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POWER OF Human
Necessity
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© Cоруrіght 2022 - All rіghtѕ rеѕеrvеd.
Thе соntеnt соntаіnеd wіthіn thіѕ bооk mау nоt bе rерrоduсеd,
duрlісаtеd, оr trаnѕmіttеd wіthоut dіrесt wrіttеn реrmіѕѕіоn frоm thе
аuthоr оr thе рublіѕhеr. Undеr nо сіrсumѕtаnсеѕ wіll аnу blаmе оr
lеgаl rеѕроnѕіbіlіtу bе hеld аgаіnѕt thе рublіѕhеr, оr аuthоr, fоr аnу
dаmаgеѕ, rераrаtіоn, оr mоnеtаrу lоѕѕ duе tо thе іnfоrmаtіоn
соntаіnеd wіthіn thіѕ bооk. Eіthеr dіrесtlу оr іndіrесtlу.
Lеgаl Nоtісе:
Thіѕ bооk іѕ соруrіght рrоtесtеd. Thіѕ bооk іѕ оnlу fоr реrѕоnаl uѕе.
Yоu саnnоt аmеnd, dіѕtrіbutе, ѕеll, uѕе, ԛuоtе, оr раrарhrаѕе аnу раrt
оf thе соntеnt wіthіn thіѕ bооk wіthоut thе аuthоr оr рublіѕhеr'ѕ
соnѕеnt.
Dіѕсlаіmеr Nоtісе:
Plеаѕе nоtе thе іnfоrmаtіоn соntаіnеd wіthіn thіѕ dосumеnt іѕ fоr
еduсаtіоnаl аnd еntеrtаіnmеnt рurроѕеѕ оnlу. All еffоrt hаѕ bееn
еxесutеd tо рrеѕеnt ассurаtе, uр- tо-dаtе, аnd rеlіаblе, соmрlеtе
іnfоrmаtіоn. Nо wаrrаntіеѕ оf аnу kіnd аrе dесlаrеd оr іmрlіеd.
Rеаdеrѕ асknоwlеdgе thаt thе аuthоr іѕ nоt еngаgіng іn thе rеndеrіng
оf lеgаl, fіnаnсіаl, mеdісаl, оr рrоfеѕѕіоnаl аdvісе. Thе соntеnt wіthіn
thіѕ bооk hаѕ bееn dеrіvеd frоm vаrіоuѕ ѕоurсеѕ. Plеаѕе соnѕult a
lісеnѕеd рrоfеѕѕіоnаl bеfоrе аttеmрtіng аnу tесhnіԛuеѕ оutlіnеd іn
thіѕ bооk. Bу rеаdіng thіѕ dосumеnt, thе rеаdеr аgrееѕ thаt undеr nо
сіrсumѕtаnсеѕ іѕ thе аuthоr rеѕроnѕіblе fоr аnу lоѕѕеѕ, dіrесt оr
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іndіrесt, whісh аrе іnсurrеd аѕ a rеѕult оf thе uѕе оf thе іnfоrmаtіоn
соntаіnеd wіthіn thіѕ dосumеnt, іnсludіng, but nоt lіmіtеd tо, —
еrrоrѕ, оmіѕѕіоnѕ, оr іnассurасіеѕ.
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PREFACE
When problems seem uncontrollable, quitting may look like the
easiest way out. A word of encouragement on failure is worth more
than an hour of praise after success. Everyone has a cross to carry.
Life doesn't always offer a soft landing for everyone. At some point,
some begin to believe that their cross may be heavier than others, but
the truth is that our cross will shape us towards greatness. Our ability
to achieve the conquest of our cross will likely discern our success in
life. One of the best ways to heal wounds is to learn from the situation
and use them to focus on growth and momentum. If we get stuck
thinking about what “should have been,” we can freeze in painful
feelings and memories. Forgiveness is essentially a positive way of
acknowledging and letting go of negative thoughts and feelings. It is
a skill. Something that you improve over time. And you will get more
and more benefits from doing so. Your personality improves to make
it easier to be around you, but ultimately, you become happier as you
become less and less bothered by other people's setbacks along the
way.
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
THE RICH MAN------------------------------------------------------------7
FOOD AS A BASIC NECESSITY------------------------------------9
CLEANING AS A BASIC NECESSITY -------------------------- 18
SEX IS A BASIC NECESSITY ------------------------------------- 26
MAN UNDER CONSTRUCTION------------------------------------- 34
THE BROKE MAN------------------------------------------------------- 57
THE GOOD LOOKING WOMAN ------------------------------------ 80
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CHAPTER 1
THE RICH MAN
Long for what you want. When a man desires something so deeply
that he is willing to risk his entire future on a spin of the wheel to get
it, he is sure to win. One of the main weaknesses of humanity is the
familiarity of the average man with the word "impossible." He knows
all the rules that will not work. He knows all the things that he cannot
do. Before a man can accumulate wealth in great abundance, he must
magnetize minds with an intense desire for wealth, which must
become "aware of money until the craving for money leads us to
create specific plans to acquire it. Men are very beings. They are built
with special peculiarities. There is a lot to do with being a man. The
mood, the attitude, the psychological accumulation, everything
accumulates to form a logical being called a man.
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One of the most common causes of failure is quitting when he is
overwhelmed by temporary defeat. Everyone is guilty of this mistake
at one time or another. Success often comes one step beyond the point
where defeat catches up with us. Chess is a trickster with a keen sense
of irony and cunning. He loves to stumble upon them when success is
almost at hand.
Unlike the life of women, the life of men is much defined. Men's lives
are very predictable when things go as planned or achieved. Men want
three basic needs. These needs are food, cleanliness, and sex. This
does not mean that men do not want other things. Of course, there are
so many other things that are necessary for the good practice of life
that a man can wish for; for example, every man should live a life in
which he is free from financial constraints, but the truth is that
everything that he-man wants you—being able to break his financial
limits throughout his life cycle. He shows that being very rich and
breaking economic boundaries may be necessary, but it is not a
fundamental necessity. Love is one of the most important parts of life.
Some people say that love is everything. When we talk about love
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here, we are talking about love between a man and a woman. If love
is everything, what about those who have lived without love? So many
men had lived much of their lives without being in love with a woman.
So love is not a basic need either.
Any man who has reached the age of understanding the purpose of
money wants it. Desiring will not bring wealth. But wishing for
wealth with a mindset that becomes an obsession, planning specific
ways and means of acquiring wealth, and backing those plans with a
persistence that does not acknowledge failure, will bring wealth.
FOOD AS A BASIC NECESSITY
Legality cannot preach, and farmers cannot produce for themselves.
Lack of food production will affect society with lower standards of
life expectancy, high infant mortality rates, and lower quality of life
due to the lack of essential nutrients in the diet. In the middle Ages,
there were often famines and shortages that caused society to seek a
different food supply method. The authorities have created laws and
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mechanisms to ensure that farmers bring all their grain to the
warehouse, but farmers have always tried to keep some hidden to get
some sort of money in their homes. Failure to ensure a constant food
supply will not allow the economy to diversify, specialize and market
the surplus.
Food is the only source that gives us the energy to carry out any
activity in this world. Food plays a very important role in our life.
Without food, the human body cannot survive; this is the harsh truth
of life. Kill animals to eat; we do our best to stay. It's not just for men,
but women. Food is not only a basic human need; food is a basic need
for all living organisms. Plants need to eat food in nutrients to thrive
properly and survive. Green plants need nutrients from sunlight to
maintain their natural and produce good food for green plants to
thrive. But we base our discussion on the fact that food is a basic
necessity for a man's existence. People go to bed hungry every night;
the world needs a sustainable food system to feed everyone every day.
The quality of food is as important as the quantity, and better nutrition
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must become a priority for many people. Food not only defines our
identity but also shapes our physical, mental, social, and economic
existence. We need to understand that eating determines how the
world is used.
In primitive times, in the middle Ages, women had very little to do
with the environment. Women don't participate in the most important
things that shock society. A woman's life was limited. She just keeps
it at home and makes sure that her husband and children have food on
time. At that time, women were rarely active in politics. Women
married to powerful husbands presented themselves as advisers
probably within their bedroom walls, not where they could be seen
and accused of coercing their husbands so that their husbands were
not seen as incapable of making informed decisions about themselves.
At such times, women are best described as housewives. The man
goes to work and earns money to take care of himself and his family's
needs, including his wife's needs. Women rarely or never went out to
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make money. During those dark ages, women who wanted to cook
were seen primarily as bad wives. The implication was that the family
would starve because no one would cook if the woman didn't. The
men of that time were no better suited to home cooking.
Today's world has changed a lot. Women now participate fully in
nation-building. Women are now as active as men to earn money in
society. It seems that there is nothing a man can do in a community
today that a woman cannot do unless in some countries strict
restrictions are still applied to women. Gender equality seems to be
one of the most popular trends in all countries. Some countries have
been able to do this over the years. Some who have not yet reached
this goal are working to solve it.
The current changes with the massive participation of women in
different social activities have come with their problems. According
to an article credited to the Washington Post published on July 19,
2016, a higher proportion of American men, around 43%, cook these
days than at any time in the past 30 years. This meant that more men
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would continue to cook as the year progressed. In 2021, the number
was said to have grown much more than in 2016.
Food is the basic necessity necessary for every individual in society.
Without food, armies cannot fight.
There are so many factors that can be attributed to why more men
cook now than before, just as there are also so many reasons why more
men have become more interested in cooking than before. Among all
these reasons, one of them that we find very special in our discussion
is that women now rarely have all the time they need to cook. Unlike
in the past, when women were forced to stay home while the man
went to work and earned money to take care of the family, women
now do all of those things that men did before. Women now go out
and earn a lot of money. Some women even earn more than their
husbands. Women are not fully involved in politics; they participate
in making real decisions that affect the affairs of their country. They
get involved in real work and even become department heads and
heads of organizations. Women now have very large companies in
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their name and under their leadership. Much has changed from what
was the trend in the Middle Ages. With the change that has become
the trend, women rarely cook good food. Even those who do their best
to cook are not always available to cook. Food is a basic necessity for
man. The man cannot stay there; he waits for the woman, who is rarely
open to cooking the food. Most men have taken it upon themselves to
fill the void created by their wives' busy schedules. These men need
food. Their wives are too busy to cook for them. Food is a basic
necessity for them, so their lives would be very uncomfortable
without food. These men are now trying to adjust and start cooking.
In the past, there are so many households that have struggled with the
problem that the wife is not always available to prepare the food to
meet the basic needs of the husband. The husband decides to cook for
his basic needs to save the marriage. Humans are adapted to survive
whatever happens. The husband had to endure. He had to face his
basic need, cooking when the woman did not know how to cook
became a way of life.
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When a man comes home and is hungry, and there is no cooked food
to eat, it greatly affects the marriage. It begins by affecting the
communication process between husband and wife. People only
communicate well when they are not uncomfortable in any way. If the
man is hungry and needs food, he would not be better positioned to
talk about how he spent the day with his wife. Of course, he would
only have the strength to strike up a friendly conversation if he had
enough to eat. Women always have a lot to say to their men. Most of
the time, good communication between a man and his wife required
her to stay there and listen a lot to everything she had to say and to
make her contribution to everything she had said. But the man would
not be in the mood to listen if he had nothing to eat.
Another problem that can arise here can be a problem with sex. sex is
an energy-intensive activity that requires you to be full to some degree
before engaging in it, as you have to have eaten enough, but not too
much, to be able to have great sex. sex on a hungry stomach is very
boring. It's a very complicated thing that you would never want to get
involved in. It would end up depleting what little energy you had
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before sex and leaving you extremely wasted and extremely hungry.
You won't even enjoy the pleasure that comes with having sex if you
try to have sex when you are hungry. When a man married to a woman
always comes home without food at home, it somehow makes him
lose interest in sex. This kind of the fact that this marriage begins to
become asexual, and as we all know, sex has always been the reason
behind most of the problems that arise in different unions.
I have heard many people say that one of the ways to reach a man's
heart is his stomach. This means that for a woman to win the heart of
her man, she has to cook him a good meal.
There was one woman in particular whom he had known for years.
This woman was pretty. She had many good characteristics that would
make any man who surpassed her aspire to have her for him. She was
also a very lively woman. There was no way someone would stay
close to her without finding a reason to laugh. She had her ways of
making those who knew her smile. If you look at this woman for what
you see, you will probably conclude that she will never have problems
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at home without knowing her husband. Humans like to judge by what
we see; we forget to consider that people can fake things and still show
us in the face. I wouldn't say that this woman I'm talking about was
pretending; she was probably like that before she met her husband.
The problem I discovered about this woman was that she rarely
cooked even though she knew that her husband still liked to eat her
food. She was the type of man who never wanted to go out to eat.
Being unfit to eat at a restaurant and having a wife who didn't like to
cook all the time, he had to start cooking when his wife wasn't
cooking. There were times when she did it happily without complaint.
There were times when he would get angry and refuse to boil. When
he refused to cook, everyone in the house, and even the children who
started arriving later, had to starve. Sometimes that was a big problem
for them because he stole some of the best moments they should have
shared as a couple. Most worryingly, the children also had to suffer.
The fact that women still have reasons not to cook for their men may
not be inevitable, but the food is one of the most basic needs a man
needs should not be overlooked.
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CLEANING AS A BASIC NECESSITY
Another basic human need that we will see is neatness or neatness.
Cleanliness is next to godliness. We have heard this phrase several
times. But are we following this? A lot of people don't know when we
should. However, some of us don't even respect the people who clean
up the garbage. There are many downsides to not keeping clean.
Everyone must follow the cleanliness. Let's find out more about it.
Cleanliness means no dirt, dust, stains, or bad odors. The cleaning
objectives are health, beauty, the absence of unpleasant odors, and the
prevention of the spread of dirt and pollutants on oneself and others.
Cleanliness means a lot to a man, more than words can express. Some
men are dirty, so men may have poor hygiene when taking care of
themselves and their surroundings. Most of these men who have poor
hygiene often look for a woman who has better hygiene than them
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because when they search for a woman to be with, they prefer a clean
woman even if they have problems themselves. 'Hygiene. Cleanliness
is naturally a basic need that a man is known to satisfy. It is everyone's
responsibility, and everyone must keep their environment clean and
hygienic. It also recalls good, positive thoughts that slow down the
onset of illnesses.
I know those married couples who have a big problem in their
marriage. This couple did not date for a long time before they got
married. The man met the lady on a business trip in another state. They
started a relationship that was otherwise a long-distance relationship.
They didn't stay the same, there were a lot of obstacles, but they found
a way to overcome them. Within five months of their relationship,
they concluded that they should marry. The distance became an issue;
they had to find a way out of their relationship. The wife had a job in
the state she lived in, so there should be something as serious as
marriage before she quit a job she loved so much that he left it. Had
helped pay her bills. Their wedding plans have started. It wasn't long
before they got married. The lady moved from the state she was living
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in into the state her husband was staying in to live together. Now, this
is where the real problem started. They started having issues that they
couldn't talk about much. The man who had always enjoyed having a
lot of sex began to decrease his wife's demand for sex. Even when she
gestures to get him in the mood, he has difficulty getting in the air.
Most of the sex he had with his wife was more of a compulsory
meeting than a pleasant one. At one point, he started cheating on his
wife. The marriage suffered many setbacks.
The marriage problem was that the woman he was married to had
cleanliness issues. She had a hard time cleaning up her surroundings,
and she also had difficulty cleaning herself up. These are two big
problems that we would have. The man had to live in a dirty house;
he also lived with an unclean woman. At first, when they got married,
he didn't always agree that the house always looked bad because his
wife didn't clean. Then I did a little cleaning. His wife rarely cleaned
the house. He had to do this every once in a while to avoid getting in
trouble with his wife because she wasn't cleaning the house. At one
point, he got tired because he first thought he was doing it to help his
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wife with the housework; at first, he believed his wife might sit down
and make sure let things start to turn out the way they should, but he
found something that was coming out. The act of cleaning the house
became his responsibility. His wife left him completely. She did a bit
of cleaning before now and then, although it still wasn't enough, but
when she noticed her husband was still cleaning when she wasn't, she
gave up completely and stopped cleaning. The House. Hygiene and
cleanliness play an important role in our daily routine. It is important
because it prevents dangerous diseases like dengue fever, typhoid
fever, hepatitis, and other illnesses caused by mosquito bites.
A big problem with some women who make their husbands avoid
helping them with housework is that they find a way to make their
husband's chores help them with their husband's responsibility. Take,
for example, that the husband always helped his wife cook. Whenever
she was not in the mood to cook or was not home on time, he would
go to the kitchen and start cooking; some women find a way to abuse
this. In a way, they always put the man in a situation where he should
be cooking most of the house. While this is not common in all women,
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it is a trend among some women. These attitudes lead some men to
define roles and stick to them. The marriage should not be such that
the couple has to stick to one particular position all the time. Yes,
some parts are intended for a husband. Some roles are meant for a
wife, but either one can come and help the other from time to time.
Marriage does not work well too rigidly. If you are the type who
always gives up your role just because your partner helps you from
time to time, chances are you will lose that privilege of your partner.
Your partner will develop a thick skin to help you in your roles.
Let's go back to the story of the woman we were talking about, whom
her husband must have cheated on because he didn't take housework
seriously. Whenever her husband slept with her, he didn't like that she
didn't look clean. Her inability to take cleanliness seriously, especially
within her own body, always turns out to be a great disgust for her
husband. Some men do not like to have sex with dirty women. When
a woman is clean, the man does his best in the bedroom. He doesn't
stop; he explores her body and gives her the best orgasm of her life.
Some women can never reach orgasm through ordinary thrusting, as
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they can never achieve orgasm if the sex involves normal missionary
sex. Most of these women would need some foreplay to bring them to
climax. Foreplay is never complete without oral sex. Oral sex is one
of the most effective ways to get a woman to orgasm. Oral sex is like
an easy route to bring a woman to orgasm. For a man to perform oral
sex on a woman, she must at least be clean. No man would want to
put his mouth on a woman who doesn't take cleanliness seriously. It
is also unhealthy to perform oral sex on a woman who does not take
her hygiene seriously. Now, these women will complain that their
man cannot convince them in bed that their man is selfish, but they
never knew that they were the cause of all their problems. They never
knew that they were the reason their sex life was falling apart.
