In this introduction to the ancient Hawaiian healing art of ho’oponopono, I will tell you a little about what it is, what it does and how you can use it to heal and empower yourself.
The basis of the ho’oponopono technique for healing is to clean or cleanse the mind of unwanted blockages that are the result of bad past experiences and the negative emotional association with them.
Fear is a natural human emotion that triggers a biochemical "fight or flight" response. It alerts us to potential dangers. While fear responses are innate, the emotional experience of fear is individualized. Fear causes both physical symptoms like increased heart rate and sweating as well as emotional symptoms. Common fear triggers include specific objects, the future, the unknown, and real dangers. Ways to cope with fear include social support, stress management techniques, mindfulness, healthy lifestyle habits, and exposing yourself to feared situations in a gradual and controlled way.
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Verbal and non verbal strokes - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
You are walking along the street. You catch sight of a neighbor of yours coming in the other direction.
As you and the neighbor pass, you smile and say: “Nice day!”.
Your neighbor smiles back and replies: “ Yes, it is”.
You and your neighbor exchanged both verbal and non verbal strokes.
You spoke to each other and you smiled.
Respect means treating others, property, the environment, and yourself with kindness. By showing respect, one will earn the respect they deserve from others. When angry, one should not blame others, admit when wrong, apologize for mistakes, and avoid yelling or screaming. In class, one should not talk while others are, raise their hand to speak, help the teacher and students, avoid speaking out of turn, laughing at others' mistakes, and keep their area clean. While people are different, they also have similarities.
This document discusses expressing gratitude and how it can positively impact one's life and psyche. It recommends taking time to appreciate positive experiences and relationships, being grateful for both good and challenging things, and specifically thanking others. Expressing gratitude requires seeing connections between people and nature, acknowledging how others help us, and reframing obstacles as opportunities. The document encourages processing life through a grateful lens even during difficult times.
Smiling has positive effects on mental health by releasing hormones that reduce stress and boost mood. Smiling tricks the body into relaxing and can lift mood, lower stress, boost the immune system, and potentially prolong life. Some benefits of smiling include making people more attractive, seeming more confident, staying positive, reducing stress, boosting the immune system, lowering blood pressure, releasing natural pain killers and serotonin, saying goodbye to bad moods, improving relationships and effectiveness at work, and creating social bonds.
Fear is a natural human emotion that triggers a biochemical "fight or flight" response. It alerts us to potential dangers. While fear responses are innate, the emotional experience of fear is individualized. Fear causes both physical symptoms like increased heart rate and sweating as well as emotional symptoms. Common fear triggers include specific objects, the future, the unknown, and real dangers. Ways to cope with fear include social support, stress management techniques, mindfulness, healthy lifestyle habits, and exposing yourself to feared situations in a gradual and controlled way.
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Verbal and non verbal strokes - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
You are walking along the street. You catch sight of a neighbor of yours coming in the other direction.
As you and the neighbor pass, you smile and say: “Nice day!”.
Your neighbor smiles back and replies: “ Yes, it is”.
You and your neighbor exchanged both verbal and non verbal strokes.
You spoke to each other and you smiled.
Respect means treating others, property, the environment, and yourself with kindness. By showing respect, one will earn the respect they deserve from others. When angry, one should not blame others, admit when wrong, apologize for mistakes, and avoid yelling or screaming. In class, one should not talk while others are, raise their hand to speak, help the teacher and students, avoid speaking out of turn, laughing at others' mistakes, and keep their area clean. While people are different, they also have similarities.
This document discusses expressing gratitude and how it can positively impact one's life and psyche. It recommends taking time to appreciate positive experiences and relationships, being grateful for both good and challenging things, and specifically thanking others. Expressing gratitude requires seeing connections between people and nature, acknowledging how others help us, and reframing obstacles as opportunities. The document encourages processing life through a grateful lens even during difficult times.
Smiling has positive effects on mental health by releasing hormones that reduce stress and boost mood. Smiling tricks the body into relaxing and can lift mood, lower stress, boost the immune system, and potentially prolong life. Some benefits of smiling include making people more attractive, seeming more confident, staying positive, reducing stress, boosting the immune system, lowering blood pressure, releasing natural pain killers and serotonin, saying goodbye to bad moods, improving relationships and effectiveness at work, and creating social bonds.
