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BY MACKENZIE ROSS | Published 01/11/15 10:25pm
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It was the annual “Week of Welcome” two years ago at The University of Alabama, and Maury Holliman
looked through the different booths. After a bit of looking, she saw someone familiar: her high school teacher.
Her former teacher volunteered at the University’s Women’s Resource Center to help victims of abusive
relationships, and before long, she convinced Holliman to join the WRC’s Student Leadership Council.
Holliman is one of many students and faculty members on the University’s campus who seek an end to dating
and domestic violence. According to The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, one in five college
women will experience some form of relationship violence in her college career.
“A lot of students don’t realize how sneaky interpersonal violence can be,” said Holliman, a junior majoring in
psychology. “Sometimes it takes you a while to realize how unhealthy something can be in a relationship.”
Tanya Asim Cooper, a law professor at the University, has done extensive research on the issue of relationship
violence, specifically in the Greek community.
“The definition of relationship violence confuses a lot of people because it includes both dating and domestic
violence,” she said.
Cooper defined relationship abuse as “a pattern of controlling and coercive behavior over a period of time.”
Danielle DuBose, a senior majoring in accounting and political science, has used her title as Miss University of
Alabama to increase awareness for relationship violence mainly through raising money and presentations to
sororities. She said people’s misconceptions about the issue stem from their lack of knowledge with it.
“It’s not easy for [victims] to leave that situation most of the time,” she said. “A lot of the time we say we don’t
have sympathy for that victim because she could leave that situation at any time, but people don’t understand all
of the underlying issues taking place in the situation.”
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2. One Love raises awareness for domestic violence - The Crimson White
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DuBose said she believes relationship violence primarily impacts college-age students because they are in a
new environment away from their family and everything familiar.
While women are primarily the victims, relationship violence affects men too. According to Cooper, 16 percent
of all men are the victims of relationship violence.
“My guess is men are not reporting it because we have a victim-blaming and man-shaming society when it
comes to dating and domestic violence and sexual assault,” Holliman said. “I think it’s happening more
prevalently to both sexes, but it’s just a lack of reporting. We have to change the culture if we want to fix the
problem.”
DuBose said she is proud of the response the University has had toward this issue. She hosted an educational
event in November called Shatter the Silence, which over 350 people attended. DuBose said she hopes people
continue talking about this issue and the resources available to people struggling with relationship violence.
The One Love Foundation produces the One Love My Plan App where individuals can take a quiz to determine
if their relationship is violent. The University’s Women’s Resource Center provides counseling services and
the University’s Law School Legal Clinic advises about legal options. Turning Point, Tuscaloosa’s domestic
violence shelter, also helps adults and family members experiencing relationship violence.
While the University and Tuscaloosa provide resources for victims of relationship violence, she said change
starts with the student generation.
“Young people have always been what moves this world forward,” Holliman said. “And I think that if we don’t
care about it, this movement will lose momentum – this movement to change how we talk about this issue and
to help people.”
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