HOW SOCIAL NETWORKING
IS MAKING US ANTISOCIAL
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live in a technological universe in which we are always
communicating. And yet we have sacrificed
conversation for mere connection
-SHERRY TURKLE-
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[10]
Thissacrificehasaffectedour:
1.FRIENDSHIPS
2.ROMANTICRELATIONSHIPS
3.LIFEEXPERIENCES
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1.FRIENDSHIPS
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Social media use promotes
“multi-communicating” in online and
offline conversations
simultaneously.
Research has linked this to
perceived rudeness and
decreased trust within
friendships.
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[3]
[3]
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Socialmediasitesprovidea
platform for
co-rumination ofproblem
basedconversations.
Combinethiswiththe
limitedsocialcues
availableonlineand:
About 20% of individuals report
having engaged in an online argument.
[7]
[2]
[8]
[7]
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of people spend more time socializing online than offline.
The average person is also 33% more likely to speak to someone
new online as opposed to in an offline situation.
our“real-world”socialskillsaresuffering
aswebecomeaccustomedtotheconvenienceofonlinesocialization.
[8]
[5]
While face to face communication unfolds
slowly and teaches patience,
Online communication progresses quickly, and we DUMB DOWN the conversation.
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[10]
Conversational quality Suffers too:
[10]
2.Romanticrelationships
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Partnermonitoring
has become the second most common act associated with Facebook.
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[4]
25% ofcouples
admit to having at least
one argument per week, related
to social media.
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[11]
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1/7 couples
reported that
considered
divorce due to
actions on
social sites.[11]
Social networking is taking away from our
abilities to clarify information and solve disputes
through genuine, real life conversation.
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3.LifeExperiences
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22%
[1]
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of individuals report being so distracted
run into something.
“A selfie . . . interrupts experience to mark the moment”
Sherry Turkle [9]
( - Creative Commons Attribution)
For example:
Long gone are the days of stopping to smell the roses.
Instead, we merely stop to snap a photo to share.
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Extensive web use has also been associated with loneliness,
depression, and a decreased sense of social connection.
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[6]
Therefore,it is likely that a vicious cycle exists:
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OVERALL :
Social media use
is negatively
impacting our
lives and social
skills in many
domains.
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Maybe the key to being more TRULY connected…
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…Is to ensure we take time to disconnect.
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WORKsCITED
[1] Anderssen, E. (2014). Digital overload: how we are seduced by distraction. The Globe and Mail. Retrieved from
http://www.theglobeandmail.com.proxy.queensu.ca/life/relationships/digital-overload-how-we-are-seduced-by-distraction/article17725778/?page=all#dashboard/follows/
[2] Chan, D. K., & Cheng, G. H. (2004). A comparison of offline and online friendship qualities at different stages of relationship development. Journal of Social and Personal
Relationships, 21 (3), 305-320. http://dx.doi.org/10.1177/0265407504042834
[3] Eichler, L. (2013). Sorry to be rude, by my smartphone needs my attention. The Globe and Mail. Retrieved from http://www.theglobeandmail.com.proxy.queensu.ca/report-
on-business/careers/career-advice/life-at-work/sorry-to-be-rude-but-my-phone-needs-me/article14706158/#dashboard/follows/
[4] Farrugia, R. C. (2013). Facebook and relationships: A study of how social media use is affecting long term relationships. Rochester Institute of Technology. Retrieved from
http://scholarworks.rit.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1033&context=theses
[5] Generation lonely? (2012). Badoo. Retrieved from http://www.marketwired.com/press-release/generation-lonely-39-percent-americans-spend-more-time-socializing-online-
than-face-1648444.htm
[6] Konnikova, M. (2013). How Facebook makes us unhappy. The New Yorker. Retrieved from http://www.newyorker.com.proxy.queensu.ca/tech/elements/how-facebook-makes-
us-unhappy
[7] Meader, R. J., (2013).The effects of social media on the mental health and well-being of college students. Emory University. Retrieved from
https://etd.library.emory.edu/view/record/pid/emory:f7rkj
[8] Social lives vs. social networks. (2012). Badoo. Retrieved from http://corp.badoo.com/en/entry/press/53/
