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                                                                                                                                                                                         MICA (P) 021/02/2010   ISSN 1793-8562   ISSUE 02/JUNE 2010




                                                                                                                                     SPARKS        Igniting Change




                                                         I arrived in Singapore from Panama when I was 14
                                                               and I faced some integration dif culties.
                                  Knowing I am a Westerner, people form these preconceived notions
                                       about me. The promiscuous image of a Westerner is not always
                                   attering and because of this, it was dif cult for me to make friends.                             THE PRAYING MANTIS STANCE
                                 The locals just didn’t believe I was sincere, no matter how hard I tried.                           The Karate Kid … in Singapore
                                                                                                                                     starring Vincent Ng

     Fitting In
     by Juan Rierra
                                                                                                                                     CROUCHING TIGER, HIDDEN DRAGON
                                                                                                                                     Panamanian Kid fits into Singapore
     Although it wasn’t easy to overcome this, and I never fully     that knowledge can be used to help others by sharing with       HOW TO KARATE-CHOP ALL TIES
     did, I learnt to appreciate those who could see past these      them your life experiences. I was able to share with people     A Client’s perspective
     prejudices. These have become true friends and great            how I lived in Panama. Through that they realised that the
     colleagues. The stereotypes were an obstacle and as I           unhappiness they were facing from not having the latest
     learned to overcome it, I gained better interpersonal skills.   gizmo was insigni cant compared to people who are
                                                                                                                                     DRUNKEN ROOSTER CHARGE
     These skills have come useful in many aspects of my life.         ghting starvation on a daily basis. I was able to help them   Grasping a second chance in life
                                                                     realise that life in Singapore is good, with their family and
     The second problem that I faced was adapting to an              friends around.
     entirely different environment. When I rst moved to
     Singapore, everything was different from Panama. I missed       If I had kept dwelling in the past, I would never have been
     my friends, I missed the environment back home, and I           able to embrace my new life here. I learnt to put away my
     became pessimistic about tting in here! As time passed, I       past, adapt to my new surroundings and make my life
     learnt to adapt. I used to climb trees in Panama for fun, but   mean something to me.
     living in Singapore I changed that to watching movies.
                                                                     Sometimes I wonder if marginalised groups within a
     I nally understand that although I might not like sudden        community, ex-offenders for example, actually experience
     change, that doesn’t mean that change is bad. A different       the same thing; feeling like a “foreigner” trying to blend in
     experience in life will give a different view of things and     to the “local” culture…
                                                                                                                                     A PUBLICATION OF SINGAPORE AFTER-CARE ASSOCIATION
12                                                                                                                                   HELPING EX-OFFENDERS AND THEIR FAMILIES GET BACK ON THEIR FEET
Age: 33

                                                                                     Editor's Note                                                                                                  Length of imprisonment: 8 years




                                                                                                 I
 3 Learning to Stay Out of Trouble


                                                                                                                                                                   Learning to
                                                                                                                                                                                                        How have you fared since
 4 The Straight & Narrow                                                        I am very excited about June’s                                                                                          starting on the Programme?
                                                                                charity lm premiere − The Karate                                                                                    I decided to further my education which is a
 6 功夫小子
                                                                                Kid. Not only is it my favourite                                                                                    big step forward at my age. Starting so late is


                                                                                                                                                                      Stay Out
 8 Working with the Local Community                                             genre (martial arts) with my                                                                                        not to my advantage. However, this has also
10 Enhancing Aftercare Professionalism
                                                                                favourite actors (Jackie Chan and                                                                                   helped me keep away from company which
                                                                                Jaden Smith), the message within                                                                                    might in uence me to go astray yet again.
   Let’s Make Cookie Dough                                                      the movie sings the same tune as
11 The Key to Grasping a Second
   Chance in Life

12 Fitting In
                                                                                our mission. If someone asks, who
                                                                                your life mentor is, you probably
                                                                                won’t have anyone to mention. I
                                                                                remember in my school’s band, I
                                                                                                                                                                    of Trouble                          What is your relationship with
                                                                                                                                                                                                        your case worker like?
                                                                                                                                                                                                    She is like a mentor to me. She would make
                                                                                                                                                                                                    sure I get everything in place so that I can
                                                                                often saw musicians handling their                                                        SACA’s Education          concentrate on my studies.
                                                                                instruments with gloves. That is                                                          Support Programme
                                                    because the oil form the hands will change the quality of the                                                                                       Do you remember the first
                                                    bells. If we realise, everything we touch is changed and                                                              provides funding,             time you met her? How was it?
                                                    everybody we touch is changed.                                                                                        support networks and      She made me feel comfortable and that I