What to do when you are ANGRY!
A practical workshop for kids on managing anger.
Conducted as part of CHAMPS year long programme on Life Skills for 10-12 year kids at Margao, Goa, India.
Covers below Anger-Dousing Methods in detail:
#1 Take a Break
#2 Think Cool Thoughts
#3 Release ANGER Safely
-Active Method: Physical Activity
-Slowing Down Method: Breathe, Stretch
#4 Work It Out or Just Let Go
–Be Flexible
–Compromise
This document discusses managing emotions at work and provides steps for mastering emotions. It notes that people often feel frustrated with bosses, upset with coworkers, and angry with customers. It recommends recognizing emotions, understanding that thoughts precede emotions, and accepting that changing feelings comes after the fact. Possible solutions include reconsidering harmful beliefs, keeping an emotion journal, talking to supportive friends, engaging in self-education, and seeking counseling. A nine-step process is outlined for managing emotions, thoughts, and behaviors through awareness, acceptance, identification, and goal-setting.
This document discusses the foundations of healthy relationships. It defines relationships and roles people play such as mother, teacher, and citizen. Key traits of healthy relationships are mutual respect, caring, honesty, commitment, cooperation, compromise, trustworthiness, responsibility, fairness, caring, and respect. Respect for self and others is important, which involves listening, being considerate of feelings, trust, and realistic expectations. Unhealthy behaviors that harm relationships include bullying, hazing, prejudice, stereotyping, and intolerance.
How has the meaning of friendship changed with the huge advancements in technology and social media? This presentation looks deeper into this idea and some of the dangers associated with it.
Positive affirmations are positive statements used to replace negative thoughts and build self-esteem. They motivate positive changes by confronting negative thoughts. The science shows affirmations help cope with threats to self-image and build a positive self-narrative. Benefits include reduced stress, improved health behaviors, academic success, and relationships. Daily affirmation practice involves visualization, writing, speaking aloud while looking in a mirror. Creating effective affirmations focuses on realistic, achievable goals stated in the present tense to build belief and feeling. A gratitude journal combines daily affirmations with focusing on gratitude.
Showing concern for others through small acts like a smile, kind word, or sharing food can help lift people up even if they don't ask for help. Treating people with respect by being sensitive to their needs and feelings is also a caring way to show concern. While helping others may bring external rewards, the greatest prizes are internal feelings of fulfillment and joy from assisting our fellow humans.
3 Steps to Gratitude contains all the information and exercises you need to understand gratitude and become a very grateful person. We cover the distinction between gratitude and indebtedness, show examples of gratitude, and more. Best part is that it's very entertaining as well as informative! Enjoy!
Fanita English has described a specially virulent kind of script message which she calls episcript. Here, a parent conveys an injunction and adds to it the non verbal message: “ I hope this happens to you, so that it wont have to happen to me.”
Young children and animals are open to feelings of joy, and are known to literally jump for joy, but it is rare to see a mature or older person feel and act that way. In this presentation, I explore how we can regain our natural ability to feel joy and be joyful, as well as what are the impediments to feeling of joy.
The PsychFutures Research Maps provide summaries and links to resources on popular psychology topics to help with research projects and dissertations. The document discusses definitions of love from an psychological perspective, describing love as a complex emotion with various components including intimacy, commitment, passion, and more. It provides an overview of theories of love from psychologists like Sternberg, Rubin, Hatfield, and Lee, and lists relevant journals, books, experts, and other resources for further research on the psychology of love.
The document summarizes Eric Berne's concept of "games people play" from his book of the same name. It provides examples of common games like "If It Weren't For You" where one person complains about restrictions placed on them by another but is actually avoiding a personal fear or issue. Berne saw these games as ongoing transactions with concealed motivations that people engage in unconsciously to get unstated needs met or avoid uncomfortable situations.
Emotional and verbal abuse can be more difficult to identify and prove than physical abuse. While physical abuse leaves marks, emotional and verbal abuse mainly impacts one's mental health and self-esteem. Two main reasons women resist leaving these abusive relationships are economic hardship, as abusers often control finances, and emotional attachment. Over time in abusive relationships, intermittent good and bad treatment can form a traumatic bond and dependency on the abuser, weakening one's self-esteem and making leaving feel impossible. More research is still needed to fully understand how emotional attachment specifically prevents women from exiting abusive relationships.