[9] Turkle, S. (2012).The documented life. The New York Times, A25 (L). Retrieved from
http://go.galegroup.com.proxy.queensu.ca/ps/i.do?id=GALE%7CA352990428&v=2.1&u=queensulaw&it=r&p=AONE&sw=w&asid=64ed7fd1666adff5f62d1e8fab1a0ca1
[10] Turkle, S. (2012).The flight from conversation. New York Times, 1(L). Retrieved from
http://go.galegroup.com.proxy.queensu.ca/ps/i.do?id=GALE%7CA287213303&v=2.1&u=queensulaw&it=r&p=AONE&sw=w&asid=9e22389507adacd60cce5aabfd6d7991
[11] Wong, B. (2015). Stay off social media (or risk divorce), new survey says. The Huffington Post. Retrieved from http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/04/30/way-to-ruin-
marriages-facebook_n_7183296.html

How Social Networking Is Making Us Antisocial

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    HOW SOCIAL NETWORKING ISMAKING US ANTISOCIAL (Photo via. Pexels by Alejandro Escamilla - CC0 License http://www.pexels.com/photo/apple-iphone-laptop-notebook-168/)
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    (Photo via. Pexelsby Ed Gregory - CC0 License http://www.pexels.com/photo/ipad-tablet-macbook-computer-6508/)[1]
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    (Photo via StockSnapby Jan Vasek- CC0 License https://stocksnap.io/photo/EB939B3311/)
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    live in atechnological universe in which we are always communicating. And yet we have sacrificed conversation for mere connection -SHERRY TURKLE- (Photo via. Pixabay by Geralt - CC0 License http://pixabay.com/en/social-media-personal-552411/) [10]
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    Thissacrificehasaffectedour: 1.FRIENDSHIPS 2.ROMANTICRELATIONSHIPS 3.LIFEEXPERIENCES (Photo via. Pexelsby Karoline Grabowska -CC0 License http://www.pexels.com/photo/man-smartphone-yellow-technology-6465/ )
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    1.FRIENDSHIPS (Photo via Flickrby Nydia Hartono- Creative Commons Attribution License https://www.flickr.com/photos/nydiahartono/8885471973/)
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    Social media usepromotes “multi-communicating” in online and offline conversations simultaneously. Research has linked this to perceived rudeness and decreased trust within friendships. (Photo via. Pexels by Alejandro Escamilla - CC0 License http://www.pexels.com/photo/people-apple-iphone-writing-154/) [3] [3]
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    (Photo via Flickrby Garry Knight - Creative Commons Attribution License) Socialmediasitesprovidea platform for co-rumination ofproblem basedconversations. Combinethiswiththe limitedsocialcues availableonlineand: About 20% of individuals report having engaged in an online argument. [7] [2] [8] [7]
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    (Photo via. Flickrby Guillaume Lemoine - Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial License https://www.flickr.com/photos/33692299@N00) of people spend more time socializing online than offline. The average person is also 33% more likely to speak to someone new online as opposed to in an offline situation. our“real-world”socialskillsaresuffering aswebecomeaccustomedtotheconvenienceofonlinesocialization. [8] [5]
  • 10.
    While face toface communication unfolds slowly and teaches patience, Online communication progresses quickly, and we DUMB DOWN the conversation. (Photo via. Pexels by Jan - CC0 License http://www.pexels.com/photo/woman-hand-apple-iphone-3718/) [10] Conversational quality Suffers too: [10]
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    2.Romanticrelationships (Photo via. Unsplashby Josh Felise- Creative Commons Attribution- License https://download.unsplash.com/photo-1428865798880-73444f4cbefc)
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    Partnermonitoring has become thesecond most common act associated with Facebook. (Photo via. Pexels by Ed Gregory CC0 License http://www.pexels.com/photo/hands-coffee-cup-apple-5199/) [4]
  • 13.
    25% ofcouples admit tohaving at least one argument per week, related to social media. (Photo via. Flickr by Jackson Ezinga -Creative Commons Attribution Non-Commercial- License https://www.flickr.com/photos/29569500@N08/8373325721/) [11]
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    (Photo via. StockSnapby Scott Webb CC0 License https://stocksnap.io/photo/MIXX8KP98P) 1/7 couples reported that considered divorce due to actions on social sites.[11]
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    Social networking istaking away from our abilities to clarify information and solve disputes through genuine, real life conversation. (Photo via. StockSnap by Nathan Fertig CC0 License https://stocksnap.io/photo/ITFQUPVCVM)
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    3.LifeExperiences (Photo via. StockSnapby Dave Meier CC0 License https://stocksnap.io/photo/KMH50GPZQ9)
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    22% [1] (Photo via. StockSnapby Dave Meier CC0 License https://stocksnap.io/photo/KMH50GPZQ9) of individuals report being so distracted run into something.