                                                    We do have many mentors in life. I am grateful to my teachers                                                         workshops to motivate     could con de in her and that she sincerely
                                                                                                                                                                                                    wanted to help me.
                                                    (other than my parents) for giving me the education that made                                                         student-clients who are
                                                    me who I am in society today. They changed me. I am grateful
                                                    for the friends I have who saw me through tough times and                                                             enthusiastic about            What do you think of
                                                                                                                                                                                                        mentorship? Is it essential to
                                                    moulded my character. They changed me. Sometimes, being in                                                            upgrading their skills        the reintegration process?
                                                    the situation makes us oblivious to what an outsider sees.
                                                    Having a mentor prevents you from making a mistake that can
                                                                                                                                                                          and continuing on their   I think it is a good idea to introduce the
                                                                                                                                                                                                    mentorship aspect as part of the Programme.
                                                    be avoided.                                                                                                           learning journey.         It is important as clients like me would have
                                                                                                                                                                                                    no idea what to do upon release and if there
                                                    SACA has a mentoring programme. Volunteers from the public
                                                                                                                                                                                                    is no one to guide us we may just rely on
                                                    can join our programme to guide ex-offenders in their
                                                                                                                                                                                                    friends who might give bad advice instead.
                                                    reintegration. Minds, spirits and hearts, not just physical can be
                                                                                                                                                                                                    Mentorship would ensure that we get the
                                                    touched. Everybody we speak to, rub shoulders with or even
                                                                                                                                                                                                    right advice regarding getting back on our
                                                    smile at, are changed in some minute way. We leave a piece of
                                                                                                                                                                                                    feet.
                                                    ourselves behind with everyone we meet, and we take a piece
                                                    of them with us.
                                                                                                                                                                                                        How would things be different
                                                                                                                                                                                                        if you didn’t have a mentor?
                                                         Little changes can make a difference.                                                                                                      I think that I would be left on my own as
                                                                                                                                                                                                    nobody would understand what I am really
                                                                                                                                                                                                    going through. I would not get the help I
                                                                                                                                                                                                    need and in the end I may give up and go
                                                                                                                                                                                                    back to my old ways.
SPARKS is published thrice yearly by the
Singapore After-Care Association. All rights         Christine Ng
reserved. Reproduction in any form in whole
or part, in English or any other languages is
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prohibited. The views and opinions expressed         SPARKS — Igniting Change
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or implied in SPARKS are those of the
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necessarily re ect those of the publisher.
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The Straight & Narrow
    30 OCTOBER 2009                 - *Gary nally saw
    blue skies and green grass. The rst thing he did
    was to pick his daughter up from school. Feeling
    guilty that he had been absent from her life, how
    must she have felt seeing other kids’ fathers waiting
    outside the school gate…

    For the rst few months after release, Gary had
    dif culty nding a job. It was heart wrenching to see
    his 80 year old mother bending over washing dishes
    at a nearby hawker center to feed him and his
    daughter. Gary was desperate, but he vowed to not
    abandon his family again. However, Gary did not
    even know how to write a resume; worse he didn’t
    really have much to write on his resume. Unlike
    most people, he has little work experience, no
    awards and no quali cations. Negativity then starts
    to set in...

    There was also another problem. Gary had no                 Gary is now holding a sales position at a local gym.
    friends. He didn’t want to revisit old friends simply       Though he is grateful to his employer for giving him
    because he found himself going back to jail                 a chance, he realises the important steps he himself
    whenever he was with them. But addicts go back to           took to prevent his reoffending. We would like to
    old habits if there is nothing to ll the void…              share some of them with you…

    In prison, everyone was the same. They had the
    same clothes, the same haircut, the same slippers
    and even the same type of spectacles. But outside
    the name of the game is being different, being you.
                                                                1   OVERCOME EMOTIONS Gary knows
                                                                    of friends who reject offers because it
                                                                doesn’t pay a lot, or when it is labour intensive
                                                                and then complain there are “no jobs”.
                                                                                                                        2    HAVE A FOCUS Taking care of his
                                                                                                                             family is his priority now. He would like his
                                                                                                                        mum to nally have life a little easier and also
                                                                                                                                                                             4    FIND A MENTOR Gary looks up to a
                                                                                                                                                                                  fellow ex-offender who is now happily
                                                                                                                                                                             married with a family. He keeps in touch with his
                                                                                                                        wants to be a role model for his daughter.           mentor and turns to him for advice and
    The longer he stayed unemployed, the stronger the           “Just because I am handicapped by a tainted             Before he was aimless in life; something a single    encouragement when the going gets tough.
    urge to take shortcuts to an easy life. Trouble is,         past, society is not going to give me any special       parent of a young child could ill afford to do.
    these shortcuts usually led him to prison in the past.      treatment,” Gary says. Jobs aren’t dif cult to                                                               Gary hopes to pursue a degree in psychology

