1. are you having trouble meeting girls? Is it possible to attract a girl without making some changes to what
you are doing now? The answer is probably not. This article will give you 10 tips on changes that you can
make to give you an edge in your quest for love.
1. The power of a smile
A smile indicates that you are confident and relaxed. It is a definite ice breaker, and relaxes others as
well. Adding some cockiness to the smile projects an 'alpha male image', which is a real turn on for
women. However, do not overdo this as might come through as creepy.
2. Dressing well
Your mode of dressing can dramatically affect your physical attractiveness. New and stylish clothes that
fit well are a must have. Shoes seem to be particularly important to girls, so ensure yours are clean,
stylish and polished.
3. Look at her
When you ignore a girl that you like, it makes her a think you are shy or not man enough to approach her,
or that you do not find her attractive, and hence she will move on. When you look at a girl and you make
eye contact, do not be the one to break the eye contact, go and talk to her within seconds, because if you
do not, it will come through as weird. But when you do, it will definitely seem fun and spontaneous, but
ensure you do not stare.
4. Listen to her
Conversation has to be two ways. Find things that you have in common, such as dreams, challenges and
goals. As human beings, we tend to talk to people who truly listen to us, and hence if you are a good
listener, she will open up and talk to you.
5. Smell good
Taking care of your personal hygiene is paramount .Always make sure you shower everyday, use a
deodorant, use a cologne (sparingly), and brush your teeth. A girl will most likely associate you with that
scent, and remember you because of it.
6. Tease her
Depending on her attractiveness, she will have had some experience with many guys trying to get her.
When you converse with her, be fun, act light and actively show disinterest in her as a potential mate.
When you act this way, she will not put up barriers that she is used to, in order to get rid of all the other
guys that approach her. She will instead start listening to you as a normal person. In so doing, she may
become attracted to you simply through your conversation. Just be flirty, fun and have a great time.
7. when you first meet a girl, don't buy her anything
Buying a girl a drink or anything else when you first meet her is a show of neediness. This is unattractive
and you should avoid it at all costs. Do not act like she is the only girl out there. On the other hand, if you
can, get her to be so attracted to you that she offers to buy you a drink.

2. 8. Don't try too hard
When you try too hard, the girls can sense it, and it is a put off. Be confident. If a girl does not appreciate
you for who you are, then she probably isn't worth you.
9. Take care of your body
Go to the gym and work out in order to be firm and fit. Most girls do not find beer bellies and fat unhealthy
bodies attractive. You need to have a body that is be firm and well toned.
10. Have a good personality
Your attitude is the most attractive attribute of all, more important than money, looks or clothes. Do not be
a fake. Be confident, but not cocky, and do not stutter as you talk. Be a man. A man is supposed to be
strong, independent, and confident. They take action and are decisive. They are powerful and make
things happen. This projection of 'maleness' can be very attractive to women, since women want men, not
boys or guys with feminine attributes. Do not be standoffish or too shy. Stand up straight and walk
confidently.