3. MINDLESS VS. MINDFUL LISTENING
• HTTP://WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/WATCH?V=QG8PIK74KO4
• MINDLESS IS AUTOMATIC/INSTINCTIVE
• MINDLESS REQUIRES LITTLE EFFORT
• MINDLESS CAN LEAD TO…
4. POOR LISTENING HABITS
• PSUEDOLISTENING-LOOKING ATTENTIVE, BUT THE LISTENER IS ACTUALLY
IN ANOTHER WORLD.
• STAGE HOGGING-SPEAKER ONLY CARES ABOUT THEIR OWN IDEAS
• SELECTIVE LISTENING-LISTENER ONLY RESPONDS TO WHAT INTERESTS
THEM
• DEFENSIVE LISTENING-LISTENER TAKES INNOCENT COMMENTS AS ATTACKS
• AMBUSHING-LISTENER LISTENS CAREFULLY ONLY TO ATTACK YOU.
• HTTPS://WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/WATCH?V=DCZIDQ0V1FU&SPFRELOAD=10
6. TO UNDERSTAND
• COULD APPLY TO MANY SCENARIOS.
• SCHOOL
• WORK
• SPORTS
• RELATIONSHIPS
• LISTENING FIDELITY- DESCRIBES
THE DEGREE OF
CONGRUENCE BETWEEN
WHAT A LISTENER
UNDERSTANDS AND WHAT
THE MESSAGE SENDER
WAS ATTEMPTING TO
COMMUNICATE.
7. OTHER REASONS FOR LISTENING
• TO EVALUATE- DECIPHER AMBIGUOUS
LANGUAGE.
• TO BUILD OR MAINTAIN
RELATIONSHIPS- FOREIGN
RELATIONS.
• TO HELP OTHERS- DOCTORS
LAWYERS.
8. EXAMPLE CLIPS
• BUILDING AND MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIPS:
HTTPS://WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/WATCH?V=4VOUBVB4CTU
• TO UNDERSTAND:
HTTPS://WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/WATCH?V=W2YV8AT0UFC&SPFRELOAD=10
• POOR EVALUATIVE LISTENING-
HTTPS://WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/WATCH?V=W1RY_72O_LQ
9. QUESTIONS
• 1) FOR WHAT REASON OR REASONS
WOULD A DOCTOR LISTEN TO HIS OR
HER PATIENT?
A) TO UNDERSTAND.
B) TO EVALUATE.
C) TO HELP OTHERS.
D) A AND C.
E) ALL OF THE ABOVE.
• 2)TRUE OF FALSE
LISTENING CONGRUENCE IS A TERM
USED BY RESEARCHERS TO DESCRIBE
HOW WELL A MESSAGE WAS PRESENTED
BETWEEN TWO OR MORE
COMMUNICATORS.
10. QUESTIONS
3) TRUE OR FALSE: LISTENING IS ALL OF THE SOUNDS
THAT ENTERS INTO OUR MIND.
4) TRUE OF FALSE: MINDLESS LISTENING REQUIRES
LITTLE EFFORT.
5) WHICH TYPE OF POOR LISTENING HABIT DOES THIS
SITUATION PRESENT?
-SUZY AND KARLEE ARE SITTING IN A COFFEE SHOP.
SUZY ASKS IF KARLEE HAS A BOYFRIEND AND KARLEE
GETS MAD AND RESPONDS “DOES IT LOOK LIKE I HAVE A
BOYFRIEND!?”
Editor's Notes
The main motive for listening at school would be to understand the lecture. At work, it is important to understand directions and what you are being told to do. In sports (or any team environment) understanding what is going on is vital for effective teamwork.