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共好讀書會:新竹場 2016-06-25(六)
大家好
我是 WeiWei
作者簡介
茱迪斯.歐洛芙 Judith Orloff
現任加州大學洛杉磯分校(UCLA)精神科臨床助理教授,協助
病人練習臣服的藝術、追求情緒的自由,已有20餘年經驗。她著有
《紐約時報》暢銷書《讓情緒自由》(Emotional Freedom),及暢銷
書《正向能量》(Positive Energy)、《直覺療癒》(Judith Orloff’s
Guide to Intuitive Healing)、《神奇的第二視覺》(Second Sight)等。
她曾經登上「奧茲醫生秀」(The Dr. Oz Show)、「今日」節目
(Today)、美國公共電視(PBS)、有線電視新聞網(CNN)及美
國公共電台(NPR)。她首次參與 TED 演講即討論本書,在
YouTube 點閱人次已超過50萬。更多資訊請上網站:
www.drjudithorloff.com。
歐洛芙深信
成功不能只想自己要達成什麼,
更重要的是取決於你願不願意向
意料之外的可能性臣服。
一天天的臣服,你可以改善生活品質、
減輕壓力,解除過度認真的詛咒,享受
更多的人生樂趣〭
放下在你決定放下、
捨得放手的那一刻起,
你便已一步一步走向
幸福之路
金錢辦得到的五件事
1.滿足基本需要
2.提供高生活品質和安全網
3.買到閒暇時間
4.幫助你接近貴人、得到影響力和機會
5.助人和獎勵優良表現
金錢辦不到的五件事
1.讓內心不快樂的你變快樂
2.讓你比別人更重要
3.買到真正的友情或愛情
4.代替個人自尊
5.填補寂寞、失落、或缺乏靈性連結的破洞
溝通是效力強大的藥物。
我們說話的內容和表達方式,
可以傷人也可以帶來療癒。
愛牽著我的手走了那麼遠…………
然後只是站在那裡,不肯放手
有時候 選擇和一個人保持距離
是因為你清楚知道 他不屬於你
「上帝愛世人,甚至將祂的獨生子賜給他們,
叫一切信祂的,不致滅亡,反得永生。」
------ 約翰福
音3章16節
死亡最讓人害怕的是什麼?
它有什麼會令人躲進不臣服的最小自我裡?
你是否曾經想像自已死亡的那一刻?
如出生之日
如死亡之日
於彼日:我展開旅程
臣服不是軟弱
而是順應生命的流動
臣服不是委屈求全,
而是收回錯用的抵抗,
找回你自在人生的力量
discuss
1.你曾經為何而執著?
2.如果有來生,你會?
3.你臣服了嗎?

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臣服的力量簡報

Editor's Notes

  1. 對我而言放下不是結束。而是學習。。重新開始學習。。。抗拒。接納。。放下
  2. 力量與金錢:金錢可以替生活中帶來什麼,又無法滿足什麼
  3. 怎麼利用錢當作覺醒和臣服本心的途徑,而非只是做為生活安適或獲得物質享受的工具。 成就動機背後還有動機,這更深層的就是「欲望」
  4. 看清錢財的本質,走出物質誘惑及恐懼
  5. 完美的溝通必須仰賴臣服,那代表懂得何時該堅持,何時該放手。
  6. 真正的親密,意味著在關係中可以做自己而不必虛假,並且容許別人也是如此。做自己,是指對自己切身的事物可以充份表達意見,在情感關係中有清楚的立場、界限和限度。容許別人,是指當對方跟自己意見想法或感覺不同時,不去說服、糾正或改變對方,仍能維持彼此和諧的關係
  7. 經驗分享
  8. 身體形象: 我要重視自已的優點
  9. 有一天我們都得說再見
  10. 當你已奮力走至盡頭,且安靜等待下一個開始,退場使你抱持信心和開放胸懷,向未來臣服—約翰·奧唐納
  11. 在適當的時機優雅的放下,接受事實。沿著生命的週期順流而下,不要對抗。不要執迷人和結果,不要鬱悶煩惱