intimacy.
Men and women both can be victims of dysfunctional families. They never saw
models of healthy expressions of love. Therefore, they may possess a fear of
emotional intimacy, and in turn, avoid emotional closeness on levels they are not
comfortable with.
But, avoiding intimacy is not the solution to this problem. Also, you must not try to do
it alone.
If there are years of abuse to uncover, don’t be afraid of seeking professional help.
2. Fugitive
Believe it, or not many people were found to be married when a policeman showed up
on the door, looking for the missing spouses of twenty years.
3. These fugitive men or women do not want to get close to anyone because they never
know when they will have to catch the next flight out of town!
They could also be bigamists – married to more than one person at the same time.
3. Low-down
These types of men and women perhaps have done something that their guilty
conscience does not allow them to relate well to others emotionally. They avoid
emotional intimacy because they fear trusting people and spurt out the hidden secrets.
The apprehension of divulging the hidden secrets makes these people keep a certain
amount of distance with their spouses. Such a husband or wife avoids emotional
intimacy because their current spouse may be their next victim or meal ticket.
Sometimes, women or men who avoid intimacy might not be even criminals but could
be only keeping a low-down because they feel that their past could hurt their spouse.
These people do not hide anything intentionally but fear that they might lose their
partner if they get to know about their dark past.
4. 4. Mental problems
Certain mental health issues are leading to a wife or husband, avoiding intimacy with
their spouse.
There are certain developmental issues that can begin in childhood and continue
right until adulthood. Such problems can arise because of some developmental flaws
or even traumatic experiences, such as a car accident.
So, if you observe any abnormal fear of intimacy in men or women, seek professional
help immediately.
5. Inadequate social skills
At times you see men who avoid women or even the women who atypically avoid
men. They tend to behave awkwardly, which is different from the normal.
5. These men and women are just not good at expressing themselves. They are
the typical introverts who prefer to stay in their shell and avoid socializing with
people.
Some people belonging to this kind might even feel that since they came from a
particular social class, they did not learn the skills needed to relate well with others.
To hide these inadequacies, they avoid deep emotional intimacies.
6. Personality
Believe it or not, some men and women with demure personalities are just
comfortable at having a certain amount of distance emotionally with others.
Remmber, connecting emotionally depends on the acceptance of both parties.
Each relationship degree of emotional intimacy is decided upon by the bride and
groom. That is the reason why people should find a match emotionally and
physically.
7. Rejection
Many men and women have had at least one bad relationship experience in the
past.
They may have been robbed, betrayed, or physically hurt as a result of trusting and
connecting emotionally with another person.
It is even possible that they might have been emotionally involved in their previous
relationship and faced a hurtful rejection. This is also one of the possible reasons for
people to distance themselves from everyone around them emotionally.
6. 8. Shy
This spouse may just be shy. They do connect emotionally but appear to not connect
to their partners on a profoundly emotional, intimate level.
Their spouses need to learn to read the shy spouse’s body language and facial
expressions to understand they are connecting and not rely on conversation. They
may express themselves well but find it a little embarrassing to talk on deep
emotional, intimate levels.
9. Substance abuse
Mind-altering substances can keep men and women from connecting with emotional
intimacy in relationships. The sensors that let them feel emotional are blocked.
Therefore, they miss those emotional intimacy moments to touch or flirt with their
spouses. They may also think the relationship is good because they are high.
7. The truth or reality of the situation could be the opposite of what they think.
10. Trust issues
Many men and women have been victims of investment fraud schemes orchestrated
by a friend or ex-spouse. These experiences create trust issues in connecting
emotionally with a spouse on a high degree of emotionally intimate levels.
Or, the trust issues could be a past failed relationship in which they must have put
their heart and soul, but their ex-partner could have cheated on them with someone
else.
As it’s commonly said- once bitten, twice shy!
Such people tend to have trust issues and would always prefer to stay guarded by
avoiding emotional intimacy with their present partner.
Watch this video to learn about the psychology of trust:
In conclusion, there are many reasons why men and women can be afraid of
emotional intimacy: personalities, trust, low down character, substance abuse,
rejection, inadequate social skills, etc.
Sometimes, there isn’t any reason a person is not connecting emotionally with others,
other than they just don’t’ want to. The feelings are just gone, and the person might
not be even aware, when, how, and why.
There are many reasons why people can be afraid of emotional intimacy. There have
been reports that people have been married many years before they found out about
their spouse’s identities or families that they never knew about.
8. Later in hindsight, it was reflected that the spouse seemed to have avoided deep
emotional intimacy in the marriage or relationship.
