We all have dreams, but so many of us don't act on those dreams. We see them as impossible. Well they are not. Take your dream, break it down into an actionable plan and then just do it.
3. Success is having achieved that which you
determine you will do!
YOUdeterminewhatsuccessisforyou. It'snotbasedonanyjudgmentother
thanyourown. It'snotdependentuponmaterialisticmeasurements. And,for
some,successisthejourney,itself.
Successmaybesomethingmaterial,suchasmoneyoranewhome. Itcouldbe
somethingegotistical,asthepowerandnotorietythatcomeswithpositionof
CEO. Itcouldbeemotional,asfindloveandcommitment. Successmayevenbe
unselfishandaltruistic,asseeingchildreninthridworldcountrieshealthyand
safe. Successhasnotparticularnameoridentify. Thereisnoonemethodto
describewhatsuccessis,other,thanthedefinitionabove. Itmeanssomething
differenttoeachindividual.
Allsuccessfulpeople,however,haveonethingincommon-determination! To
beasuccess,youmustfirstdeterminetobeso. Thoughnotalwaysaconscious
decision,theseedthatleadstoactionistofirstdeterminewhatyouwant.
Followthisworkbookandseehowtoturnyourdreamsintoreality.
4. DreamIt
What do you really want?
Ever wonder why some people never get anything good out of their life? That's because
they don't know what they want in the first place!
You must be specific in your passions, then you must focus all your efforts on that particular
desire.
Some people don't really know what they want. One moment they are excited over a
particular thing or endeavor, the next thing you know they completely abandon it: either
because they lose interest or because it became to difficult and they gave up.
Those who always change their minds and those who give up easily when the going gets
tough will never get anywhere.
Maybe right now your're a bit confused. You don't seem to know what you really want in
life. You might want to consider these:
What makes your heart beat with excitement?
What makes you happy?
What are you consistently thinking of day & night?
What do you want to do for the rest of your life?
What do you enjoy doing?
What are your obsessions?
What things make you jump for joy?
5. Open your mind
A closed mind seals off creative solutions and eliminates any possiblity for new opportunities. A closed
mind keeps you where you are in life, where you always have been, and will continue to be. A closed
mind creates:
Constant struggle to achieve or get ahead
Constant conflict and obstacles, the ever-present resentments that rear their ugly heads for each
new situation you encounter
Remorse of not doing or having what you truly dream
Envy you feel each time you meet, read or hear about someone more successful than you
So open your mind to the fun bit. This is where you get to dream the
dream.
A thought, just like an action, is energy in motion. Emotional thoughts
carry even more energy. When you create a thought, especially one you
feel emotional about (such as your dream of success), you have created
energy that goes out to the Universe and allows you to explore, create
and grow the thought. The process takes care of itself.
All these things you have dreamt about, or wanted can now be put on
paper. All you need are pictures of the things you dream about, or a
phrase, or a statement, or a mixture of all three. Then put them into the
next page. This is your vision page.
7. Let's look at why you want them
What I want Why I want it
e.g. I want to be earning a wage So that I can be financially
independent
I want to be a model I love fashion, I want to be famous
8. Let's look at why you want them
What I want Why I want it
9. PlanIt
So now we get down to some hard work. Dreams are lovely, however, if you never
work out how you are going to make them happen, then they remain just dreams.
The Hidden superpowers of your Mind
The mind is an infinite wonder. It has the fantastic ability to transmute your desires
into their physical counterparts. You can do anything that your mind can conceive,
as long as you have the belief and will power to back it up.
Take the case of cancer patients who were given placebo pills. These are just plain
pills that have no healing capabilities. So how did they get well?
The power came from their thoughts. They were told that these pills contain the
highest amounts of cancer-fighting ingredients which can effectively cure them in a
matter of days.
See how powerful your mind is?
They believed that their health will be restored. They have registered in their minds
that these pills will cure them of their illnesses. In the process, the belief embedded
within their subconscious came to reality.
So how can you use your mind to achieve your dreams? One of the most effective
ways is to use the "as if" principle.
Act as if you are the person you want to be. Act as if you are already in possession of
whatever you long to have.
10. PlanIt
So what do you want to be?
You want to be a lawyer, doctor, athlete, or newscaster? Think, act, and feel like
one. You'll be much closer to your goal ifyou're constantly intact with your
objective. Be obsessed with your dream. It doesn't mean that if you want to be
Superman you'll fly out the window. Not a good idea!
It's not enough that you act like one, but you have to actually ACT. Do what needs
to be done. You might get so lost in your fantasy dream world that you've forgotten
to take some action. Let your visions encourage and motivate you to make your
dream a reality.
White lies have become prevalent nowadays in order to ease the burdens or to
persuade others to do things that they thought are unattainable.
