1) When elderly individuals lose their spouse, health, ability to drive, and ability to live independently, it can be an overwhelming and stressful time in their lives.
2) In America's youth culture, elderly people can feel devalued and pushed aside in favor of younger, more attractive and productive individuals. At the same time, adult children feel squeezed between the needs of their parents and their own children.
3) While there are no easy answers, things like sharing care responsibilities, practicing self-care, learning about conditions, showing sensitivity, offering time to talk, setting limits, finding support groups, and consulting marriage and family therapists can help make elder care easier.
Marriage and Family Therapists (MFT's) are relationship experts. They work with individuals, couples, families, children, adolescents, and the elderly, providing support and perspective as patients struggle with life's challenges.
More than one-third of marriages end in painful divorce. But the choices you make during divorce will influence your child's health and well-being over a lifetime.
The stakes are high. Kids from divorce families often experience higher rates of teen pregnancy, more diffilulties in school, and challenges in their own marriages. Two of the biggest predictors? The amount of conflict between you and your spouse and the amount of support from friends and family.
By nature, teens are volatile emotionally and stressed by increasing pressures from parents, society, and peers to over-achieve academically, be popular, and fit and unrealistic body image ideal.
What can you do as a parent? Stay close to your teen-ager. Know where she is and what he is doing. Be a positive role model in the choices you make. Your teen learns by watching what you do, not what you say.
Depression is a mood disorder with symptoms that can range from mild to life-threatening. It's a complicated disorder because it can negatively impact so many aspects of a person's life, from physical health and job performance to parenting and personal relationships. People who are depressed feel helpless and hopeless that life will never improve.
Regardless of where u live though, you have several options on how you choose to proceed with divorce and child custody/visitation issues, You can file for divorce yourself, hire an attorney to represent you in court, or go ti mediation with your spouse, California law requires you to include a parenting plan when you file for divorce.
Remember, the choices you make now will impact the emotional and financial well-being of you and your children for years to come.
Eating disorders of all types-from Anorexia and Bulimia to binge eating and obesity-are on the rise among children, teens, women, men, and athletes. Because eating disorders are one of the few psychiatric disorders you can directly die from, it's critical to understand why your eating is disordered and take active steps for recovery.
The idea that someone would deliberately hurt themselves is difficult of many of us to understand, but self-injuring--cutting, burning, scab picking--are increasingly and on the rise, especially in adolescent girls.
Deemed "the new Anorexia," self-injury behaviors commonly afflict middle and upper class teenage girls with average to high intelligence and low self-esteem. They are the "invisible" kids who get good grades and have nice friends. However, ninety percent of suffers have experienced some type of emotional, physical, or sexual abuse.
Marriage and Family Therapists (MFT's) are relationship experts. They work with individuals, couples, families, children, adolescents, and the elderly, providing support and perspective as patients struggle with life's challenges.
More than one-third of marriages end in painful divorce. But the choices you make during divorce will influence your child's health and well-being over a lifetime.
The stakes are high. Kids from divorce families often experience higher rates of teen pregnancy, more diffilulties in school, and challenges in their own marriages. Two of the biggest predictors? The amount of conflict between you and your spouse and the amount of support from friends and family.
By nature, teens are volatile emotionally and stressed by increasing pressures from parents, society, and peers to over-achieve academically, be popular, and fit and unrealistic body image ideal.
What can you do as a parent? Stay close to your teen-ager. Know where she is and what he is doing. Be a positive role model in the choices you make. Your teen learns by watching what you do, not what you say.
Depression is a mood disorder with symptoms that can range from mild to life-threatening. It's a complicated disorder because it can negatively impact so many aspects of a person's life, from physical health and job performance to parenting and personal relationships. People who are depressed feel helpless and hopeless that life will never improve.
Regardless of where u live though, you have several options on how you choose to proceed with divorce and child custody/visitation issues, You can file for divorce yourself, hire an attorney to represent you in court, or go ti mediation with your spouse, California law requires you to include a parenting plan when you file for divorce.
Remember, the choices you make now will impact the emotional and financial well-being of you and your children for years to come.
Eating disorders of all types-from Anorexia and Bulimia to binge eating and obesity-are on the rise among children, teens, women, men, and athletes. Because eating disorders are one of the few psychiatric disorders you can directly die from, it's critical to understand why your eating is disordered and take active steps for recovery.
