Based on Book :Dawae Shafi by Imam Qayyam Ibn Al jawzi

1. Dawae Shafi
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser
Chapter 23-33

2. 114 chapters

3. Effects of Sinning
Time for Warning

4. Sinner comes under the Curse of the Messenger of
Allah ‫ﷺ‬

5. Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ cursed the wine-presser, the one who has it pressed,
the one who drinks it, the one who conveys it, the one to whom
it is conveyed, the one who serves it, the one who
sells it, the one who benefits from the price paid for it, the
one who buys it, and the one for whom it is bought.
(Muslim:1598)

6. Some more Sin Cursed
• Halalah
• Thief
• Riba related
• Cursing parents
• Slaughter animals not for the Sake of Allah
• Who innovate in matters of religion
• Effeminate among men, and women who assume the manners of men
• Homosexuals
• All sexual perversions
• Deceiving Muslims
• Repeated visits to grave (women)
• Accusing chaste women
• Name of Adopted child
• Disrespect for Sahabah
• Breaking relationships
• Bribe

7. Sinner Deprived
Duas of Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ and Angels

8. Those who sustain the Throne (of
Allah) and those around it Sing
Glory and Praise to their Lord;
believe in Him; and implore
Forgiveness for those who believe:
"Our Lord! Thy Reach is over all
things, in Mercy and Knowledge.
Forgive, then, those who turn in
Repentance, and follow Thy Path;
and preserve them from the Penalty
of the Blazing Fire! "And grant, our
Lord! that they enter the Gardens of
Eternity, which Thou hast promised
to them, and to the righteous
among their fathers, their wives,
and their posterity! For Thou art
(He), the Exalted in Might, Full of
Wisdom. "And preserve them from
(all) ills; (Al Ghafir:7-9)

9. Torments Related
to Sins
Not to be taken lightly

10. Sumrah bin Jundub(RA) said: "The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ very often used to ask his
companions: 'Did anyone of you see a dream?' So dreams would be
narrated to him by those whom Allah wished to tell. One morning, the
Prophet‫ﷺ‬ said: 'Last night two persons came to me (in a dream) and woke
me up and said to me: 'Proceed!' I set out with them and we came across a
man lying down, and behold, another man was standing over his head,
holding a big rock. Behold, he was throwing the rock at the man's head,
injuring it. The rock rolled away, so the thrower followed it and picked it up
again. By the time he reached the man, his head returned to the normal
state. The thrower then did the same as he had done before. I said to my
two companions: 'Subhan Allah! Who are these two persons?’ They said:
'Proceed!' So we proceeded and came to one man lying flat on his back and
another man standing over his head with an iron hook, and behold, he
would put the hook in one side of the man's mouth and tear off that side of
his face to the back ( of the neck), and similarly tear his nose from front to
back, and his eye from front to back. Then he turned to the other side of
the man's face and did just as he had done with the other side.

11. He hardly completed this side when the other side returned to its normal state. Then he returned to it to repeat what he
had done before. I said to my two companions: 'Subhan Allah! Who are these two persons?' They said to me: 'Proceed!'
So we proceeded and came across something like a Tannur (a kind of baking oven, a pit usually clay-lined for baking
bread)' - I think the Prophet~ said: 'In that oven there was much noise and voices.' The Prophet added: 'We looked into it
and found naked men and women, and behold, a flame of fire was approaching them from underneath, and when it
reached them, they screamed loudly. I asked them: 'Who are these?' They said to me: 'Proceed!' And so we proceeded
and came across a river' - I think he ‫ﷺ‬ said: ' ... red like blood.' The Prophet added: 'And behold, in the river there was a
man swimming, and on the bank there was a man who had collected many stones. Behold, while the other man was
swimming, he went near him. The former opened his mouth and the latter (on the bank) threw a stone into his mouth,
whereupon he continued swimming again. He returned and every time the performance was repeated, I asked my two
companions: 'Who are these (two) persons?’ They replied: 'Proceed! Proceed!' And we proceeded till we came to a man
with a repulsive appearance, the most repulsive appearance, you could ever saw a man having! Next to him there was a
fire, which he was kindling it and running around. I asked my companions: 'Who is this (man)?' They said to me: 'Proceed!
Proceed!' So we proceeded till we reached a garden with dense, deep green vegetation, possessing all sorts of spring
colours. In the midst of the garden there was a very tall man, and I could hardly see his head because of his great height,
and around him there were children, in such a large number as I have never seen (before). I said to my companions: 'Who
is this?’ They replied: 'Proceed! Proceed!' So we proceeded till we came to a huge majestic garden, greater and better
than I have ever seen (before)! My two companions said to me: 'Go up,' and I went up.' The Prophet added: 'So we
ascended till we reached a city built of gold and silver bricks, and we went to its gate and asked (the gatekeeper) to open
the gate, and it was opened and we entered the city and found in it, men with one side of their bodies as handsome as
the handsomest person you have ever seen, and the other side as ugly as the ugliest person you have ever seen.