    Gary took up a job as a bouncer in a night club at
    Clarke Quay. It was a practical decision as he
    couldn’t stay unemployed. Yet he also knew having
                                                                  nd at all. It is expectations that are set too high
                                                                that often cause great disappointment.

                                                                Gary conditioned himself and took on the rst
                                                                offer that came his way. He did not want to lose
                                                                                                                        3    CUT OFF ALL NEGATIVE TIES WITH
                                                                                                                             THE PAST Revisiting his old haunts only
                                                                                                                        tempted him on the well trodden path to more
                                                                                                                                                                             and wants to do social work one day. It is his way
                                                                                                                                                                             of saying “thank you” to those who have given
                                                                                                                                                                             him a second chance.
    a job in a night spot was not wise for a recovering                                                                 trouble and suffering. During hard times Gary’s
    addict. He desperately wanted to not repeat the             the opportunity to accumulate whatever                  mind often dragged up memories of when he
    mistakes made so many times before.                         experience he could so that with time, he would                                                              *Gary not his real name
                                                                                                                        used to splurge on alcohol and women with the
                                                                have more to write on his resume.                       money he made from dealing drugs. A real
    He decided to give resume writing another shot. He
                                                                                                                        battle royal took place within him to force these
    listed down what little quali cations he had. While         Life doesn’t stop just because Gary is past his
    still working as a bouncer (after all, it paid the bills)   thirties and doesn’t have a successful career. If       mental images deeper so they didn’t torment
    he waited patiently to get called for interviews. He        he continues to wallow in self pity, he would           him all the time.
    did get some calls and eventually got an offer.             never move forward.


4                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 5
It does
                      J
                      Jet Li, who took up Singapore citizenship last June ought to know
                      we’ve our own Prince of Wushu here. Vincent Ng, born and bred
                      in Singapore was a very active kid. Since kindergarten, he just
                      wouldn’t sit still. Like a superhero, he discovered he had
                                                                                                                                                       not matter how
                                                                                                                                                         many times
                                                                                                                                                           you fall,
                      extraordinary jumping powers. If then, had he decided to go the
                      superhero route; he would have been known as The Frog Prince.
                                                                                                                                                       what matters is
                      Good thing he didn’t.                                                                                                            how many times
                      Vincent started as a sports athlete in Primary school. His seniors
                                                                                                                                                           you pick
                      took note of his never-ending energy and cajoled him to join the                                                                   yourself up...
                      lion dance club at a tender age. While helming the Lion’s head,
                      his teacher discovered his potential for something greater and
                      took him out of school to train in a proper Wushu school.

                      There, he met his mentor, Mdm Chua. Just like out of a period
                      kung-fu ick Mdm Chua and her husband, the then childless
                      couple, immediately took a liking to this young boy. They sincerely
                      wanted to groom him to be the martial artist they thought him
                      capable of becoming. They trained him without letting up, and
                      even had him sleep over for early morning regimes.

                      Even now, the slogan “No Pain, No Gain” is Vincent’s favourite.       Vincent is a very strict coach, as was his mentor with
                      He loves feeling his muscles ache; knowing his body is                him. A student’s fear turns into respect over time
                      responding to the punishing regime. Vincent admires Bruce Lee,        through patient nurturing. Vincent feels one needs to
                      perhaps the greatest martial arts icon of all time. To him, Bruce     be living rightfully, in order to be an example. Having
                      Lee is a legend who epitomised what being Chinese really meant.       gained many life experiences, the man who makes no
                      This made the West sit up and take notice of Chinese culture.         mistakes does not usually make anything.
    By Christine Ng
                      The opportunity to compete in the World Wushu championships           Vincent advises parents to start their children young in
                      has given him a broader perspective of life. Vincent feels that the   a hobby or a skill. At Wu Fang, children are motivated,
                      present generation is too preoccupied with technology that is         encouraged and impressed. Games are played with
                      detrimental to a young person’s development. Wushu has helped         children   to      motivate   their     interest.  Then
                      him both mentally and physically. His short attention span has        once-in-a-blue-moon, the seniors demonstrate moves
                      been corrected by the need for focus in Wushu. He also feels that     to remind the young children their aspiration to attain
                      martial arts have instilled a discipline in him which would have      that level of skill. Finally, encouragement and
                      otherwise been sorely lacking.                                        admiration is given to the child.

