How to create your own lifestyle without others influences.

1. Self-Esteem and Empowerment
2 reasons why you have a difficult
time creating your own lifestyle

2. Introduction
Have you ever stop yourself from living your
own life because you are afraid of what other
people might think of you?
Do you sometimes have difficulty trusting
yourself and go with your instinct?
If you answered yes to any of the questions, then
there are two main reasons why.

3. Follow the crowd
First, you believe that your decision has to match with
other people in order for you to think that your decision
is correct.
You believe that if no one agrees with you, then it is
wrong or not the best thing for you to do.
For example, many people believe that the correct thing
to do in life is to grow up, get married and develop a
family.

4. Set your own time frame
Even though at some point you might not want to get married or
develop a family, you are still likely to get married and develop a
family because you believe that it is what you are suppose to do
because that is what everyone else is doing.
Also, you believe that if you do not get married at a certain age,
then there is something wrong with you.
Even though getting marry might be the right thing for you, it
does not mean you have to get married at the same age range as
everyone else.
You have to remember that each person is ready for things at
different times.

5. Learn to control your human needs
The second reason is because you cannot control your two
human being needs.
First, you have the human need to feel belonged and
accepted by other people.
Acceptance usually begins through similarities.
If you have a different life than other people, then they will
not accept you.
The second human need is to live a meaningful life.
To live a meaningful life, you have to live your own life that
matches your own beliefs and values.

6. Keep your human needs in balance
When you try to develop your own life, you tend to suffer a
little bit because your human need to be accepted is not
being meant.
And then, that suffering might influence you to stop on
creating your own life and try to blend in with everyone else
in order to be accepted.
When you start to blend in with everyone else, you will also
suffer because you are not meeting your human need to
develop a meaningful life for yourself.
As a result, you are fighting with yourself between your two
human needs.

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