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     Deal With A Commitment Phobic Date




1 | How To Get A Guy To Commit
Supposed you’re seeing this man for months, but he seems
uninterested into taking your relationship into something more
exclusive. Now, you’re probably wondering how to get him to
commit. Contrary to a commonly held belief, it is often
counterintuitive to give your man an ultimatum, like by saying
to him that you would end the relationship if he does not want to
commit. If anything, it is usually the opposite.
Offering yourself entirely to the guy before he shows any
inkling of wanting to commit is also a misstep. This is not only
limited to sex, but more importantly to the time and attention
you afford him. Making drastic adjustments to your schedule
just so you can go meet him, buying him expensive gifts, and
checking up on him frequently, smells of desperation and would
only reinforce his idea that he does need to be committed to you
to get all of those perks.


                                 While it may seem old-
                                 fashioned, but mothers’ and
                                 grandmothers’ advice to let the
                                 guy chase you until you catch
                                 him still holds true today.
                                 Instead of giving him
                                 everything all at once right
                                 away, reward him
                                 incrementally with time and
                                 attention as he strives to be
                                 more committed. This will


2 | How To Get A Guy To Commit
allow him to make associations between rewards and
commitment.
Have a life outside your relationship by trying a new hobby
without tagging him along. Or you can go on a vacation with
your friends without inviting him. Once there’s something
competing for your attention, he will start to wonder how if he is
important in your life, and he would make the effort to matter.
You can also make big life decisions by yourself. This is
basically your way of telling him that you don’t need him to
move your life forward.
                               Sometimes, a bit of jealousy can be
                               a way on how to get him to
                               commit. Men have issues with your
                               so-called guy friends, and will want
                               to know why he’s hanging around
                               you. If all goes well, he will try to
                               compete for your attention and try
                               to convince you that he is a better
                               choice. If despite all of your best
                               efforts, your guy still doesn’t seem
to care, maybe he is just not that into you at all. You might think
of this guy as the man of your dreams, but for your relationship
to work, he should also think of you as the woman of his
dreams.




3 | How To Get A Guy To Commit

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How To Deal With A Commitment Phobic Date

  • 1. How To Deal With A Commitment Phobic Date 1 | How To Get A Guy To Commit
  • 2. Supposed you’re seeing this man for months, but he seems uninterested into taking your relationship into something more exclusive. Now, you’re probably wondering how to get him to commit. Contrary to a commonly held belief, it is often counterintuitive to give your man an ultimatum, like by saying to him that you would end the relationship if he does not want to commit. If anything, it is usually the opposite. Offering yourself entirely to the guy before he shows any inkling of wanting to commit is also a misstep. This is not only limited to sex, but more importantly to the time and attention you afford him. Making drastic adjustments to your schedule just so you can go meet him, buying him expensive gifts, and checking up on him frequently, smells of desperation and would only reinforce his idea that he does need to be committed to you to get all of those perks. While it may seem old- fashioned, but mothers’ and grandmothers’ advice to let the guy chase you until you catch him still holds true today. Instead of giving him everything all at once right away, reward him incrementally with time and attention as he strives to be more committed. This will 2 | How To Get A Guy To Commit
  • 3. allow him to make associations between rewards and commitment. Have a life outside your relationship by trying a new hobby without tagging him along. Or you can go on a vacation with your friends without inviting him. Once there’s something competing for your attention, he will start to wonder how if he is important in your life, and he would make the effort to matter. You can also make big life decisions by yourself. This is basically your way of telling him that you don’t need him to move your life forward. Sometimes, a bit of jealousy can be a way on how to get him to commit. Men have issues with your so-called guy friends, and will want to know why he’s hanging around you. If all goes well, he will try to compete for your attention and try to convince you that he is a better choice. If despite all of your best efforts, your guy still doesn’t seem to care, maybe he is just not that into you at all. You might think of this guy as the man of your dreams, but for your relationship to work, he should also think of you as the woman of his dreams. 3 | How To Get A Guy To Commit