Many of us do not know the what we want from our life, if in case we know our target we do are not aware with the rule to reach to it. so do you want to know it ?
2. Majority of the people in the world don’t know
what they want from life. They are just doing the
things which every other person is doing or
which people want them to do.
They don’t know the right reason behind target
but follow it for the wrong reasons. Such as every
student want to be convert into an engineer or a
doctor because she/he think these streams have
great prospect and brings you money showering
jobs.
But the true reason should be: She/he really has
interest in engineering field or has the passion for
human caring field. Then only she/he will be able
to give best to their field and will be able to
become the best engineer or best doctor.
And in life best always brings you the best. Being
best doctor or engineer will bring you the best
job and best job will bring you the best money.
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3. Again best always doesn’t mean you the top level job or the highest salary.
Best means the things which bring the satisfaction in your life. For example
many money maker engineers left the top companies just to start their
own venture. This small level venture does not assures the money
showering in life but it brings them a satisfaction that they really
wanted to start their own venture and they really wanted to be a
business man.
So now start thinking- what you want from life and for that what you want
from yourself. If you are clear with the answer then go ahead. If you are
not clear with the thing keep finding the answer and keep working on
it.
Try to find new spans, find what could give you true happiness. Still if you
are not aware with the answer; find your short term goal that will keep
you in momentum for future work.
‘I wanted to achieve so many things. How I will know that it’s my dream.
Will my dream would be having my address?’
4. Answer is simple – DREAM. Dream, itself is the answer of your questions and
confusion.
To find your dream, dream itself shows you the way:
• Dream must have its deadline
• Such as “I want to become a successful business person”. For that I have to
decide a timeline for myself that in next 3 years the business will go beyond the
break even and in next 5 years the profile would be 20%.
Your dream must be relevant to your life such as you are a charted accountant in
some firm but today you can’t think that in next 10 years you want to be a
scientist.
Your strength, have the capability to push you close to your dream. So dream
must be based on your relevant actions? At least you must have keen interest
in the thing which you want to do.
5. Your dream must be specific and should be written on paper.
Such as in next 5 years I will publish my two fiction novels and one short
story book. You can’t be vague with your dream. That’s why, if it’s not
explicit, it’s not your dream.
• Your dream must be achievable in the targeted time.
• Never overestimate yourself for your dream otherwise you will reach
nowhere.
• Such as you are a family person, and you are doing a job from morning
9 to evening 7 but you want to crack CAT exam in next three month,
surely it’s a bull shit. You can’t achieve it, if you haven’t prepared for it
from long time. Yes I know exceptions are always there but everyone is
not exception for one thing.
6. Your dream must be measurable that this much work you can do in this
particular time. When you dream for something you have to know that
by what time you could reach there. Its simply a rate of moving toward
your goal.
Example: My long term target is to publish a novel within a year and
short term target is to complete two chapters each month. This way I
would be able to measure my improvement and will be able to analyse
the achievability of my target. So without measurability target is just
only a imaginary dream.
So with the Dream Rule, have you found your answer?
Share with me: Do you still have questions for your dreams or the Rule?
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