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2. 1. Have your own life.
You might be crazy in love with each other, but that doesn’t mean the rest of your life
should stop.
Don’t abandon your friends for him. Don’t take up golf and give up your massages if you
don’t want to.
Have some independence and an identity of your own. Because if you don’t, things will get
boring and routine in the relationship.

3. 2. Don’t be needy.
Being needy and chasing can go hand-in-hand. If you want to see him 24/7,
text him 24/7, and basically think the world resolves around him, well, you’re
being needy.
Needy behavior is suffocating for people, especially men. You think these
behaviors will help you hold on to him, but it actually has the opposite effect
– it pushes him away.

4. 3. Make sure you connect physically, emotionally, and
mentally.
Easier said than done, but these three things are crucially important.
If you’re just physically connected, but you don’t connect emotionally or mentally, then you won’t make it
for the long haul.
Or maybe you connect mentally, but your intimacy is just “meh.” The relationship may be doomed.
You have to have strong bonds in all areas of your relationship, so make sure you keep an eye on that
from the very beginning.

5. 4. Don’t chase him.
Unfortunately, many women do this a lot. And you might not even know you’re
doing it.
“Chasing” comes in all forms – it could be obvious, stalker-like behavior such as
calling him 100 times a day. Or, it could be more subtle, like you’re the only
initiating contact all the time (meaning that you are more interested than he is).
Chasing is a turn-off for men. Let him chase you.

6. 5. Love yourself.
So many women complain that they either can’t find the right partner, or
they always attract jerks who don’t treat them right.
Well, it’s probably because you don’t love yourself enough. You can only
attract the level of love that you feel for yourself.
So, look at all your good qualities and decide to love yourself exactly the
way you are right now.

7. 6. Take care of yourself.
If you love yourself, then you will automatically take care of yourself. This
means trying to stay healthy, get enough sleep, go get massages, escape to
a bubble bath, or maybe a girls’ night out.
You need to feed your soul in other ways outside of your relationship or else
you won’t have anything left to give.

8. 7. Don’t be a people pleaser.
Many women mistakenly believe that if they please other people, then they
will automatically love them. This couldn’t be farther from the truth!
A lot of people will take advantage of you if you give too much of yourself.
Instead, strive for a healthy balance of being self-less and selfish.
Please your partner, but also make sure they please you too. Relationships
are a two-way street.

9. 8. Speak your mind.
When I say “speak your mind,” I mean doing it gently and
calmly. Don’t suppress your negative (or positive) emotions.
Let them out.
Talk to your partner about any problems you are having. Try
to see yourself as a team and solve the problems together.
You deserve respect and to have your voice heard.

10. 9. Don’t avoid problems.
No one really likes conflict. Well, maybe there are some people who do, but
generally speaking, most people don’t.
So, what happens a lot of the time is they go into avoidance mode. This does not
work.
If you avoid problems for years upon years, well, they are going to pile up. And
then one day you’ll wake up 25 years later and never be able to sort through
them all because they’ve been accumulating too long.

11. 10. Make time for your partner.
I know I said to have your own life and some independence, but on the flip
side, you can’t spend too much time alone (or with other people) because
then the relationship could die.
Relationships need attention. So, make sure you go on regular date nights
and have deep conversations to keep your connection strong.

12. In Conclution
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