Got answers? If you've been a parent for any length of time, you know that you just can’t have all the answers. Nobody can! That said, it is critical that we don’t stop asking questions. Questions make you think. They make you face your doubts and fears. They help you figure out what you want. And here are 20 beautifully illustrated questions that will help you become a great parent in 2014.
2. Ideally, we want both. But if you had to choose -- mansions, expensive cars,
and a bottle of anti-depressants; or a modest life filled with genuine smiles?
3. When you say “I Love You” do you expect something back in return or mean it
as an apology?
4. Should you tough it out, or should you get it out of your system? When you
see someone crying, would you offer to help or would you look away?
5. Have you built in enough pauses in your schedule or is all the time spent
running from one task to another?
6. Can a parent set firm limits without screaming? Do you think it is possible to
be gentle and caring, and still discipline your kids?
7. Do you think being a parent is as a blessing or an inconvenience? (Just for
perspective, in the US alone over 6.7 million women struggle with infertility!)
8. Is failure disgraceful or is it a learning opportunity? Can you live a fully vibrant
life if you don’t try anything new?
9. Have you figured out what is your uniqueness? Have you embraced it? Do you
love each other just the way you are – warts and all?
10. You can only go so far carrying the burden of your past. Is your past holding
you down? What kind of parent would you be if you had a different past?
11. Would it be about joy and hope, or gloom and despair? Will it be memorable
or forgettable? Would it be a simple story or a complex saga?
12. Are you handed a script written by the circumstances that you just act out, or
do you create your own brilliant story?
13. Can you carve some time in your schedule to do that one thing that’s your
soul work?
14. What makes our perception of time so different from the visionaries who
raise families while they change the world?
15. Are you sacrificing your sleep (and hence your health and happiness) at the
altar of stress, productivity, money and success?
16. Can you think of anyone who has never made mistakes? Maybe practicing
grace and kindness is a better option?
17. Gory, I know. But it could happen. And the only time you can do anything
about it is now.
18. What if you could not be with them but knew they were doing fine? What if
they were gone, but only you could survive?
19. What is your reason for reading these questions? What do you want from it
all? Are you competing with your old self or with someone else all together?
20. Do you scream and scare the crap out of your children when they make little
mistakes or do you teach them that it is OK to come to you for help?
21. How often do your kids grumble about doing something and you respond
“You don’t realize how lucky you are! I never had the opportunity to [...]”?
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23. Image Credits
All images in this slidedeck are from fotolia.com. A huge big hat tip for
these wonderful artists (in the order of the photos) for taking these
fantastic photographs and making them available through fotolia for
folks like me :) – mariiya, gitusik, Apple, Friedberg, ArtFamily, Serhiy
Kobyakov, DM7, Eric Isselée, Anyka, flas100, brat82, Sergey Nivens,
pio3, deviantART, giideon, Apple, Laurin Rinder, olly, xavier gallego
morel and Ilya Zaytsev!