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Leading without
               being in charge
                  Selena Deckelmann
                 End Point Corporation
                 selena@endpoint.com
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Software Engineer
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      http://www.endpoint.com
      User Group Leader
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      http://pugs.postgresql.org/pdxpug
      Conference Organizer
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      http://www.opensourcebridge.org
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YOU
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You’ve got an idea for a
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You’re looking for
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What’s a community?




A community is a group of people that
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User groups meet regularly
               in person, to share and learn.
                  And drink a pint or two.
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User groups help bridge
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User groups are a training
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developers and organizers.
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User groups are also just fun.
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How?
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You want them to:
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You want them to:
                  participate
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You want them to:
                take over for you
                    someday
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what is
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               Having a good time.
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               Not having a good time.
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You’re not a dictator.
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You’re not a social
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Facilitator
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                 Guide
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Leading without
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5-step program to:
               lead well
               develop new leaders
               have enthusiastic followers
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1.Get people to the meeting
2.Start the meeting
3.Make people feel good
4.Set the tone
5.Take questions
#1 - Get people to the
                      meeting
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Who?
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Perl Mongers             PDXPHP

               Ruby Brigade             Lunch 2.0

               Linux Users Group        BarCamp

               Functional Programmers   .NET Developers

               Agile Developers         Cisco Users

               Pythoneers               Java Developers
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Free Advertising
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email
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blog
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talk to people
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More free advertising


               Ask someone else to blog
               Ask other UG leaders to email
               Speak at another UG
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Non-free advertising
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#2 - Start the meeting
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Share the agenda
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Make announcements
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Make introductions
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Why did you come today?
               What do you want to learn?
                What’s your favorite ... ?
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Introduce the speaker
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Rituals
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What can I expect at
                  your group?
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Announcements
                   Introductions
               Feature of the month
                       A Talk
                     Socializing
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Set a regular date and time
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#3 - Make people feel
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Write names down
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Make stuff together
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Eat and drink together
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Make yourself feel good
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Why are you going this?
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Have a goal
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Measure your goal
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Make adjustments
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#4 - Set the tone
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Be an active leader
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Ask for help
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Take the load off
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Give real work
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Let them fail
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That guy
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BOFH
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Sitting in the front row
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Interrupting
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Disrupting the flow
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Deal with trolls
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How?
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Praise in public,
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Smile
                Use touch
               Give choices
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Structure for socializing
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Make time for you to
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#5 - Take questions
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Ask people
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Change things, or not :)
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1.Get people to the meeting
2.Start the meeting
3.Make people feel good
4.Set the tone
5.Take questions
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CONTACT ME

                Twitter: selenamarie
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