12. My two companions ordered those men to throw themselves into the river. Behold, there
was a river flowing across (the city), and its water was like milk in whiteness. Those men
went and threw themselves in it, and then returned to us after the ugliness ( of their
bodies) had disappeared and they became (restored to) the best shape.' The Prophet‫ﷺ‬
further added: 'My two companions (angels) said to me: 'This place is the Paradise of
Eden, and that is your place.' I raised up my sight, and behold, there I saw a palace like a
white cloud! My two companions said to me: 'That (palace) is your place.' I said to them:
'May Allah bless you both! Let me enter it.' They replied: 'As for now, you will not enter it,
but you shall enter it (one day). I said to them: 'I have seen many wonders tonight. What
does all that mean, that which I have seen?' They replied: 'We will inform you: As for the
first man you came upon whose head was being injured with the rock, he is the symbol
of the one who studies the Qur'an and then neither recites it nor acts on its orders, and
sleeps,neglecting the enjoined prayers. As for the man you came upon whose sides of his
mouth, nostrils and eyes were torn off from front to back, he is the symbol of the man
who goes out of his house in the morning and tells so many lies that it spreads all over
the world.

13. And those naked men and women whom you saw in a construction resembling an oven,
they are the adulterers and the adulteresses, and the man whom you saw swimming in
the river and given a stone to swallow, is the eater of usury (Riba) and the bad looking
man whom you saw near the fire kindling it and going round it, is Malik, the gatekeeper of
Hell, and the tall man whom you saw in the garden is Abraham, and the children around
him are those children who die with Al-Fitra (the Islamic Faith).’ The narrator added:
'Some Muslims asked the Prophet: 'O Messenger of Allah! What about the children of
pagans?’ The Prophet replied: 'And also the children of pagans.' The Prophet added: 'My
two companions added: 'The men you saw half handsome and half ugly were those
persons who had mixed an act that was good with another that was bad,
but Allah forgave them.”
(Bukhari:7047)

14. Sins and Our
Resources

15. Mischief has appeared on land and sea because of (the meed) that the
hands of men have earned, that (Allah) may give them a taste of some
of their deeds: in order that they may turn back (from Evil).
(Ar-Room:41)

16. Mujahid said: "When an oppressor is given
responsibility, he spreads injustice and evil
deeds, so Allah withholds the rainfall, so the
oppressor puts his effort into making mischief in
the land; destroying the crops and the cattle. But
Allah does not like mischief."

17. Seismic Activity in Earth
The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ passed by the village of
Thamud and forbade his Companions
from entering their dwellings, except
when weeping ( out of fear of the
Punishment of Allah 'M which
destroyed the nation of Thamud). He ‫ﷺ‬
forbade them from drinking the water
of that village, or eating anything made
by using that water, because of the
effect of the sins committed by that
community, which had led to the
shortages and deficiency in their
produce, etc.
(Bukhari:3378)

18. Sin and Punishment

19. Extinguished Ghaira (‫)غیرت‬
• Basal temperature
• Removes all aspects of wickedness and bad
attributes in one's personality
• Qalb cannot survive without ghaira

20. Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said: "Do you wonder at Sa'd's sense of
ghaira(ardour)? Verily, I have more sense of ghaira than
Sa'd, and Allah has more sense of ghaira than I.”
(Bukhari: 6846)

21. The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ also said in the sermon about the eclipse: ”O
followers of Muhammad! By Allah! There is none who has more
ghaira (self-respect) than Allah as He has forbidden that His
Servants, male or female, commit adultery .
(Bukhari: 1044)

22. Our Ghaira?????
• Haram (drugs, Zina etc)
• See others doing wrong
• Fights, lying, cheating
• Silah Rahmi
• Ghaira in place for our personal gain
• Ghaira based reaction
• Passive in important matters

24. Allah’s Ghaira
Gives chances
Sends Prophets and
books for guidance

25. The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said: "There is ghaira which Allah loves
and ghaira which Allah hates. That which Allah loves is ghaira
regarding a matter of doubt, and that which Allah
hates is ghaira regarding something which is not doubtful. "
(Abi Dawud:2659)

26. Allah possesses the complete Attributes of
Perfection.
Therefore, He is the One truly deserving All Praise.

27. When One Stops Repenting
Habits
Insensitive Actions
Insecurity
Confusion
Surrounded by sins

29. Lost Haya
Awareness of our own strength

30. The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said: "Haya ' is all good.”
(Muslim:37)

31. Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said: "A part of that which people
understood from the speech of the earlier
prophets is: 'If you have no Haya, do what you
want. "’
(Bukhari:6120)

32. Failure to Glorify Allah
• Self Deception that Allah is merciful
• Bold indulgence in sins with wrong estimates
• Fear of people vs fear of Allah
• Degradation in eyes of people
• Disbelief with sealed hearts

