LOVE SONG 3 - RECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES - PTR ALAN ESPORAS - 630PM EVENING SERVICE

3. RECONCILABLE
DIFFERENCES
SongofSongs

4. ALL
COUPLES
FIGHT

5. “Verbal missiles”
“Physical assault”
“Logistic attack”
“ SCI-WAR”
“ kidnap for ransom”
“Death-match”
Differenttypes
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6. Solomon &
Shulamite apart

7. 2 I slept, but my heart was awake.
A sound! My beloved is knocking.
"Open to me, my sister, my love,
my dove, my perfect one, for my
head is wet with dew, my locks
with the drops of the night."

8. 3 I had put off my garment; how
could I put it on? I had bathed my
feet; how could I soil them?

9. THE ROOT CAUSES
OF CONFLICT

10. UNMET
EXPECTATIONS

11. SELF-
CENTEREDNESS

12. 16 My beloved is mine, and I am
his; he grazes among the lilies.

13. IDENTIFY THE
BIGGEST ROOT IN
YOUR HEART

14. 23 Search me, O God, and know
my heart; try me, and know my
thoughts,
24 and see if any wicked way is in
me; and lead me in the way
everlasting.

15. LOVERS
APART

16. 4 My beloved put his hand to the
latch, and my heart was thrilled
within me.
5 I arose to open to my beloved,
and my hands dripped with myrrh,
my fingers with liquid myrrh, on
the handles of the bolt.

17. 6 I opened to my beloved, but my
beloved had turned and gone. My
soul failed me when he spoke. I
sought him, but found him not; I
called him, but he gave no
answer.

18. Toomany
competition

19. 8 There are sixty queens, and
eighty concubines, and virgins
without number.

20. TO RESOLVE
CONFLICT

21. I WILL ACT
AND
NOT React

22. 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but
overcome evil with good.

23. Love your wife & do not be
harsh with her.
Be considerate.
Treat her with respect and as
heirs with you of the gracious
gift of life.

24. Love her.
Cherish.
Don’t try to change your
spouse—you change

25. I WILL FOCUS
ON THE Good
AND NOT
THE Bad.

26. 8 Finally, brothers, whatever is
true, whatever is honorable,
whatever is just, whatever is pure,
whatever is lovely, whatever is
commendable, if there is any
excellence, if there is anything
worthy of praise, think about
these things. (ESV)

27. I WILL talk
AND
NOT walk

28. 26 Be angry and do not sin; do not
let the sun go down on your
anger,
27 and give no opportunity to the
devil.

29. LEGAL
SETTLEMENT

30. 58 As you go with your accuser
before the magistrate, make an
effort to settle with him on the
way, lest he drag you to the
judge, and the judge hand you
over to the officer, and the officer
put you in prison.

31. PRAYERS NOT
HINDERED

32. 7 Likewise, husbands, live with
your wives in an understanding
way, showing honor to the woman
as the weaker vessel, since they
are heirs with you of the grace of
life, so that your prayers may not
be hindered.

33. NO LONGER
SELF-CENTERED

34. 3 I am my beloved's and my
beloved is mine; he grazes among
the lilies.

35. SYMBOL OF HOPE

36. 11 I went down to the nut orchard
to look at the blossoms of the
valley, to see whether the vines
had budded, whether the
pomegranates were in bloom.

37. FAITHWORKS CHRISTIAN CHURCH GLOBAL
Presented By:
Pastor Alan Esporas
FCC Patiis, San Mateo, Rizal, PH
Greenbrier Worship Service,
FEBRUARY 21, 2016
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38. FAITHWORKS CHRISTIAN CHURCH GLOBAL
Presented By:
Pastor Alan Esporas
FCC Main San Mateo, Rizal, PH
6:30 p.m. Evening Worship Service,
FEBRUARY 21, 2016
Website: http://faithworkschristianchurch.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Faithworks-Christian-Church-Global-
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