I can never justify cheating, but according to the story we told earlier,
this man cheated on his wife because she was not clean. He needed
something from his wife; he couldn't get it. Not that what he needed
was a big deal, but his wife didn't take it seriously, so she had to start
looking elsewhere. Of course, he had been starved for sex. Her wife
may always be willing to give him sex, but somehow he can't just
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sleep with her. He would always lose his temper and beat her every
time he wanted to sleep with her; he kept starving until he got tired of
dying and started cheating.
The cleanliness problem can be easily solved if the woman has the
time to commit, but commitment is not the first thing to consider here.
There should be good communication before you consider
compromise as a factor here. There is a big difference between
communication and good communication. Some people
communicate, but they don't communicate well. Some women don't
like to be corrected when they are wrong. Women like this will be
worse at good communication. Once the man tries to talk to them
about something they think they should work on, these women find it
offensive and hit the man with all their strength and anger. When a
woman continues to do this over and over, the husband or boyfriend
will likely start to avoid talking to her about how to fix the things she's
not good at or the things she neglects that matter. When someone stops
complaining about something you don't do well, it doesn't always
mean they've learned to understand you. Sometimes it can mean that
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the person is tired of putting up with you. You could end up losing
that relationship. If the woman can enable good communication, we
can start talking about compromise. Change is the only constant in
life. Nobody is perfect. They all have that part of them that is not quite
perfect; some people would like to see their fault there. Relationships
are meant to make us better. For a relationship rooted in love to make
you a better person, you have to be open to embracing change; you
have to be available to making positive commitments. When you
compromise, especially in things that are not good for your
relationship, it helps you a lot to mend yourself and become a better
person; it also helps build your relationship and make it stronger than
you. If a woman who has toilet problems can compromise and resolve
this problem, one of her man's basic needs will be met, her
relationship will be strengthened, and her man will be one of her most
loyal.
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SEX IS A BASIC NECESSITY
Sex is one of the basic needs that should never be overlooked. In fact,
among all basic human needs, sex is the most crucial. Sex is very
important to a man's mental, social and psychological well-being. A
man with good enough sex is far better in terms of productivity than
a man who is starved for sex. A man who is tired of good sex is much
happier than a man who lives in a life in which he is hungry for sex.
When it comes to the existence of a man, sex is a fundamental
necessity indispensable for the well-being of a man.
90% of the time, when a man wants to feel deeply connected to
someone, that has to involve some form of sexual liberation. For men,
physical intimacy equates to sex, plain and simple. It's hard to
understand, especially for women, but it's part of becoming a man. As
we get older, we are less hugged or hugged by parents and family. We
were less "affected" by what we wanted to play less. We were less
affected by what we wanted to be "affected" less and less. Most
women love sex, but they don't need it like the air they breathe.
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However, women need to touch, caress, hug, hug, look lovingly and
hug. They like it in the right circumstances, but they don't NEED it!
Women cannot go months without physical intimacy. It's just that they
don't need the same physical privacy as men. Human beings of both
sexes have great variability in their impulses. Some women want
more sex than most men, while some men wish for less sex. You
cannot make assumptions about people based on a generalized pattern
of sexual desire that may or may not exist. Men do not have this
problem and may find casual sex more attractive than most women.
According to an article credited to Unheard, the article was published
on March 24, 2019. It was written by Tom Chivers, one of the editors
of Unheard Science. This article discussed a 2001 meta-analysis by
Roy Baumeister, Kethleen Catanese, and Kathleen Vohs. When the
results of this analysis were combined with 150 other previous
studies, men were found to have more frequent sexual thoughts,
fantasies, and arousal than women. One of the studies said that almost
all the men used for the scan, about 91% experienced sexual desire
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several times a week or even more. Women made up only about 52%
of their male counterparts. It was also found that men want to have
more sex throughout the life of a relationship. One of the studies found
that wives consistently reported that they were quite satisfied with the
amount of sex they had had in their marriage, but men, on average,
wanted a raise of around 50%. Another study found that most
husbands, about 60%, but only a minority of wives, about 32%,
agreed that they would prefer to have sex more often. One study found
that men initiate sex with their partners about two to three times more
often and reject them less often than their female partners. According
to the analysis, gay men have sex more often than lesbians. Went
further
Specifically, they report that 47% of gay men reported having sex
more than once a week, compared to 32% of lesbians.
This study on the British National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and
Lifestyles. This study was labeled NATSAL. This study found that
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22% of UK women aged 16 to 74 had masturbated within four weeks.
This study was extended to British men, and it was found that 50% of
the men had masturbated within four weeks. This percentage
proportion was constant at all ages used in the results. According to
the study, women were about twice as likely to report a lack of sexual
interest, a lack of arousal during sex, or a lack of pleasure during sex.
Men were about 30% more likely than women (around 61% to 41%)
to want to have sex much more than they currently have.
We can see how craving men are for sex from the results we looked
at. The fact that sex is a man's most crucial basic need is not in
question. There are so many problems that a lack of sex in a
relationship or marriage can cause. Some men easily find fault with
everything their wives do. Like these men, they will always complain
no matter how hard their wives try to do things right and not make
them groan. Men like this find it hard to see anything good in their
wives' doing. Most of the men in such situations are men deprived of
sex. Lack of sex can make a man lose happiness. When a man is not
happy, he complains about everything around him.
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There is this common tendency among most wealthy families. We've
seen so many billionaires and other rich people get divorced because
of things we don't hear all the details of. They sometimes attribute it
to the husband cheating on the wife or finding someone else in whom
they have developed more interest than his wife. Divorce is very high
among wealthy couples. It's a bit surprising to some people because
when you see wealthy couples, you conclude that they have
everything that life has to offer like they have everything they need,
everything. They wanted, they had the money to buy it. So we assume
that life is better for them, but the truth is that there are big problems
that come with being rich. Rich men cheat more than broke men. They
got the money and could afford to surprise most pretty women, but
the problem didn't arise just because they got the money. These people
were probably rich before they met his wife. They were perhaps rich
when they married his wife. They were perhaps rich on their wedding
day, and they probably were when they were on their honeymoon. So,
the claim that they cheated because they are rich may not be entirely
true or may not always be. The real story lies between the three basic
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human needs: food, cleanliness, and sex. Most women married to
wealthy men had neglected these three basic needs of men. They
ignored these three needs, which had been crucial for the good
existence of the man they married. When they first married this man,
he was probably not as rich as now; they took these basic needs
seriously. His wives made sure they cooked enough for the husband,
cleaned sufficient, and gave him as much sex as possible. But over
time, these women got carried away. They focused on other things in
life and ignored these basic needs of their man. No matter how much
we try to ignore or avoid it, most men never forget their basic needs.
You might treat them well for other purposes, but they feel very
helpless once their basic needs aren't met. Some men who have been
deprived of their basic needs may not complain because the marriage
has lasted a long time and because depriving them of their basic needs
has lasted too long, it could become a norm for their wives, a standard
that husbands hate so much, but it may not be talked about. Things
will continue this way until it gets to a time that the man finds it
difficult to keep it in. At this time, we see explosions in different ways,
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and most of the time, these explosions affect the marriage so much
that they lead to divorce.
The main reason women do not have sex for longer periods is that
most women find it very difficult to be satisfied with regular sex.
Simply put, sex with your partner doesn't lead to orgasm most of the
time. It makes you want not to have it so often. This is still a lot of fun
and enjoyable even without an orgasm, but it doesn't seem all that
necessary.
Do you know what most women can't do for months? Masturbation.
Yes, most women masturbate. Many. Probably more than once a day
in some cases. This is how you can consistently achieve sexual
satisfaction. This means that a women's mythical "low libido" is just
a little appetite for a sweaty guy on her who has no idea what he is
doing or her adorable sexy honey bunny turning them on for a while.
These men who suffer denial of their basic needs are very patient.
They love his wife. They don't want them to get out of their life. They
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believe and hope that it can go back to before. Some men will even
go out of their way to complain about how they have been deprived
of their basic needs hoping that their wives will change. Most women
in situations like this hardly change. I'm not saying they don't change,
but they hardly change; maybe that's why it mainly leads to a path of
no return: divorce.
In short, the basic needs of every man are food, cleanliness, and sex.
If a woman can stick to giving a man as much as these three basic
needs, a man's love for her will only grow stronger and better. If, as a
woman, you have gone off the rails by giving your man these three
basic needs, she looks inside and fixes everything. No relationship is
perfect. We live learning; we learn by making changes positive
changes.
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CHAPTER 2
MAN UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Have you ever been to a place where a house has been built? Have
you been to a place where a home has been built from ground to roof
level? If so, you'll notice that it takes a lot of work to make a house
from ground floor to roof level. But before you start building a home,
the first thing that should come to your mind is the plan—how to make
it. Next, we talk about finances. You have to raise the necessary funds
to finance the construction project before you even start talking about
it. When we can extend the money, we start talking about the site
where the building will be erected. Finding a place where the building
would be constructed would be very difficult given the purpose of the
building. If the building is intended for businesses, it should be
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located where customers who wish to do business with the owners of
the company for which the building is designed can easily access it.
If the building is for the residence, it's a different game. It should be
located in places where no danger to human existence can be. For
example, a building intended for the residence cannot be found in a
forest that shelters wild animals. A structure intended for human life
should also not be located in places where industries should be
located. Placing buildings in areas designed for industries could be
detrimental to human health. Now, having touched on the issues with
the location of a building, we have started talking about the
construction. This is when we start talking about who to employ and
who not to employ in the construction of the building. Construction
of the building will normally start from the foundation and continue
until it reaches roof level. Each level of building construction has its
challenges. The person who owns the building would have prepared
in advance to overcome all of these challenges. Depending on who is
building, there may be challenges that threaten the continuation of the
building. The owner can even stop construction for a while to start
later. These are all processes. No matter how long it took, what
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matters is that the building has finally been constructed. Some people
can go bankrupt on the construction road. Some may decide to sell the
building under construction to finance themselves among those who
fail. Some may go out of their way to take out a loan to complete
construction; others will simply decide to stop until they can raise
funds to continue construction. Some mistakes could be made that
would destroy all the efforts and work put into the structure. Take, for
example, when the construction of the building has a faulty
foundation, it will most likely lead to the ruin of the building when
you least expect it. Such a building will not stand the test of time. At
a time like this, most of the world is struck by natural disasters that
have caused them much damage. People don't work tirelessly to build
buildings that can withstand the threat of natural disasters. Faced with
a natural disaster that threatens real estate constructions, imagine what
will happen to a building with weak foundations compared to solid
foundations. Buildings with weak foundations will collapse just as
quickly and easily as buildings with strong foundations. Even in the
condition of the roof of the building, you have to do a good job. A
poor roof will easily be blown away by the wind. An inferior wall will
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collapse and cannot even support the top of the building. So when the
construction is done correctly, the building becomes a solid building.
Now let's talk business. We can also compete with creating a company
as a construction process. To start a business, you need to get the idea,
probably long before the money to start the industry occurs to you.
That still does not mean that one cannot start thinking about a business
when the money is at hand. I am trying to establish that having a
business idea that is already waiting long before the money to start the
company is much more efficient and organized. So the idea stage is
the first stage. After the idea stage, perhaps the stage on how to raise
funds necessary to finance the business. Once the money is collected,
the next thing to do is plan. Planning is one of the most important
steps when considering business construction. Like building a house,
you have to plan. The program can precede the financing, or the
funding can forego the plan. Regardless of how you decide to go about
it, the bottom line is that there is a plan in place to make sure
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everything goes smoothly. If you don't have a plan, you may have set
your business up for an early wreck. Likely, the company does not
have a direction or a goal. During planning, one will decide the type
of business in which to participate. In economics, there is such a thing
as "what, where, who, how, and why." They are primarily addressed
during the planning phase. After planning, everything will go live.
This is where the plans to bring the company itself. There are a lot of
steps and things that should be done, but we're not talking about
business so that we wouldn't go into them.
The point made earlier is that construction is a process. One thing
about the process is that. The process involves fractions of ingredients
or, better yet, traces of factors or steps that had to be added to give
rise to the process itself. The process is that its fragments are ordered
to appear one after the other. Most of the time, the pieces are produced
in a dependent way on each other. This means that when one shard
goes bankrupt, it affects another bit greatly. It is like the case of a high
school student who decides to skip a math class because he believed
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that the subject being taught was difficult. This student chooses to join
the math class once the teacher has completed the course.
When the teacher is done with the topic, the student has decided to
come back. By this time, another subject had been introduced, perhaps
simpler than the previous one, from which the student was escaping.
Even if this new subject is simpler, it is very difficult for the student
to understand it. To understand this unique subject, it is necessary to
have taught the previous subject that the student had avoided in the
skipped period. Classes. This is exactly how the process works. You
have to follow all the fragments one after the other. You need to
ensure that you don't skip any of the snippets.
Most importantly, you need to make sure you get it right to conquer
each of the shards you are dealing with. When you can't handle just
one of the shards, there's a good chance you couldn't handle all of the
other shards involved in the process. A process is something that
probably takes a long time to accomplish. Anyone or anything going
through a function must be rich in patience; sometimes, there would
be a great need to develop the skill of endurance. This is because some
of the fragments involved in the process can seem very exhausting.
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Some of them might want to scare you. Some of these may make you
want to give it all up, but with patience and even resistance, you'll get
through the process.
A man under construction is a process. He has so many fragments that
he has to overcome. Like the building construction and business
construction we cited earlier, he has so many levels of caucuses that
he has to go through. He has bits and pieces that he probably has to
get through to complete his build. As we said before, a building with
a really bad foundation often has a lot going on. This building may
not stand the test of time. At the slightest pressure, the structure can
collapse. It is synonymous with building spirit. Most men in
construction struggle because of their very poor foundation. Before
we talk about the poor foundations that plague most men who go
through construction, let's take a look at what it means for a man to
go through construction.
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So who is a construction worker? What does it mean that a man is
under construction? A construction man is a man who is still
struggling to achieve his great goal in life. The great purpose of every
man is to get rich and be successful. Most men believe that when they
are rich, they are already successful. So a construction man is that man
who always works tirelessly to get rich. This man has many things
that he wants to get involved in or many things he was already
engaged in. He thinks that once he can conquer the things he has been
involved in, he could become rich. Those who have yet to get involved
in anything will work tirelessly to get involved in what they believe
will make them rich. The point here is that they have this goal that
they think will turn them into becoming rich. They put that goal ahead
and continue working towards achieving their goal. Every plan has its
challenges. Different purposes will most likely have other peculiar
difficulties to them. The weird problems to working Becoming an
actor are unlikely to be the same unusual challenge as a singer. They
can be very similar in hard work, but they are always different when
seen directly. A man under construction will have to master all these
challenges; he must be aware of all these challenges, he will have to
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program himself to overcome all these challenges already identified.
When you try to avoid these challenges, it becomes trying to cut
corners.
Some people may be successful in shortcuts, while others may never
be successful in shortcuts. The problem with taking shortcuts is that it
lays the foundation for future real failures. Most of the time, shortcut
successes always backfire in the future. The people involved most of
the time end up in a hard landing on the base. Thus, a man under
construction will have to face the challenges associated with
construction. You'll need to be patient, you'll need to build up your
stamina, and then you'll need to keep working. Working here means
that you will have to keep moving forward to get what you are
working towards. The fact that there are challenges is not a good
excuse to stop along the way. A man under construction must master
the act of continuous movement, no matter what challenges lie ahead
for the military against him. Then there is this problem that can arise
with any man under construction. There's a chance a construction
worker will fall. There is a chance that a man under construction will
fail at what he does.
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In most cases, the fall is part of the construction process. Or better yet,
failing in most cases is part of the build process. A strong man falls a
thousand times and keeps on ascending a thousand times. So the
problem does not fail; the problem loses and stays on the ground. So
when a construction worker falls, he has to get up, no matter what. If
you remain seated, you probably won't achieve the same goal you set
for yourself. Some people may remain seated or on the ground for a
long time after a fall. The longer you sit on the floor, the longer it
takes to achieve your goal. While it is always a question of getting up
in the event of a fall, refusing to get up as quickly as possible may
delay the complete construction. If left on the ground for too long, it
may take longer to construct fully. So if you have to stay on the basis,
don't do it for too long. The delay can be dangerous.
The delay can rob you of an opportunity you need to help you
complete your full build. While you are sitting, another person
standing can take advantage of this opportunity meant for you. Nature
does not allow vacuuming. Any space that has been created must
surely be covered in some way. The area you created by staying
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downstairs must be covered by someone else. Someone has to fill that
space; when that person fills that space, the person ends up getting
these good things that you should have gotten if you were standing
up. Since I have taken the time to explain what it means for a man to
be under construction, let's look at a house where a bad foundation
can affect a man under construction. The first example we will see is
a man who did not have a college degree or a man who dropped out
of college because he wanted quick construction. Some men prepared
so quickly that they had to drop out of college. These men wanted to
develop ASAP; they skipped college because they thought that
something else on their minds would make them build faster. Men
who avoided going to college to pursue their dreams at one point
realized that they needed a college degree to go far in the quest for
which they had dropped their college degrees. The case of Mark
Zuckerberg is a very good example for everyone. Mark had to skip
his college degree to pursue his dream of starting Facebook, but at
some point, he had to go back to school because having a college
degree was crucial to building him. One of the fragments involved in
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completing the process of building a man is having a college degree.
Most of the men who
They skipped college degrees to get involved in something else that
they thought was giving them money; later, they started to be stunted
for the very reason they had dropped out of college. If you drop out
of college to work for a high-paying company, you will never reach
the managerial position in that company if you don't have a college
degree. Your growth into the leadership position of the company you
work for will be limited. Those with a college degree will likely pass
it along the way, even if you started working for the company before
them. There are a lot of opportunities that could present themselves
that could be open only to those who already had their college degree;
because you didn't get yours, you end up not being able to take
advantage of the opportunity. So, most men who still struggle to build
themselves, especially those who should have been completely
assembled, are fighting because they failed to get a college degree.
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Another example that
We will see having skills that distinguish one from the other. Have
you ever wondered why some companies always choose certain
workers over others during the layoff period? As these companies
mostly ignore the verification of who came first and who came last,
they just fire some people and leave others based on their criteria,
which they keep to themselves. Have you ever wondered why things
like this happen? The world has been affected by the coronavirus
pandemic. This pandemic has caused great damage to all the countries
of the world. So many people have died from this horrible pandemic,
but it didn't stop there. The Covid 19 pandemic ended up crushing the
world economy. Many countries are currently in recession due to the
severity of the Covid 19 pandemic that has affected their economies.
