1. Leħen Familji Nsara Ottubru 2012 ● Ħarġa Nru 10
Kummissjoni Familja Naxxar
Merħba!
Merħba għall-għaxar ħarġa ta’ Leħen Familji
Nsara. Ottubru jagħti bidu għall-sena skolastika
ġdida. F’dan iż-żmien il-ġenituri jippreparaw u
jħeġġu lill-uliedhom għal sena oħra fl-iskejjel,
universitajiet u għaqdiet oħra li joffru diversi
forom ta’ tagħlim. Tagħlim li jippreparana għall-
ħajja. It-tagħlim sar parti mill-ħajja fejn dejjem
hemm x’nitgħalmu biex ngħixu aħjar. Jien bħala
miżżewweġ/miżżewġa, missier/omm,
nisrani/nisranija qiegħed infittex tagħlim biex
ngħix aħjar?
Laqgħat ta' Formazzjoni għall-Miżżewġin
Minn Ottubru il-Kummissjoni Familja Naxxar immexxija mill-Arċipriet Fr. Evan Caruana qed
torganizza sensiela ta’ laqgħat ta’ formazzjoni għall-miżżewġin. Dawn il-laqgħat jinżammu kull
tielet Sibt tax-xahar mis-7:30pm sad-9:00pm, fl-annex tal-Knisja Parrokkjali tan-Naxxar, kif ġej:
Suġġett Data s-Sibt ... Immexxija minn
1. KRISTU JGĦIX FIŻ-ŻWIEĠ TAGĦNA?
20 ta’ Ottubru 2012 Fr. Marco Portelli
Għadu jħalli xi effett fina s-sagrament taż-żwieġ?
2. KIF NISTGĦU NIFHMU AĦJAR LIL ULIEDNA
17 ta’ Novembru Sr. Alexandra
ADOLOXXENTI U ŻGĦAŻAGĦ? 2012 Chircop
Nippreparaw lil uliedna għall-ħajjithom.
3. ID-DIFFERENZI JAGĦMLUNA INKOMPATIBBLI? Mr. & Mrs. Frank
Kif koppja jistgħu jgħixu flimkien minkejja d-differenzi ta’ 19 ta’ Jannar 2013 u Mariosa
bejniethom. Micallef
Eżerċizzi għall-miżżewġin Mill-25 ta’ Frar
Patri Elija Vella
fis-7.00pm fil-Knisja Parrokkjali tan-Naxxar sal-1 ta’ Marzu
4. FAŻIJIET DIFFERENTI TAŻ-ŻWIEĠ. Mr. Julian Sant
16 ta’ Marzu 2013
Kif nistgħu ngħixu ż-żwieġ tagħna f'etajiet differenti? Fournier
5. IL-KONFLITT U L-MAĦFRA FIŻ-ŻWIEĠ. Fr. Joseph
20 ta’ April 2013
Il-komunikazzjoni ġenwina bejn il-koppja. Calleja
6. NISSAĦĦU BEJNIETNA FL-IMĦABBA. Fr. Paul
Kif nista nħobb jekk ma nifhimx ... lili nnifsi u lir-raġel jew il- 18 ta’ Mejju 2013
mara tiegħi? Chetcuti
Il-laqgħat huma miftuħa kemm għall-koppji ġodda kif ukoll għal dawk li ilhom miżżewġin. Ikun
hemm servizz għal mingħandu tfal żgħar. Ejjew u stiednu oħrajn jiġu magħkom. Dawk il-koppji
nteressati li jipparteċipaw għandhom jinfurmawna permezz ta’ e-mail fuq
familjiflimkien@gmail.com jew billi jagħmlu kuntatt mall-kummissjoni fuq mowbajl 79053779.
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2. Emotional intelligence in our family
Today many are coming to the realisation
that our emotions play a key role in
determining how successful or miserable
we feel. Our emotions and not reason
determine whether our abilities will
eventually grow and flourish.
Emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to
recognise and understand emotions and
their impact on behaviour and attitudes.
People with a high degree of EI are in tune
with both their own emotions and the
emotions of other people with whom they change. Parents often promote logic and
come into contact. Moreover, EI involves reasoning in their parenting styles, wanting
being sensitive to and perceptive of other their children to understand, follow and
people's emotions, an essential ability that change. Yet most parents often feel they
facilitates healthy relationships. An are going round into circles, preaching the
individual who is in tune with his or her own same things, but without any effective
emotions is much more likely to be able to results. Parents often try to reason out
understand and sync with the emotions things with their kids, while losing sight of
that impact the attitudes and behaviours the emotional aspect which often blocks
of others. communication, ending up in a game of
tug of wars with their children.
Parenting & emotional intelligence
Family life is our foundational school for EI leads to healthy relationships
emotional learning, not just through things Emotions influence how we think, feel, and
parents say and do directly to their act, which inevitably influence our
children, but more importantly in the perceptions and reactions to life. Even if
modelling they offer for handling their own we rationally know what we should do, we
feelings. The emotional abilities children can be emotionally jammed. This happens
acquire later in life, build on those of the not only to our kids but also to us. In light of
earliest years, and form the essential this, spouses and parents can benefit from
foundation for all learning. Research an awarness and a deeper understanding
indicates that a child's success in life is not of EI, to be in control of their own emotions
predicted by intelligence (IQ) as much as and to be able to incorporate it effectively
by emotional and social measures, such in communicating with their spouse and
as: being self-assured and interested; also in their parenting styles to promote
knowing how to rein an impulse or an healthy relationships in their family.
overwhelming emotion; being able to wait
and follow directions, and when necessary Article written for Leħen Familji Nsara by Claudette
Portelli, Strategic Coach & Trainer, W&D Business
turn to others for help; expressing one's
Advisory Unit (www.wdmalta.com). Dott.ssa Claudette
needs while getting along and not hurting Portelli is a clinical psychologist specialised in Brief
others. Strategic Therapy. She carries out seminars and
consultancies mainly in Malta and in Italy. For further
information you can visit www.brieftherapymalta.com.
As children grow, the specific emotional
lessons they are ready for and in need of,
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