This explains why people act the way they do even though it's not who they are since it doesn't match their personality. And there is a way to deal with it.

1. The side effects of fear
When your fear is not resolved it gets projected at people you care about.
Face the truth of what it is and where it came from in your mind and the truth will give you the
courage to get rid of it.
It will clear your head and get rid of migraines.
fears:
sex
violence
being ignored
being controlled
even childhood fears will still linger making it difficult to grow up.
The reason it gets projected at people is because your afraid of facing the cause of it.