As the economy goes through very difficult times, different
companies and commercial establishments struggle to stay on their
feet. Some had collapsed because they could not withstand the hit of
the Covid 19 pandemic. Those that collapsed added further pressure
to the economy as more people were left unemployed.
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Companies that are still struggling to survive are doing their best to
stay. They are going through very difficult times, doing their best to
survive. There was a time when massive downsizing became
inevitable. Most companies in all parts of the world have started
laying off their employee. They did not have enough money to
continue paying all these personnel. They wanted to keep their profit
margin low, and to do so, they had to cut their expenses. Layoffs have
become inevitable. While trying to lay off staff, one of the first things
that were always looked at was the staff's skills. Team with better
skills gained the upper hand over those with little or no ability to turn
things around. Those who had these super abilities were retained,
while those who did not have them were fired. Refusing to learn skills
to help you with your job could be another way to build a really bad
foundation for your construction. You could end up losing your job
due to a small financial strain where you work. That is why it is
advisable to take advantage of any opportunity that comes your way
to be better than you were, no matter how small it may seem.
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Men in construction have a lot of issues to deal with, especially when
it comes to their relationships with women. It is very difficult for a
man under construction to stay with a woman. Most women want
security. They seek a form of protection in which they are sure of a
bright future. Most reasonable women probably want a man with
whom they have a secure lot, a man they are confident they can marry,
and with whom they can have a family. It is the least that a reasonable
woman would want from a man she loves. Women with this mindset
may not be interested in the frivolities associated with a loud and
extravagant lifestyle. They just want a serious man. Women like this
may decide to stick with a construction worker, but how long will they
wait? How long will they wait until the man is completely built? Most
likely, this man is not completely built-in time; it is also likely that
this man is never fully built. Some of these women get tired of waiting
and finally take steps to find someone else. Other women appreciate
a materialistic lifestyle. These women want to make the most of all
that life offers. When women like this are in a relationship with men
in construction, they never last long with this man.
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In most cases, they break this man's heart who is being built in the
cruelest way possible. Men in construction rarely have a stable
relationship because they are seldom financially stable. Some may be
quite stable financially, but they may not be as wealthy as some
women want.
According to an article credited to time, which was edited by Belinda
Luscombe and published on October 5, 2021, nearly a third of single
adult men live with a parent. Single men are much more likely to be
unemployed, financially fragile, and without a college degree than
those with a partner. This article highlighted a finding from Pew
Research's analysis of 2019 data on the growing gap between
American adults who live with a partner and those who do not. While
the study focuses less on the effect of marriage and more on the impact
that changes in the economic situation have had on marriage, it
highlights some unexpected results of the changes in the labor market.
During the same period that the fortunes of single men plummeted,
the study shows that the proportion of American adults living with a
partner, be it a spouse or a single partner, also increased. Significantly
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decreased. In 1990, about 71% of people aged 25 to 54 considered the
best years of work had a partner they were married to or lived with.
In 2019, only 62% did so. Using information from the 2019 American
Community Survey, the Pew study finds that men are now more likely
to be single than women. This survey shows that men who struggle to
build themselves are likely to lose their relationships. They will most
likely remain single when they go through the construction face.
Those who did eventually get married would be threatened with losing
their marriage. The pressure of financial instability is too much for
them. It becomes even more difficult when the man does not have a
college degree. That's why I had to use the college dropout problem
to find a quick build, as in the example above. A man who can get a
college degree but decides to give it up finds himself in a dangerous
corner. It is a bet that could turn out very badly. Sure, it worked for
some very popular billionaires across the world, but what if it doesn't
work for you? What if what you had to give up to continue didn't
work?
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One of the main reasons why men faced with construction hardly have
a stable relationship is not unrelated to the fact that most women these
days prefer to opt for "pre-baked bread" instead of "making bread by
themselves ."They are looking for a soft landing. They like to follow
the easy path rather than this path that would present them with many
challenges. Love hardly matters today. Some prefer to be in a
relationship or marry for convenience, but the truth is that people who
enter a relationship for convenience have very bad bases. A
relationship built for comfort is very likely to collapse when least
expected, and when it does, the prospect of rescue becomes nearly
impossible.
I saw a story online when I was reading some things. This story
shocked me so much that I had to ask myself over and over again,
"What did I just read?" I had to double-check what I was reading to
ensure I wasn't reading a made-up story. I saw the story on Facebook.
I think an African created the account. Not African American. An
African talking began it about what happened to his friend. According
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to the person who made the post, his friend had a relationship with
this lady. He loves her so much and did everything he could to make
things work out for them. He was having trouble earning money. He
was under construction, so he was not a rich man, but he worked very
hard to make things better for himself. This lady depended a little on
him. He wasn't winning big, but he supported her the best he could.
From what I understood from the post, I think the lady was that type
of woman who always acted as if they were entitled to certain things
once they were in a relationship with a man, like the type of woman
who wants you to pay all their bills just because you ended up in a
relationship with them. So this guy was trying his best to live up to
his expectations. He made many commitments to find himself in love
with this woman. This woman that he loved also showed that she
loved him. I want to put it this way she "puts on a show" because I
don't think she's ever wanted her. Because if she had, she would not
have done what I told her. They had no problems. As if there were no
signs that they were having problems, everything was going very well.
I'm sure this boy would have come out to brag about how wonderful
his girlfriend was; he would have gone out to tell his friends a lot of
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wonderful things about his girlfriend without knowing what was
going to happen to her. So this guy got a wedding invitation from an
acquaintance to attend a wedding. He didn't suspect anything. When
the wedding date came, he went to the wedding and was sitting and
waiting like all the other wedding guests. They were waiting for the
bride and groom to enter for the wedding to begin. Now the groom
entered, it was time for the bride to enter. When the bride finally came
in, the bride turned out to be this man's girlfriend. This man was
shocked beyond measure. I put myself in his place a bit; he must have
lost him, he must have felt that he was dreaming, but after a while,
everything was still in front of him, he understood that it was real, it
was not a dream. He couldn't help it. He had to express it. He was
going crazy. She was the woman he loved. She was the woman he
worked tirelessly to marry. She had been motivating him to keep
working harder to improve his life so they could build their future
together; he never knew she had other plans. The problem was that
she had other plans; the problem was that she had other plans, but she
had never told her boyfriend. She kept the marriage a secret from him
acted like they were great until the last moment. This man began to
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work. He couldn't control his emotions. He then was taken away from
the wedding venue by surrounding security.
There was a guy I knew. He's a very calm guy. Very kind, and I
wouldn't be wrong if I said he is the most humble person I have ever
met in my life. He does not smoke or drink alcohol. I think he's that
kind of man that all women want to be with. Now I know a few guys
who have qualities this guy has, but they just can't keep them in their
pants. In a way, they do it with several women. Even though this guy
was good-looking, he was still a cool person. In a way, he appreciated
our friendship because he was the type of person who would never
dare to take advantage of you, no matter how vulnerable you became
in his eyes. This guy had been with very few women; now, I'm not
interested in all the women he's been with. I'm only interested in the
one who almost blew it up. The less I forget to add; it was under
construction. I was fighting. He had goals he worked tirelessly for and
did his best to achieve them. So he met this wonderful lady. They
clicked so easily. Their relationship was the kind I wanted for myself.
It was the kind of relationship most of us envied having. The lady
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came from a very wealthy family, but she never worried about her
man's financial problems. She loved him as he was, and he never
accepted anything from her, even though she always tried to give him
things. Some men are like that; they do it to keep their dignity.
Now, as wonderful as their relationship was, they had a big challenge.
The big challenge they had was the girl's family. They wanted her to
marry someone else, someone closer to the family, the son of a family
friend, a very wealthy guy, and she insisted she couldn't. Not do it
because she had always seen this guy as a brother, but the family
carried on. Increasing pressure on it. They did all they could. This, my
friend, trusted this lady; she kept reassuring him and reassuring him
that she was never going to leave him. She finally left him for this guy
in a very cruel way. He didn't see it coming; she just cut him off. My
friend was so heartbroken he was suicidal because they had already
planned to go to the registry. She filed it a few days before they went
to the registry.
A man under construction is a man who is building his future. Most
of those who have grown up today have seen the same face. If your
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happiness is in a man under construction, why not work and build
each other up? There is a deep satisfaction in marrying a man you've
fought with, a man you love. For men in construction, make sure you
don't make any bad moves that will ruin all the effort you put in.
Follow the right process. Do the right thing and remember that people
can break your heart; you have to develop a strong tolerance, you have
to work harder, you will soon.
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CHAPTER 3
THE BROKE MAN
It's certainly not pleasant to be broke. Therefore, you should avoid it
by creating income and passive income. When I was feeling very
broke, I came up with some of the best ideas of my life. Most people
who go bankrupt get up, dust themselves off, and start over. They do
this as many times as necessary. And again. And each time they learn,
they are less stunned. Some people have a mental illness or other
difficulties and will never recover. It's sad. People like this need others
to help them. Financial wellness is all about mood. We can look at
two different paths: career prospects and spending versus saving.
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The earning potential is possibly much lower for someone who may
not have a vital education, degrees, or work experience. The less
money you make, the less you can spend on savings. With a lower
salary, almost everything you earn is consumed for necessities. To get
out of the loop, you need to follow one of the three components
mentioned above.
However, suppose someone does eventually get out of the lower-
income cycle. If the mindset is not aligned with the practice of
disciplined savings, what is earned will be spent immediately. It is
only through a disciplined accumulation of salvation that one can
emerge from the poverty trap (easier said than done, as there are many
prerequisites to getting to this point).
Someone coming from a place of financial instability must avoid
unnecessary expenses at all costs. Avoiding the "slow lifestyle" is
critical to transforming the economic prospects of the future.
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If you find yourself in a position where you can barely get by on the
money you make, I implore you to look for one of the top three drivers
of change: education, degrees/certifications, or work experience.
A friend of mine told me this story that happened to his father. This
friend is not an American, as I know that he would most likely have
sought legal action if he were an American. He was telling me about
his father. His father was in his seventies at the time. His father was a
strong man despite his age. At his age, he still did most of his things
when he was younger. His father never liked staying in one place
without looking for a job to keep busy. He did most of the things he
wanted for himself, including doing laundry. This man was known for
something; he rarely gets sick. As if he could last a year without
getting sick. He rarely went to the hospital, except when necessary,
perhaps for an exam. So, at that moment, this man couldn't understand
what was happening to his body. What he was experiencing was
something he had never experienced before in his life. He knew he
was sick, so he decided to seek treatment. He had this man who was
his doctor. The doctor had him checked, and a few minutes later, they
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asked him to go home and get enough rest after receiving the
medication. Now this man was not wealthy. He didn't have much. His
family would best be described as average citizens. His sons were all
grown men, but they were still under construction. Now this man has
come home and done precisely what the doctor told him. He rested a
lot and took his medication as prescribed; he recovered. In no time,
he was back to his routines. He resumed his usual activities but
noticed something different about him. He didn't seem as strong as he
used to be, but he didn't take it seriously. After three months, he
became ill again and received treatment; this time, he had to stay in
the hospital for a few days. He had some complications before
arriving at the hospital, so the doctor asked him to stay in the hospital
for a few days to fix the difficulties. He did what he was told, and in
five days in the hospital, he was feeling better. Finally, they asked him
to go home. He returned home, but the craziest thing was that this
disease came back in different forms, and he kept going to the hospital
to meet this same doctor who was taking care of his case. He could no
longer go alone; one of his sons still had to accompany him to see the
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doctor. During one of his visits to the hospital, the doctor told his son
a shocking story.
He told her to take her father home. This guy couldn't understand
what the doctor meant because his father was far from well. Later, the
doctor said that his father would not survive the disease. Then the
doctor told him that he was wrong with his father. Her father died
about two days later. It was a painful experience. The doctor had
hidden the real cause of his illness from the man's family because he
believed they were broke, couldn't afford a transplant, or whatever.
He only had to tell them the true nature of the man's illness when he
was sure he would not be able to control the man's condition. Even if
he had told them about this man's natural state of health, they would
not have had the means to provide him with the care he needed
because they were bankrupt, but professionalism demands that he do
so. He speaks, but he does not.
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I knew a man who had financial problems; he also had health
problems. You have diabetes and often have trouble controlling your
health. There was a time when he had this pain in his leg that doctors
were considering amputating him, but he found a way around it and
recovered. When he married his wife, she was like the best thing ever
happened to him. He was pretty stable financially. Now that they had
children, a lot had changed. This man should be in his early fifties,
and his wife should probably be in her forties. His wife had always
been a worldly woman. She had always been the kind of woman who
put a lot of pressure on her man to get him what he needed, whether
he could afford it or not, and she was a stay-at-home mom, doing
nothing to generate income. 'Silver. . At home. They are an African
American family. So, I've been watching them for a while, and I didn't
like the way things were between them. I must have had a
conversation with people who had known them before me, and they
told me a lot about them. This man had suitable investments before he
married his wife, but he lost them every year after he married his wife.
He had to take full responsibility for her and her family. The pressure
was so much on him. Then he went bankrupt, and the little he earned
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was used to pay his household bills or his children's school fees. One
of his sons was already in college. Then one faithful night, I saw
someone release this woman with a van. It was the first time I saw
this, but it was not the last time because I saw her fall for this same
rich guy several times. She was having an affair with him, and her
husband never found out. She started cheating on him because he
collapsed couldn't meet most of his financial needs. Money changes
people a lot. The money would make the people who promised to stay
with you come to rain and shine to leave you; even when they decide
to stay with you, they turn their backs on you to cheat on you. A big
problem comes from being broke.
There was a lady that I liked at the time. He loved her so much and
wanted to have something with her. So she was much younger, but I
knew what she wanted; I knew that she would make her happy if she
allowed me to be hers, hers. She wasn't going to play it. But I noticed
there were a lot of guys flirting with her. These guys wanted to have
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a thing or two with her. She was a pretty lady. Seeing all these guys
approaching her made it a bit overwhelming for me to come here at
first. Since, at that time, she was still relatively young, she had no
money of her own. She still lived with my parents. I don't have a house
of my own either, but I still wanted it. She was not a kid who always
liked to settle for less. Whenever she wanted something, she would
always go, no matter what challenges were thrown at me. I thought to
myself, despite the number of guys that I noticed kept coming and
trying to fit her into her life, I was different. I was a boy on my own;
I believed I could give her real love that some of those who came to
her would not. To be honest with me, I don't look bad; my appearance
has always been the type that most girls would die for.
I finally reached out to this lady and told her how much I loved her.
Now that she is the most exciting part. After I told her that I loved her,
she neither refused nor accepted me; she gave me a condition that she
would have to meet if she wanted her to return my love to me. I never
knew what she had in mind, so I told her that I would fulfill her
condition, whatever it was. She told me that she would soon be
celebrating her nineteenth birthday, that if she wanted to love her, that
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she should buy him a car for her birthday, that it was the only way for
her to return my love or love me. I didn't understand what she was
saying, I thought she was joking, but she was serious. I had to ask
myself: are we talking about love or doing a business transaction? I
was frustrated, but I have to be honest here at this age if she could
have allowed me to buy him a car, that she would have. I liked him in
a way. She was not able to get her the care she needed to be made me
feel terrible about me. Not getting the love I wanted so badly made
me worse. Now that I'm older, when I think about that experience, I
wonder if she would love me if she bought her the car, as if she could
afford the car, she was going to let her love me for faithful? I thought
she would do it at the time, probably because of my age and
inexperience. Love is not something you could promise someone you
would create for them. As if you couldn't make love to exist in a place
where it doesn't initially live. It is never genuine when love is made
or created in this way. It always comes with a lot of problems. A broke
guy always has to settle for less. He has to live a life of denial.
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One of the most deplorable states that one would ever find himself in
is being in a state that one would need something so badly but can't
afford it. You can only have fantasies of having all those stuff you
desire, you might even find yourself dreaming about having them, but
you'll wake up discovering that you can't have them, and the feeling
is very frustrating. Being broke comes with a lot of frustration. You
see people around your age doing something you want to do, but you
can't do it because you're broke. You see people going to places you
so much want to go, but you can't go to such sites because you're
broke. You see people having things you want to have, but you can't
have them because you're broke. Some of these people will even go
out of their way to take that which you so much want to have from
you. Being broke is a very pathetic state in which one would ever want
to find himself.
There are two kinds of broke men I'll be talking about. The good broke
man and the bad broke man. The good broke man is that broke man,
but he doesn't allow being broke to change his morals. A lot of crimes
are happening in the world. Since the advent of Covid 19, the crime
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rate in the world has increased drastically. Every country in the world
has recorded more crimes than it used to in the past. So many people
had lost their jobs. You know one thing about losing one's job, when
someone loses his job, he loses the ability to pay his bills. He loses
the ability to live a comfortable life; he loses the ability to get most of
the basic things he needs for the smooth running of his life. The
experience is very challenging, and it comes with a great load of
frustration. Perhaps this person that had lost his job used to have some
level of frustration as a result of working on an average job with an
average earning that can't put his life exactly where he had aspired it
to be, even when he had the job, he was somewhat frustrated, imagine
how frustrated he would be after he had lost the job. The job wasn't
giving him all the money he wanted, but he had to continue living off
it even though he was frustrated; now that he had lost the job,
everything became worse than it used to be. Covid 19 had put a lot of
people all over the world in this deplorable situation. Some of those
that had lost their job have no other means of livelihood. Some have
to return to live with their parents. The frustration had been so high.
In a bid to look for how to survive and meet up with their bills, some
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people had embraced crime as a means of survival. There is a lot of
fraud everywhere. Just a little mistake you make would get you
scammed of your hard-earned money. It became worse since the
advent of Covid 19. There are a lot of ways to scam people out there.
Dating online is now the scariest way of being in a relationship. Back
in the day, falling in love with someone online had always seemed
one of the most reliable ways to get a life partner. Many people meet
their partners whom they're married to online. This is not the case
right now. You could get scammed by someone you thought you were
in love with online. I know of this woman in her mid-sixties who once
complained so badly about how she was scammed of thousands of
dollars. She had been having a lot of failed relationships. The men she
was falling in love with were mistreating her. They were either
cheating on her or coming into her life to exploit her money. She was
heartbroken several times. She decided to take some break from love.
She stayed away from love for two whole years. She kind of got back
her groove, but this time around, she wanted to do things differently.