33. O you who believe! Fear Allah, and let every soul look to what (provision) He has
sent forth for the morrow. Yea, fear Allah: for Allah is well-acquainted with (all)
that you do. And be ye not like those who forgot Allah; and He made them
forget their own souls! Such are the rebellious transgressors!
(Al-Hashr:18-19)

34. Worst Punishment
• Follower of desires
• Wasted productivity
• Ignore own responsibilities
• Takes person out from scope of Ahsaan

35. Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ narrated: "A fornicator is not a believer at the
time of committing fornication. The one who drinks wine is
not a believer at the time of drinking wine. A thief is not a
believer at the time of thieving ... “
(Bukhari:5578)

36. Sins deprive a person of the protection of
Allah
… ‫ی‬ِ‫ظ‬َ‫ع‬ ‫ا‬ً‫ر‬ْ‫ج‬َ‫أ‬ َ‫ین‬ِ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬ْ‫ؤ‬ُ‫م‬ْ‫ال‬ ُ ‫ه‬
‫َّللا‬ ِ‫ت‬ْ‫ؤ‬ُ‫ی‬ َ‫ف‬ ْ‫و‬َ‫س‬ َ‫و‬
‫ا‬ً‫م‬
…And soon will Allah grant to the believers a reward
of immense value. (An-Nisa:146)
ِ‫ب‬َ‫س‬ُ‫ی‬ ُ‫ه‬َ‫ل‬ ْ‫و‬َ‫ح‬ ْ‫ن‬َ‫م‬ َ‫و‬ َ
‫ش‬ ْ‫ر‬َ‫ع‬ْ‫ال‬ َ‫ون‬ُ‫ل‬ِ‫م‬ْ‫ح‬َ‫ی‬ َ‫ِین‬‫ذ‬‫ه‬‫ال‬
ُ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬ْ‫ؤ‬ُ‫ی‬ َ‫و‬ ْ‫م‬ِ‫ه‬ِ‫ب‬ َ‫ر‬ ِ‫د‬ْ‫م‬َ‫ح‬ِ‫ب‬ َ‫ون‬ُ‫ح‬
ِ‫ه‬ِ‫ب‬ َ‫ون‬
‫وا‬ُ‫ن‬َ‫م‬‫آ‬ َ‫ِین‬‫ذ‬‫ه‬‫ل‬ِ‫ل‬ َ‫ون‬ُ‫ر‬ِ‫ف‬ْ‫غ‬َ‫ت‬ْ‫س‬َ‫ی‬ َ‫…و‬
Those who sustain the Throne (of Allah) and those
around it Sing Glory and Praise to their Lord; believe
in Him; and implore Forgiveness for those who
believe… (Ghaffir:7)

37. Sins weaken heart
• Obstacles in the way of obeying
• Power is weakened
• Becomes harder to bring it back
• Prophet‫ﷺ‬ sought refuge in Allah, which are:
Worry, grief, inability, laziness, cowardice,
miserliness, the heavy burden of debts, and the
overpowering of men (Bukhari:6363)
‫ا‬
َ‫و‬ ِ‫ن‬ ْ‫ز‬ُ‫ح‬ْ‫ال‬ َ‫و‬ ِ‫م‬َ‫ه‬ْ‫ال‬ ْ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬ َ‫ك‬ِ‫ب‬ ُ‫ذ‬‫و‬ُ‫ع‬َ‫أ‬ ‫ي‬ِ‫ن‬ِ‫إ‬ ‫ه‬‫م‬ُ‫ه‬‫ه‬‫لل‬
َ‫و‬ ِ‫ل‬ْ‫خ‬ُ‫ب‬ْ‫ال‬ َ‫و‬ ِ‫ل‬َ‫س‬َ‫ك‬ْ‫ال‬ َ‫و‬ ِ
‫ز‬ْ‫ج‬َ‫ع‬ْ‫ال‬
ِ‫ْن‬‫ب‬ُ‫ج‬ْ‫ال‬
ِ‫ل‬‫ا‬َ‫ج‬ ِ
‫الر‬ ِ‫ة‬َ‫ب‬َ‫ل‬َ‫غ‬ َ‫و‬ ِ‫ْن‬‫ی‬‫ه‬‫د‬‫ال‬ ِ‫ع‬َ‫ل‬َ‫ض‬ َ‫و‬

38. What to
Understand
Is there a warning for me?

39. Some relationships that wont work
• You care more than the other person or vice
versa
• You look up to person as role model
• You are on a rescue mission
• You are infatuated with your partner for
external reasons
• You chose a partner as reaction

40. You cannot stop thinking about him
• You are the one reaching out, always go out of
way
• Apparently you are controlled by a partner
• Watch for warning signs and do not make
excuses and be honest with self
• It looks like a project rather than love

41. Fatal Flaws
• Addictions
• Anger
• Victim mentality
• Control freak
• Sexual dysfunction
• Emotionally unavailable
• Not recovered from past relationship
• Emotionally damaged childhood

43. To get in touch…..
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser/ Hamaray Bachchay
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser @ HamarayBachchay
hbheadoffice@gmail.com