The document outlines the EMDR protocol for treating psychological trauma. It involves identifying a target issue or memory, focusing on the worst part of the event and how it makes the patient feel negatively about themselves. The patient then identifies a positive belief they would rather have, rates how true that positive belief feels, and notes the emotions and physical sensations the original memory brings up. The therapist helps reduce the distress level by having the patient focus on bilateral stimulation like eye movements while discussing the memory.
This document discusses shame, its origins, and how it relates to addiction. It defines shame as an intensely painful feeling of being flawed and unworthy of love. Shame is normally developed in early childhood through interactions with caregivers. For addicts, shame can drive substance abuse as a means to escape feelings of shame, though this creates an addictive spiral. Overcoming shame requires developing self-compassion and replacing shame with self-affirmation. Therapies aim to help people directly experience and soothe shame through social connection and self-care.
Anger is a normal human emotion that is triggered by feelings of hurt, mistreatment, or obstacles preventing goal attainment. While anger itself is natural, uncontrolled anger can be problematic and negatively impact relationships. The body's reaction to anger involves increased heart rate, blood pressure, and muscle tension. Unmanaged anger may lead to health issues, accidents, interpersonal problems, and potentially criminal behavior. Learning to identify anger triggers and express anger in an assertive rather than passive-aggressive or openly aggressive manner can help manage anger effectively.
This document discusses dating and relationships. It defines dating as a planned activity between two people, traditionally arranged by males, to engage in socialization, recreation, and mate selection. The document provides dos and don'ts for dates, such as being attentive to your partner and avoiding speaking about past relationships. It examines theories of physical and emotional attraction, noting that physical attraction draws initial interest but compatibility and shared interests promote long-term relationships.
This document discusses gratitude from several perspectives. It defines gratitude as an appreciation for blessings and benefits received. Gratitude is important for maintaining positive emotions and relationships. Several studies are summarized that show practicing gratitude, such as writing thank you letters or counting blessings, is associated with increased happiness and well-being. The document also provides examples of scales used to measure gratitude and discusses perspectives on gratitude from various world religions.
How to learn , to love and respect your parentsKeyder Correa
This document provides tips on how to learn to love and respect one's parents. It recommends showing basic courtesy through please, thank you and greetings. It also suggests allowing parents space to make their own decisions even if you disagree and maintaining contact with family despite differences of opinion. Loving parents involves teaching values like respect, honesty and gratitude. It also means helping family members develop their potential and achieve life goals, as affection stimulates learning.
The ancient Hawaiian practice of ho'oponopono can give you a sense of peace, clarity and love with its 4 phrase mantra and brings with it many great benefits. Here we explore the main benefits of ho'oponopono that can be enjoyed by the practitioner when used to clean, heal and slabilize emotions.
Developing Your Ho'oponopono ExperienceJim Patterson
https://jimpatterson.us/developing-hooponopono-experience/
At it’s most basic, Ho’oponopono is made up of four principals described by less than ten words. As simple as that sounds, many struggle with this practice that translates roughly as “Making Things Right”.
This ancient Hawaiian problem solving ritual is as powerful as it is simple. Simple does not always mean easy though. Gaining a satisfactory Ho’oponopono experience takes some development within the practice.
What to do when you are ANGRY!
A practical workshop for kids on managing anger.
Conducted as part of CHAMPS year long programme on Life Skills for 10-12 year kids at Margao, Goa, India.
Covers below Anger-Dousing Methods in detail:
#1 Take a Break
#2 Think Cool Thoughts
#3 Release ANGER Safely
-Active Method: Physical Activity
-Slowing Down Method: Breathe, Stretch
#4 Work It Out or Just Let Go
–Be Flexible
–Compromise
This document discusses managing emotions at work and provides steps for mastering emotions. It notes that people often feel frustrated with bosses, upset with coworkers, and angry with customers. It recommends recognizing emotions, understanding that thoughts precede emotions, and accepting that changing feelings comes after the fact. Possible solutions include reconsidering harmful beliefs, keeping an emotion journal, talking to supportive friends, engaging in self-education, and seeking counseling. A nine-step process is outlined for managing emotions, thoughts, and behaviors through awareness, acceptance, identification, and goal-setting.