She didn't want to do things the way she had done in the past that
ended up failing. She decided to go online and date. The idea was that
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she wasn't going to put her mind fully on it; she was going to watch
as things move and know if she was going to take things seriously or
not. So, she had a couple of guys that wanted to have a thing with her,
but they weren't just the kind of guys she wanted. She was looking for
something in a man she didn't even know herself. Then at some point,
she got this guy's message. They started talking; he was very good at
what he did. Her conversation was enthusiastic, and she had to stay
awake for hours at night while they chatted. She began to yearn for
her conversation with this man at one point. At one point, she
discovered that she liked her very much. She told him he liked her; he
told her he liked her too. They got into a relationship. She was the
same person that she said she wouldn't propose to, be cautious, but
she forgot about that. They had known each other for a few months,
but she felt that she had known him forever. She was very open to
him. She did not hide anything from him. At one point, he discovered
that she was not doing badly financially. They started talking about
how to meet. They even gave him a deadline, which was when she
told him that he would be released for being a businessman. He told
her that he was a film producer and always busy with production
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work. It happened around this time; she started acting strange, wasn't
always responsive, and wasn't always online like before. This woman
was worried. She was afraid of losing him. She must have asked to
know what was wrong with her, and he told her that she was having
financial problems with production and that she needed a lot of money
to solve the problems. She told him that she had been having trouble
getting loans. He didn't think twice; he offered to help her. After
declining a bit, she finally agreed. She sent him the money, and that's
it. After she sent him the money, he left. She couldn't find any trace
of him. He just disappeared. It was like a movie for her. She was
heartbroken. She thought that she finally met this boy that she
understood her, she thought that she met this boy who was not going
to break her heart, but she ripped her off with her love and money.
This woman has become suicidal. She had to undergo another therapy
session to get out of the depression her ugly experience had plunged
into her.
The romantic scam is not the only crime that has increased since
Covid 19; there have been numerous robberies in different countries.
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People are now breaking into people's houses and stealing their things
more than ever. Armed robberies are on the rise. Some countries,
especially those in Africa, now face more severe problems. There
have been severe cases of kidnappings and ransom demands.
Sometimes, even after the ransom has been paid, the victims die.
Despite the increase in the crime rate worldwide due to the threat
created by covid 19, the excellent broke does everything possible
never to commit a crime. The main reason people commit crimes is
lack of satisfaction. When people are not happy with what they have,
they will go to great lengths to obtain what they cannot have; most
likely, they will commit criminal acts to get what they have and cannot
have. A good broker is happy with what he has. No, he tries to cut his
coat down to his size. He is not trying to live a life beyond his means.
He knows that leading such a lifestyle would only add more problems
to his financial burden, so he does his best to avoid it. This person
works very hard. He may have lost his job, but he doesn't sit. Still, he
goes out looking for alternatives; he seeks something genuine to do to
earn money. Then if he finds a woman who loves him, he treats her
with respect. There is one thing that people always say, that a man
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loves a woman more when he is broke. Funny to say, I don't know
how true that is, but there is a man who loves and respects her wife
when he's broke and loves and respects her, even more when she's not.
A good broken man does not take advantage of the woman in his life.
She may be helping him financially, but he never makes it her
responsibility; he never feels entitled. Some good broken men would
even refuse to accept financial assistance from their wives.
A good broken man is not only good because he behaves well, avoids
crime, and treats his wife well; no, that's not all. The most important
part of being a good bankrupt is to work hard to improve yourself.
Work hard to come out of bankruptcy. Life waits for no one. It's okay
to be broke at some point in life, but it sure isn't good to stay broke
forever. A ruined man would be ruined so many times, but a good
ruined man would struggle to escape the curse of being broke. The
only way to do this is to work hard. Avoid laziness and be available
for any opportunity that comes your way. Over time, an excellent
bankrupt begins to gain some financial stability. Things are starting to
work out for him. Begin to climb the ladder of riches. You are
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beginning to gain some financial freedom. Most good broken men
often get richer than before. Because they have already learned from
the experience that led them to bankruptcy or bankruptcy, they have
found their way to overcome default, and life is getting better for
them.
Now let's talk about the villain. The bad boy is a mess. All the crimes
we discussed earlier, from romance scams to kidnapping to robbery
and armed robbery, are all associated with the villain. The bad boy is
never happy with what he has. The problem is not even that you are
not satisfied with what you have, you are not happy with what you
have, and you don't want to work and get what you don't have. He
commits a crime to get what he doesn't have. Many people should
suffer for the actions and inactions of the bankrupt villain, but he
doesn't care. The only person, the bad boy, thinks about is himself.
One is that he got what he wanted; he doesn't care if anyone else got
hurt in the process.
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It is widespread for men with no money to be content with girls who
are considered low-level in the eyes of ordinary men. Girls that men
think are not physically attractive. Being bankrupt comes with the
allure of women who are not so high on their games. Most of the
women who attract broke men are women who have been with rich
men, and these rich men dumped them. These girls had been victims
of failed relationships. They had been treated like garbage in their
previous relationships. The men they had dealt with in the past never
appreciated them, took advantage of them, and treated them with no
respect. As a result of their past unpleasant experiences, these girls
lowered their standards, deciding that since all of the high-profile men
they were dating had mistreated them, they would settle for someone
low. This is how they are in the relationship with the broke guy. But
when they meet a bad guy, he treats them even worse than they've
been in the past. Guess what? These women still hang out with these
broke bad boys, despite how violent they treat them. The ruined
villain will infiltrate this woman, but she will always stay with him.
This has been one of the problems of psychological suffering for a
long time. Being mentally abused for a long time loses self-esteem
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and self-esteem. This lady who had lowered her level had been with
men who had mentally assaulted her on several occasions. These men
treated her like scum. After getting used to these men for a long time,
she lost her self-esteem. Even when this bad boy mistreats her, she
can't even walk away from the relationship. She stays there as he takes
advantage of her and makes her worse than she was when she first
met him.
The broke guy is unemployed and not interested in finding a job. The
bad boy has nothing to do to improve his life. The bad boy is not
interested in learning anything meaningful that develops him.
Personal development doesn't give a damn about the bad guy. He
depends on the woman in his life for almost anything he wants. She
feeds him and even lets him stay with her. Even though the bad boy
is broke, he spends most of his money on weed alcohol, and if he gets
the chance, he cheats on this woman who had decided to stay with
him despite his faults.
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The bad boy is abusing drugs. He is a drug addict. It's a part of your
life that has caused you too much trouble. He loves to get high and
can spend whatever he has to get high. That's why he's ready to do
whatever he can, no matter how bad, to get money to buy the drugs
he abuses.
In 2002, about a quarter of property and drug offenders in local jails
had committed their crimes to obtain drug money, compared to 5% of
violent and law enforcement offenders. The Federal Bureau of
Investigation (FBI) Uniform Criminal Reports Survey (UCR)
reported that in 2007, 3.9% of the 14,831 known homicides were
drug-related.
Many crimes committed in different countries have been caused by
drug abuse. When people abuse drugs, they lose the ability to have
complete control over themselves; they begin to act under the
influence of the drug they used, their judgment is manipulated, and
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they end up doing nasty things that they wouldn't have done if they
hadn't. They weren't under the influence of drugs.
Many traffic accidents that have resulted in the death of people have
been caused by people who have abused drugs and have decided to
drive under the influence of the drugs they have used. Because these
people are high, they lose the ability to control completely. They go
without paying attention to the proper speed limits end up hitting
someone, even when they run over someone; if the opportunity arises,
they try to flee the accident scene.
Being addicted to a drug puts a person in a situation where it would
be tough to think and act correctly if one cannot access the abused
drug. When a bankrupt villain is addicted to drugs, he becomes a big
problem. He is broke and needs drugs; he will do everything to get the
money to buy those drugs. Since he has not found a job, he sells part
of his business to raise money and buy pills. After dealing with most
of his possessions, he starts using drugs on credit. Taking medications
on credit often puts the bankrupt villain in a challenging position, as
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drug dealers will do anything to get their money back. Knowing that
he runs the risk of being mistreated if he does not pay the debts he
incurred by buying drugs on credit; the bankrupt villain begins to
figure out how to take things from people to buy pills. This is when
the robbery begins. That's when he starts robbing people; some would
switch to armed robbery. They will do anything to get this drug they
abuse.
There was a man who shot his wife. She had cheated on him, and he
was so mad at her. He decided to file for divorce. They had been in
trouble before she cheated on him. His marriage was going in the
wrong direction. Her husband was emotionally estranged from her; he
lost her job and had abused drugs. She eventually became too
comfortable with someone else; she cheated on her husband with him.
Her husband was so mad at her. The day she handed him the divorce
papers, he was very frustrated. He left the house without saying a
word to her. She had already decided to leave the house. They already
had two children, so she expected them to discuss doing things with
the children. When she finally returned, she was busy in the kitchen.
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She found her gun and shot her multiple times. He was drugged. Her
neighbor called the police and was arrested. There had been many
crimes that happened that way. Many people have died because
someone angry at them pulled the trigger while he was high on drugs.
In conclusion, no matter how bad things are for you as a woman, never
settle for a bad boy. A ruined villain will take advantage of you, never
value your relationship with him, and even put your life in danger.
The most important thing is that if you are with a broke and good guy,
answer him the best you can; he will never bother you. A good
construction man never forgets the woman who supported him when
he struggled.
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CHAPTER 4
THE GOOD LOOKING WOMAN
A woman's appearance is what matters, and her classification is
subjective. No woman can be entirely sure that she is attracted to all
men. She must remain vigilant strive to sublimate her beauty while
being undermined by nature continually. As a woman, how many
times have you been told that you are "beautiful" by your mother and
father or by strangers? How often have people complimented you for
being "smart" or "hardworking"? Did they tell you that you had to
"fight the children" or that one day you would support a family?
Physical attractiveness is much more important than most men will
admit. I've read that men are much more likely than women to believe
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in "love at first sight" because men value physical attractiveness more
than women. Beautiful people are not like the rest of us. Because of
their beauty, people treat them differently. And based on decades of
psychology research, it can shape many facets of their lives, from their
jobs to their personalities to their worldview.
First, it might be helpful to define what even "attractive" means. Some
things are universally associated with attractiveness, such as facial
symmetry, face shape, and fair skin. These may have evolved as an
abbreviation for the health of a potential mate. Studies show that
average-looking faces are also often considered more attractive.
Attractiveness is not based on the ability to see beauty but on detecting
flaws. The fewer flaws, the more attractive someone seems.
Other attractive elements, such as body shape, weight, and skin color,
maybe more subjective and influenced by culture. There are also
fewer physical things that can make a person attractive, such as a
person's confidence, smell, or voice.
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There was a time in my life when I went through complicated things.
Things were going so badly for me that I was having difficulty paying
my bills. There was nothing that did not occur to me at the time. Most
of the things I tried to get involved in didn't work out well. Everything
I tried to do at the time did not go as planned. It was as if the force of
nature was fighting any effort I made to build myself. These moments
were like the most tempting moments of my life. I believe many men
at some point in their lives have gone through this particular face I'm
talking about. Those who have gone through this same face have
understood what I am talking about. It was a very frustrating
experience. Thinking back now, I wondered how I had ever overcome
this particular face in my life. Like I'm going through stuff, but I tried
my best to keep it all inside. I've never been the type to have a problem
and turn my pain into a problem for others. Some people are a problem
for themselves and concern for others around them. Once they have
issues, those around them start to feel the heat of the problems they
are going through in one way or another, but I was not that type of
person. I did my best not to become a burden on those around me.
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When I was going through this harsh side of life, I saw love as a
luxury. I never wanted to have anything to do with love. He had
always been that type of person who believed that people should only
consider love when they are stable, just as they should only consider
love when their minds are clear. They say that the best way to love
others is to love yourself. If you don't love yourself, you probably
can't love other people. For me, it was a question of happiness. I wasn't
happy with my state in them; I didn't think I could make someone
happy back then. I had to be satisfied before making someone happy,
but happiness was far from me. So love was a no. On this side of my
life, I discovered a great trick, something about love. Love doesn't
stop because you want it to stop. Love is not hidden because you want
it to hide. Love doesn't cease to exist just because you want it to cease
to exist. Just because you don't want to fall in love doesn't mean you
won't fall in love. You cannot control love. You cannot detect when
you should fall in love and when you should not fall in love. If that
had been possible, many people would not have fallen in love with
certain people who found out they were in love. Sometimes people
stipulate what they want in the people they want to fall in love with.
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People declare the standards they would look for in anyone they
pretend to fall in love with. Sometimes things end up going as planned
for them; they end up falling in love with someone who lives up to the
standards they set. But on some very misleading occasions, some of
those people who had published a standard end up falling in love with
those who do not meet their standards. They try so hard to avoid it,
they try so hard to ignore it, and they try so hard to deny it; in the end,
that's always what it is. They fall terribly in love. They finally find
themselves in a relationship with someone they never planned to be
in a relationship with, someone who is far from the type of person
they wanted for themselves.
So in the days when I was going through things, love was far from my
mind, I didn't want it, but it didn't stay away from me even though I
didn't like it. There was a lovely lady who was around me at that time.
She lived in my neighborhood. I'm used to seeing her from time to
time. She was a sweet woman to behold. I don't know how I started to
like her, effusive! It was something I never expected. At first, I
thought it was admiration, but it wasn't just that. Over time I
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discovered that I always thought of her; I wanted to make her mine; I
even started to get jealous when I saw her with other boys. I didn't go
near her right away. I told myself that it was not what I wanted at that
time; it was not the most important thing for me; the most important
thing was how to earn money, money and improve my luck. I told
myself that this crazy feeling I had was distracting, and whatever it
was, I didn't want to distract myself in any way. I had goals that I
needed to focus on, and I didn't want anything to distract my mind. So
I started to fight this feeling. I fought it with everything in me, tried
to suppress it with all my might. I left it on for as long as possible, but
it didn't work. The feeling kept fighting. It was even worse because
he always had to see her around, although he wished he couldn't see
her. I couldn't help it since we lived in the same neighborhood. At one
point, I couldn't keep fighting him. It was so exhausting. I think I even
lost weight back then while trying to fight it. I was surprised myself,
like why am I like this? Why should I fall in love now that I focus on
life? I was mad at myself, but there was nothing I could do but do
what I thought was the right thing to do for me.
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After failing to suppress the feeling I had for this beautiful lady, I
decided I would approach her. I didn't see the possibility of being
emotionally committed considering the financial issues I was going
through, but I still couldn't just sit put and let it slide. So, one faithful
day, I met her and requested we talk; she was so cool about it. It kind
of gave me the impression that she had already accepted what I was
going to tell her even before she heard what I was going to say. When
we were settled, I told her how much I was into her. I didn't keep
anything hidden; I told her everything. She remained quiet while I
said all I had to say. After I was done, she started smiling at me and
told me something that I don't think I would ever forget in my life. I'll
put it in the quote. She said this, 'I don't date broke guys.' I felt so bad
about her response. I didn't see that coming, so it kind of shook me. I
had always seen her as someone reasonable, but her response kind of
made me realize that I had thought so wrongly about her. She went
further to tell me that she was an expensive lady and that I was too
broke to handle her. That she would need money for many things and
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that I wouldn't be able to meet her financial needs. I could remember
telling her if she loved me or felt something for me; she just said that
love doesn't work for her if the guy was broke. She eventually left me
and went on her way. I remained seated there for like fifty minutes
without standing. I was lost. I felt so bad. I felt so bad because I was
rejected for a very wrong reason. I was this hardworking guy doing
everything I could to make it big. I believed that alone would make
every reasonable lady accept me since I wasn't lazy, but this lady kind
of resettled my brain.
Three weeks after this lady rejected me, I saw her in someone's car. It
was an expensive car. The guy wasn't living in the neighborhood, but
that was the only time I saw her in that guy's car. After the day I saw
her in the guy’s car, I didn't see her again for like two weeks. I didn't
know what was up with her. Before then, I always saw her every day,
even after she rejected to accept my love proposal, I was still seeing
her in the neighborhood, but after the day I saw her in the guy’s car, I
think I saw her the following day, and that was it. I didn't see her again
for two weeks straight. Then I kind of started asking around; no one
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seemed to know where she was. I then asked someone around where
she lived; it was a lady. This lady told me that she had moved out of
the neighborhood. I was hoping she perhaps moved out to stay with
her new boyfriend, but this lady told me something shocking. She told
me that this lady was raped by a new boyfriend she made. He raped
her the first day she went to his house. She was so uncomfortable with
the neighborhood that she had to move. I think she moved and stayed
with her parents or so.
I'm not trying to say that she got raped because she rejected me or
refused to accept the love of a broke guy and decided to follow another
guy because he was rich. There are so many ladies like her that
rejected broke guys and got rich guys, and things went out well for
them like they got a rich guy, and he treated them well and was
helping them meet up with their bills. Some of these ladies refuse to
date broke guys, they insist that they only want to date a rich guy, but
they eventually find themselves dating broke guys. This is where love
now comes in and plays hard on them. One can say that they don't
want to date a broke guy; it will only work out perfectly fine for them
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if they haven't fallen madly in love with a broke guy. Some honey
cannot be ignored, no matter how much you try to ignore it. This kind
of love is love that you can't suppress. This was what happened to me.
All the while that I had been saying that I wouldn't fall in love with
any lady because of my financial incapacity, I had been admiring
different ladies. Still, I was able to keep them in until I kind of fell for
this particular lady for whom I couldn't get hold of my feelings. So, it
isn't every kind of feeling that can be quickly suppressed. As I was
saying initially, she didn't get raped because she refused to be with
me. That was not the idea I had decided to tell the above story. I'm
trying to say that most beautiful women don't like dating broke guys.
They believe that broke guys are too inferior to date them like they're
too expensive to be with a broke guy.
If beauty is all a woman got to offer in a man's life, the woman is more
or less useless in the man's life. The only thing she has to offer in a
relationship is her beauty is one of the most worthless women ever.
You know the thing about beauty; it doesn't remain exactly how it
was. With more age added to the beauty, beauty starts fading away. A
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person that loves you because of beauty starts losing interest in you.
He starts seeing other people he believes are more beautiful than you.
There are so many things a woman can offer in a man's life other than
just her beauty, but when beauty is the only thing, she'll most likely
always brag about it, people like this will only see love as a medium
to extort the man that they're in his life. When a woman has only her
beauty to offer like she is beautiful, and she uses her beauty to cut
corners, she kind of always sexualizes herself to get what she wants.
