The sender thanks the recipient for their coaching on a difficult speech, which helped them set the right tone and avoid potential traps or criticism by focusing on agreement statements. The coaching proved invaluable as the speech was well received, with applause and positive feedback from both attendees and later emails, showing the message connected with people. The sender knows they will apply the advice to future public speaking situations.
To truly love, is difficult,
It is to forgive unconditionally, to live,
To take the “experiences or circumstances” as they are,
Facing them together and being happy with conviction.
To truly love, is difficult,
It is to forgive unconditionally, to live,
To take the “experiences or circumstances” as they are,
Facing them together and being happy with conviction.
Conflict at work is something that we are all going to come across from time to time and it is imperative to ensure that we are not drawn into conflict.
This is a short presentation I have put together from research on how to deal with conflict in the work place and the important use of Giraffe Language in these situations.
Selecting a Communication Goal
Prepared By:
Submitted To:
Date:
College:
Week 1 CCC: Part 1
1A. “I Can’t” List
1. I can't ask my friends for favors when I need their help.
2. I can't discipline my daughter without becoming angry.
3. I can't say "no" when my boss asks me to work overtime.
4. I can’t say no to my family when they ask for help.
Description 1
I have a lot of friends and they are all very helping. They helped me out in every difficult situation but now I can’t ask my friends for favors because they have already done a lot for me. They still offer me favors but now I’m trying to solve my problems individually and focusing on helping my friends.
Last year, I have to pay my college fees and my friends helped me out by arranging the fees now the situation is I can't ask my friends for favors and I have decided to solve my problems own.
Description 2
I have a sister who is younger than me. I loved him the most and also, she is the only one I am closely attached to my home. But sometimes I can’t discipline my daughter without being angry
because sometimes being furious is the requirement of the situation and I have noticed that children cannot learn to eliminate mistakes unless they are handled with some anger.
Last week, my sister tried to beat the cat. She was playing with a cat but the way she was playing does not look good to me. She was slapping the cat just to make fun then I told him with a serious tone that this is not the right way to play.
Description 3
I am working as the assistant manager in a company. My boss is very kind to me but sometimes he put his work on my shoulders which I don’t like but I can’t say no to my boss because he has helped me a lot throughout my career.
Yesterday, I got free from work then I decided to go home suddenly my boss came and asked for help because he had to go to a party. So, I agreed and can't say him no.
Description 4
I have a beautiful family and I love my family with all my heart. Sometimes they order for many tasks but I can't refuse them because it is my duty to do all home tasks.
Today, in the morning I dropped my mom and sister to school then at break time I went to school again to give my sister lunch.
1B. “I Won’t” List
1. I won’t ask my siblings for financial assistance.
2. I won’t work without my friend in the group presentation.
3. I won’t start a conversation with the stranger.
Description 1
I have a loving family who helped me a lot in any situation but now I won’t ask for financial assistance from them because I believe in hard work and I will manage my finances by doing part-time jobs.
Description 2
I and my friend has been in one group. I have a presentation in class but my friend is absent for three days so I requested the teacher to delay the presentation because I always have been working with a friend which makes our work go well.
Description 3
I am a loving and friendly person but being friendly does not mean you can talk to every stranger. I have a differe.
Conflict at work is something that we are all going to come across from time to time and it is imperative to ensure that we are not drawn into conflict.
This is a short presentation I have put together from research on how to deal with conflict in the work place and the important use of Giraffe Language in these situations.
Selecting a Communication Goal
Prepared By:
Submitted To:
Date:
College:
Week 1 CCC: Part 1
1A. “I Can’t” List
1. I can't ask my friends for favors when I need their help.
2. I can't discipline my daughter without becoming angry.
3. I can't say "no" when my boss asks me to work overtime.
4. I can’t say no to my family when they ask for help.
Description 1
I have a lot of friends and they are all very helping. They helped me out in every difficult situation but now I can’t ask my friends for favors because they have already done a lot for me. They still offer me favors but now I’m trying to solve my problems individually and focusing on helping my friends.
Last year, I have to pay my college fees and my friends helped me out by arranging the fees now the situation is I can't ask my friends for favors and I have decided to solve my problems own.
Description 2
I have a sister who is younger than me. I loved him the most and also, she is the only one I am closely attached to my home. But sometimes I can’t discipline my daughter without being angry
because sometimes being furious is the requirement of the situation and I have noticed that children cannot learn to eliminate mistakes unless they are handled with some anger.
Last week, my sister tried to beat the cat. She was playing with a cat but the way she was playing does not look good to me. She was slapping the cat just to make fun then I told him with a serious tone that this is not the right way to play.
Description 3
I am working as the assistant manager in a company. My boss is very kind to me but sometimes he put his work on my shoulders which I don’t like but I can’t say no to my boss because he has helped me a lot throughout my career.
Yesterday, I got free from work then I decided to go home suddenly my boss came and asked for help because he had to go to a party. So, I agreed and can't say him no.
Description 4
I have a beautiful family and I love my family with all my heart. Sometimes they order for many tasks but I can't refuse them because it is my duty to do all home tasks.
Today, in the morning I dropped my mom and sister to school then at break time I went to school again to give my sister lunch.
1B. “I Won’t” List
1. I won’t ask my siblings for financial assistance.
2. I won’t work without my friend in the group presentation.
3. I won’t start a conversation with the stranger.
Description 1
I have a loving family who helped me a lot in any situation but now I won’t ask for financial assistance from them because I believe in hard work and I will manage my finances by doing part-time jobs.
Description 2
I and my friend has been in one group. I have a presentation in class but my friend is absent for three days so I requested the teacher to delay the presentation because I always have been working with a friend which makes our work go well.
Description 3
I am a loving and friendly person but being friendly does not mean you can talk to every stranger. I have a differe.
Similar to Local Government feedback - Councillor Virginia Laugensen Warringah Council copy copy (6)
Local Government feedback - Councillor Virginia Laugensen Warringah Council copy copy
1. Tony, thanks so much for your coaching on my speech for last night. You
gave me the perfect foundation to set the right tone for the very difficult
occasion.
It’s so easy to get stuck on the wrong track when you’re so close to the
subject and to fall into traps that can result in criticism. Your advice to
build on ‘agreement statements’ was exactly what the situation called
for. All I had to do was fill in the story and build it to a conclusion.
It would have been hard to stay positive without your coaching, under
the circumstances.
I had no expectation of support, but when I finished and the gallery
applauded, it made up for a lot of the recent dramas. I received positive
comments from strangers afterwards and even the journalist present
said “great speech”. I can tell by the responses of those who regularly
criticise me that they were affected by the message and the delivery.
One of my colleagues said later I made her cry because my message
about my situation connected with her situation. More good feedback
came in by email today.
I know I’ll use your advice for all future public speaking and when
crafting messages for difficult situations. Thanks again.
Councillor
Virginia Laugesen
Warringah Council