This document discusses the foundations of healthy relationships. It defines relationships and roles people play such as mother, teacher, and citizen. Key traits of healthy relationships are mutual respect, caring, honesty, commitment, cooperation, compromise, trustworthiness, responsibility, fairness, caring, and respect. Respect for self and others is important, which involves listening, being considerate of feelings, trust, and realistic expectations. Unhealthy behaviors that harm relationships include bullying, hazing, prejudice, stereotyping, and intolerance.
How has the meaning of friendship changed with the huge advancements in technology and social media? This presentation looks deeper into this idea and some of the dangers associated with it.
Positive affirmations are positive statements used to replace negative thoughts and build self-esteem. They motivate positive changes by confronting negative thoughts. The science shows affirmations help cope with threats to self-image and build a positive self-narrative. Benefits include reduced stress, improved health behaviors, academic success, and relationships. Daily affirmation practice involves visualization, writing, speaking aloud while looking in a mirror. Creating effective affirmations focuses on realistic, achievable goals stated in the present tense to build belief and feeling. A gratitude journal combines daily affirmations with focusing on gratitude.
Showing concern for others through small acts like a smile, kind word, or sharing food can help lift people up even if they don't ask for help. Treating people with respect by being sensitive to their needs and feelings is also a caring way to show concern. While helping others may bring external rewards, the greatest prizes are internal feelings of fulfillment and joy from assisting our fellow humans.
3 Steps to Gratitude contains all the information and exercises you need to understand gratitude and become a very grateful person. We cover the distinction between gratitude and indebtedness, show examples of gratitude, and more. Best part is that it's very entertaining as well as informative! Enjoy!
Fanita English has described a specially virulent kind of script message which she calls episcript. Here, a parent conveys an injunction and adds to it the non verbal message: “ I hope this happens to you, so that it wont have to happen to me.”
Young children and animals are open to feelings of joy, and are known to literally jump for joy, but it is rare to see a mature or older person feel and act that way. In this presentation, I explore how we can regain our natural ability to feel joy and be joyful, as well as what are the impediments to feeling of joy.
The PsychFutures Research Maps provide summaries and links to resources on popular psychology topics to help with research projects and dissertations. The document discusses definitions of love from an psychological perspective, describing love as a complex emotion with various components including intimacy, commitment, passion, and more. It provides an overview of theories of love from psychologists like Sternberg, Rubin, Hatfield, and Lee, and lists relevant journals, books, experts, and other resources for further research on the psychology of love.
The document summarizes Eric Berne's concept of "games people play" from his book of the same name. It provides examples of common games like "If It Weren't For You" where one person complains about restrictions placed on them by another but is actually avoiding a personal fear or issue. Berne saw these games as ongoing transactions with concealed motivations that people engage in unconsciously to get unstated needs met or avoid uncomfortable situations.
Emotional and verbal abuse can be more difficult to identify and prove than physical abuse. While physical abuse leaves marks, emotional and verbal abuse mainly impacts one's mental health and self-esteem. Two main reasons women resist leaving these abusive relationships are economic hardship, as abusers often control finances, and emotional attachment. Over time in abusive relationships, intermittent good and bad treatment can form a traumatic bond and dependency on the abuser, weakening one's self-esteem and making leaving feel impossible. More research is still needed to fully understand how emotional attachment specifically prevents women from exiting abusive relationships.
The document outlines the EMDR protocol for treating psychological trauma. It involves identifying a target issue or memory, focusing on the worst part of the event and how it makes the patient feel negatively about themselves. The patient then identifies a positive belief they would rather have, rates how true that positive belief feels, and notes the emotions and physical sensations the original memory brings up. The therapist helps reduce the distress level by having the patient focus on bilateral stimulation like eye movements while discussing the memory.
This document discusses shame, its origins, and how it relates to addiction. It defines shame as an intensely painful feeling of being flawed and unworthy of love. Shame is normally developed in early childhood through interactions with caregivers. For addicts, shame can drive substance abuse as a means to escape feelings of shame, though this creates an addictive spiral. Overcoming shame requires developing self-compassion and replacing shame with self-affirmation. Therapies aim to help people directly experience and soothe shame through social connection and self-care.
