The document explores the unique experiences and challenges faced by LGBTI individuals, highlighting the stigma, shame, and harm they endure due to societal disapproval and non-acceptance. It discusses the gradual recognition of sexual and gender identity and the impact of isolation and fear of violence. The document also addresses the consequences of state and non-state harm, including criminalization and family-related violence.

1. There is no template
questionnaire: No list of
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NOT LIVING A
HETEROSEXUAL
NARRATIVE
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2. DIFFERENCE
STIGMA
SHAME
HARM

3. DIFFERENCE
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 Recognition that not like other ‘boys/girls’ with respect to
personal sex gender role development
 Gradual recognition of attraction to members of same-
sex/opposite sex
 Gradual recognition of gender difference in gender identity
claims/intersex claims
 May have commencement of same-sex conduct
 Recognition that this ‘difference’ sets LGBTIs apart from
straight people
 Recognition and association with other LGBTIs – the other -
group differentiated identification
 Not living a ‘heterosexual’ narrative.

4. STIGMA
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 Recognition that close family members/friends disapprove of
conduct/identity
 Recognition that the ‘majority’ does not accept/disapproves of
the conduct/identity of the LGBTI individual
 Recognition of state/cultural/religious mores/laws which are
directed towards LGBTIs.

5. SHAME
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 Impact of STIGMA
 Feelings associated with isolation
 Impact of being the ‘other’ rather than the ‘same’

6. HARM
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 State harm – criminalisation
 Fear of arrest/detention/torture
 Non-state agent harm - mob violence
 Family – honour killing

7. HARM
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 State harm – criminalisation
 Fear of arrest/detention/torture
 Non-state agent harm - mob violence
 Family – honour killing