Duration: 1 min
Do:
Welcome participants, introduce yourself as the facilitator.
Duration: 2 mins
Do:
Ask participants to answer this question and make a discussion out of it, leading to the importance of empathetic leadership, given on the next slide.
10 mins
Note to trainer: Please read through the document PMI Leadership Model Positioning Deck. Please note to link topics with the three dimensions and keep checking with participants after finishing a topic on how the topic can lead them to be consumer first, forward looking, and in empowering people.
Duration: 6 min
Do:
Read out the quote.
Say:
Now let us explore how to develop a growth mindset.
An example: Unlocking Growth Through Creativity and Experimentation: A Tale
This story goes back to a time when a group of Japanese engineers proudly unveiled the latest model of the bullet train, they didn’t anticipate the downside of the high speed! The new train came zooming out of tunnels so fast, that it created a sonic BOOM! The sound was clearly out of regulation, putting the new train at the risk of getting decommissioned.
Company engineer Eiji Nakatsu recognized that the sound came from the train emerging from the tunnel (low pressure environment) and hitting the higher air pressure outside. He went in search of an analogy.
Nakatsu was also a bird watcher who knew that a kingfisher bird could enter the water without creating a ripple. The long-wedged shape of a kingfisher’s beak allowed it to move seamlessly from air into water. He designed the front of the train to mimic the kingfisher’s beak! The connection he made not only resolved the noise problem, but it also let the train use 15% less electricity and travel 10% faster.
Learning Points
Observation is the key to solve any problem but only if that problem bugs you.
Unusual expression of simple observations leads to creative solutions.
Challenging circumstances can unleash creative ideas.
Duration: 1 min
Say: Understanding is key to having empathy.
Understanding is the difference between knowing something and truly empathizing with it. If you catch yourself saying, “I know, but,” a lot, take that as an indicator that you should pause a bit more. When someone tells you about an experience that’s not your own, take some time to mull over how your life might be different if you experienced that on a daily basis. So, let’s understand what is empathy with a quote.
Duration: 6 min
Do:
Read out the quote.
Say:
Now let us explore how to develop a growth mindset.
An example: Unlocking Growth Through Creativity and Experimentation: A Tale
This story goes back to a time when a group of Japanese engineers proudly unveiled the latest model of the bullet train, they didn’t anticipate the downside of the high speed! The new train came zooming out of tunnels so fast, that it created a sonic BOOM! The sound was clearly out of regulation, putting the new train at the risk of getting decommissioned.
Company engineer Eiji Nakatsu recognized that the sound came from the train emerging from the tunnel (low pressure environment) and hitting the higher air pressure outside. He went in search of an analogy.
Nakatsu was also a bird watcher who knew that a kingfisher bird could enter the water without creating a ripple. The long-wedged shape of a kingfisher’s beak allowed it to move seamlessly from air into water. He designed the front of the train to mimic the kingfisher’s beak! The connection he made not only resolved the noise problem, but it also let the train use 15% less electricity and travel 10% faster.
Learning Points
Observation is the key to solve any problem but only if that problem bugs you.
Unusual expression of simple observations leads to creative solutions.
Challenging circumstances can unleash creative ideas.
Duration: 6 min
Do:
Read out the quote.
Say:
Now let us explore how to develop a growth mindset.
An example: Unlocking Growth Through Creativity and Experimentation: A Tale
This story goes back to a time when a group of Japanese engineers proudly unveiled the latest model of the bullet train, they didn’t anticipate the downside of the high speed! The new train came zooming out of tunnels so fast, that it created a sonic BOOM! The sound was clearly out of regulation, putting the new train at the risk of getting decommissioned.
Company engineer Eiji Nakatsu recognized that the sound came from the train emerging from the tunnel (low pressure environment) and hitting the higher air pressure outside. He went in search of an analogy.
Nakatsu was also a bird watcher who knew that a kingfisher bird could enter the water without creating a ripple. The long-wedged shape of a kingfisher’s beak allowed it to move seamlessly from air into water. He designed the front of the train to mimic the kingfisher’s beak! The connection he made not only resolved the noise problem, but it also let the train use 15% less electricity and travel 10% faster.
Learning Points
Observation is the key to solve any problem but only if that problem bugs you.
Unusual expression of simple observations leads to creative solutions.
Challenging circumstances can unleash creative ideas.
Duration: 6 mins
Facilitator’s Notes:
Click the start button to begin the video on the screen. The video is by a renowned American research professor, lecturer, author, and podcast host Brene Brown.
Ask: Thinking about the message in the video. What resonates with you and what are your takeaways?
Please encourage participants to share.
Change Slide
Duration: 1 min
Duration: 3 mins
Do: Read the points given on the slide to the participants.
Say: Understanding other people's emotions is a key skill in the workplace. It can enable us to resolve conflicts, to build more productive teams, and to improve our relationships with co-workers, clients and customers.
According to influential psychologist Daniel Goleman, empathy is one of the five key components of emotional intelligence – a vital leadership skill. It develops through three stages: cognitive empathy, emotional empathy and compassionate empathy. We discuss each stage in turn, below.
