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當社交⼈氣王
到了美國我要
Networking 無痛攻略
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要朋友
要⼈脈
要幸福
剛到美國,好想快點建立電影裡看到的⽣
活:⾝邊圍繞著很酷的朋友們,可以談⼼、
狂歡、⼀起出遊。最好能順便談場閃瞎別⼈
的異國戀愛 💛
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但是...沒有⽅向啊...
不知道去哪裡

認識新朋友
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沒朋友怎麼辦趴
硬是裝熟

參加別⼈的趴體

但是好尷尬
⽽且也沒碰到甚麼優質的⼈
硬是辦了場趴體,
卻只來了幾個

老鄉熟⾯孔
⾨可羅雀
不知道去哪裡認識新朋友沒朋友怎麼辦趴....
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硬是裝熟參加別⼈的趴體但是好尷尬....
⽽且也沒碰到甚麼優質的⼈.....
硬是辦了場趴體,卻只來了幾個老鄉熟⾯孔

⾨可羅雀.....
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我想要辦出優質的趴體、

結交優秀⼈才、認識俊男美女。
從此⽣活不再單調,成為⼀個有
存在感、受歡迎的⼈氣王!!!
要朋友
要⼈脈
要幸福
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你的⼼聲我聽到了

我來教你怎麼做
Follow me!
⾸先,不要妄想無中⽣有,

先找個適合你⼈設的團體

加入吧!團體分成三⼤類:
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Activity group Flash groupCharity group
社交團體種類
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1 2 3
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• 如跳舞、團體球類運動、瑜伽等動態活動團體
• 優點:活動當中不⽤說太多話;⼤家⼀起流汗
會有⾰命情感;有益健康、適合愛運動的⼈
• 缺點:不適合怕流汗、怕熱、不愛運動的⼈
• 建議找團體運動,比較多交友機會
Activity group1
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Activity group1
• 每個城市都會有專⾨辦各式活動的機構,例如
San Diego 的Vavi club,你可以⽤下列關鍵
字上網搜尋:你擅長的運動 + 城市 + register
• meetup.com 也有很多團體可已選擇
• 別擔⼼落單,機構通常會幫單獨報名的⼈湊隊
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第⼀次⾒⾯會怕尷尬,

覺得到處找⼈很丟臉。
蛤....⼤家都在看我,
好丟臉....
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跟你說個秘密
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其實根本沒⼈在注意你啊...

比起你,⼤家更在意⾃⼰。
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⼤⽅詢問 

“ Excuse me, is this xxx group? ” 

⼤部分的⼈都會友善的回答你。
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• 街友廚房、動物收容、教會等慈善、宗教團體
• 優點:這種團體多是⼼地善良、有⽂化的⼈
• 附加優點:⾯試時很好說嘴的經歷
• 缺點:要投注較多的精⼒、時間
Charity group2
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• 每個城市都有許多團體,網路搜尋城市名 +

下列關鍵字:Soup kitchen, Church,
Animal shelter, Mentorship coaching,
Habitat for humanity
• 找到團體以後,在網站裡的 “Volunteer” 報名
• 如果⼀參加就要交⼀⼤筆錢,絕對是詐騙集團
Charity group2
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我很喜歡做流浪狗收容中⼼
義⼯,美國許多流浪狗貓收
容中⼼都很明亮乾淨,做義
⼯做的⼼曠神怡,⽽且跟狗
狗玩好療癒啊~
Puppy attack
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• 某項技能學習團體或社交團體
• 學習團體優點:容易聚集志同道合的⼈
• 社交團體優點:⽬標明確,⼤家參加就是為了
Networking
• 缺點:學習結束聯絡不易延續;社交活動成員
素質參差不⿑
Flash group3
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• 網路搜尋城市名 +下列關鍵字:

Improv class, Cooking class, Wine and
paint, Professional happy hour, Speed
dating, networking
• meetup.com
• eventsandadventures.com
Flash group3
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我喜歡 Improv class,就是即
興喜劇課,成員通常都很有趣,
⼀班⼈彼此感情會很好,課程內
容舒壓,常常從頭笑到尾,還可
練習反應⼒、創意、幽默感。
Yes and…..
加入團體,然後呢?
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第⼀件事:⾃願爭取當幹部
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當幹部 不當幹部
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有差嗎?
團體內活動名正⾔順的可由你負責,好好
的當個活動聯絡⼈、籌備⼈,你就會成為
團體裡的核⼼,⼤家也更願意認識你、重
視你、進⽽邀請你進入他們的社交圈。
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當幹部
的確較輕鬆,但若你的風格屬於「別⼈不
來你就不好意思上」或是比較不擅聊天,
如果不是幹部,更難找到藉⼝主動聯絡別
⼈或攀談。仍然是個邊緣⼈的機率很⾼。
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不當幹部
當了幹部,你可以邀請初識的⼈到你的
團體走走,當他看到你在團體中吃得開
的樣⼦,對你的評價立刻飆升。
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Hi Wen! Hi Wen!
Hi Wen!
Wen
友
成為團體裡的核⼼成員後,下⼀步就
可以邀請⼤家參加你⾃⼰辦的活動囉!
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舉辦⾃⼰的趴體時,提⾼成
功率的邀約秘訣:從⼩團體
的成員們逐個邀約。通常⼩
團體中只要有⼀⼈答應會
來,其他⼈就都會來了。
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你 A
來嘛! B和C都會來喔
喔好啊
你 C
喔好啊
來嘛! A和B都會來喔
你 B
來嘛! A和C都會來喔
喔好啊
⼀起去吧!
A B C
1 2
34
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邀請
辦好趴體的 4 件事
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分⼯ 紀錄 持續
邀請可透過簡訊、FBevent、通訊App、Email,
但通常還是當⾯邀約或通話邀約最有效。依場地⼤
⼩決定邀請⼈數,若希望熱鬧但⼜能深入對談,建
議控制在 10 - 12 ⼈間,超過15⼈比較難深聊。
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Hey! I am throwing a party. 

See if you wanna come.
分⼯減輕負擔,分⼯分成「⼈」和「物」可以把需要
準備的食物飲料分請各個來賓準備,要統計負責物
品。如果活動缺男⽣,可以請男⽣帶男⽣朋友、女⽣
準備食物飲料;如果活動缺女⽣,那就反過來。
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活動紀錄不可少,把最開⼼的時
刻記錄下來,除了事後可以回
味,將影片照片PO上社群媒體以
後可以吸引更多⼈有興趣參來加
你下次的活動。
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活動要定期舉辦,例如每週、隔
週、每⽉,最久也不建議超過兩
個⽉。切忌兩天捕⿂三天曬網,
定期舉辦能夠讓⼤家記得你,也
能持續累積你的影響⼒。
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能做到這裡,恭喜你!

Networking 對你已是⼩菜⼀碟
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辦活動最重要的是反覆確認
⾃⼰想從活動中獲得什麼?
Friendship? Network?
Or Relationship?
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你的海外⽣活才正要起⾶,
接下來如果你想知道:
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1.Networking 怎麼開場?
2.Networking 要講什麼?
3.Networking 怎麼結束?
4.這些話千萬不能在Networking 說
5.Linkedin 攀關係該怎麼說?
6.英⽂搭訕怎麼開場?
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歡迎訂閱我的英⽂社交課程:
https://www.pressplay.cc/WenTalk
請盡情分享
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美國 Networking 無痛攻略 - 新移民的人脈培養術