Such a woman will only be valid for what she presents herself as. Let's
take, for example, a woman that always uses her beauty to sexualize
herself and then cut corners; she may get employed because of it, there
might be other people on the queue that are far better than her in the
job and would even do better if they were employed, but this woman
that had sexualized herself because of her beauty will get upper hand
over them, she'll get the job in their place, but she'll need always to
put her body on the line to keep the job. Some business owners are
very unprofessional; they'll always like to mix business with pleasure.
Some of them would like to keep a woman of this nature around as
their toy, but her primary purpose would be to serve their sexual
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  • 1. 1 | P a g e POWER OF Human Necessity
  • 2. 2 | P a g e © Cоруrіght 2022 - All rіghtѕ rеѕеrvеd. Thе соntеnt соntаіnеd wіthіn thіѕ bооk mау nоt bе rерrоduсеd, duрlісаtеd, оr trаnѕmіttеd wіthоut dіrесt wrіttеn реrmіѕѕіоn frоm thе аuthоr оr thе рublіѕhеr. Undеr nо сіrсumѕtаnсеѕ wіll аnу blаmе оr lеgаl rеѕроnѕіbіlіtу bе hеld аgаіnѕt thе рublіѕhеr, оr аuthоr, fоr аnу dаmаgеѕ, rераrаtіоn, оr mоnеtаrу lоѕѕ duе tо thе іnfоrmаtіоn соntаіnеd wіthіn thіѕ bооk. Eіthеr dіrесtlу оr іndіrесtlу. Lеgаl Nоtісе: Thіѕ bооk іѕ соруrіght рrоtесtеd. Thіѕ bооk іѕ оnlу fоr реrѕоnаl uѕе. Yоu саnnоt аmеnd, dіѕtrіbutе, ѕеll, uѕе, ԛuоtе, оr раrарhrаѕе аnу раrt оf thе соntеnt wіthіn thіѕ bооk wіthоut thе аuthоr оr рublіѕhеr'ѕ соnѕеnt. Dіѕсlаіmеr Nоtісе: Plеаѕе nоtе thе іnfоrmаtіоn соntаіnеd wіthіn thіѕ dосumеnt іѕ fоr еduсаtіоnаl аnd еntеrtаіnmеnt рurроѕеѕ оnlу. All еffоrt hаѕ bееn еxесutеd tо рrеѕеnt ассurаtе, uр- tо-dаtе, аnd rеlіаblе, соmрlеtе іnfоrmаtіоn. Nо wаrrаntіеѕ оf аnу kіnd аrе dесlаrеd оr іmрlіеd. Rеаdеrѕ асknоwlеdgе thаt thе аuthоr іѕ nоt еngаgіng іn thе rеndеrіng оf lеgаl, fіnаnсіаl, mеdісаl, оr рrоfеѕѕіоnаl аdvісе. Thе соntеnt wіthіn thіѕ bооk hаѕ bееn dеrіvеd frоm vаrіоuѕ ѕоurсеѕ. Plеаѕе соnѕult a lісеnѕеd рrоfеѕѕіоnаl bеfоrе аttеmрtіng аnу tесhnіԛuеѕ оutlіnеd іn thіѕ bооk. Bу rеаdіng thіѕ dосumеnt, thе rеаdеr аgrееѕ thаt undеr nо сіrсumѕtаnсеѕ іѕ thе аuthоr rеѕроnѕіblе fоr аnу lоѕѕеѕ, dіrесt оr
  • 3. 3 | P a g e іndіrесt, whісh аrе іnсurrеd аѕ a rеѕult оf thе uѕе оf thе іnfоrmаtіоn соntаіnеd wіthіn thіѕ dосumеnt, іnсludіng, but nоt lіmіtеd tо, — еrrоrѕ, оmіѕѕіоnѕ, оr іnассurасіеѕ.
  • 4. 4 | P a g e PREFACE When problems seem uncontrollable, quitting may look like the easiest way out. A word of encouragement on failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success. Everyone has a cross to carry. Life doesn't always offer a soft landing for everyone. At some point, some begin to believe that their cross may be heavier than others, but the truth is that our cross will shape us towards greatness. Our ability to achieve the conquest of our cross will likely discern our success in life. One of the best ways to heal wounds is to learn from the situation and use them to focus on growth and momentum. If we get stuck thinking about what “should have been,” we can freeze in painful feelings and memories. Forgiveness is essentially a positive way of acknowledging and letting go of negative thoughts and feelings. It is a skill. Something that you improve over time. And you will get more and more benefits from doing so. Your personality improves to make it easier to be around you, but ultimately, you become happier as you become less and less bothered by other people's setbacks along the way.
  • 5. 5 | P a g e TABLE OF CONTENTS THE RICH MAN------------------------------------------------------------7 FOOD AS A BASIC NECESSITY------------------------------------9 CLEANING AS A BASIC NECESSITY -------------------------- 18 SEX IS A BASIC NECESSITY ------------------------------------- 26 MAN UNDER CONSTRUCTION------------------------------------- 34 THE BROKE MAN------------------------------------------------------- 57 THE GOOD LOOKING WOMAN ------------------------------------ 80
  • 6. 6 | P a g e
  • 7. 7 | P a g e CHAPTER 1 THE RICH MAN Long for what you want. When a man desires something so deeply that he is willing to risk his entire future on a spin of the wheel to get it, he is sure to win. One of the main weaknesses of humanity is the familiarity of the average man with the word "impossible." He knows all the rules that will not work. He knows all the things that he cannot do. Before a man can accumulate wealth in great abundance, he must magnetize minds with an intense desire for wealth, which must become "aware of money until the craving for money leads us to create specific plans to acquire it. Men are very beings. They are built with special peculiarities. There is a lot to do with being a man. The mood, the attitude, the psychological accumulation, everything accumulates to form a logical being called a man.
  • 8. 8 | P a g e One of the most common causes of failure is quitting when he is overwhelmed by temporary defeat. Everyone is guilty of this mistake at one time or another. Success often comes one step beyond the point where defeat catches up with us. Chess is a trickster with a keen sense of irony and cunning. He loves to stumble upon them when success is almost at hand. Unlike the life of women, the life of men is much defined. Men's lives are very predictable when things go as planned or achieved. Men want three basic needs. These needs are food, cleanliness, and sex. This does not mean that men do not want other things. Of course, there are so many other things that are necessary for the good practice of life that a man can wish for; for example, every man should live a life in which he is free from financial constraints, but the truth is that everything that he-man wants you—being able to break his financial limits throughout his life cycle. He shows that being very rich and breaking economic boundaries may be necessary, but it is not a fundamental necessity. Love is one of the most important parts of life. Some people say that love is everything. When we talk about love
  • 9. 9 | P a g e here, we are talking about love between a man and a woman. If love is everything, what about those who have lived without love? So many men had lived much of their lives without being in love with a woman. So love is not a basic need either. Any man who has reached the age of understanding the purpose of money wants it. Desiring will not bring wealth. But wishing for wealth with a mindset that becomes an obsession, planning specific ways and means of acquiring wealth, and backing those plans with a persistence that does not acknowledge failure, will bring wealth. FOOD AS A BASIC NECESSITY Legality cannot preach, and farmers cannot produce for themselves. Lack of food production will affect society with lower standards of life expectancy, high infant mortality rates, and lower quality of life due to the lack of essential nutrients in the diet. In the middle Ages, there were often famines and shortages that caused society to seek a different food supply method. The authorities have created laws and
  • 10. 10 | P a g e mechanisms to ensure that farmers bring all their grain to the warehouse, but farmers have always tried to keep some hidden to get some sort of money in their homes. Failure to ensure a constant food supply will not allow the economy to diversify, specialize and market the surplus. Food is the only source that gives us the energy to carry out any activity in this world. Food plays a very important role in our life. Without food, the human body cannot survive; this is the harsh truth of life. Kill animals to eat; we do our best to stay. It's not just for men, but women. Food is not only a basic human need; food is a basic need for all living organisms. Plants need to eat food in nutrients to thrive properly and survive. Green plants need nutrients from sunlight to maintain their natural and produce good food for green plants to thrive. But we base our discussion on the fact that food is a basic necessity for a man's existence. People go to bed hungry every night; the world needs a sustainable food system to feed everyone every day. The quality of food is as important as the quantity, and better nutrition
  • 11. 11 | P a g e must become a priority for many people. Food not only defines our identity but also shapes our physical, mental, social, and economic existence. We need to understand that eating determines how the world is used. In primitive times, in the middle Ages, women had very little to do with the environment. Women don't participate in the most important things that shock society. A woman's life was limited. She just keeps it at home and makes sure that her husband and children have food on time. At that time, women were rarely active in politics. Women married to powerful husbands presented themselves as advisers probably within their bedroom walls, not where they could be seen and accused of coercing their husbands so that their husbands were not seen as incapable of making informed decisions about themselves. At such times, women are best described as housewives. The man goes to work and earns money to take care of himself and his family's needs, including his wife's needs. Women rarely or never went out to
  • 12. 12 | P a g e make money. During those dark ages, women who wanted to cook were seen primarily as bad wives. The implication was that the family would starve because no one would cook if the woman didn't. The men of that time were no better suited to home cooking. Today's world has changed a lot. Women now participate fully in nation-building. Women are now as active as men to earn money in society. It seems that there is nothing a man can do in a community today that a woman cannot do unless in some countries strict restrictions are still applied to women. Gender equality seems to be one of the most popular trends in all countries. Some countries have been able to do this over the years. Some who have not yet reached this goal are working to solve it. The current changes with the massive participation of women in different social activities have come with their problems. According to an article credited to the Washington Post published on July 19, 2016, a higher proportion of American men, around 43%, cook these days than at any time in the past 30 years. This meant that more men
  • 13. 13 | P a g e would continue to cook as the year progressed. In 2021, the number was said to have grown much more than in 2016. Food is the basic necessity necessary for every individual in society. Without food, armies cannot fight. There are so many factors that can be attributed to why more men cook now than before, just as there are also so many reasons why more men have become more interested in cooking than before. Among all these reasons, one of them that we find very special in our discussion is that women now rarely have all the time they need to cook. Unlike in the past, when women were forced to stay home while the man went to work and earned money to take care of the family, women now do all of those things that men did before. Women now go out and earn a lot of money. Some women even earn more than their husbands. Women are not fully involved in politics; they participate in making real decisions that affect the affairs of their country. They get involved in real work and even become department heads and heads of organizations. Women now have very large companies in
  • 14. 14 | P a g e their name and under their leadership. Much has changed from what was the trend in the Middle Ages. With the change that has become the trend, women rarely cook good food. Even those who do their best to cook are not always available to cook. Food is a basic necessity for man. The man cannot stay there; he waits for the woman, who is rarely open to cooking the food. Most men have taken it upon themselves to fill the void created by their wives' busy schedules. These men need food. Their wives are too busy to cook for them. Food is a basic necessity for them, so their lives would be very uncomfortable without food. These men are now trying to adjust and start cooking. In the past, there are so many households that have struggled with the problem that the wife is not always available to prepare the food to meet the basic needs of the husband. The husband decides to cook for his basic needs to save the marriage. Humans are adapted to survive whatever happens. The husband had to endure. He had to face his basic need, cooking when the woman did not know how to cook became a way of life.
  • 15. 15 | P a g e When a man comes home and is hungry, and there is no cooked food to eat, it greatly affects the marriage. It begins by affecting the communication process between husband and wife. People only communicate well when they are not uncomfortable in any way. If the man is hungry and needs food, he would not be better positioned to talk about how he spent the day with his wife. Of course, he would only have the strength to strike up a friendly conversation if he had enough to eat. Women always have a lot to say to their men. Most of the time, good communication between a man and his wife required her to stay there and listen a lot to everything she had to say and to make her contribution to everything she had said. But the man would not be in the mood to listen if he had nothing to eat. Another problem that can arise here can be a problem with sex. sex is an energy-intensive activity that requires you to be full to some degree before engaging in it, as you have to have eaten enough, but not too much, to be able to have great sex. sex on a hungry stomach is very boring. It's a very complicated thing that you would never want to get involved in. It would end up depleting what little energy you had
  • 16. 16 | P a g e before sex and leaving you extremely wasted and extremely hungry. You won't even enjoy the pleasure that comes with having sex if you try to have sex when you are hungry. When a man married to a woman always comes home without food at home, it somehow makes him lose interest in sex. This kind of the fact that this marriage begins to become asexual, and as we all know, sex has always been the reason behind most of the problems that arise in different unions. I have heard many people say that one of the ways to reach a man's heart is his stomach. This means that for a woman to win the heart of her man, she has to cook him a good meal. There was one woman in particular whom he had known for years. This woman was pretty. She had many good characteristics that would make any man who surpassed her aspire to have her for him. She was also a very lively woman. There was no way someone would stay close to her without finding a reason to laugh. She had her ways of making those who knew her smile. If you look at this woman for what you see, you will probably conclude that she will never have problems
  • 17. 17 | P a g e at home without knowing her husband. Humans like to judge by what we see; we forget to consider that people can fake things and still show us in the face. I wouldn't say that this woman I'm talking about was pretending; she was probably like that before she met her husband. The problem I discovered about this woman was that she rarely cooked even though she knew that her husband still liked to eat her food. She was the type of man who never wanted to go out to eat. Being unfit to eat at a restaurant and having a wife who didn't like to cook all the time, he had to start cooking when his wife wasn't cooking. There were times when she did it happily without complaint. There were times when he would get angry and refuse to boil. When he refused to cook, everyone in the house, and even the children who started arriving later, had to starve. Sometimes that was a big problem for them because he stole some of the best moments they should have shared as a couple. Most worryingly, the children also had to suffer. The fact that women still have reasons not to cook for their men may not be inevitable, but the food is one of the most basic needs a man needs should not be overlooked.
  • 18. 18 | P a g e CLEANING AS A BASIC NECESSITY Another basic human need that we will see is neatness or neatness. Cleanliness is next to godliness. We have heard this phrase several times. But are we following this? A lot of people don't know when we should. However, some of us don't even respect the people who clean up the garbage. There are many downsides to not keeping clean. Everyone must follow the cleanliness. Let's find out more about it. Cleanliness means no dirt, dust, stains, or bad odors. The cleaning objectives are health, beauty, the absence of unpleasant odors, and the prevention of the spread of dirt and pollutants on oneself and others. Cleanliness means a lot to a man, more than words can express. Some men are dirty, so men may have poor hygiene when taking care of themselves and their surroundings. Most of these men who have poor hygiene often look for a woman who has better hygiene than them
  • 19. 19 | P a g e because when they search for a woman to be with, they prefer a clean woman even if they have problems themselves. 'Hygiene. Cleanliness is naturally a basic need that a man is known to satisfy. It is everyone's responsibility, and everyone must keep their environment clean and hygienic. It also recalls good, positive thoughts that slow down the onset of illnesses. I know those married couples who have a big problem in their marriage. This couple did not date for a long time before they got married. The man met the lady on a business trip in another state. They started a relationship that was otherwise a long-distance relationship. They didn't stay the same, there were a lot of obstacles, but they found a way to overcome them. Within five months of their relationship, they concluded that they should marry. The distance became an issue; they had to find a way out of their relationship. The wife had a job in the state she lived in, so there should be something as serious as marriage before she quit a job she loved so much that he left it. Had helped pay her bills. Their wedding plans have started. It wasn't long before they got married. The lady moved from the state she was living
  • 20. 20 | P a g e in into the state her husband was staying in to live together. Now, this is where the real problem started. They started having issues that they couldn't talk about much. The man who had always enjoyed having a lot of sex began to decrease his wife's demand for sex. Even when she gestures to get him in the mood, he has difficulty getting in the air. Most of the sex he had with his wife was more of a compulsory meeting than a pleasant one. At one point, he started cheating on his wife. The marriage suffered many setbacks. The marriage problem was that the woman he was married to had cleanliness issues. She had a hard time cleaning up her surroundings, and she also had difficulty cleaning herself up. These are two big problems that we would have. The man had to live in a dirty house; he also lived with an unclean woman. At first, when they got married, he didn't always agree that the house always looked bad because his wife didn't clean. Then I did a little cleaning. His wife rarely cleaned the house. He had to do this every once in a while to avoid getting in trouble with his wife because she wasn't cleaning the house. At one point, he got tired because he first thought he was doing it to help his
  • 21. 21 | P a g e wife with the housework; at first, he believed his wife might sit down and make sure let things start to turn out the way they should, but he found something that was coming out. The act of cleaning the house became his responsibility. His wife left him completely. She did a bit of cleaning before now and then, although it still wasn't enough, but when she noticed her husband was still cleaning when she wasn't, she gave up completely and stopped cleaning. The House. Hygiene and cleanliness play an important role in our daily routine. It is important because it prevents dangerous diseases like dengue fever, typhoid fever, hepatitis, and other illnesses caused by mosquito bites. A big problem with some women who make their husbands avoid helping them with housework is that they find a way to make their husband's chores help them with their husband's responsibility. Take, for example, that the husband always helped his wife cook. Whenever she was not in the mood to cook or was not home on time, he would go to the kitchen and start cooking; some women find a way to abuse this. In a way, they always put the man in a situation where he should be cooking most of the house. While this is not common in all women,
  • 22. 22 | P a g e it is a trend among some women. These attitudes lead some men to define roles and stick to them. The marriage should not be such that the couple has to stick to one particular position all the time. Yes, some parts are intended for a husband. Some roles are meant for a wife, but either one can come and help the other from time to time. Marriage does not work well too rigidly. If you are the type who always gives up your role just because your partner helps you from time to time, chances are you will lose that privilege of your partner. Your partner will develop a thick skin to help you in your roles. Let's go back to the story of the woman we were talking about, whom her husband must have cheated on because he didn't take housework seriously. Whenever her husband slept with her, he didn't like that she didn't look clean. Her inability to take cleanliness seriously, especially within her own body, always turns out to be a great disgust for her husband. Some men do not like to have sex with dirty women. When a woman is clean, the man does his best in the bedroom. He doesn't stop; he explores her body and gives her the best orgasm of her life. Some women can never reach orgasm through ordinary thrusting, as
  • 23. 23 | P a g e they can never achieve orgasm if the sex involves normal missionary sex. Most of these women would need some foreplay to bring them to climax. Foreplay is never complete without oral sex. Oral sex is one of the most effective ways to get a woman to orgasm. Oral sex is like an easy route to bring a woman to orgasm. For a man to perform oral sex on a woman, she must at least be clean. No man would want to put his mouth on a woman who doesn't take cleanliness seriously. It is also unhealthy to perform oral sex on a woman who does not take her hygiene seriously. Now, these women will complain that their man cannot convince them in bed that their man is selfish, but they never knew that they were the cause of all their problems. They never knew that they were the reason their sex life was falling apart. I can never justify cheating, but according to the story we told earlier, this man cheated on his wife because she was not clean. He needed something from his wife; he couldn't get it. Not that what he needed was a big deal, but his wife didn't take it seriously, so she had to start looking elsewhere. Of course, he had been starved for sex. Her wife may always be willing to give him sex, but somehow he can't just
  • 24. 24 | P a g e sleep with her. He would always lose his temper and beat her every time he wanted to sleep with her; he kept starving until he got tired of dying and started cheating. The cleanliness problem can be easily solved if the woman has the time to commit, but commitment is not the first thing to consider here. There should be good communication before you consider compromise as a factor here. There is a big difference between communication and good communication. Some people communicate, but they don't communicate well. Some women don't like to be corrected when they are wrong. Women like this will be worse at good communication. Once the man tries to talk to them about something they think they should work on, these women find it offensive and hit the man with all their strength and anger. When a woman continues to do this over and over, the husband or boyfriend will likely start to avoid talking to her about how to fix the things she's not good at or the things she neglects that matter. When someone stops complaining about something you don't do well, it doesn't always mean they've learned to understand you. Sometimes it can mean that
  • 25. 25 | P a g e the person is tired of putting up with you. You could end up losing that relationship. If the woman can enable good communication, we can start talking about compromise. Change is the only constant in life. Nobody is perfect. They all have that part of them that is not quite perfect; some people would like to see their fault there. Relationships are meant to make us better. For a relationship rooted in love to make you a better person, you have to be open to embracing change; you have to be available to making positive commitments. When you compromise, especially in things that are not good for your relationship, it helps you a lot to mend yourself and become a better person; it also helps build your relationship and make it stronger than you. If a woman who has toilet problems can compromise and resolve this problem, one of her man's basic needs will be met, her relationship will be strengthened, and her man will be one of her most loyal.
