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3 (Little Known) Tinder
Texting Mistakes
Mike W
Artofalpha.com
What We Already Know...
● Dont send a boring first message: Whats up? How are
you doing? You’re sexy, etc.
● Send something interesting which engages HER on an
emotional level: Example - (if she is in a picture with
her friends) “you’re the troublemaker of the group aren’t
you ;)”
● This gets her to laugh and gets her interested. Don’t
worry about word-for-word texts, simply understand
the concept - then you can be creative.
Little Known Tinder Texting
Mistakes
● These are some of the
lesser known mistakes that
guys are making
● Also, there is a free report
and a free mindmap in the
link below
● Lets get started...
#1: Never Text a Girl on a Monday
● Note: the actual “day” is not really important but…
● You don’t want to text too far ahead of when YOU can
go on a date.
● It can be very difficult to keep a text conversation going
for more than a few days. If you have Friday night and
Saturday night available for dating then start texting girls
on Thursday to set up a date for the next couple of
days.
● Continued...
#1: Continued
● The idea is to get her out on a
date soon so that you can make a
REAL connection.
● Everyday she is getting more and
more “matches” and messages,
which will be a distraction.
● Come in bold with a good first
message and some flirting, THEN
invite her out today or the next
day
● Too much texting will
eventually End all attraction
#2: Not Leading The
Conversation
● You must be leading the conversation
somewhere. Don’t just text back and
forth: have a purpose and reason for
texting
● Text and flirt a little with her But
eventually you have to ask her out or
make plans to do something. Lead the
conversation
● As we know: too much texting will
eventually kill all attraction
● IMAGE: I am asking her out to get sushi
(we are also flirting) =======>
#3: Showing to Much Interest
● Showing too much interest to
early is NEVER a good thing.
● People don’t like what comes
easy. They won’t value it.
● Let her feel like she is “winning
you over” you have standards;
you won’t just take whatever
comes your way.
● Text breakdown - Next Slide...
#3: Continued...
● When we were texting - I wasn't
really interested. She was texting
me a lot and asking me questions
i.e. “chasing me.” She WAS
interested in me more than I was in
her. Which will = attraction
● AFTER the date I became MORE
interested and I showed it by saying
“wanna help me slice cucumber…”
(which was just an inside joke)
● But it was the first time that I had
show real interest….
● Continued...
Before
The
Date
---------
After
The
Date
(next
day)
#3: Continued...
● This might be hard to understand but I’m sure that
you have “Felt” it before. In this case I “FELT” it. I
knew right away that I had changed
something. I was more into her and wanted to
see her again. I subtly conveyed this through my
text - which was a turn off for her.
● Does this bother me? No. I am not into
playing the “game” this much with anyone. I
will simply move on.
● But I wanted to make you aware of this
phenomenon of “showing too much interest”
so that you are at least aware.
Free Report
Link Below
http://artofalpha.com/knock-out-opt

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3 (little known) tinder texting mistakes

  • 1. 3 (Little Known) Tinder Texting Mistakes Mike W Artofalpha.com
  • 2. What We Already Know... ● Dont send a boring first message: Whats up? How are you doing? You’re sexy, etc. ● Send something interesting which engages HER on an emotional level: Example - (if she is in a picture with her friends) “you’re the troublemaker of the group aren’t you ;)” ● This gets her to laugh and gets her interested. Don’t worry about word-for-word texts, simply understand the concept - then you can be creative.
  • 3. Little Known Tinder Texting Mistakes ● These are some of the lesser known mistakes that guys are making ● Also, there is a free report and a free mindmap in the link below ● Lets get started...
  • 4. #1: Never Text a Girl on a Monday ● Note: the actual “day” is not really important but… ● You don’t want to text too far ahead of when YOU can go on a date. ● It can be very difficult to keep a text conversation going for more than a few days. If you have Friday night and Saturday night available for dating then start texting girls on Thursday to set up a date for the next couple of days. ● Continued...
  • 5. #1: Continued ● The idea is to get her out on a date soon so that you can make a REAL connection. ● Everyday she is getting more and more “matches” and messages, which will be a distraction. ● Come in bold with a good first message and some flirting, THEN invite her out today or the next day ● Too much texting will eventually End all attraction
  • 6. #2: Not Leading The Conversation ● You must be leading the conversation somewhere. Don’t just text back and forth: have a purpose and reason for texting ● Text and flirt a little with her But eventually you have to ask her out or make plans to do something. Lead the conversation ● As we know: too much texting will eventually kill all attraction ● IMAGE: I am asking her out to get sushi (we are also flirting) =======>
  • 7. #3: Showing to Much Interest ● Showing too much interest to early is NEVER a good thing. ● People don’t like what comes easy. They won’t value it. ● Let her feel like she is “winning you over” you have standards; you won’t just take whatever comes your way. ● Text breakdown - Next Slide...
  • 8. #3: Continued... ● When we were texting - I wasn't really interested. She was texting me a lot and asking me questions i.e. “chasing me.” She WAS interested in me more than I was in her. Which will = attraction ● AFTER the date I became MORE interested and I showed it by saying “wanna help me slice cucumber…” (which was just an inside joke) ● But it was the first time that I had show real interest…. ● Continued... Before The Date --------- After The Date (next day)
  • 9. #3: Continued... ● This might be hard to understand but I’m sure that you have “Felt” it before. In this case I “FELT” it. I knew right away that I had changed something. I was more into her and wanted to see her again. I subtly conveyed this through my text - which was a turn off for her. ● Does this bother me? No. I am not into playing the “game” this much with anyone. I will simply move on. ● But I wanted to make you aware of this phenomenon of “showing too much interest” so that you are at least aware.