There was one a weightlifter who couldn't lift weights in excess of 300lbs. So his
coach devised a clever idea and told him that the barbell he has to carry weighs only
300lbs. With all his might, the weighlifter managed to put it above his head. After
he puts it down, the coach told him that he has just lifted 350lbs. It's all in the
mind.
A famous person once said, "Whether you think you can or you think you can't,
you're right.
If you think you are poor, then you are; unless you properly condition your thoughts
to the positive mindset. I know it's hard to think rich if your environment is not
conductive to such a way of thinking. Use your imagination then! Visualise your
house to be a mansion, your old car to be a limousine.... You get the picture.
There is absolutely no limit to what the mind can achieve. But you have to combine
belief, will power, and action with positive thinking in order to arrive at your
intended destination.
11. Let's plan how to make your
dreams come true
We are now going to plan how you can make those dreams reality.
Depending on the number of dreams you have on your Vision Page, you now
need to decide which one you really want to start working. Which one could
make that change you want in your life.
Do not think to hard abou this. Resist the thinking that says, well I don't want
to do that or I cannot do that. Just answer the questions without any judgement
on how and when.
e.g.
Dream
To have a job
Why I want it
To be financially
independent
How I am
goingto
get it
I need to get a
CV in order
Need to go back
to college/adult
learning
Find out what work
I can do
Work out how much
money I need to
survive
14. DoIt
So now we work on the DOING IT.
A plan will always be just a plan unless you actually do it. So we need to take the 'how
I can do it' and put some actions and time-lines in place. Deciding when you want
something to happen means we can work backwards and put some first steps in place.
So look back at the dream : 'I want to be earning a wage' - then ask yourself 'When do
I want to be earning this wage'.
The WHEN will depend on what is happening in your life today. If you have children
at home, you may decide that earning your own wage will have to wait until they start
school. Or if you have other dependents, you may want to give yourself time to find
the right kind of job to fit in with the hours you can work.
So firstly decide when you want your dream to be happening. e.g. within 12 months.
15. 4 Great Techniques to Realise
your Goals
Goals keep us motivated. But sometimes, people find it too hard to achieve their
goals. Perhaps because they have set long-term goals before setting short-term ones,
or they did not plan their goals carefully.
Goal-setting strategies are important especially for those who want to achieve long-
term goals.
Four-goal setting techniques.
Begin at the end and set your long term goal
Start moving backwards and setting goals to achieve the long term goal
Break down each goal to 3 achievable goals
Make sure you can begin with small bites to build up to your long-term goal.
Now we can build the timeline
18. This planning works for whatever dream you may have. It may take a matter of
months or years to achieve your dreams, however, you will be on the right road
to ensure you achieve what you want. If your plan will only take a month or
two, then work your timeline in weeks or days. If it is likely to take 2 or more
years, then do a yearly plan for each year.
Once you have completed your timeline, all you have to do is DO what you have
set yourself. Start with the simple stuff and then work on up to your bigger
dreams. You will find that all your actions plans will be a journey to your
ultimate dream. And that is
Living the life you want to
live, in the way you want to
live it
19. 2 Powerful ways to fire up your
motivation
It is so difficult to go on when everything seems to fail, isn't it? Are there times in
your life when you really want to call it "Quits" because you just can't see any good
results from all the hard work you have done
Hold Your Horses
Never ever think of giving up. Winners never quit and quitters never win
Take all negative words out of your mental dictionary and focus on the solutions with
utmost conviction and patience. The battle is never lost until you abandon your
vision.
1. The Overwhelming Feeling of Attaining your Desired End.
How would you feel after accomplishing your mission? Of course you will
feel ecstatic. You might be shedding tears of joy. Let this tremendous
feeling sink in and encourage your to persist despite all odds.
2. The Reward System
How would you feel if you entered a contest, but there are no prizes for the winners.
This applies to your vision. Reward yourself after accomplishing a goal. Set a
reward for every goal you set and obtain.
20. Wiping out obstacles to Goal Achievement
Life is an obstacle course. It is normal to encounter obstacles in the pursuit of a
goal. Actually, it is expected to pop up once in a while, causing delays or revisions
to one's plans.
However, when obstacles start to become a nuisance to the point of almost putting
a stop to one's goal; or worse making one completely abandon his/her goal, a think
over becomes a necessity.
Here are some helpful, tested pointers to keep one's attention focused in achieving a
goal:
Think Positive. This means 'Do not quit", especially when one is midway in working
for a goal., there should be no room for quitting. If you quit you go back to the
starting line of goal accomplishment. Time, energy, money and a lot of others
things wasted and lost. It costs to give up, so find a solution to the problem.
Keep a clear, open, and tense-free mind, ready to receive new ideas. Focus and
Concentrate. Be open to options.
Persist and perservere. Test, Test and Test again to find the solution.
Simulate by picturing in the mind a possible solution to solve the obstacle.
Get help from other people who may know more on the work being done. Ask for
help. Take their suggestions if they work for you and if they don't, they may trigger
new ideas for the solution.