  • 26. 26 | P a g e SEX IS A BASIC NECESSITY Sex is one of the basic needs that should never be overlooked. In fact, among all basic human needs, sex is the most crucial. Sex is very important to a man's mental, social and psychological well-being. A man with good enough sex is far better in terms of productivity than a man who is starved for sex. A man who is tired of good sex is much happier than a man who lives in a life in which he is hungry for sex. When it comes to the existence of a man, sex is a fundamental necessity indispensable for the well-being of a man. 90% of the time, when a man wants to feel deeply connected to someone, that has to involve some form of sexual liberation. For men, physical intimacy equates to sex, plain and simple. It's hard to understand, especially for women, but it's part of becoming a man. As we get older, we are less hugged or hugged by parents and family. We were less "affected" by what we wanted to play less. We were less affected by what we wanted to be "affected" less and less. Most women love sex, but they don't need it like the air they breathe.
  • 27. 27 | P a g e However, women need to touch, caress, hug, hug, look lovingly and hug. They like it in the right circumstances, but they don't NEED it! Women cannot go months without physical intimacy. It's just that they don't need the same physical privacy as men. Human beings of both sexes have great variability in their impulses. Some women want more sex than most men, while some men wish for less sex. You cannot make assumptions about people based on a generalized pattern of sexual desire that may or may not exist. Men do not have this problem and may find casual sex more attractive than most women. According to an article credited to Unheard, the article was published on March 24, 2019. It was written by Tom Chivers, one of the editors of Unheard Science. This article discussed a 2001 meta-analysis by Roy Baumeister, Kethleen Catanese, and Kathleen Vohs. When the results of this analysis were combined with 150 other previous studies, men were found to have more frequent sexual thoughts, fantasies, and arousal than women. One of the studies said that almost all the men used for the scan, about 91% experienced sexual desire
  • 28. 28 | P a g e several times a week or even more. Women made up only about 52% of their male counterparts. It was also found that men want to have more sex throughout the life of a relationship. One of the studies found that wives consistently reported that they were quite satisfied with the amount of sex they had had in their marriage, but men, on average, wanted a raise of around 50%. Another study found that most husbands, about 60%, but only a minority of wives, about 32%, agreed that they would prefer to have sex more often. One study found that men initiate sex with their partners about two to three times more often and reject them less often than their female partners. According to the analysis, gay men have sex more often than lesbians. Went further Specifically, they report that 47% of gay men reported having sex more than once a week, compared to 32% of lesbians. This study on the British National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles. This study was labeled NATSAL. This study found that
  • 29. 29 | P a g e 22% of UK women aged 16 to 74 had masturbated within four weeks. This study was extended to British men, and it was found that 50% of the men had masturbated within four weeks. This percentage proportion was constant at all ages used in the results. According to the study, women were about twice as likely to report a lack of sexual interest, a lack of arousal during sex, or a lack of pleasure during sex. Men were about 30% more likely than women (around 61% to 41%) to want to have sex much more than they currently have. We can see how craving men are for sex from the results we looked at. The fact that sex is a man's most crucial basic need is not in question. There are so many problems that a lack of sex in a relationship or marriage can cause. Some men easily find fault with everything their wives do. Like these men, they will always complain no matter how hard their wives try to do things right and not make them groan. Men like this find it hard to see anything good in their wives' doing. Most of the men in such situations are men deprived of sex. Lack of sex can make a man lose happiness. When a man is not happy, he complains about everything around him.
  • 30. 30 | P a g e There is this common tendency among most wealthy families. We've seen so many billionaires and other rich people get divorced because of things we don't hear all the details of. They sometimes attribute it to the husband cheating on the wife or finding someone else in whom they have developed more interest than his wife. Divorce is very high among wealthy couples. It's a bit surprising to some people because when you see wealthy couples, you conclude that they have everything that life has to offer like they have everything they need, everything. They wanted, they had the money to buy it. So we assume that life is better for them, but the truth is that there are big problems that come with being rich. Rich men cheat more than broke men. They got the money and could afford to surprise most pretty women, but the problem didn't arise just because they got the money. These people were probably rich before they met his wife. They were perhaps rich when they married his wife. They were perhaps rich on their wedding day, and they probably were when they were on their honeymoon. So, the claim that they cheated because they are rich may not be entirely true or may not always be. The real story lies between the three basic
  • 31. 31 | P a g e human needs: food, cleanliness, and sex. Most women married to wealthy men had neglected these three basic needs of men. They ignored these three needs, which had been crucial for the good existence of the man they married. When they first married this man, he was probably not as rich as now; they took these basic needs seriously. His wives made sure they cooked enough for the husband, cleaned sufficient, and gave him as much sex as possible. But over time, these women got carried away. They focused on other things in life and ignored these basic needs of their man. No matter how much we try to ignore or avoid it, most men never forget their basic needs. You might treat them well for other purposes, but they feel very helpless once their basic needs aren't met. Some men who have been deprived of their basic needs may not complain because the marriage has lasted a long time and because depriving them of their basic needs has lasted too long, it could become a norm for their wives, a standard that husbands hate so much, but it may not be talked about. Things will continue this way until it gets to a time that the man finds it difficult to keep it in. At this time, we see explosions in different ways,
  • 32. 32 | P a g e and most of the time, these explosions affect the marriage so much that they lead to divorce. The main reason women do not have sex for longer periods is that most women find it very difficult to be satisfied with regular sex. Simply put, sex with your partner doesn't lead to orgasm most of the time. It makes you want not to have it so often. This is still a lot of fun and enjoyable even without an orgasm, but it doesn't seem all that necessary. Do you know what most women can't do for months? Masturbation. Yes, most women masturbate. Many. Probably more than once a day in some cases. This is how you can consistently achieve sexual satisfaction. This means that a women's mythical "low libido" is just a little appetite for a sweaty guy on her who has no idea what he is doing or her adorable sexy honey bunny turning them on for a while. These men who suffer denial of their basic needs are very patient. They love his wife. They don't want them to get out of their life. They
  • 33. 33 | P a g e believe and hope that it can go back to before. Some men will even go out of their way to complain about how they have been deprived of their basic needs hoping that their wives will change. Most women in situations like this hardly change. I'm not saying they don't change, but they hardly change; maybe that's why it mainly leads to a path of no return: divorce. In short, the basic needs of every man are food, cleanliness, and sex. If a woman can stick to giving a man as much as these three basic needs, a man's love for her will only grow stronger and better. If, as a woman, you have gone off the rails by giving your man these three basic needs, she looks inside and fixes everything. No relationship is perfect. We live learning; we learn by making changes positive changes.
  • 34. 34 | P a g e CHAPTER 2 MAN UNDER CONSTRUCTION Have you ever been to a place where a house has been built? Have you been to a place where a home has been built from ground to roof level? If so, you'll notice that it takes a lot of work to make a house from ground floor to roof level. But before you start building a home, the first thing that should come to your mind is the plan—how to make it. Next, we talk about finances. You have to raise the necessary funds to finance the construction project before you even start talking about it. When we can extend the money, we start talking about the site where the building will be erected. Finding a place where the building would be constructed would be very difficult given the purpose of the building. If the building is intended for businesses, it should be
  • 35. 35 | P a g e located where customers who wish to do business with the owners of the company for which the building is designed can easily access it. If the building is for the residence, it's a different game. It should be located in places where no danger to human existence can be. For example, a building intended for the residence cannot be found in a forest that shelters wild animals. A structure intended for human life should also not be located in places where industries should be located. Placing buildings in areas designed for industries could be detrimental to human health. Now, having touched on the issues with the location of a building, we have started talking about the construction. This is when we start talking about who to employ and who not to employ in the construction of the building. Construction of the building will normally start from the foundation and continue until it reaches roof level. Each level of building construction has its challenges. The person who owns the building would have prepared in advance to overcome all of these challenges. Depending on who is building, there may be challenges that threaten the continuation of the building. The owner can even stop construction for a while to start later. These are all processes. No matter how long it took, what
  • 36. 36 | P a g e matters is that the building has finally been constructed. Some people can go bankrupt on the construction road. Some may decide to sell the building under construction to finance themselves among those who fail. Some may go out of their way to take out a loan to complete construction; others will simply decide to stop until they can raise funds to continue construction. Some mistakes could be made that would destroy all the efforts and work put into the structure. Take, for example, when the construction of the building has a faulty foundation, it will most likely lead to the ruin of the building when you least expect it. Such a building will not stand the test of time. At a time like this, most of the world is struck by natural disasters that have caused them much damage. People don't work tirelessly to build buildings that can withstand the threat of natural disasters. Faced with a natural disaster that threatens real estate constructions, imagine what will happen to a building with weak foundations compared to solid foundations. Buildings with weak foundations will collapse just as quickly and easily as buildings with strong foundations. Even in the condition of the roof of the building, you have to do a good job. A poor roof will easily be blown away by the wind. An inferior wall will
  • 37. 37 | P a g e collapse and cannot even support the top of the building. So when the construction is done correctly, the building becomes a solid building. Now let's talk business. We can also compete with creating a company as a construction process. To start a business, you need to get the idea, probably long before the money to start the industry occurs to you. That still does not mean that one cannot start thinking about a business when the money is at hand. I am trying to establish that having a business idea that is already waiting long before the money to start the company is much more efficient and organized. So the idea stage is the first stage. After the idea stage, perhaps the stage on how to raise funds necessary to finance the business. Once the money is collected, the next thing to do is plan. Planning is one of the most important steps when considering business construction. Like building a house, you have to plan. The program can precede the financing, or the funding can forego the plan. Regardless of how you decide to go about it, the bottom line is that there is a plan in place to make sure
  • 38. 38 | P a g e everything goes smoothly. If you don't have a plan, you may have set your business up for an early wreck. Likely, the company does not have a direction or a goal. During planning, one will decide the type of business in which to participate. In economics, there is such a thing as "what, where, who, how, and why." They are primarily addressed during the planning phase. After planning, everything will go live. This is where the plans to bring the company itself. There are a lot of steps and things that should be done, but we're not talking about business so that we wouldn't go into them. The point made earlier is that construction is a process. One thing about the process is that. The process involves fractions of ingredients or, better yet, traces of factors or steps that had to be added to give rise to the process itself. The process is that its fragments are ordered to appear one after the other. Most of the time, the pieces are produced in a dependent way on each other. This means that when one shard goes bankrupt, it affects another bit greatly. It is like the case of a high school student who decides to skip a math class because he believed
  • 39. 39 | P a g e that the subject being taught was difficult. This student chooses to join the math class once the teacher has completed the course. When the teacher is done with the topic, the student has decided to come back. By this time, another subject had been introduced, perhaps simpler than the previous one, from which the student was escaping. Even if this new subject is simpler, it is very difficult for the student to understand it. To understand this unique subject, it is necessary to have taught the previous subject that the student had avoided in the skipped period. Classes. This is exactly how the process works. You have to follow all the fragments one after the other. You need to ensure that you don't skip any of the snippets. Most importantly, you need to make sure you get it right to conquer each of the shards you are dealing with. When you can't handle just one of the shards, there's a good chance you couldn't handle all of the other shards involved in the process. A process is something that probably takes a long time to accomplish. Anyone or anything going through a function must be rich in patience; sometimes, there would be a great need to develop the skill of endurance. This is because some of the fragments involved in the process can seem very exhausting.
  • 40. 40 | P a g e Some of them might want to scare you. Some of these may make you want to give it all up, but with patience and even resistance, you'll get through the process. A man under construction is a process. He has so many fragments that he has to overcome. Like the building construction and business construction we cited earlier, he has so many levels of caucuses that he has to go through. He has bits and pieces that he probably has to get through to complete his build. As we said before, a building with a really bad foundation often has a lot going on. This building may not stand the test of time. At the slightest pressure, the structure can collapse. It is synonymous with building spirit. Most men in construction struggle because of their very poor foundation. Before we talk about the poor foundations that plague most men who go through construction, let's take a look at what it means for a man to go through construction.
  • 41. 41 | P a g e So who is a construction worker? What does it mean that a man is under construction? A construction man is a man who is still struggling to achieve his great goal in life. The great purpose of every man is to get rich and be successful. Most men believe that when they are rich, they are already successful. So a construction man is that man who always works tirelessly to get rich. This man has many things that he wants to get involved in or many things he was already engaged in. He thinks that once he can conquer the things he has been involved in, he could become rich. Those who have yet to get involved in anything will work tirelessly to get involved in what they believe will make them rich. The point here is that they have this goal that they think will turn them into becoming rich. They put that goal ahead and continue working towards achieving their goal. Every plan has its challenges. Different purposes will most likely have other peculiar difficulties to them. The weird problems to working Becoming an actor are unlikely to be the same unusual challenge as a singer. They can be very similar in hard work, but they are always different when seen directly. A man under construction will have to master all these challenges; he must be aware of all these challenges, he will have to
  • 42. 42 | P a g e program himself to overcome all these challenges already identified. When you try to avoid these challenges, it becomes trying to cut corners. Some people may be successful in shortcuts, while others may never be successful in shortcuts. The problem with taking shortcuts is that it lays the foundation for future real failures. Most of the time, shortcut successes always backfire in the future. The people involved most of the time end up in a hard landing on the base. Thus, a man under construction will have to face the challenges associated with construction. You'll need to be patient, you'll need to build up your stamina, and then you'll need to keep working. Working here means that you will have to keep moving forward to get what you are working towards. The fact that there are challenges is not a good excuse to stop along the way. A man under construction must master the act of continuous movement, no matter what challenges lie ahead for the military against him. Then there is this problem that can arise with any man under construction. There's a chance a construction worker will fall. There is a chance that a man under construction will fail at what he does.
  • 43. 43 | P a g e In most cases, the fall is part of the construction process. Or better yet, failing in most cases is part of the build process. A strong man falls a thousand times and keeps on ascending a thousand times. So the problem does not fail; the problem loses and stays on the ground. So when a construction worker falls, he has to get up, no matter what. If you remain seated, you probably won't achieve the same goal you set for yourself. Some people may remain seated or on the ground for a long time after a fall. The longer you sit on the floor, the longer it takes to achieve your goal. While it is always a question of getting up in the event of a fall, refusing to get up as quickly as possible may delay the complete construction. If left on the ground for too long, it may take longer to construct fully. So if you have to stay on the basis, don't do it for too long. The delay can be dangerous. The delay can rob you of an opportunity you need to help you complete your full build. While you are sitting, another person standing can take advantage of this opportunity meant for you. Nature does not allow vacuuming. Any space that has been created must surely be covered in some way. The area you created by staying
  • 44. 44 | P a g e downstairs must be covered by someone else. Someone has to fill that space; when that person fills that space, the person ends up getting these good things that you should have gotten if you were standing up. Since I have taken the time to explain what it means for a man to be under construction, let's look at a house where a bad foundation can affect a man under construction. The first example we will see is a man who did not have a college degree or a man who dropped out of college because he wanted quick construction. Some men prepared so quickly that they had to drop out of college. These men wanted to develop ASAP; they skipped college because they thought that something else on their minds would make them build faster. Men who avoided going to college to pursue their dreams at one point realized that they needed a college degree to go far in the quest for which they had dropped their college degrees. The case of Mark Zuckerberg is a very good example for everyone. Mark had to skip his college degree to pursue his dream of starting Facebook, but at some point, he had to go back to school because having a college degree was crucial to building him. One of the fragments involved in
  • 45. 45 | P a g e completing the process of building a man is having a college degree. Most of the men who They skipped college degrees to get involved in something else that they thought was giving them money; later, they started to be stunted for the very reason they had dropped out of college. If you drop out of college to work for a high-paying company, you will never reach the managerial position in that company if you don't have a college degree. Your growth into the leadership position of the company you work for will be limited. Those with a college degree will likely pass it along the way, even if you started working for the company before them. There are a lot of opportunities that could present themselves that could be open only to those who already had their college degree; because you didn't get yours, you end up not being able to take advantage of the opportunity. So, most men who still struggle to build themselves, especially those who should have been completely assembled, are fighting because they failed to get a college degree.
  • 46. 46 | P a g e Another example that We will see having skills that distinguish one from the other. Have you ever wondered why some companies always choose certain workers over others during the layoff period? As these companies mostly ignore the verification of who came first and who came last, they just fire some people and leave others based on their criteria, which they keep to themselves. Have you ever wondered why things like this happen? The world has been affected by the coronavirus pandemic. This pandemic has caused great damage to all the countries of the world. So many people have died from this horrible pandemic, but it didn't stop there. The Covid 19 pandemic ended up crushing the world economy. Many countries are currently in recession due to the severity of the Covid 19 pandemic that has affected their economies. As the economy goes through very difficult times, different companies and commercial establishments struggle to stay on their feet. Some had collapsed because they could not withstand the hit of the Covid 19 pandemic. Those that collapsed added further pressure to the economy as more people were left unemployed.