                      Vincent’s martial arts training school “Wu Fang” currently has 800    Wushu is a never ending learning journey.
                      students all over Singapore. Having received valuable guidance
                      from his mentor decades ago, he wants to now pass it on. He




                         nds mentoring challenging and ful lling. Wu Fang has
                       instructors teaching in schools, community centers as well as
                       country clubs. Vincent remembers a school teacher who,                      For more information on Wu Fang,
                       intrigued by her student’s change in behaviour, found herself               visit www.wufangsingapore.com
                       following him into Wu Fang. The boy had been a notorious bully
                       in school, weak in his studies.
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How corporations can get involved: Businesses work with


                            Working with the                                                                                                          SACA to improve the quality of life in various areas. You can
                                                                                                                                                      take a pro-active approach in helping to reduce crime by
                                                                                                                                                      supporting the successful reintegration of ex-offenders.



                            Local Community
                                                                                                                                                      One of the many ways to get involved is to help
                                                                                                                                                      ex-offenders learn new skills by offering them employment
                                                                                                                                                      or training/upgrading opportunities. You can also provide
                                                                                                                                                       nancial or practical resources through our agency. Perhaps
                                                                                                                                                      you could also encourage your staff to volunteer as a
The relationship between SACA and GSPL dates back to  when GSPL founder                                                                           mentor or a befriender in our volunteer programmes.
Marcus Lim first came to our office in Dunlop Street to set up our IT network. From that
point on they introduced SACA to the wonders of modern technology. Today, they
support SACA in web and email hosting and are currently involved in a project to
develop a web application for managing the volunteer and client databases.




                                                                                                         This year marks a decade
                                                                                                          of working with Marcus
                                                                                                      and the rest at GSPL. I must say
                                                                                                     that they offered their services to
                                                                                                   us way before CSR was the thing to do.
                                                                                                       We continue to be grateful for
                                                                                                         their assistance and desire
                                                                                                          in wanting to work with
                                                                                                              our client group.
                                                                                                                  – Prem Kumar, Director of SACA


                                                                                                   Quick Facts:
                                                                                                     GSPL is an IT solution company specializing in web applications
                                                GSPL contact info:
                                                                                                     based on open source technology.
                                                Main Line: 6294 0552
                                                Email: support@gspl.com.sg                           They help in online payment systems, Management Information
                                                Address: 200 Jalan Sultan, #11-07 Textile Centre     Systems, Customer Relationship Management (CRM), Content
                                                         Singapore 199018                            Management System (CMS), web, email and domain hosting.
 usetechnology.lovepeople
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Enhancing                                                                                                                    The Key to Grasping
Aftercare Professionalism                                                                                                    a Second Chance in Life
                                                                                                                W
                                                                                                                                                                                               By Christine Ng




