This document discusses the differences between using a matchmaking service to "date" versus to find a "mate". It notes that if the goal is immediate gratification, a traditional matchmaker may not be the best option. However, if previous dating attempts have not led to success, an experienced matchmaker who gets to know clients personally and makes introductions based on extensive profiles may be a better approach for those seriously seeking a long-term partner. This matchmaker has had over 300 successful marriages and only makes introductions between clients who meet each other's criteria and preferences.