Anger is a normal human emotion that is triggered by feelings of hurt, mistreatment, or obstacles preventing goal attainment. While anger itself is natural, uncontrolled anger can be problematic and negatively impact relationships. The body's reaction to anger involves increased heart rate, blood pressure, and muscle tension. Unmanaged anger may lead to health issues, accidents, interpersonal problems, and potentially criminal behavior. Learning to identify anger triggers and express anger in an assertive rather than passive-aggressive or openly aggressive manner can help manage anger effectively.
This document discusses dating and relationships. It defines dating as a planned activity between two people, traditionally arranged by males, to engage in socialization, recreation, and mate selection. The document provides dos and don'ts for dates, such as being attentive to your partner and avoiding speaking about past relationships. It examines theories of physical and emotional attraction, noting that physical attraction draws initial interest but compatibility and shared interests promote long-term relationships.
This document discusses gratitude from several perspectives. It defines gratitude as an appreciation for blessings and benefits received. Gratitude is important for maintaining positive emotions and relationships. Several studies are summarized that show practicing gratitude, such as writing thank you letters or counting blessings, is associated with increased happiness and well-being. The document also provides examples of scales used to measure gratitude and discusses perspectives on gratitude from various world religions.
How to learn , to love and respect your parentsKeyder Correa
This document provides tips on how to learn to love and respect one's parents. It recommends showing basic courtesy through please, thank you and greetings. It also suggests allowing parents space to make their own decisions even if you disagree and maintaining contact with family despite differences of opinion. Loving parents involves teaching values like respect, honesty and gratitude. It also means helping family members develop their potential and achieve life goals, as affection stimulates learning.
The ancient Hawaiian practice of ho'oponopono can give you a sense of peace, clarity and love with its 4 phrase mantra and brings with it many great benefits. Here we explore the main benefits of ho'oponopono that can be enjoyed by the practitioner when used to clean, heal and slabilize emotions.
Developing Your Ho'oponopono ExperienceJim Patterson
https://jimpatterson.us/developing-hooponopono-experience/
At it’s most basic, Ho’oponopono is made up of four principals described by less than ten words. As simple as that sounds, many struggle with this practice that translates roughly as “Making Things Right”.
This ancient Hawaiian problem solving ritual is as powerful as it is simple. Simple does not always mean easy though. Gaining a satisfactory Ho’oponopono experience takes some development within the practice.
Introductory guide to liberating touch v1Ranjana Appoo
LiberatingTouch is a holistic healing method developed by Eddie and Ranjana Appoo that combines techniques like EFT, Jin Shin Jyutsu, meditation, and energy work. It aims to help clients achieve emotional health, release stress, and realize their full potential through connecting to one's higher self and balancing the body's energy system. The document provides an overview of LiberatingTouch's foundations, protocols, and the four main tenets of truth, self-responsibility, peace, and love that underpin the approach. EFT and Jin Shin Jyutsu are also incorporated as part of LiberatingTouch sessions.
5. intergrating eft with traditional counselling cbGillcrc
This document describes a study exploring an integrative counseling model that combines conventional counseling with complementary therapies like Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT). The study involved interviews with 5 clients and their counselor to understand their experiences. Key findings included that clients found the integrative model effective and preferred it over traditional counseling alone. EFT was seen as calming and a helpful coping tool. The counselor played a role in creating a safe space for clients.
The document provides information about emotional freedom technique (EFT) tapping, including how it works, its origins, and how to perform it. EFT tapping is a technique that involves tapping on meridian points while focusing on negative emotions, thoughts or issues. This helps reduce stress and cortisol levels by stimulating the body's energy pathways and calming the amygdala. It was developed from ancient Chinese medicine and refined by psychologists in the 1970s-1980s. The document explains the nine meridian points used in EFT tapping and provides instructions for how to tap.
The Truth Behind Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a altered state of awareness that results in extreme relaxation. When your body and mind is in an extremely state of relaxation, your subconscious is in a highly receptive state. This means that suggestion while you're in that state can produce significant behavioral and other changes.
This means, hypnosis has the potential to significantly change your life for the better. It can rid you of self limiting beliefs, thoughts and behaviors and help you achieve goals that until now, have seemed unachievable.
In this book you can learn about all the different ways that hypnosis can change your life and how you can get started with it.