  • 47. 47 | P a g e Companies that are still struggling to survive are doing their best to stay. They are going through very difficult times, doing their best to survive. There was a time when massive downsizing became inevitable. Most companies in all parts of the world have started laying off their employee. They did not have enough money to continue paying all these personnel. They wanted to keep their profit margin low, and to do so, they had to cut their expenses. Layoffs have become inevitable. While trying to lay off staff, one of the first things that were always looked at was the staff's skills. Team with better skills gained the upper hand over those with little or no ability to turn things around. Those who had these super abilities were retained, while those who did not have them were fired. Refusing to learn skills to help you with your job could be another way to build a really bad foundation for your construction. You could end up losing your job due to a small financial strain where you work. That is why it is advisable to take advantage of any opportunity that comes your way to be better than you were, no matter how small it may seem.
  • 48. 48 | P a g e Men in construction have a lot of issues to deal with, especially when it comes to their relationships with women. It is very difficult for a man under construction to stay with a woman. Most women want security. They seek a form of protection in which they are sure of a bright future. Most reasonable women probably want a man with whom they have a secure lot, a man they are confident they can marry, and with whom they can have a family. It is the least that a reasonable woman would want from a man she loves. Women with this mindset may not be interested in the frivolities associated with a loud and extravagant lifestyle. They just want a serious man. Women like this may decide to stick with a construction worker, but how long will they wait? How long will they wait until the man is completely built? Most likely, this man is not completely built-in time; it is also likely that this man is never fully built. Some of these women get tired of waiting and finally take steps to find someone else. Other women appreciate a materialistic lifestyle. These women want to make the most of all that life offers. When women like this are in a relationship with men in construction, they never last long with this man.
  • 49. 49 | P a g e In most cases, they break this man's heart who is being built in the cruelest way possible. Men in construction rarely have a stable relationship because they are seldom financially stable. Some may be quite stable financially, but they may not be as wealthy as some women want. According to an article credited to time, which was edited by Belinda Luscombe and published on October 5, 2021, nearly a third of single adult men live with a parent. Single men are much more likely to be unemployed, financially fragile, and without a college degree than those with a partner. This article highlighted a finding from Pew Research's analysis of 2019 data on the growing gap between American adults who live with a partner and those who do not. While the study focuses less on the effect of marriage and more on the impact that changes in the economic situation have had on marriage, it highlights some unexpected results of the changes in the labor market. During the same period that the fortunes of single men plummeted, the study shows that the proportion of American adults living with a partner, be it a spouse or a single partner, also increased. Significantly
  • 50. 50 | P a g e decreased. In 1990, about 71% of people aged 25 to 54 considered the best years of work had a partner they were married to or lived with. In 2019, only 62% did so. Using information from the 2019 American Community Survey, the Pew study finds that men are now more likely to be single than women. This survey shows that men who struggle to build themselves are likely to lose their relationships. They will most likely remain single when they go through the construction face. Those who did eventually get married would be threatened with losing their marriage. The pressure of financial instability is too much for them. It becomes even more difficult when the man does not have a college degree. That's why I had to use the college dropout problem to find a quick build, as in the example above. A man who can get a college degree but decides to give it up finds himself in a dangerous corner. It is a bet that could turn out very badly. Sure, it worked for some very popular billionaires across the world, but what if it doesn't work for you? What if what you had to give up to continue didn't work?
  • 51. 51 | P a g e One of the main reasons why men faced with construction hardly have a stable relationship is not unrelated to the fact that most women these days prefer to opt for "pre-baked bread" instead of "making bread by themselves ."They are looking for a soft landing. They like to follow the easy path rather than this path that would present them with many challenges. Love hardly matters today. Some prefer to be in a relationship or marry for convenience, but the truth is that people who enter a relationship for convenience have very bad bases. A relationship built for comfort is very likely to collapse when least expected, and when it does, the prospect of rescue becomes nearly impossible. I saw a story online when I was reading some things. This story shocked me so much that I had to ask myself over and over again, "What did I just read?" I had to double-check what I was reading to ensure I wasn't reading a made-up story. I saw the story on Facebook. I think an African created the account. Not African American. An African talking began it about what happened to his friend. According
  • 52. 52 | P a g e to the person who made the post, his friend had a relationship with this lady. He loves her so much and did everything he could to make things work out for them. He was having trouble earning money. He was under construction, so he was not a rich man, but he worked very hard to make things better for himself. This lady depended a little on him. He wasn't winning big, but he supported her the best he could. From what I understood from the post, I think the lady was that type of woman who always acted as if they were entitled to certain things once they were in a relationship with a man, like the type of woman who wants you to pay all their bills just because you ended up in a relationship with them. So this guy was trying his best to live up to his expectations. He made many commitments to find himself in love with this woman. This woman that he loved also showed that she loved him. I want to put it this way she "puts on a show" because I don't think she's ever wanted her. Because if she had, she would not have done what I told her. They had no problems. As if there were no signs that they were having problems, everything was going very well. I'm sure this boy would have come out to brag about how wonderful his girlfriend was; he would have gone out to tell his friends a lot of
  • 53. 53 | P a g e wonderful things about his girlfriend without knowing what was going to happen to her. So this guy got a wedding invitation from an acquaintance to attend a wedding. He didn't suspect anything. When the wedding date came, he went to the wedding and was sitting and waiting like all the other wedding guests. They were waiting for the bride and groom to enter for the wedding to begin. Now the groom entered, it was time for the bride to enter. When the bride finally came in, the bride turned out to be this man's girlfriend. This man was shocked beyond measure. I put myself in his place a bit; he must have lost him, he must have felt that he was dreaming, but after a while, everything was still in front of him, he understood that it was real, it was not a dream. He couldn't help it. He had to express it. He was going crazy. She was the woman he loved. She was the woman he worked tirelessly to marry. She had been motivating him to keep working harder to improve his life so they could build their future together; he never knew she had other plans. The problem was that she had other plans; the problem was that she had other plans, but she had never told her boyfriend. She kept the marriage a secret from him acted like they were great until the last moment. This man began to
  • 54. 54 | P a g e work. He couldn't control his emotions. He then was taken away from the wedding venue by surrounding security. There was a guy I knew. He's a very calm guy. Very kind, and I wouldn't be wrong if I said he is the most humble person I have ever met in my life. He does not smoke or drink alcohol. I think he's that kind of man that all women want to be with. Now I know a few guys who have qualities this guy has, but they just can't keep them in their pants. In a way, they do it with several women. Even though this guy was good-looking, he was still a cool person. In a way, he appreciated our friendship because he was the type of person who would never dare to take advantage of you, no matter how vulnerable you became in his eyes. This guy had been with very few women; now, I'm not interested in all the women he's been with. I'm only interested in the one who almost blew it up. The less I forget to add; it was under construction. I was fighting. He had goals he worked tirelessly for and did his best to achieve them. So he met this wonderful lady. They clicked so easily. Their relationship was the kind I wanted for myself. It was the kind of relationship most of us envied having. The lady
  • 55. 55 | P a g e came from a very wealthy family, but she never worried about her man's financial problems. She loved him as he was, and he never accepted anything from her, even though she always tried to give him things. Some men are like that; they do it to keep their dignity. Now, as wonderful as their relationship was, they had a big challenge. The big challenge they had was the girl's family. They wanted her to marry someone else, someone closer to the family, the son of a family friend, a very wealthy guy, and she insisted she couldn't. Not do it because she had always seen this guy as a brother, but the family carried on. Increasing pressure on it. They did all they could. This, my friend, trusted this lady; she kept reassuring him and reassuring him that she was never going to leave him. She finally left him for this guy in a very cruel way. He didn't see it coming; she just cut him off. My friend was so heartbroken he was suicidal because they had already planned to go to the registry. She filed it a few days before they went to the registry. A man under construction is a man who is building his future. Most of those who have grown up today have seen the same face. If your
  • 56. 56 | P a g e happiness is in a man under construction, why not work and build each other up? There is a deep satisfaction in marrying a man you've fought with, a man you love. For men in construction, make sure you don't make any bad moves that will ruin all the effort you put in. Follow the right process. Do the right thing and remember that people can break your heart; you have to develop a strong tolerance, you have to work harder, you will soon.
  • 57. 57 | P a g e CHAPTER 3 THE BROKE MAN It's certainly not pleasant to be broke. Therefore, you should avoid it by creating income and passive income. When I was feeling very broke, I came up with some of the best ideas of my life. Most people who go bankrupt get up, dust themselves off, and start over. They do this as many times as necessary. And again. And each time they learn, they are less stunned. Some people have a mental illness or other difficulties and will never recover. It's sad. People like this need others to help them. Financial wellness is all about mood. We can look at two different paths: career prospects and spending versus saving.
  • 58. 58 | P a g e The earning potential is possibly much lower for someone who may not have a vital education, degrees, or work experience. The less money you make, the less you can spend on savings. With a lower salary, almost everything you earn is consumed for necessities. To get out of the loop, you need to follow one of the three components mentioned above. However, suppose someone does eventually get out of the lower- income cycle. If the mindset is not aligned with the practice of disciplined savings, what is earned will be spent immediately. It is only through a disciplined accumulation of salvation that one can emerge from the poverty trap (easier said than done, as there are many prerequisites to getting to this point). Someone coming from a place of financial instability must avoid unnecessary expenses at all costs. Avoiding the "slow lifestyle" is critical to transforming the economic prospects of the future.
  • 59. 59 | P a g e If you find yourself in a position where you can barely get by on the money you make, I implore you to look for one of the top three drivers of change: education, degrees/certifications, or work experience. A friend of mine told me this story that happened to his father. This friend is not an American, as I know that he would most likely have sought legal action if he were an American. He was telling me about his father. His father was in his seventies at the time. His father was a strong man despite his age. At his age, he still did most of his things when he was younger. His father never liked staying in one place without looking for a job to keep busy. He did most of the things he wanted for himself, including doing laundry. This man was known for something; he rarely gets sick. As if he could last a year without getting sick. He rarely went to the hospital, except when necessary, perhaps for an exam. So, at that moment, this man couldn't understand what was happening to his body. What he was experiencing was something he had never experienced before in his life. He knew he was sick, so he decided to seek treatment. He had this man who was his doctor. The doctor had him checked, and a few minutes later, they
  • 60. 60 | P a g e asked him to go home and get enough rest after receiving the medication. Now this man was not wealthy. He didn't have much. His family would best be described as average citizens. His sons were all grown men, but they were still under construction. Now this man has come home and done precisely what the doctor told him. He rested a lot and took his medication as prescribed; he recovered. In no time, he was back to his routines. He resumed his usual activities but noticed something different about him. He didn't seem as strong as he used to be, but he didn't take it seriously. After three months, he became ill again and received treatment; this time, he had to stay in the hospital for a few days. He had some complications before arriving at the hospital, so the doctor asked him to stay in the hospital for a few days to fix the difficulties. He did what he was told, and in five days in the hospital, he was feeling better. Finally, they asked him to go home. He returned home, but the craziest thing was that this disease came back in different forms, and he kept going to the hospital to meet this same doctor who was taking care of his case. He could no longer go alone; one of his sons still had to accompany him to see the
  • 61. 61 | P a g e doctor. During one of his visits to the hospital, the doctor told his son a shocking story. He told her to take her father home. This guy couldn't understand what the doctor meant because his father was far from well. Later, the doctor said that his father would not survive the disease. Then the doctor told him that he was wrong with his father. Her father died about two days later. It was a painful experience. The doctor had hidden the real cause of his illness from the man's family because he believed they were broke, couldn't afford a transplant, or whatever. He only had to tell them the true nature of the man's illness when he was sure he would not be able to control the man's condition. Even if he had told them about this man's natural state of health, they would not have had the means to provide him with the care he needed because they were bankrupt, but professionalism demands that he do so. He speaks, but he does not.
  • 62. 62 | P a g e I knew a man who had financial problems; he also had health problems. You have diabetes and often have trouble controlling your health. There was a time when he had this pain in his leg that doctors were considering amputating him, but he found a way around it and recovered. When he married his wife, she was like the best thing ever happened to him. He was pretty stable financially. Now that they had children, a lot had changed. This man should be in his early fifties, and his wife should probably be in her forties. His wife had always been a worldly woman. She had always been the kind of woman who put a lot of pressure on her man to get him what he needed, whether he could afford it or not, and she was a stay-at-home mom, doing nothing to generate income. 'Silver. . At home. They are an African American family. So, I've been watching them for a while, and I didn't like the way things were between them. I must have had a conversation with people who had known them before me, and they told me a lot about them. This man had suitable investments before he married his wife, but he lost them every year after he married his wife. He had to take full responsibility for her and her family. The pressure was so much on him. Then he went bankrupt, and the little he earned
  • 63. 63 | P a g e was used to pay his household bills or his children's school fees. One of his sons was already in college. Then one faithful night, I saw someone release this woman with a van. It was the first time I saw this, but it was not the last time because I saw her fall for this same rich guy several times. She was having an affair with him, and her husband never found out. She started cheating on him because he collapsed couldn't meet most of his financial needs. Money changes people a lot. The money would make the people who promised to stay with you come to rain and shine to leave you; even when they decide to stay with you, they turn their backs on you to cheat on you. A big problem comes from being broke. There was a lady that I liked at the time. He loved her so much and wanted to have something with her. So she was much younger, but I knew what she wanted; I knew that she would make her happy if she allowed me to be hers, hers. She wasn't going to play it. But I noticed there were a lot of guys flirting with her. These guys wanted to have
  • 64. 64 | P a g e a thing or two with her. She was a pretty lady. Seeing all these guys approaching her made it a bit overwhelming for me to come here at first. Since, at that time, she was still relatively young, she had no money of her own. She still lived with my parents. I don't have a house of my own either, but I still wanted it. She was not a kid who always liked to settle for less. Whenever she wanted something, she would always go, no matter what challenges were thrown at me. I thought to myself, despite the number of guys that I noticed kept coming and trying to fit her into her life, I was different. I was a boy on my own; I believed I could give her real love that some of those who came to her would not. To be honest with me, I don't look bad; my appearance has always been the type that most girls would die for. I finally reached out to this lady and told her how much I loved her. Now that she is the most exciting part. After I told her that I loved her, she neither refused nor accepted me; she gave me a condition that she would have to meet if she wanted her to return my love to me. I never knew what she had in mind, so I told her that I would fulfill her condition, whatever it was. She told me that she would soon be celebrating her nineteenth birthday, that if she wanted to love her, that
  • 65. 65 | P a g e she should buy him a car for her birthday, that it was the only way for her to return my love or love me. I didn't understand what she was saying, I thought she was joking, but she was serious. I had to ask myself: are we talking about love or doing a business transaction? I was frustrated, but I have to be honest here at this age if she could have allowed me to buy him a car, that she would have. I liked him in a way. She was not able to get her the care she needed to be made me feel terrible about me. Not getting the love I wanted so badly made me worse. Now that I'm older, when I think about that experience, I wonder if she would love me if she bought her the car, as if she could afford the car, she was going to let her love me for faithful? I thought she would do it at the time, probably because of my age and inexperience. Love is not something you could promise someone you would create for them. As if you couldn't make love to exist in a place where it doesn't initially live. It is never genuine when love is made or created in this way. It always comes with a lot of problems. A broke guy always has to settle for less. He has to live a life of denial.
  • 66. 66 | P a g e One of the most deplorable states that one would ever find himself in is being in a state that one would need something so badly but can't afford it. You can only have fantasies of having all those stuff you desire, you might even find yourself dreaming about having them, but you'll wake up discovering that you can't have them, and the feeling is very frustrating. Being broke comes with a lot of frustration. You see people around your age doing something you want to do, but you can't do it because you're broke. You see people going to places you so much want to go, but you can't go to such sites because you're broke. You see people having things you want to have, but you can't have them because you're broke. Some of these people will even go out of their way to take that which you so much want to have from you. Being broke is a very pathetic state in which one would ever want to find himself. There are two kinds of broke men I'll be talking about. The good broke man and the bad broke man. The good broke man is that broke man, but he doesn't allow being broke to change his morals. A lot of crimes are happening in the world. Since the advent of Covid 19, the crime
  • 67. 67 | P a g e rate in the world has increased drastically. Every country in the world has recorded more crimes than it used to in the past. So many people had lost their jobs. You know one thing about losing one's job, when someone loses his job, he loses the ability to pay his bills. He loses the ability to live a comfortable life; he loses the ability to get most of the basic things he needs for the smooth running of his life. The experience is very challenging, and it comes with a great load of frustration. Perhaps this person that had lost his job used to have some level of frustration as a result of working on an average job with an average earning that can't put his life exactly where he had aspired it to be, even when he had the job, he was somewhat frustrated, imagine how frustrated he would be after he had lost the job. The job wasn't giving him all the money he wanted, but he had to continue living off it even though he was frustrated; now that he had lost the job, everything became worse than it used to be. Covid 19 had put a lot of people all over the world in this deplorable situation. Some of those that had lost their job have no other means of livelihood. Some have to return to live with their parents. The frustration had been so high. In a bid to look for how to survive and meet up with their bills, some
  • 68. 68 | P a g e people had embraced crime as a means of survival. There is a lot of fraud everywhere. Just a little mistake you make would get you scammed of your hard-earned money. It became worse since the advent of Covid 19. There are a lot of ways to scam people out there. Dating online is now the scariest way of being in a relationship. Back in the day, falling in love with someone online had always seemed one of the most reliable ways to get a life partner. Many people meet their partners whom they're married to online. This is not the case right now. You could get scammed by someone you thought you were in love with online. I know of this woman in her mid-sixties who once complained so badly about how she was scammed of thousands of dollars. She had been having a lot of failed relationships. The men she was falling in love with were mistreating her. They were either cheating on her or coming into her life to exploit her money. She was heartbroken several times. She decided to take some break from love. She stayed away from love for two whole years. She kind of got back her groove, but this time around, she wanted to do things differently. She didn't want to do things the way she had done in the past that ended up failing. She decided to go online and date. The idea was that
  • 69. 69 | P a g e she wasn't going to put her mind fully on it; she was going to watch as things move and know if she was going to take things seriously or not. So, she had a couple of guys that wanted to have a thing with her, but they weren't just the kind of guys she wanted. She was looking for something in a man she didn't even know herself. Then at some point, she got this guy's message. They started talking; he was very good at what he did. Her conversation was enthusiastic, and she had to stay awake for hours at night while they chatted. She began to yearn for her conversation with this man at one point. At one point, she discovered that she liked her very much. She told him he liked her; he told her he liked her too. They got into a relationship. She was the same person that she said she wouldn't propose to, be cautious, but she forgot about that. They had known each other for a few months, but she felt that she had known him forever. She was very open to him. She did not hide anything from him. At one point, he discovered that she was not doing badly financially. They started talking about how to meet. They even gave him a deadline, which was when she told him that he would be released for being a businessman. He told her that he was a film producer and always busy with production
  • 70. 70 | P a g e work. It happened around this time; she started acting strange, wasn't always responsive, and wasn't always online like before. This woman was worried. She was afraid of losing him. She must have asked to know what was wrong with her, and he told her that she was having financial problems with production and that she needed a lot of money to solve the problems. She told him that she had been having trouble getting loans. He didn't think twice; he offered to help her. After declining a bit, she finally agreed. She sent him the money, and that's it. After she sent him the money, he left. She couldn't find any trace of him. He just disappeared. It was like a movie for her. She was heartbroken. She thought that she finally met this boy that she understood her, she thought that she met this boy who was not going to break her heart, but she ripped her off with her love and money. This woman has become suicidal. She had to undergo another therapy session to get out of the depression her ugly experience had plunged into her. The romantic scam is not the only crime that has increased since Covid 19; there have been numerous robberies in different countries.
