Equallyoked - Social mores - Civil identity - Liberal arts and Humanities

“Equallyoked”
So, How Do You Know?
Liberal Arts and HumanitiesLiberal Arts and Humanities
(Equally Yoked)(Equally Yoked)

…what “Endogamy” means…
Endogamy means, “in-marriage” – and is
when an individual – according to his/or
her own social customs… (comment: this maybe
more like community (psychosocial) health, such as, a ‘social
mores’ or even an actual practiced religious ‘law’)….
 ….marries an another individual within his
or her own cultural “Social group”*.
 *Note; a “Social group” … a tribe, a sect or cult,
or a even a de facto ‘Civil Identity’,..

…the “Homogenous” Couple
Mutually Favorites:
 Music
 Art
 Food
 Recreation
 Laugh at Same Jokes
 Share in Favorite
Restaurants
 Seeks similar
Entertainment and
Movie Genres
 Seeks same Vacation
Spot Destinations
Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology
They ‘like’ the same….
…more of a colloquial term…

…Understanding theTerms
• “Equally-yoked”
 Social ScienceSocial Science – i.e., Clinical Social Psychology– i.e., Clinical Social Psychology
Defined: A Dyadic (Spouses) with the Same ‘Civil Identity’Defined: A Dyadic (Spouses) with the Same ‘Civil Identity’
• “Equally Yoked”
 ReligiousReligious – i.e, Holy Bible /Christian /Doctrinal– i.e, Holy Bible /Christian /Doctrinal
Defined: A Couple with the Same ‘Civil Identity’ with aDefined: A Couple with the Same ‘Civil Identity’ with a
focus on Same Religion andfocus on Same Religion and the Same ‘Spirit’ especiallythe Same ‘Spirit’ especially..
• “Equallyoked”
 SecularSecular – i.e, Social Ethics /Justice /Social Mores– i.e, Social Ethics /Justice /Social Mores
Defined: A Homogamous ‘Pair’ with the Same ‘CivilDefined: A Homogamous ‘Pair’ with the Same ‘Civil
Identity’Identity’
Note: Pronounced the same and colloquially used
interchangeably - practically meaning the same to all.
-Lexicon:
-Definition of Terms

““Civil Identity”Civil Identity”
 ‘Civil identity’ is a Social Psychology term
– describing an individual’s collective of
features concerning his or her present:
ethnicity, political party membership, race,
color, religious membership,
disability/handicap, age/generation,
(proper) sexual orientation, and marital
status.2
Also, see “Self-identity”Also, see “Self-identity”
-Social Psychology/Self and Identity

Biopsychosociocultural Model
Biologic
“Civil Identity”
Psychologic Social Culture
Sex
Disability
Color
Race
Disability EthnicityMartial Status
Belief/CreedSex
Race
Color
FOOTNOTEFOOTNOTE:: To a lesser or greater degree of mental disability always coexists with any
physical disability and so it is therefore that with a mental disability a physical disability or a
biochemical imbalance is coexistent-affecting/or effecting an individual’s ‘civil identity.’
Social
Religion
Martial Status
+sexual pleasure preferences
PoliticalPartyPoliticalParty
-Social Psychology/Self and Identity

“Civil Identity1”
- Ethnicity:
- Politics:
- Religion:
- Race:
- Color:
- Age:
- Sex: Female
- Sexual
(pleasure
preference)
Orientation:
- Marital
status:
“Civil Identity” is actually a unique mosaic of one’s present: Ethnicity, Political Party, Race, Color,
Religion, Disability, Sex, Sexual (Pleasure Preference) Orientation, Marital Status, Family Status, …..
- Ethnicity:
- Politics:
- Religion:
- Race:
- Color:
- Age:
- Sex: Male
- Sexual
(pleasure
preference)
Orientation:
- Marital
status:
““Civil IdentityCivil Identity22”
-Introduction to Sociology: Soc101

…understanding basic
“Social Mores”
 …a basic rule within a specific cultural group
 Obedience to this cultural group’s rule – results
in formal and casual social acceptance…
 ..the foundation of all community laws within a
culture began with a specific social mores..
 In order for there to be a continuance of culture
such social mores are formally and casually
observed…
 Social mores are r/t mental and social
wellbeing..
 Socialization, childrearing, marriage, and mate
selection are founded up good social mores.