Cognitive empathy refers to the ability to understand what the other person might be thinking or feeling. It does not depend on emotional engagement by the observer.
Emotional empathy refers to the ability to understand the feelings of the other person. It is also called "affective empathy" because it affects people in the workplace and creates a genuine rapport among them.
Compassionate empathy refers to the ability to develop a concern for the other person, understand their emotional pain, and take practical steps to reduce it.
Now, let us understand the application of this concept with the help of an activity.
Duration: 6 mins
Do:
Ask the participants how they could handle the situation differently. Jot down all their responses using the Whiteboard tool.
Expected responses:
Encourage work-life balance
Understand the problems of an over-worked employee
Promote flexibility related to work hours
Provide some time off for mental and physical rejuvenation
Do: Summarize how leaders can help their team members based on the key points shared by the participants.
Duration: 6 mins
Do:
Ask the participants how they could handle the situation differently. Jot down all their responses using the Whiteboard tool.
Expected responses:
Encourage work-life balance
Understand the problems of an over-worked employee
Promote flexibility related to work hours
Provide some time off for mental and physical rejuvenation
Do: Summarize how leaders can help their team members based on the key points shared by the participants.
Duration: 6 mins
Do:
Ask the participants how they could handle the situation differently. Jot down all their responses using the Whiteboard tool.
Expected responses:
Encourage work-life balance
Understand the problems of an over-worked employee
Promote flexibility related to work hours
Provide some time off for mental and physical rejuvenation
Do: Summarize how leaders can help their team members based on the key points shared by the participants.
Duration: 14 mins
Note to trainer: The statements given on the next slide need to be created as a “Scales” activity on mentimeter. Sample: https://www.menti.com/alk9a6mxvg6g
Say: Let’s perform an activity based on empathetic statements. Consider the statements given on next slide and identify each statement to be empathetic or non-empathetic.
Do: Click on the next slide for the statements to appear on the screen. Prompt a few participants to share their answers.
Contd.
Ask the participants randomly to sort the above statements as either empathetic or nonempathetic and to share their analysis with everyone.
Say:
It can be particularly difficult to show empathy for someone else, when you don’t agree with them, if they are annoying to you, or if you want them to know that you are in charge. However, it is still important to acknowledge that you understand their feelings first before moving on. It will make the conversation and situation much easier.
Put yourself inside of the other person’s “shoes” so you can experience what that might be like. Sense what the other person is worried about even if s/he can’t express it in words. Show that you take them seriously by making eye contact and nodding. Simply recognizing, understanding and verbalizing the other person’s concerns can significantly improve the situation. Acknowledge their emotions and the difficulty of the situation even if you don’t have a solution.
You are aware of the difference between being empathetic and non-empathetic at work, but do you know how to develop empathy in the workplace?
Duration: 5 mins
ACKNOWLEDGE – Acknowledging improves relationships and often deepens emotional intimacy. Acknowledge that they have struggled, you do not have to fix a situation; you do not have to say the perfect thing to fix the problem. They are just looking to connect with someone who might have an idea of where they are emotionally and understanding that the person has an issue and are quite upset about it.
APPRECIATE – Appreciation is a source of encouragement. The most effective way to empathize a person is through appreciation. The easiest, simplest and most effective way of appreciating someone by smiling or saying a kind word about them and encouraging them to keep their lead. It also makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well.
AFFIRM: Affirmation is caring about other people’s feelings. A positive affirmation can be used to improve empathy towards others. Express the connection that you found when you listened. Affirmation is built by an emotional support or encouragement.
ASSURE: The positive approach of making the opponent speaker feel that everything is going to be alright. An uncomplicated way to build a connection is by offering simple words like “you are not alone”, “thank you for sharing”, “we are here if you need to talk”. Present yourself to listen to them and assure them of being sensitively aware.
Duration: 45 mins
(In the room for 30 minutes, 10 per person as manager)
Do:
Split the participants into groups of 3
Give them 10 minutes each to practice the 4 A’s of empathy using the situations
Switch
Duration: 2 mins
Do: Read the definition and points given on the slide.
Say: How can you define an empathetic leader? An empathetic leader is one who has a genuine interest in his/her team members’ lives, the challenges they face, and their overall feelings.
This kind of leader makes an effort to understand their situations and what they are going through, in order to offer support and help. Empathy is a key element of servant leadership as well although not all empathetic leaders practice servant leadership.
Overall, an empathetic leader interacts with others in a way that leaves them feeling safe and cared for, and as though they have a connection based on trust.
Empathetic leaders can show excellent communication and active listening skills while learning about team members' experiences and behaviors. Demonstrating these skills can inspire team members to enhance their own communication skills to build more empathy in the workplace.
Empathy allows a leader to understand employee behaviors and individualize strategies for increasing work efficiency and productivity. It is a key element of servant leadership, a management style in which you focus on your team’s growth and well-being to put their needs first. The theory is that instead of employees serving the leader, the leader serves the employees.
Do: Ask participants the question shown on the next slide.