P
Prisons Department has come a long way in
engaging the community as volunteers. In July 2008,
during a dialogue session with the Senior Parliament
Secretary (SPS), a number of key issues pertaining to
volunteer management and engagement were
                                                            It is recognised that the provision of structured
                                                            training and development programmes will
                                                            not only continually seek to renew volunteers’
                                                            skills to stay relevant, but also certify their
                                                            achievement       and      quali cation     upon
                                                                                                                We live in a time where we
                                                                                                                       need to believe in second chances.
                                                                                                                At one point or another, we all need a second
                                                                                                                chance. A relationship goes sour, a deal falls
                                                                                                                                                                   When Edison Chen was involved with the
                                                                                                                                                                   sex scandal, he needed a second chance
raised. On further examination of the state of              completion of the programmes.                       apart, a test is not passed, and a child breaks    from the public in order to continue his
volunteer involvement in Prisons, it became more                                                                your heart. Disappointment can easily become       entertainment career. When a child lies to a
apparent that there were existing service gaps in the       Singapore After-Care Asspciation has been           despair and we wonder,                             parent, they earn their trust back with
volunteer management approach.                              appointed as the agency to conduct training                                                            second chances.
                                                                        for all prison volunteers. The                  "Should I try again?
                                                SACA
Prisons value the contributions of                                      programme will be tiered to
volunteers and envisage a long term                                     cater to the varying needs and
                                                                                                                   Will I get a second chance?                     I had a friend at 26, who decided there was
                                                                                                                                                                   no light at the end of the tunnel. He killed
partnership in the rehabilitation
                                         appointed agency               objectives of volunteering within              Do I even want one?"                        himself by jumping in front of a train.
journey. Such partnership is forged                                     prisons.
and sustained by having volunteers           to conduct                                                             What are second chances?                       The vital ingredient in surviving life's
who are aligned with the objective of
                                         Prisons Volunteer                All volunteers shall undergo the                                                         setbacks is to believe. My friend gave up
reducing re-offending, thereby                                            basic training programmes;                                                               believing life could get better for him and I
contributing to a safer homeland.              Training                   while attendance for the                   Do we really need them?                       am sorry that I didn't talk to him when life
                                                                          intermediate and advance levels                                                          was hard. This leads me to the second vital
Volunteers’ expertise needs to be matched with              of training shall be voluntary and on a needs                                                          ingredient, talking! Talk about your
Prisons’ areas of needs, including emerging needs,          basis. These basic programmes shall also be
                                                                                                                       Do we believe in them?                      problems and your feelings.
arising from changing demands and expectations              made available to Prisons’ community partners
internally and externally.                                  who engage prisoners on a regular basis.            Yes, we do need them but who is giving us          I wake up every morning, go to work and do
                                                                                                                these second chances? Is it just our own special   the house chores. It might be mundane, but
                                                                                                                ability to say, we have been forgiven, or do we    guess what, “I love my life!”
                                                                                                                seek a second chance that is to be given by
                                                                                                                someone else.                                      Everyone deserves a second chance. We
                                                                                                                                                                   need to give ourselves as well as others too.
                                                                                                                When Tiger Woods cheated on his partner, he        If we didn't feel we had a second chance,
                                                                                                                begged for a second chance at reconciliation.      there would be no point to anything.