…. Social Mores: +|-
“Equallyoked”
 Good self-esteem
 Spiritual maturity
 a high level morality
 Social resilience
 Stable family values
 Quality of relationship
 Financial security
“Unequally yoked”
 False self-image
 Drug abuse implicated
 Immaturity/immorality
 Lying/deception
 Fun over facts
 Destruction of family
lineage
-Social Psychology: SocPsy202

…morality and Social Mores
The definition of morality and ‘Social Mores” has changed
and evolved into a more multifaceted meaning –
 Good mental health values expressed openly…
 Social manifestation of intrinsic positive moral codes…
 e.g., positive existential and/or spiritual ideologies,
 Extrinsically…positive social customs and norms:
 Proper social conduct and manners,
 Polite meaningful social etiquette, and…
 Positive social standards of behaviors
 Acceptable health habits that comprise a ‘healthy
lifestyle’ and are binding for optimal wellness and
longevity yet differ according to individual group.
-Social Psychology: SocPsy303

..having a Look at Morality
A Check List:
Sensibility about Moral values
Identify certain Habits and lifestyle
History of abiding in proper Social Mores

…so, what Now?
Beware of: Any potential ‘Equally Yoked’
(Equallyoked) Help Meet WHO does…
…NOT want to meet, and..
..Become acquainted with..
..Your family of origin, or..
..Your relatives,..
..and…

…is a Sloppy Dresser
Unless your ‘Equally Yoked’ Help Meet is on
a deployed night mission or on a police
SWAT team, BEWARE of those dressing
in ‘very very dark’ solid colors such as…
…all black:
..coat..
..shoes&socks..
..pants..
..shirt&t-shirt..
..hat! A NinjaA Ninja
A ‘Cat’ BurglarA ‘Cat’ Burglar
Motorcycle MilitantMotorcycle Militant
A Witch in CostumeA Witch in Costume

…doesn’t Get Along with Parents
..Never Calls home
..Never Writes to relatives
..Never VISITS family

..acquainted with Shady Characters
…peers were prison cell mates
..has gangster/or organized crime-
associates
..hangs out with Street people or those
who are involved in illegal acts

…tells Off-Color Stories
..blurts out with a sense of Ill-humor
..tells unusually perverted tales
..is full of Offbeat Jokes

...brags/has a Shifty- lifework
..has a history of Unemployment
..has been “Fired” from a good job
…has Quit a job or walked off
..has no shows to work

..gives a lot of Hard-Luck Stories
..about being a crime victim
..about lack of love or affection
...about having NO money

…makes Excuses/or Apologies
alot
…Sorry, doesn’t have the Time
..other People are making me do it
..short or low on Money (no money)

…definitely is a “Blamer”
..finding faults in other people
..Plays the ‘blame’ game alot
..has a loud 5th
columnist attitude and is an
anti-government activist

…tendency to tell Little Lies
..criticizes others - to look (self) better
..Exagerates a little to gain something
..tries to cover up something

…is a Petty Cheat
..tries to get-an-edge or/and ‘take’ more
than one’s fair share
..looks for little ways to quickly grab-
and-go
..takes a wee bit more of an advantage
over others some how in some way

..trys to Arrange Being Alone alot
…to have “get away” together
..arranges for specific “special dates”
..tries for private “celebration” activities

…is a “Quick” Promiser
..to get a favor
..to ‘score relationship points’
..in order to gain some (self)
advantage

…is … Overly Personal
..talks in front of others about you..
..tells your friends about You’re quirks…
..this and that..about your private
business and/or about the personal you

…is a Borrower
..it is “Little” things at first
…Later, larger and more valuable things
…Small amount of money and then,..

…is a Credit card Charger
..uses credit cards excessively
..applies for any and all credit cards
..is a compulsive spender/over charger

…is ill at ease in Company
..makes excuses to avoid people
..arrives late/leaves early at social events
..would rather forgo most events

…condones an Evil Act
..makes a bad Omen about a person
… “got what ‘he’ or ‘she’ deserves”
..if somebody leaves - “Good riddens”

…speaks for the Both of You
..interrupts your conversations
..tells others in front of you about your…
..tries to prevent you from talking to
others

…ridicules Your Moral Code
…your personal beliefs
…your manners - behavioral standards
..your family’s social ethics

…doesn’t participate in Religion
..has a history of no religion
..goes out of the way to avoid
..or very little participation at all

…quick to tell of Old Ways
“ I used to be a…”
..misdemeanors and Felonies/Crime
..other Infractions of law
…a faked out someone, was a phony…

..an Unequally Yoked - Player
..‘uses’ people to their disadvantage
..is a player of Unequallyoked
relationships
..Exploits people who know people…

…a few Formal Perspectives
 “An equally-yoked relationship is born when both
‘civil identities’ of the couple are rather matched,
not mismatched.”
 “A couple is considered equally yoked when both
individuals have a civil identity that is the same
or at least fairly equal.”
 “The equallyoked couple may have exactly the
same or very similar civil identities.”
- Marriage and Family Therapy
- Social Psychology Research:
Reference Couple Indices
- Sociology 101

..fulfilling an Equallyoked Coupleship
 A few fulfilling features an ‘equallyoked’
coupleship:
 honesty, vulnerability, mutual respect for healthy
boundaries, a full range of emotions,
constructive ambition, sharing of personal
philosophy of life, full expression of love,
admiration, and respect, high level self-esteem,
excellent communication, true bonding, fun times
together, really healthy sexreally healthy sex, negotiation with
supportiveness, activity variety, commitment,
‘seeing’ the best in one another for the best
outcome, true love, etc….

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