A man was walking along the seashore and saw a small figure repeatedly performing some ritual on the beach. As he approached, he realized it was a young girl picking up starfish stranded by the receding tide and throwing them back into the water. When the man asked why she was doing this, she replied that she wanted the starfish to live and not dry out in the sun. Though the man pointed out there were millions of starfish and her actions couldn't possibly make a difference, the girl simply picked up another starfish and threw it back into the ocean, smiling that she had made a difference for that one.

1. Making A Difference

2. One day a man was walking along the seashore. He noticed that during the night many seashells and starfish had washed upon the shore. Enjoying the morning sun and cool sea air, the man strolled for miles along the sand.

3. Far off in the distance, he saw a small figure dancing. The man was joyous that someone was celebrating life in such a grand and uninhibited manner. As he drew closer, however, it became apparent that perhaps the figure was not dancing, but perhaps repeatedly performing some ritual.

4. Approaching the small figure, the man noticed that it was a child. The girl was methodically picking up starfish from the shore and tossing them back into the surf. The man paused for a moment, puzzled, then asked, “Why are you throwing those starfish?”

5. “ If I leave these starfish on the beach,” she replied, “The sun will dry them, and they will die. So I’m throwing them back into the ocean because I want them to live.”

6. The man was quiet for a moment, impressed with the child’s thoughtfulness. Then he motioned up and down the miles and miles of beach and said, “ There must be millions of starfish along here! How can you possibly expect to make a difference?”

7. The young girl pondered the man’s words for a moment, then she slowly leaned over, reached down, and carefully picked up another starfish from the sand. Pulling back, she arched the starfish gently into the surf.

8. She turned to the man and smiled. “You may be right,” she said, “But I made a difference for that one.”

9. Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring: all of which have potential to turn a life around. - Leo Buscalia