Sam introduces themselves as a survivor of domestic violence who has experienced disappointment, heartbreak, violence, abortion, abuse, and rape. They ask for help and have turned to dancing in churches, often singing, drugging, and drinking at pubs. Valerie Miller Simpson also introduces herself as a survivor of domestic violence and abuse, noting that thousands experience such treatment daily. Over 30 years ago, she was held hostage at gunpoint in her apartment, an experience she has written about in her book "Issues and your Tissues." She provides contact information for public speaking engagements.