  • 18.
    “A selfie .. . interrupts experience to mark the moment” Sherry Turkle [9] ( - Creative Commons Attribution) For example:
  • 19.
    Long gone arethe days of stopping to smell the roses. Instead, we merely stop to snap a photo to share. (Photo via. Pexels by Ed Gregory http://www.pexels.com/photo/hand-apple-camera-field-5435/)
  • 20.
    Extensive web usehas also been associated with loneliness, depression, and a decreased sense of social connection. (Photo via. Unsplash by Caleb Ekeroth CC0 License https://download.unsplash.com/photo-1422728221357-57980993ea99) [6]
  • 21.
    Therefore,it is likelythat a vicious cycle exists: (Photo via. Pexels by Karolina Grabowska CC0 License http://www.pexels.com/photo/woman-hand-desk-laptop-6471/)
  • 22.
    OVERALL : Social mediause is negatively impacting our lives and social skills in many domains. (Photo via. StockSnap by Kaboompics CC0 License https://stocksnap.io/photo/PELTZJ28RH)
  • 23.
    Maybe the keyto being more TRULY connected… (Photo via. Flickr by Takashi Hososhima - Creative Commons Attribution License)
  • 24.
    …Is to ensurewe take time to disconnect. (Photo via. Upsplash by Jay Mantri- CC0 License https://download.unsplash.com/photo-1418065460487-3e41a6c84dc5)
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    WORKsCITED [1] Anderssen, E.(2014). Digital overload: how we are seduced by distraction. The Globe and Mail. Retrieved from http://www.theglobeandmail.com.proxy.queensu.ca/life/relationships/digital-overload-how-we-are-seduced-by-distraction/article17725778/?page=all#dashboard/follows/ [2] Chan, D. K., & Cheng, G. H. (2004). A comparison of offline and online friendship qualities at different stages of relationship development. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 21 (3), 305-320. http://dx.doi.org/10.1177/0265407504042834 [3] Eichler, L. (2013). Sorry to be rude, by my smartphone needs my attention. The Globe and Mail. Retrieved from http://www.theglobeandmail.com.proxy.queensu.ca/report- on-business/careers/career-advice/life-at-work/sorry-to-be-rude-but-my-phone-needs-me/article14706158/#dashboard/follows/ [4] Farrugia, R. C. (2013). Facebook and relationships: A study of how social media use is affecting long term relationships. Rochester Institute of Technology. Retrieved from http://scholarworks.rit.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1033&context=theses [5] Generation lonely? (2012). Badoo. Retrieved from http://www.marketwired.com/press-release/generation-lonely-39-percent-americans-spend-more-time-socializing-online- than-face-1648444.htm [6] Konnikova, M. (2013). How Facebook makes us unhappy. The New Yorker. Retrieved from http://www.newyorker.com.proxy.queensu.ca/tech/elements/how-facebook-makes- us-unhappy [7] Meader, R. J., (2013).The effects of social media on the mental health and well-being of college students. Emory University. Retrieved from https://etd.library.emory.edu/view/record/pid/emory:f7rkj [8] Social lives vs. social networks. (2012). Badoo. Retrieved from http://corp.badoo.com/en/entry/press/53/ [9] Turkle, S. (2012).The documented life. The New York Times, A25 (L). Retrieved from http://go.galegroup.com.proxy.queensu.ca/ps/i.do?id=GALE%7CA352990428&v=2.1&u=queensulaw&it=r&p=AONE&sw=w&asid=64ed7fd1666adff5f62d1e8fab1a0ca1 [10] Turkle, S. (2012).The flight from conversation. New York Times, 1(L). Retrieved from http://go.galegroup.com.proxy.queensu.ca/ps/i.do?id=GALE%7CA287213303&v=2.1&u=queensulaw&it=r&p=AONE&sw=w&asid=9e22389507adacd60cce5aabfd6d7991 [11] Wong, B. (2015). Stay off social media (or risk divorce), new survey says. The Huffington Post. Retrieved from http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/04/30/way-to-ruin- marriages-facebook_n_7183296.html