In this article, we will explore a few of the observed reasons why men and women
prefer avoiding emotional intimacy in marriage.
1. Dysfunctional family
Let’s face it, and we are a product of our environment. If you come from an unloving
home, there are some psychological blocks to intimacy.
Men and women both can be victims of dysfunctional families. They never saw
models of healthy expressions of love. Therefore, they may possess a fear of
emotional intimacy, and in turn, avoid emotional closeness on levels they are not
comfortable with.
But, avoiding intimacy is not the solution to this problem. Also, you must not try to do
it alone.
If there are years of abuse to uncover, don’t be afraid of seeking professional help.
2. Fugitive
Believe it, or not many people were found to be married when a policeman showed up
on the door, looking for the missing spouses of twenty years.
These fugitive men or women do not want to get close to anyone because they never
know when they will have to catch the next flight out of town!
They could also be bigamists – married to more than one person at the same time.
9. 3. Low-down
These types of men and women perhaps have done something that their guilty
conscience does not allow them to relate well to others emotionally. They avoid
emotional intimacy because they fear trusting people and spurt out the hidden secrets.
The apprehension of divulging the hidden secrets makes these people keep a certain
amount of distance with their spouses. Such a husband or wife avoids emotional
intimacy because their current spouse may be their next victim or meal ticket.
Sometimes, women or men who avoid intimacy might not be even criminals but could
be only keeping a low-down because they feel that their past could hurt their spouse.
These people do not hide anything intentionally but fear that they might lose their
partner if they get to know about their dark past.
4. Mental problems
10. Certain mental health issues are leading to a wife or husband, avoiding intimacy with
their spouse.
There are certain developmental issues that can begin in childhood and continue
right until adulthood. Such problems can arise because of some developmental flaws
or even traumatic experiences, such as a car accident.
So, if you observe any abnormal fear of intimacy in men or women, seek professional
help immediately.
5. Inadequate social skills
At times you see men who avoid women or even the women who atypically avoid
men. They tend to behave awkwardly, which is different from the normal.
These men and women are just not good at expressing themselves. They are
the typical introverts who prefer to stay in their shell and avoid socializing with
people.
Some people belonging to this kind might even feel that since they came from a
particular social class, they did not learn the skills needed to relate well with others.
To hide these inadequacies, they avoid deep emotional intimacies.
6. Personality
Believe it or not, some men and women with demure personalities are just
comfortable at having a certain amount of distance emotionally with others.
Remember, connecting emotionally depends on the acceptance of both parties.
11. Each relationship degree of emotional intimacy is decided upon by the bride and
groom. That is the reason why people should find a match emotionally and
physically.
7. Rejection
Many men and women have had at least one bad relationship experience in the
past.
They may have been robbed, betrayed, or physically hurt as a result of trusting and
connecting emotionally with another person.
It is even possible that they might have been emotionally involved in their previous
relationship and faced a hurtful rejection. This is also one of the possible reasons for
people to distance themselves from everyone around them emotionally.
8. Shy
This spouse may just be shy. They do connect emotionally but appear to not connect
to their partners on a profoundly emotional, intimate level.
Their spouses need to learn to read the shy spouse’s body language and facial
expressions to understand they are connecting and not rely on conversation. They
may express themselves well but find it a little embarrassing to talk on deep
emotional, intimate levels.
12. 9. Substance abuse
Mind-altering substances can keep men and women from connecting with emotional
intimacy in relationships. The sensors that let them feel emotional are blocked.
Therefore, they miss those emotional intimacy moments to touch or flirt with their
spouses. They may also think the relationship is good because they are high.
The truth or reality of the situation could be the opposite of what they think.
10. Trust issues
Many men and women have been victims of investment fraud schemes orchestrated
by a friend or ex-spouse. These experiences create trust issues in connecting
emotionally with a spouse on a high degree of emotionally intimate levels.
13. Or, the trust issues could be a past failed relationship in which they must have put
their heart and soul, but their ex-partner could have cheated on them with someone
else.
As it’s commonly said- once bitten, twice shy!
Such people tend to have trust issues and would always prefer to stay guarded by
avoiding emotional intimacy with their present partner.
Watch this video to learn about the psychology of trust:
In conclusion, there are many reasons why men and women can be afraid of
emotional intimacy: personalities, trust, low down character, substance abuse,
rejection, inadequate social skills, etc.
Sometimes, there isn’t any reason a person is not connecting emotionally with others,
other than they just don’t’ want to. The feelings are just gone, and the person might
not be even aware, when, how, and why.