                                                        Recipe by Noor Haslinda Bte Mohd So’od




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Sparks Jun 2010

  • 1. Photographed by Dominic Khoo, www.whatisthesight.com MICA (P) 021/02/2010 ISSN 1793-8562 ISSUE 02/JUNE 2010 SPARKS Igniting Change I arrived in Singapore from Panama when I was 14 and I faced some integration dif culties. Knowing I am a Westerner, people form these preconceived notions about me. The promiscuous image of a Westerner is not always attering and because of this, it was dif cult for me to make friends. THE PRAYING MANTIS STANCE The locals just didn’t believe I was sincere, no matter how hard I tried. The Karate Kid … in Singapore starring Vincent Ng Fitting In by Juan Rierra CROUCHING TIGER, HIDDEN DRAGON Panamanian Kid fits into Singapore Although it wasn’t easy to overcome this, and I never fully that knowledge can be used to help others by sharing with HOW TO KARATE-CHOP ALL TIES did, I learnt to appreciate those who could see past these them your life experiences. I was able to share with people A Client’s perspective prejudices. These have become true friends and great how I lived in Panama. Through that they realised that the colleagues. The stereotypes were an obstacle and as I unhappiness they were facing from not having the latest learned to overcome it, I gained better interpersonal skills. gizmo was insigni cant compared to people who are DRUNKEN ROOSTER CHARGE These skills have come useful in many aspects of my life. ghting starvation on a daily basis. I was able to help them Grasping a second chance in life realise that life in Singapore is good, with their family and The second problem that I faced was adapting to an friends around. entirely different environment. When I rst moved to Singapore, everything was different from Panama. I missed If I had kept dwelling in the past, I would never have been my friends, I missed the environment back home, and I able to embrace my new life here. I learnt to put away my became pessimistic about tting in here! As time passed, I past, adapt to my new surroundings and make my life learnt to adapt. I used to climb trees in Panama for fun, but mean something to me. living in Singapore I changed that to watching movies. Sometimes I wonder if marginalised groups within a I nally understand that although I might not like sudden community, ex-offenders for example, actually experience change, that doesn’t mean that change is bad. A different the same thing; feeling like a “foreigner” trying to blend in experience in life will give a different view of things and to the “local” culture… A PUBLICATION OF SINGAPORE AFTER-CARE ASSOCIATION 12 HELPING EX-OFFENDERS AND THEIR FAMILIES GET BACK ON THEIR FEET
  • 2. Age: 33 Editor's Note Length of imprisonment: 8 years I 3 Learning to Stay Out of Trouble Learning to How have you fared since 4 The Straight & Narrow I am very excited about June’s starting on the Programme? charity lm premiere − The Karate I decided to further my education which is a 6 功夫小子 Kid. Not only is it my favourite big step forward at my age. Starting so late is Stay Out 8 Working with the Local Community genre (martial arts) with my not to my advantage. However, this has also 10 Enhancing Aftercare Professionalism favourite actors (Jackie Chan and helped me keep away from company which Jaden Smith), the message within might in uence me to go astray yet again. Let’s Make Cookie Dough the movie sings the same tune as 11 The Key to Grasping a Second Chance in Life 12 Fitting In our mission. If someone asks, who your life mentor is, you probably won’t have anyone to mention. I remember in my school’s band, I of Trouble What is your relationship with your case worker like? She is like a mentor to me. She would make sure I get everything in place so that I can often saw musicians handling their SACA’s Education concentrate on my studies. instruments with gloves. That is Support Programme because the oil form the hands will change the quality of the Do you remember the first bells. If we realise, everything we touch is changed and provides funding, time you met her? How was it? everybody we touch is changed. support networks and She made me feel comfortable and that I We do have many mentors in life. I am grateful to my teachers workshops to motivate could con de in her and that she sincerely wanted to help me. (other than my parents) for giving me the education that made student-clients who are me who I am in society today. They changed me. I am grateful for the friends I have who saw me through tough times and enthusiastic about What do you think of mentorship? Is it essential to moulded my character. They changed me. Sometimes, being in upgrading their skills the reintegration process? the situation makes us oblivious to what an outsider sees. Having a mentor prevents you from making a mistake that can and continuing on their I think it is a good idea to introduce the mentorship aspect as part of the Programme. be avoided. learning journey. It is important as clients like me would have no idea what to do upon release and if there SACA has a mentoring programme. Volunteers from the public is no one to guide us we may just rely on can join our programme to guide ex-offenders in their friends who might give bad advice instead. reintegration. Minds, spirits and hearts, not just physical can be Mentorship would ensure that we get the touched. Everybody we speak to, rub shoulders with or even right advice regarding getting back on our smile at, are changed in some minute way. We leave a piece of feet. ourselves behind with everyone we meet, and we take a piece of them with us. How would things be different if you didn’t have a mentor? Little changes can make a difference. I think that I would be left on my own as nobody would understand what I am really going through. I would not get the help I need and in the end I may give up and go back to my old ways. SPARKS is published thrice yearly by the Singapore After-Care Association. All rights Christine Ng reserved. Reproduction in any form in whole or part, in English or any other languages is Managing Editor Latest! My colleagues prohibited. The views and opinions expressed SPARKS — Igniting Change Under the initiative of or implied in SPARKS are those of the contributors or readers and do not Paci c Agriscience, a trusted me & treated necessarily re ect those of the publisher. MICA (P) 021/02/2010 company with extensive expertise in me with patience & Singapore After-Care Association, 81 Dunlop Street, Singapore 209408. agriculture science & kindness. They didn’t technology, our Telephone: +65 6294 2350/+65 6294 2763 Fax: +65 6295 0095 student-client judge me because of Website: www.saca.org.sg Email: enquiries@saca.org.sg MAILBOX successfully completed a 6 weeks my past, I felt If you are interested to receive or advertise in SPARKS, please email enquiries@saca.org.sg, We appreciate your views! Contribute a story, opinion, feedback or even a commentary. Your entry may win you a Sandwich Maker, courtesy of AKIRA! Email your contributions to: sparks@saca.org.sg, internship during his accepted. with the subject: Subscribe / Advertise. school holidays. subject: Mailbox; or post it to: Singapore After-Care Association, 81 Dunlop Street, Singapore 209408. 3