The document discusses the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) as a way to eliminate food cravings, reduce weight, and gain body confidence. EFT is a form of energy psychology that works by stimulating energy points on the skin to balance energy disruptions caused by negative emotions. Using EFT tapping, people can address the root causes of overeating like stress, emotions, and past traumas. The document provides instructions for using EFT to manage food cravings and binges by identifying the craved food, where it is felt in the body, and any related memories or emotions. Tapping through energy meridian points while focusing on the problem can help reduce distress and resolve issues related to body image and eating
Loving-kindness meditation is a practice that can help us to feel more connected and compassionate towards ourselves and others. The practice involves repeating phrases of kindness and goodwill towards ourselves and others. This can help to increase our positive emotions and reduce negative emotions such as anger and hatred.
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This document discusses hypnosis and its uses. It begins with an introduction explaining that hypnosis has been used for centuries for pain relief and its uses have expanded. Chapter 1 discusses why consider hypnosis, providing that it is a natural state that can help treat issues like smoking, overeating, phobias, and more. Chapter 2 discusses specific uses for hypnosis, including for weight loss by helping with motivation, changing views of food, and reducing stress eating.
Ho'oponopono is a Hawaiian practice of reconciliation that involves acknowledging wrongdoings, discussing related emotions, confessing, repenting, and forgiving to resolve problems and restore relationships and peace. It can be practiced individually or as a family and includes accepting total responsibility for one's perceptions and situations in life. The goal is to set things right by correcting wrongs within oneself and relationships through open communication and cooperation.
Through my own personal experiences I know that Yoga can be a powerful tool for recovery from addiction. I offer a range of services that can benefit individuals or groups, and can work privately with individuals, with support organisations or rehab providers. I can also speak on a range of subjects related to Yoga, health, happiness, recovery and addiction
Chapter 15Counseling Approaches I Find Most UsefulThere are so.docxcravennichole326
Chapter 15
Counseling Approaches I Find Most Useful
There are so many powerful approaches that work quickly. In this chapter I shall discuss the
approaches I find most useful. This does not mean that I never use other approaches but these
are the approaches I use most often.
Ericksonian Hypnosis
Hypnosis is not a cure-all. It will not solve all the world’s problems, but it is an effective
tool to assist you and others in resolving many of the issues that you face. I find it especially
useful in assisting with problems that are unconsciously based; problems that are not conscious
choices. People do not choose to have phobias, panic attacks, anxiety, depression or chronic
pain. These are the types of issues where, I find, hypnosis works most effectively. Hypnosis
also works quickly in resolving the problem. I seldom see a person more than four sessions.
An effective therapist has as many tools in her tool chest as possible. If she can only use
one theory or one technique, she will be ineffective many times. Hypnosis is one of many tools
that I use. I highly recommend that you add this tool to your set of skills.
There are a number of phenomena that can occur when one is in trance. I shall briefly
discuss the ones that I find most useful.
According to Zeig (2001, p. 21) there are two aspects to dissociation. One aspect is being
“part of and apart from” an experience. The second aspect is the sensation of automaticity,
where an experience “just happens”. I use dissociation with clients suffering from anxiety,
depression, phobias, panic attacks and chronic pain. An example might be that I suggest to the
individual suffering from anxiety that she is sitting in a movie theater feeling relaxed and healthy
while watching a movie of the person who suffers from the anxiety. I suggest that she can notice
the differences in how the person thinks, looks, acts and feels differently than she does, as she
sits in her seat feeling calm and relaxed.
R. Reid Wilson (2001, p. 220) wrote that time distortion can be used to decrease the length
of discomfort and increase the length of comfort. I suggest to the individual examples of how
she speeds time up and slows time down. An example might be, “We have all had experiences
of being involved in an activity and thinking that only 5 minutes had passed, but were amazed
when we looked at the time to learn that 20 minutes had passed; or, we thought 30 minutes had
passed, but were amazed when we looked at the time to learn that only 7 minutes had passed.”
Lankton & Lankton (1983, p. 218) wrote that amnesia can be elicited with anecdotes and
indirect suggestions. I suggest to the individual examples of amnesia such as meeting someone
in a store and forgetting the person’s name or experiencing a physical sensation and forgetting
about it because something else has caught her attention. An example might be, “I was driving
home from work recently and developed an awful headache. I planned to take a pain reliever as
soon as I ...
