Happiness is not a destination but rather a state of being. People often believe they will be happy once they achieve certain life goals like getting married, having children, or retiring, but true happiness comes from appreciating each present moment. Rather than waiting for some future time or event to experience joy, one should decide to be happy now and find meaning in overcoming daily challenges. Happiness is found not in achievements or accolades but in cherishing the people who provide love and support along life's journey.