1. How
To
Deal With A Commitment Phobic Date
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2. Supposed you’re seeing this man for months, but he seems
uninterested into taking your relationship into something more
exclusive. Now, you’re probably wondering how to get him to
commit. Contrary to a commonly held belief, it is often
counterintuitive to give your man an ultimatum, like by saying
to him that you would end the relationship if he does not want to
commit. If anything, it is usually the opposite.
Offering yourself entirely to the guy before he shows any
inkling of wanting to commit is also a misstep. This is not only
limited to sex, but more importantly to the time and attention
you afford him. Making drastic adjustments to your schedule
just so you can go meet him, buying him expensive gifts, and
checking up on him frequently, smells of desperation and would
only reinforce his idea that he does need to be committed to you
to get all of those perks.
While it may seem old-
fashioned, but mothers’ and
grandmothers’ advice to let the
guy chase you until you catch
him still holds true today.
Instead of giving him
everything all at once right
away, reward him
incrementally with time and
attention as he strives to be
more committed. This will
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3. allow him to make associations between rewards and
commitment.
Have a life outside your relationship by trying a new hobby
without tagging him along. Or you can go on a vacation with
your friends without inviting him. Once there’s something
competing for your attention, he will start to wonder how if he is
important in your life, and he would make the effort to matter.
You can also make big life decisions by yourself. This is
basically your way of telling him that you don’t need him to
move your life forward.
Sometimes, a bit of jealousy can be
a way on how to get him to
commit. Men have issues with your
so-called guy friends, and will want
to know why he’s hanging around
you. If all goes well, he will try to
compete for your attention and try
to convince you that he is a better
choice. If despite all of your best
efforts, your guy still doesn’t seem
to care, maybe he is just not that into you at all. You might think
of this guy as the man of your dreams, but for your relationship
to work, he should also think of you as the woman of his
dreams.
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