  • 3. The Straight & Narrow 30 OCTOBER 2009 - *Gary nally saw blue skies and green grass. The rst thing he did was to pick his daughter up from school. Feeling guilty that he had been absent from her life, how must she have felt seeing other kids’ fathers waiting outside the school gate… For the rst few months after release, Gary had dif culty nding a job. It was heart wrenching to see his 80 year old mother bending over washing dishes at a nearby hawker center to feed him and his daughter. Gary was desperate, but he vowed to not abandon his family again. However, Gary did not even know how to write a resume; worse he didn’t really have much to write on his resume. Unlike most people, he has little work experience, no awards and no quali cations. Negativity then starts to set in... There was also another problem. Gary had no Gary is now holding a sales position at a local gym. friends. He didn’t want to revisit old friends simply Though he is grateful to his employer for giving him because he found himself going back to jail a chance, he realises the important steps he himself whenever he was with them. But addicts go back to took to prevent his reoffending. We would like to old habits if there is nothing to ll the void… share some of them with you… In prison, everyone was the same. They had the same clothes, the same haircut, the same slippers and even the same type of spectacles. But outside the name of the game is being different, being you. 1 OVERCOME EMOTIONS Gary knows of friends who reject offers because it doesn’t pay a lot, or when it is labour intensive and then complain there are “no jobs”. 2 HAVE A FOCUS Taking care of his family is his priority now. He would like his mum to nally have life a little easier and also 4 FIND A MENTOR Gary looks up to a fellow ex-offender who is now happily married with a family. He keeps in touch with his wants to be a role model for his daughter. mentor and turns to him for advice and The longer he stayed unemployed, the stronger the “Just because I am handicapped by a tainted Before he was aimless in life; something a single encouragement when the going gets tough. urge to take shortcuts to an easy life. Trouble is, past, society is not going to give me any special parent of a young child could ill afford to do. these shortcuts usually led him to prison in the past. treatment,” Gary says. Jobs aren’t dif cult to Gary hopes to pursue a degree in psychology Gary took up a job as a bouncer in a night club at Clarke Quay. It was a practical decision as he couldn’t stay unemployed. Yet he also knew having nd at all. It is expectations that are set too high that often cause great disappointment. Gary conditioned himself and took on the rst offer that came his way. He did not want to lose 3 CUT OFF ALL NEGATIVE TIES WITH THE PAST Revisiting his old haunts only tempted him on the well trodden path to more and wants to do social work one day. It is his way of saying “thank you” to those who have given him a second chance. a job in a night spot was not wise for a recovering trouble and suffering. During hard times Gary’s addict. He desperately wanted to not repeat the the opportunity to accumulate whatever mind often dragged up memories of when he mistakes made so many times before. experience he could so that with time, he would *Gary not his real name used to splurge on alcohol and women with the have more to write on his resume. money he made from dealing drugs. A real He decided to give resume writing another shot. He battle royal took place within him to force these listed down what little quali cations he had. While Life doesn’t stop just because Gary is past his still working as a bouncer (after all, it paid the bills) thirties and doesn’t have a successful career. If mental images deeper so they didn’t torment he waited patiently to get called for interviews. He he continues to wallow in self pity, he would him all the time. did get some calls and eventually got an offer. never move forward. 4 5
  • 4. It does J Jet Li, who took up Singapore citizenship last June ought to know we’ve our own Prince of Wushu here. Vincent Ng, born and bred in Singapore was a very active kid. Since kindergarten, he just wouldn’t sit still. Like a superhero, he discovered he had not matter how many times you fall, extraordinary jumping powers. If then, had he decided to go the superhero route; he would have been known as The Frog Prince. what matters is Good thing he didn’t. how many times Vincent started as a sports athlete in Primary school. His seniors you pick took note of his never-ending energy and cajoled him to join the yourself up... lion dance club at a tender age. While helming the Lion’s head, his teacher discovered his potential for something greater and took him out of school to train in a proper Wushu school. There, he met his mentor, Mdm Chua. Just like out of a period kung-fu ick Mdm Chua and her husband, the then childless couple, immediately took a liking to this young boy. They sincerely wanted to groom him to be the martial artist they thought him capable of becoming. They trained him without letting up, and even had him sleep over for early morning regimes. Even now, the slogan “No Pain, No Gain” is Vincent’s favourite. Vincent is a very strict coach, as was his mentor with He loves feeling his muscles ache; knowing his body is him. A student’s fear turns into respect over time responding to the punishing regime. Vincent admires Bruce Lee, through patient nurturing. Vincent feels one needs to perhaps the greatest martial arts icon of all time. To him, Bruce be living rightfully, in order to be an example. Having Lee is a legend who epitomised what being Chinese really meant. gained many life experiences, the man who makes no This made the West sit up and take notice of Chinese culture. mistakes does not usually make anything. By Christine Ng The opportunity to compete in