The idea that someone would deliberately hurt themselves is difficult of many of us to understand, but self-injuring--cutting, burning, scab picking--are increasingly and on the rise, especially in adolescent girls.
Deemed "the new Anorexia," self-injury behaviors commonly afflict middle and upper class teenage girls with average to high intelligence and low self-esteem. They are the "invisible" kids who get good grades and have nice friends. However, ninety percent of suffers have experienced some type of emotional, physical, or sexual abuse.
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD, is a serious and common condition that affects up to 20 percen of American adults. While we may feel like we should be able to carry on with life, sometimes traumatic memories become so disabling that we can no longer cope or function.
Caregivers confront many transitions and challenges as they focus on meeting the needs of their loved ones. The life of a caregiver is further complicated when the person they are caring for presents difficult behaviors. Part 1 focuses on a review of the types of "difficult people" that present these challenges to their families and caregivers.
By Oblio Stroyman, M.Ed, LMFT, NCGCII
Presented at the 2011 Oregon Problem Gambling Services Spring Training, Salem, OR. Please contact author for publishing/sharing rights.
It is a normal process, not a psychiatric disorder. Everyone moves through grief at their won pace and in their own way, It's a lifelong process.
Seek help from a qualified therapist if you feel stuck in your grief, you don't want to burden your close friends with your grief, or you want to provide active support to someone who is grieving.
Child molestation is the act of sexually touching a child. Today, 2 out of 10 girls and 1 out of every 10 boys has been molested. In fact, 13 million children are molested before they are 14 years old!
And most never tell because they are ashamed, are afraid of the molester, or fear no none will believe them. The fact is, 90% of sex abusers molest children close to them....family members, neighbors, or children of of parents in their social circle, not strangers.
Children who live with domestic violence face a high risk of exposure to traumatizing events, neglect, being directly abused, and losing one or both of their parents,
When they witness abuse at home, children also grow up anxious, fearful, and hopeless. They are often insecure and worried about the future. They are at high risk for substance abuse, dropping out of school, and the complications that come with chronic stress-related disorders.
Caring for a family member with dementia is fraught with burden and stress: A...GERATEC
The title “Caregiving for a family member with dementia is fraught with burden and stress” elicits more questions than answers. Who is this caregiver – husband or wife, son or daughter, second husband or wife, stepson or –daughter, daughter- or son-in-law, grandchild – a list with endless variations. Would the experience be different when caring for a mother to that of caring for a father, husband or wife, brother, uncle, aunt, cousin, and nephew? Can the term “caregiver” be considered a singular entity with a singular emotional experience? What is the role of - amongst others - culture, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, language, religion, age, personality, social environment and education? What role does the type of dementia of the care recipient play? Do all people deal with burden and stress in the same way, and if not, why not? What constitutes burden and stress, and how are these defined within the heterogeneous environment of caregiving?
It is often said, “If you have met one person with dementia, you have met one person with dementia”. The same might very well apply to the family caregiver. Nolan et al (2002) refer to Dilworth-Anderson and Montgomery & Williams (2001) when saying that “In essence the message is clear – caregiving can only be fully appreciated and adequately supported in its appropriate context”.
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD, is a serious and common condition that affects up to 20 percen of American adults. While we may feel like we should be able to carry on with life, sometimes traumatic memories become so disabling that we can no longer cope or function.
Caregivers confront many transitions and challenges as they focus on meeting the needs of their loved ones. The life of a caregiver is further complicated when the person they are caring for presents difficult behaviors. Part 1 focuses on a review of the types of "difficult people" that present these challenges to their families and caregivers.
By Oblio Stroyman, M.Ed, LMFT, NCGCII
Presented at the 2011 Oregon Problem Gambling Services Spring Training, Salem, OR. Please contact author for publishing/sharing rights.
It is a normal process, not a psychiatric disorder. Everyone moves through grief at their won pace and in their own way, It's a lifelong process.
Seek help from a qualified therapist if you feel stuck in your grief, you don't want to burden your close friends with your grief, or you want to provide active support to someone who is grieving.
Child molestation is the act of sexually touching a child. Today, 2 out of 10 girls and 1 out of every 10 boys has been molested. In fact, 13 million children are molested before they are 14 years old!
And most never tell because they are ashamed, are afraid of the molester, or fear no none will believe them. The fact is, 90% of sex abusers molest children close to them....family members, neighbors, or children of of parents in their social circle, not strangers.