  • 71. 71 | P a g e People are now breaking into people's houses and stealing their things more than ever. Armed robberies are on the rise. Some countries, especially those in Africa, now face more severe problems. There have been severe cases of kidnappings and ransom demands. Sometimes, even after the ransom has been paid, the victims die. Despite the increase in the crime rate worldwide due to the threat created by covid 19, the excellent broke does everything possible never to commit a crime. The main reason people commit crimes is lack of satisfaction. When people are not happy with what they have, they will go to great lengths to obtain what they cannot have; most likely, they will commit criminal acts to get what they have and cannot have. A good broker is happy with what he has. No, he tries to cut his coat down to his size. He is not trying to live a life beyond his means. He knows that leading such a lifestyle would only add more problems to his financial burden, so he does his best to avoid it. This person works very hard. He may have lost his job, but he doesn't sit. Still, he goes out looking for alternatives; he seeks something genuine to do to earn money. Then if he finds a woman who loves him, he treats her with respect. There is one thing that people always say, that a man
  • 72. 72 | P a g e loves a woman more when he is broke. Funny to say, I don't know how true that is, but there is a man who loves and respects her wife when he's broke and loves and respects her, even more when she's not. A good broken man does not take advantage of the woman in his life. She may be helping him financially, but he never makes it her responsibility; he never feels entitled. Some good broken men would even refuse to accept financial assistance from their wives. A good broken man is not only good because he behaves well, avoids crime, and treats his wife well; no, that's not all. The most important part of being a good bankrupt is to work hard to improve yourself. Work hard to come out of bankruptcy. Life waits for no one. It's okay to be broke at some point in life, but it sure isn't good to stay broke forever. A ruined man would be ruined so many times, but a good ruined man would struggle to escape the curse of being broke. The only way to do this is to work hard. Avoid laziness and be available for any opportunity that comes your way. Over time, an excellent bankrupt begins to gain some financial stability. Things are starting to work out for him. Begin to climb the ladder of riches. You are
  • 73. 73 | P a g e beginning to gain some financial freedom. Most good broken men often get richer than before. Because they have already learned from the experience that led them to bankruptcy or bankruptcy, they have found their way to overcome default, and life is getting better for them. Now let's talk about the villain. The bad boy is a mess. All the crimes we discussed earlier, from romance scams to kidnapping to robbery and armed robbery, are all associated with the villain. The bad boy is never happy with what he has. The problem is not even that you are not satisfied with what you have, you are not happy with what you have, and you don't want to work and get what you don't have. He commits a crime to get what he doesn't have. Many people should suffer for the actions and inactions of the bankrupt villain, but he doesn't care. The only person, the bad boy, thinks about is himself. One is that he got what he wanted; he doesn't care if anyone else got hurt in the process.
  • 74. 74 | P a g e It is widespread for men with no money to be content with girls who are considered low-level in the eyes of ordinary men. Girls that men think are not physically attractive. Being bankrupt comes with the allure of women who are not so high on their games. Most of the women who attract broke men are women who have been with rich men, and these rich men dumped them. These girls had been victims of failed relationships. They had been treated like garbage in their previous relationships. The men they had dealt with in the past never appreciated them, took advantage of them, and treated them with no respect. As a result of their past unpleasant experiences, these girls lowered their standards, deciding that since all of the high-profile men they were dating had mistreated them, they would settle for someone low. This is how they are in the relationship with the broke guy. But when they meet a bad guy, he treats them even worse than they've been in the past. Guess what? These women still hang out with these broke bad boys, despite how violent they treat them. The ruined villain will infiltrate this woman, but she will always stay with him. This has been one of the problems of psychological suffering for a long time. Being mentally abused for a long time loses self-esteem
  • 75. 75 | P a g e and self-esteem. This lady who had lowered her level had been with men who had mentally assaulted her on several occasions. These men treated her like scum. After getting used to these men for a long time, she lost her self-esteem. Even when this bad boy mistreats her, she can't even walk away from the relationship. She stays there as he takes advantage of her and makes her worse than she was when she first met him. The broke guy is unemployed and not interested in finding a job. The bad boy has nothing to do to improve his life. The bad boy is not interested in learning anything meaningful that develops him. Personal development doesn't give a damn about the bad guy. He depends on the woman in his life for almost anything he wants. She feeds him and even lets him stay with her. Even though the bad boy is broke, he spends most of his money on weed alcohol, and if he gets the chance, he cheats on this woman who had decided to stay with him despite his faults.
  • 76. 76 | P a g e The bad boy is abusing drugs. He is a drug addict. It's a part of your life that has caused you too much trouble. He loves to get high and can spend whatever he has to get high. That's why he's ready to do whatever he can, no matter how bad, to get money to buy the drugs he abuses. In 2002, about a quarter of property and drug offenders in local jails had committed their crimes to obtain drug money, compared to 5% of violent and law enforcement offenders. The Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) Uniform Criminal Reports Survey (UCR) reported that in 2007, 3.9% of the 14,831 known homicides were drug-related. Many crimes committed in different countries have been caused by drug abuse. When people abuse drugs, they lose the ability to have complete control over themselves; they begin to act under the influence of the drug they used, their judgment is manipulated, and
  • 77. 77 | P a g e they end up doing nasty things that they wouldn't have done if they hadn't. They weren't under the influence of drugs. Many traffic accidents that have resulted in the death of people have been caused by people who have abused drugs and have decided to drive under the influence of the drugs they have used. Because these people are high, they lose the ability to control completely. They go without paying attention to the proper speed limits end up hitting someone, even when they run over someone; if the opportunity arises, they try to flee the accident scene. Being addicted to a drug puts a person in a situation where it would be tough to think and act correctly if one cannot access the abused drug. When a bankrupt villain is addicted to drugs, he becomes a big problem. He is broke and needs drugs; he will do everything to get the money to buy those drugs. Since he has not found a job, he sells part of his business to raise money and buy pills. After dealing with most of his possessions, he starts using drugs on credit. Taking medications on credit often puts the bankrupt villain in a challenging position, as
  • 78. 78 | P a g e drug dealers will do anything to get their money back. Knowing that he runs the risk of being mistreated if he does not pay the debts he incurred by buying drugs on credit; the bankrupt villain begins to figure out how to take things from people to buy pills. This is when the robbery begins. That's when he starts robbing people; some would switch to armed robbery. They will do anything to get this drug they abuse. There was a man who shot his wife. She had cheated on him, and he was so mad at her. He decided to file for divorce. They had been in trouble before she cheated on him. His marriage was going in the wrong direction. Her husband was emotionally estranged from her; he lost her job and had abused drugs. She eventually became too comfortable with someone else; she cheated on her husband with him. Her husband was so mad at her. The day she handed him the divorce papers, he was very frustrated. He left the house without saying a word to her. She had already decided to leave the house. They already had two children, so she expected them to discuss doing things with the children. When she finally returned, she was busy in the kitchen.
  • 79. 79 | P a g e She found her gun and shot her multiple times. He was drugged. Her neighbor called the police and was arrested. There had been many crimes that happened that way. Many people have died because someone angry at them pulled the trigger while he was high on drugs. In conclusion, no matter how bad things are for you as a woman, never settle for a bad boy. A ruined villain will take advantage of you, never value your relationship with him, and even put your life in danger. The most important thing is that if you are with a broke and good guy, answer him the best you can; he will never bother you. A good construction man never forgets the woman who supported him when he struggled.
  • 80. 80 | P a g e CHAPTER 4 THE GOOD LOOKING WOMAN A woman's appearance is what matters, and her classification is subjective. No woman can be entirely sure that she is attracted to all men. She must remain vigilant strive to sublimate her beauty while being undermined by nature continually. As a woman, how many times have you been told that you are "beautiful" by your mother and father or by strangers? How often have people complimented you for being "smart" or "hardworking"? Did they tell you that you had to "fight the children" or that one day you would support a family? Physical attractiveness is much more important than most men will admit. I've read that men are much more likely than women to believe
  • 81. 81 | P a g e in "love at first sight" because men value physical attractiveness more than women. Beautiful people are not like the rest of us. Because of their beauty, people treat them differently. And based on decades of psychology research, it can shape many facets of their lives, from their jobs to their personalities to their worldview. First, it might be helpful to define what even "attractive" means. Some things are universally associated with attractiveness, such as facial symmetry, face shape, and fair skin. These may have evolved as an abbreviation for the health of a potential mate. Studies show that average-looking faces are also often considered more attractive. Attractiveness is not based on the ability to see beauty but on detecting flaws. The fewer flaws, the more attractive someone seems. Other attractive elements, such as body shape, weight, and skin color, maybe more subjective and influenced by culture. There are also fewer physical things that can make a person attractive, such as a person's confidence, smell, or voice.
  • 82. 82 | P a g e There was a time in my life when I went through complicated things. Things were going so badly for me that I was having difficulty paying my bills. There was nothing that did not occur to me at the time. Most of the things I tried to get involved in didn't work out well. Everything I tried to do at the time did not go as planned. It was as if the force of nature was fighting any effort I made to build myself. These moments were like the most tempting moments of my life. I believe many men at some point in their lives have gone through this particular face I'm talking about. Those who have gone through this same face have understood what I am talking about. It was a very frustrating experience. Thinking back now, I wondered how I had ever overcome this particular face in my life. Like I'm going through stuff, but I tried my best to keep it all inside. I've never been the type to have a problem and turn my pain into a problem for others. Some people are a problem for themselves and concern for others around them. Once they have issues, those around them start to feel the heat of the problems they are going through in one way or another, but I was not that type of person. I did my best not to become a burden on those around me.
  • 83. 83 | P a g e When I was going through this harsh side of life, I saw love as a luxury. I never wanted to have anything to do with love. He had always been that type of person who believed that people should only consider love when they are stable, just as they should only consider love when their minds are clear. They say that the best way to love others is to love yourself. If you don't love yourself, you probably can't love other people. For me, it was a question of happiness. I wasn't happy with my state in them; I didn't think I could make someone happy back then. I had to be satisfied before making someone happy, but happiness was far from me. So love was a no. On this side of my life, I discovered a great trick, something about love. Love doesn't stop because you want it to stop. Love is not hidden because you want it to hide. Love doesn't cease to exist just because you want it to cease to exist. Just because you don't want to fall in love doesn't mean you won't fall in love. You cannot control love. You cannot detect when you should fall in love and when you should not fall in love. If that had been possible, many people would not have fallen in love with certain people who found out they were in love. Sometimes people stipulate what they want in the people they want to fall in love with.
  • 84. 84 | P a g e People declare the standards they would look for in anyone they pretend to fall in love with. Sometimes things end up going as planned for them; they end up falling in love with someone who lives up to the standards they set. But on some very misleading occasions, some of those people who had published a standard end up falling in love with those who do not meet their standards. They try so hard to avoid it, they try so hard to ignore it, and they try so hard to deny it; in the end, that's always what it is. They fall terribly in love. They finally find themselves in a relationship with someone they never planned to be in a relationship with, someone who is far from the type of person they wanted for themselves. So in the days when I was going through things, love was far from my mind, I didn't want it, but it didn't stay away from me even though I didn't like it. There was a lovely lady who was around me at that time. She lived in my neighborhood. I'm used to seeing her from time to time. She was a sweet woman to behold. I don't know how I started to like her, effusive! It was something I never expected. At first, I thought it was admiration, but it wasn't just that. Over time I
  • 85. 85 | P a g e discovered that I always thought of her; I wanted to make her mine; I even started to get jealous when I saw her with other boys. I didn't go near her right away. I told myself that it was not what I wanted at that time; it was not the most important thing for me; the most important thing was how to earn money, money and improve my luck. I told myself that this crazy feeling I had was distracting, and whatever it was, I didn't want to distract myself in any way. I had goals that I needed to focus on, and I didn't want anything to distract my mind. So I started to fight this feeling. I fought it with everything in me, tried to suppress it with all my might. I left it on for as long as possible, but it didn't work. The feeling kept fighting. It was even worse because he always had to see her around, although he wished he couldn't see her. I couldn't help it since we lived in the same neighborhood. At one point, I couldn't keep fighting him. It was so exhausting. I think I even lost weight back then while trying to fight it. I was surprised myself, like why am I like this? Why should I fall in love now that I focus on life? I was mad at myself, but there was nothing I could do but do what I thought was the right thing to do for me.
  • 86. 86 | P a g e After failing to suppress the feeling I had for this beautiful lady, I decided I would approach her. I didn't see the possibility of being emotionally committed considering the financial issues I was going through, but I still couldn't just sit put and let it slide. So, one faithful day, I met her and requested we talk; she was so cool about it. It kind of gave me the impression that she had already accepted what I was going to tell her even before she heard what I was going to say. When we were settled, I told her how much I was into her. I didn't keep anything hidden; I told her everything. She remained quiet while I said all I had to say. After I was done, she started smiling at me and told me something that I don't think I would ever forget in my life. I'll put it in the quote. She said this, 'I don't date broke guys.' I felt so bad about her response. I didn't see that coming, so it kind of shook me. I had always seen her as someone reasonable, but her response kind of made me realize that I had thought so wrongly about her. She went further to tell me that she was an expensive lady and that I was too broke to handle her. That she would need money for many things and
  • 87. 87 | P a g e that I wouldn't be able to meet her financial needs. I could remember telling her if she loved me or felt something for me; she just said that love doesn't work for her if the guy was broke. She eventually left me and went on her way. I remained seated there for like fifty minutes without standing. I was lost. I felt so bad. I felt so bad because I was rejected for a very wrong reason. I was this hardworking guy doing everything I could to make it big. I believed that alone would make every reasonable lady accept me since I wasn't lazy, but this lady kind of resettled my brain. Three weeks after this lady rejected me, I saw her in someone's car. It was an expensive car. The guy wasn't living in the neighborhood, but that was the only time I saw her in that guy's car. After the day I saw her in the guy’s car, I didn't see her again for like two weeks. I didn't know what was up with her. Before then, I always saw her every day, even after she rejected to accept my love proposal, I was still seeing her in the neighborhood, but after the day I saw her in the guy’s car, I think I saw her the following day, and that was it. I didn't see her again for two weeks straight. Then I kind of started asking around; no one
  • 88. 88 | P a g e seemed to know where she was. I then asked someone around where she lived; it was a lady. This lady told me that she had moved out of the neighborhood. I was hoping she perhaps moved out to stay with her new boyfriend, but this lady told me something shocking. She told me that this lady was raped by a new boyfriend she made. He raped her the first day she went to his house. She was so uncomfortable with the neighborhood that she had to move. I think she moved and stayed with her parents or so. I'm not trying to say that she got raped because she rejected me or refused to accept the love of a broke guy and decided to follow another guy because he was rich. There are so many ladies like her that rejected broke guys and got rich guys, and things went out well for them like they got a rich guy, and he treated them well and was helping them meet up with their bills. Some of these ladies refuse to date broke guys, they insist that they only want to date a rich guy, but they eventually find themselves dating broke guys. This is where love now comes in and plays hard on them. One can say that they don't want to date a broke guy; it will only work out perfectly fine for them
  • 89. 89 | P a g e if they haven't fallen madly in love with a broke guy. Some honey cannot be ignored, no matter how much you try to ignore it. This kind of love is love that you can't suppress. This was what happened to me. All the while that I had been saying that I wouldn't fall in love with any lady because of my financial incapacity, I had been admiring different ladies. Still, I was able to keep them in until I kind of fell for this particular lady for whom I couldn't get hold of my feelings. So, it isn't every kind of feeling that can be quickly suppressed. As I was saying initially, she didn't get raped because she refused to be with me. That was not the idea I had decided to tell the above story. I'm trying to say that most beautiful women don't like dating broke guys. They believe that broke guys are too inferior to date them like they're too expensive to be with a broke guy. If beauty is all a woman got to offer in a man's life, the woman is more or less useless in the man's life. The only thing she has to offer in a relationship is her beauty is one of the most worthless women ever. You know the thing about beauty; it doesn't remain exactly how it was. With more age added to the beauty, beauty starts fading away. A
  • 90. 90 | P a g e person that loves you because of beauty starts losing interest in you. He starts seeing other people he believes are more beautiful than you. There are so many things a woman can offer in a man's life other than just her beauty, but when beauty is the only thing, she'll most likely always brag about it, people like this will only see love as a medium to extort the man that they're in his life. When a woman has only her beauty to offer like she is beautiful, and she uses her beauty to cut corners, she kind of always sexualizes herself to get what she wants. Such a woman will only be valid for what she presents herself as. Let's take, for example, a woman that always uses her beauty to sexualize herself and then cut corners; she may get employed because of it, there might be other people on the queue that are far better than her in the job and would even do better if they were employed, but this woman that had sexualized herself because of her beauty will get upper hand over them, she'll get the job in their place, but she'll need always to put her body on the line to keep the job. Some business owners are very unprofessional; they'll always like to mix business with pleasure. Some of them would like to keep a woman of this nature around as their toy, but her primary purpose would be to serve their sexual