1. Defeatisamindset,andonlybecomesarealitywhenweallowotherpeople's
perceptionstobecomeourown.We'veallheardaboutthefamousfailuresof
ourtime.FromSteveJobsbeingfiredfromthecompanyhestarted,Michael
Jordanbeingcutfromhishighschoolbasketballteam,toOprahbeingtoldthat
shewasn'tfitforTV--thelistgoesonandon.Apparentlytheperceptionsand
opinionsfromthepeoplemakingthoseaccusationswerewrong--andsoare
thepeopleinyourlifeputtingthesameaccusationsoffailureonyou.
Sohere'smychallengetoyoutoday.Stopacceptingotherpeople'sperceptions
offailureasyourowntruth,andstartlisteningtoyourownbrilliantSELF.And
remember,whensomeoneistryingtogiveyounegativeenergyitisasignthat
theyareunhappyintheirownskin.Thereisnoonepersononthisplanet,
asidefromyou,whocannameyourdefeat--period.Ifanyonetriestogiveyou
thelabelof"defeated"they'reprojectingtheirownsenseoffailureand
unhappinessontoyouasanunhealthyattempttofeelincontroland
powerful--that'snotyourbaggagesodon'tcarryit.Rather,inthatmoment
walkwithcompassion.Simplystandup,shakeyourselfoff,sendthemlove,
andwalkforwardbyreinforcingtoyourownSELFthatyouhavethe
brilliance,theright,andthestrengthtowearnotthelabelofdefeatbutthe
crownofvictory.
--GinaSoleil,authorandadvocateforabetter world.
Defeat is a Mindset
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