Children who live with domestic violence face a high risk of exposure to traumatizing events, neglect, being directly abused, and losing one or both of their parents,
When they witness abuse at home, children also grow up anxious, fearful, and hopeless. They are often insecure and worried about the future. They are at high risk for substance abuse, dropping out of school, and the complications that come with chronic stress-related disorders.
Caring for a family member with dementia is fraught with burden and stress: A...GERATEC
The title “Caregiving for a family member with dementia is fraught with burden and stress” elicits more questions than answers. Who is this caregiver – husband or wife, son or daughter, second husband or wife, stepson or –daughter, daughter- or son-in-law, grandchild – a list with endless variations. Would the experience be different when caring for a mother to that of caring for a father, husband or wife, brother, uncle, aunt, cousin, and nephew? Can the term “caregiver” be considered a singular entity with a singular emotional experience? What is the role of - amongst others - culture, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, language, religion, age, personality, social environment and education? What role does the type of dementia of the care recipient play? Do all people deal with burden and stress in the same way, and if not, why not? What constitutes burden and stress, and how are these defined within the heterogeneous environment of caregiving?
It is often said, “If you have met one person with dementia, you have met one person with dementia”. The same might very well apply to the family caregiver. Nolan et al (2002) refer to Dilworth-Anderson and Montgomery & Williams (2001) when saying that “In essence the message is clear – caregiving can only be fully appreciated and adequately supported in its appropriate context”.
Dementia Home Care: Context and Challenges in IndiaSwapna Kishore
Most dementia care in India happens at homes and is provided by family caregivers. Volunteers and other concerned persons need to understand the realities of dementia home care in India to be able to provide suitable help and suggestions, while remaining sensitive and respectful of what families achieve in face of so many challenges.
Read discusssions on handling dementia home care in India at: http://dementiacarenotes.in/caregivers/
Lifecare & the sandwich generation. Caring for Aging parents and caring for your kids. The phenomenon of the "sandwich generation" is here to stay. Is your family ready ?
Families with People/Children/ Elders with Special Numerous are Learn for Fa...hemurathore1
Family- A family is a group of two people or more (one of whom is the householder) related by birth, marriage, or adoption and residing together; all such people (including related subfamily members) are considered as members of one family.
Family group- A family group is any two or more people (not necessarily including a householder) residing together, and related by birth, marriage, or adoption. A household may be composed of one such group, more than one, or none at all. The count of family groups includes family households, related subfamilies, and unrelated subfamilies.
Family household- A family household is a household maintained by a householder who is in a family and includes any unrelated people who may be residing there. The number of family households is equal to the number of families. The count of family household members differs from the count of family members, however, in that the family household members include all people living in the household, whereas family members include only the householder and his/her relatives.
A family dynamic is the scheme of family members’ relations and interactions including many prerequisite elements (family arrangements, hierarchies, rules, and patterns of family interactions).
Each family is unique in its characteristics; having several helpful and unhelpful dynamics. Family dynamics will ultimately influence the way young people view themselves/others and the world. It will also impact their relationships/behaviors and their future wellbeing.
“Family dynamics is the complement to the static or structural component of a family.”
-Jonathan Davis
Families with People/Children/ Elders with Special Numerous are Learn for Fa...
Caring for the Elderly
1. What It’s Like to Be Elderly
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For older Californians, life can be stressful and Golden Years
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In some countries, the elderly enjoy an elevated social Most health insurance policies cover the
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they have to share. An extensive family network shares “medically necessary.” This typically includes
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an honor and opportunity to repay the debt of those
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who cared for them when they were small.
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Marriage and Family Therapists (MFTs) are relationship
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children, adolescents, and the elderly, providing support
and perspective as patients struggle with life’s challenges.
Licensed by the State of California, MFTs are psycho-
therapists who are uniquely trained and credentialed to
assess, diagnose, and treat a wide range of issues so
individuals achieve more adequate, satisfying and
Sharing the Care What You Can Do Right Now productive relationships and social adjustment.
The emotional, physical, and social needs of the elderly
can seem all-consuming to those who care for them. Practice self-care first. You can only be a good caregiver The California Association of Marriage and Family
Caregivers need to find ways to balance their self-care if you take time to ensure your own well-being through Therapists (CAMFT) is an independent statewide non-
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by a respected professional, such as a physician. more satisfying daily life.