the World Wushu championships Vincent advises parents to start their children young in has given him a broader perspective of life. Vincent feels that the a hobby or a skill. At Wu Fang, children are motivated, present generation is too preoccupied with technology that is encouraged and impressed. Games are played with detrimental to a young person’s development. Wushu has helped children to motivate their interest. Then him both mentally and physically. His short attention span has once-in-a-blue-moon, the seniors demonstrate moves been corrected by the need for focus in Wushu. He also feels that to remind the young children their aspiration to attain martial arts have instilled a discipline in him which would have that level of skill. Finally, encouragement and otherwise been sorely lacking. admiration is given to the child. Vincent’s martial arts training school “Wu Fang” currently has 800 Wushu is a never ending learning journey. students all over Singapore. Having received valuable guidance from his mentor decades ago, he wants to now pass it on. He nds mentoring challenging and ful lling. Wu Fang has instructors teaching in schools, community centers as well as country clubs. Vincent remembers a school teacher who, For more information on Wu Fang, intrigued by her student’s change in behaviour, found herself visit www.wufangsingapore.com following him into Wu Fang. The boy had been a notorious bully in school, weak in his studies. 6 7
  • 5. How corporations can get involved: Businesses work with Working with the SACA to improve the quality of life in various areas. You can take a pro-active approach in helping to reduce crime by supporting the successful reintegration of ex-offenders. Local Community One of the many ways to get involved is to help ex-offenders learn new skills by offering them employment or training/upgrading opportunities. You can also provide nancial or practical resources through our agency. Perhaps you could also encourage your staff to volunteer as a The relationship between SACA and GSPL dates back to  when GSPL founder mentor or a befriender in our volunteer programmes. Marcus Lim first came to our office in Dunlop Street to set up our IT network. From that point on they introduced SACA to the wonders of modern technology. Today, they support SACA in web and email hosting and are currently involved in a project to develop a web application for managing the volunteer and client databases. This year marks a decade of working with Marcus and the rest at GSPL. I must say that they offered their services to us way before CSR was the thing to do. We continue to be grateful for their assistance and desire in wanting to work with our client group. – Prem Kumar, Director of SACA Quick Facts: GSPL is an IT solution company specializing in web applications GSPL contact info: based on open source technology. Main Line: 6294 0552 Email: support@gspl.com.sg They help in online payment systems, Management Information Address: 200 Jalan Sultan, #11-07 Textile Centre Systems, Customer Relationship Management (CRM), Content Singapore 199018 Management System (CMS), web, email and domain hosting. usetechnology.lovepeople 9
  • 6. Enhancing The Key to Grasping Aftercare Professionalism a Second Chance in Life W By Christine Ng P Prisons Department has come a long way in engaging the community as volunteers. In July 2008, during a dialogue session with the Senior Parliament Secretary (SPS), a number of key issues pertaining to volunteer management and engagement were It is recognised that the provision of structured training and development programmes will not only continually seek to renew volunteers’ skills to stay relevant, but also certify their achievement and quali cation upon We live in a time where we need to believe in second chances. At one point or another, we all need a second chance. A relationship goes sour, a deal falls When Edison Chen was involved with the sex scandal, he needed a second chance raised. On further examination of the state of completion of the programmes. apart, a test is not passed, and a child breaks from the public in order to continue his volunteer involvement in Prisons, it became more your heart. Disappointment can easily become entertainment career. When a child lies to a apparent that there were existing service gaps in the Singapore After-Care Asspciation has been despair and we wonder, parent, they earn their trust back with volunteer management approach. appointed as the agency to conduct training second chances. for all prison volunteers. The "Should I try again? SACA Prisons value the contributions of programme will be tiered to volunteers and envisage a long term cater to the varying needs and Will I get a second chance? I had a friend at 26, who decided there was no light at the end of the tunnel. He killed partnership in the rehabilitation appointed agency objectives of volunteering within Do I even want one?" himself by jumping in front of a train. journey. Such partnership is forged prisons. and sustained by having volunteers to conduct What are second chances? The vital ingredient in surviving life's who are aligned with the objective of Prisons Volunteer All volunteers shall undergo the setbacks is to believe. My friend gave up reducing re-offending, thereby basic training programmes; believing life could get better for him and I contributing to a safer homeland. Training while attendance for the Do we really need them? am sorry that I didn't talk to him when life intermediate and advance levels was hard. This leads me to the second vital Volunteers’ expertise needs to be matched with of training shall be voluntary and on a needs ingredient, talking! Talk about your Prisons’ areas of needs, including emerging needs, basis. These basic programmes shall also be Do we believe in them? problems and your feelings. arising from changing demands and expectations made available to Prisons’ community partners internally and externally. who engage prisoners on a regular basis. Yes, we do need them but who is giving us I wake up every morning, go to work and do these second chances? Is it just our own special the house chores. It might be mundane, but ability to say, we have been forgiven, or do we guess what, “I love my life!” seek a second chance that is to be given by someone else. Everyone deserves a second chance. We need to give ourselves as well as others too. When Tiger Woods cheated on his partner, he If we didn't feel we had a second chance, begged for a second chance at reconciliation. there would be no point to anything. Recipe by Noor Haslinda Bte Mohd So’od 11