The document summarizes the key steps and concepts in the book "The Art of Living" about meditation and finding peace of mind. It discusses 10 steps for understanding problems in life, knowing oneself better, identifying the causes of suffering, comprehending the root causes, eliminating suffering through the Eightfold Path of moral conduct, mental development, and wisdom. It emphasizes observing sensations without reaction to achieve awareness, equanimity and liberation from suffering. Regular meditation practice over a long period is required to fully realize and benefit from these insights.
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The document is a workshop on mindfulness skills for moving through challenging times. It includes an agenda with introductions, explanations of mindfulness and its benefits, guided meditations on the breath, body and feelings, and a question and answer session. The workshop teaches participants mindfulness techniques to help manage stress, emotions and difficulties arising during times of crisis.
Hypnotherapy is a natural state, whereby the therapist guides a person into a state of relaxation similar to meditation or daydreaming. When a person is in hypnosis the mind remains clear and focused, yet the body is totally relaxed. In this state the mind is more open and receptive to positive suggestions and directions. Hypnosis can open the doorway to old buried negative emotions stored in the subconscious.
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2. Ho’oponopono Technique for Healing
Introduction to Ho’oponopono
In this introduction to the ancient Hawaiian healing art of ho’oponopono, I will
tell you a little about what it is, what it does and how you can use it to heal
and empower yourself.
The basis of ho’oponopono is to clean or cleanse the mind of unwanted
blockages that are the result of bad past experiences and the negative
emotional association with them.
Part of this process involves forgiving your past mistakes through a short
mantra that is repeated often and will be described later in this document.
Forgiveness is a gift we all love, but do not know how to get it. It's okay if
getting this gift from yourself seems difficult for some people.
It can sometimes be difficult to seek forgiveness from others, or even practice
self-forgiveness.
Are you prepared to begin healing through the Hawaiian practice of healing,
empowerment and forgiveness?
Then let’s get into it.
3. The Forgiveness Technique Ho'oponopono:
What Ho'oponopono Means
This practice is powerful and beautiful. The Hawaiian words "ho’o", meaning
"cause", and "pono pono", meaning "perfection" are used together.
It means to "correct an error" or make it right. This forgiveness technique
helps an individual cleanse from the inside, and to let go of bad memories
and mistakes.
History of the Ho'oponopono Technique
Ho'oponopono was developed after the teacher and therapist Dr. Ihaleakala
Hew Len had a life-changing experience.
He used Hawaiin forgiveness techniques to cure an entire hospital of mentally
ill criminals without speaking or interacting with them personally.
It probably sounds surreal, but it actually happened.
The ho'oponopono forgiving technique has power and beauty.
Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len examined each patient's records and applied
Ho'oponopono phrases that make up the mantra. Then, he repeated the
technique.
It changed the mood of the prisoners, their mental activity, as well as the bad
memories they had. Len clearly healed both the prisoners and himself.
4. How to Use the Ho'oponopono Technique
A Complete Guide
You may be worried that practising something so beautiful and powerful will
be difficult.
Ho'oponopono can be practised by anyone, and it is very simple. This
Hawaiian technique of forgiving is like chanting prayers or mantras, it has a
similarity to meditation.
• Sit in an area that is quiet and comfortable.
• Close your eyes (optional).
• Take a few breaths.
• Repeat the following phrase with willingness and truth:
“I love you. I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you.”
If the technique is directed to the self, begin the mantra by saying your own
name.
If the technique is directed to another person, begin the mantra by saying the
person’s name.
It's entirely up to the individual how many times they want to repeat this
ho'oponopono mantra, but it seems the more times you can do it, the better.
Once complete, allow yourself a moment of silence to be healed by these
words. Finally, open your eyes.
Dr. Joe Vitale suggests that you repeat the ho'oponopono affirmations at least
108 times to get the desired effect.
5. Why Ho'oponopono Is Effective:
Unveiling Its Magic
The ho'oponopono mantra’s effectiveness is due to the fact that it doesn't just
focus on forgiving, but instead works on other three aspects that are vital for
complete healing.
