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A 70 minute PowerPoint presentation with audio narration re: the effects of growing up in a less-than-nurturing family on relationship skills, coping styles, successful living and motivation.

A 70 minute PowerPoint presentation with audio narration re: the effects of growing up in a less-than-nurturing family on relationship skills, coping styles, successful living and motivation.

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    • “ The Iceberg” Internet-of-the-Mind.com BY: Don Carter, MSW, LCSW
          • 1. No Blame Policy
          • 2. Healing the Past
          • 3. Parents Do Their Best
          • 4. Stop Passing it On
          • 5. Focus on You
          • 6. Role-Modeling Health
      Points to Remember Internet-of-the-Mind.com
    •  
    • Abandonment
    • - Food, Shelter, Clothing - Medical Attention - Safety & Protection Survival Dependency Needs Internet-of-the-Mind.com
      • Time
      • Attention
      • - Affection
      • Direction
      Emotional Dependency Needs Internet-of-the-Mind.com
    • Emotional Dependency Needs
      • Time = Love
      • Attention
      • - Affection
      • Direction
      Internet-of-the-Mind.com
    • Emotional Dependency Needs
      • Time = Love
      • Attention = Worth
      • - Affection
      • Direction
      Internet-of-the-Mind.com
    • Emotional Dependency Needs
      • Time = Love
      • Attention = Worth
      • - Affection = Approval
      • Direction
      Internet-of-the-Mind.com
    • Emotional Dependency Needs
      • Time = Love
      • Attention = Worth
      • - Affection = Approval
      • Direction:
        • Guidance = Competence
      Internet-of-the-Mind.com
    • Emotional Dependency Needs
      • Time = Love
      • Attention = Worth
      • - Affection = Approval
      • Direction:
        • Guidance = Competence
        • Discipline = Character
      Internet-of-the-Mind.com
    • Abandonment
    • Abandonment Shame
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt
      • Externalizers
      • Prone to Anger
      • Self-Centered
      • -Shameless & Blameless
      • -Harm to others
      • -Rigid Boundaries
      • -“Anti”-Dependent
      • -Intrusive/Aggressive
      • Counter-Dependent
      Internalizers -Prone to Depress -Other-Centered -Full of Shame -Harm to self -Weak Boundaries -Dependent -People Pleasers Co-Dependent The “Scab” of Contempt Internet-of-the-Mind.com
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt False Self
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt External Focus False Self
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt External Focus Cover-Ups Invented Self False Self
    • Survival Roles “ Invented Self” Alcoholic Co-Dependent Internet-of-the-Mind.com
    • Hero Alcoholic Co-Dependent Internet-of-the-Mind.com Survival Roles “ Invented Self”
    • Hero Rebel Alcoholic Co-Dependent Internet-of-the-Mind.com Survival Roles “ Invented Self”
    • Hero Rebel Lost Child Alcoholic Co-Dependent Internet-of-the-Mind.com Survival Roles “ Invented Self”
    • Hero Rebel Lost Child Mascot Alcoholic Co-Dependent Internet-of-the-Mind.com Survival Roles “ Invented Self”
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt False Self External Focus Cover-Ups Invented Self
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups True Self False Self External Focus Invented Self
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups Food Alcohol Drugs Gambling Sex Work Risk- Taking Drama *Comfort & Relief* True Self Invented Self False Self External Focus
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups Needy people Food Alcohol Drugs Gambling Sex Work Risk Taking Drama True Self Invented Self False Self External Focus *Comfort & Relief*
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups Needy people Food Alcohol Drugs Gambling Sex Work Risk Taking Drama True Self Invented Self False Self External Focus *Comfort & Relief*
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups Needy people Food Alcohol Drugs Gambling Sex Work Risk Taking Drama True Self *Control* False Self External Focus Invented Self *Comfort & Relief*
    • External Focus Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups Needy people Food Alcohol Drugs Gambling Sex Work Risk Taking Drama True Self *Control* CRASH!! HIT Bottom Invented Self False Self *Comfort & Relief*
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups True Self False Self Invented Self External Focus *Control* *Comfort & Relief* Self-Help Counseling
    • Abandonment Shame Contempt Internal Focus *Control* H.O.W. Higher Power Recovery Program False Self *Comfort & Relief* Early Recovery True Self
    • H.O.W. Higher Power Recovery Program Internal Focus *Comfort & Relief* Middle Recovery Healing True Self
    • H.O.W. Recovery Program Higher Power Internal Focus True Self
    • “ The Iceberg” Internet-of-the-Mind.com BY: Don Carter, MSW, LCSW