2. Maturity has nothing at all to do with
trying to act older or impress others.
True maturity is learning to think more
about others than myself; it is looking at
the world through unselfish eyes, trying
to see how I can build up others and
make a positive difference for them,
putting myself in their place and showing
understanding and compassion. In short,
it's being loving, being "you first" instead
of "me first.
真正的成熟,與嘗試表現年長或讓別
人對你有好印象,毫無關係。真正的
成熟,是學習多為別人著想,甚於只
想我自己;是透過無私的眼光來看這
個世界,盡力想辦法鼓勵別人,對他
們造成積極的影響,及對他人設身處
地的表現出了解和同情。簡而言之,
就是要有愛心,力求「別人先」,而
不是「自己先」。
3. Here are some practical tips to help get
you started:
• Treat others with kindness, the way
you would want to be treated.
• Look for the good.
• Be adaptable.
• Always forgive.
• Be supportive.
这里有些实际的建议,可帮助你开
始:
• 善待他人,以你希望被对待的方
式对待他人
• 寻找美善
• 灵活应变
• 总要宽恕人
• 给予支持