The mantra also includes love, forgiveness and gratitude. Let’s expand it to
understand the healing power of Ho'oponopono:
1. I am Sorry - Repentance:
This is where you accept responsibility for a situation or an event, and that it's
okay to feel sorry. Tell yourself that you're sorry about the problem. Accept the
responsibility for it and heal.
2. Please forgive me - Forgiveness:
It clarifies your desire to be forgiven. It doesn't matter who you ask
forgiveness from, just say it.
3. Thank You - Gratitude:
You should thank everyone who has forgiven you, including yourself. Be
thankful to everyone who has forgiven or helped you. Don't worry about
whom you show your gratitude to.
6. 4. I Love you - Love:
Love is undoubtedly a powerful instrument. It is for this reason that showering
with love is a key part of this forgiveness method. This is where you tell
everything that empowers and supports you, including yourself, to love.
It is for these reasons that the full ho'oponopono prayer goes as..
“I love you. I am sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you.”
Its repetition has a very positive effect on your emotional state while
systematically removing and dissolving the bad memories of past events that
have been the root cause of many of your present problems.
7. Ho'oponopono and When to Use it
Ho'oponopono can be used to forgive at any moment, even while cleaning
the house or going down the street.
Other ways to use the ho'oponopono mantra include:
• When you're occupied with negative thoughts.
• The news can be disturbing in one form or another.
• When you feel that you or others are not acting as you would like.
• When you find yourself in situations that aren't conducive to growth
(e.g., gossiping).
• When something causes you to feel sadness, fear, or doubt.
• Most importantly, before going to sleep, purge yourself of all bad
feelings you have encountered that particular day.
In essence, you should use ho'oponopono when you feel you need it. If life is
not what you imagine it could be, use the practice to clean.
Cleaning is what Dr. Hew Len was actively engaged in when he healed the
inmates of the Hawaii prison hospital. The method was essentially to clean
his own mind of whatever was in there that was causing his involvement with
those prisoners.
By healing the ″whatever″ within himself, by the connection we all have with
each other, he healed those inmates as well.
You can do the same with sufficient practice.
8. Ho'oponopono Technique for Healing:
Benefits Beyond Forgiveness
Ho'oponopono has many benefits, but you might think that it is only for
forgiveness. Ho'oponopono is not just for forgiveness. It has many benefits.
1. Ho'oponopono helps to create HAPPY MEMORIES
Sometimes we hold onto memories that bring up feelings of remorse or
shame. They can also cause pain and worry. The memories that are playing
in our minds on a continuous loop disturb our peace. With the Ho'oponopono
techniques, these memories can be cleansed and neutralized to create brand
new ones.
2. Make relationships BETTER by forgiving others with Ho'oponopono
When we mistakenly blame others for our conflicts, relationships can
deteriorate. We can take on responsibility for the problems we create by
using the Ho'oponopono techniques. By changing our perception we can
become a new version of ourselves.
3. Ho'oponopono brings EMOTIONAL STABILITY to your life
Ho'oponopono is an effective technique to rid ourselves of negative energy
and bring emotional balance back into our lives. Ho'oponopono users have
reported a feeling of freedom, fulfillment and joy in their life when they break
their ties to negativity.
9. 4. A sense of EMPOWERMENT is given by Ho'oponopono
We are often left feeling helpless by our own mistakes and situations.
Because we think that we are powerless and have little or no influence over
the situation. Ho'oponopono is a practice that allows us to take control of our
lives and influence the outcome. It gives you an independent feeling.
Summary
The apparent simplicity of the ho’oponopono technique should not be taken
lightly or considered less effective than other healing methods.
By repeating the simple phrases over and over, the mind is distracted from its
own, destructive inner conversation with itself. This allows the deeper part of
consciousness to use the positive affirmations to affect change and clean the
mental pathways of the debris that has accumulated over a lifetime.
Use ho’oponopono to heal yourself or someone else and feel the freedom to
move forward and grow into the life you want!
References:
• https://www.tjicl.org/articles/become-a-certified-hooponopono-practitioner.php
• https://creationbythought.com/healing/mental-healing-with-ho-oponopono.php
• https://flypurely.com/healing/ho-oponopono.php
• https://loa.blob.core.windows.net/hooponopono/index.html
• https://hooponopono.pages.dev
• https://www.mrfire.com