Bedminster • Freehold • Hackensack • Mount Laurel • Parsippany
7 Essential Steps to Take
Before You File For Divorce
H O W D O P R E PA R E F O R M Y D I V O R C E ? &
W H AT S H O U L D I E X P E C T ?
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PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
DISCLAIMER
This presentation contains general
information and does not
constitute legal advice.
Be sure to direct specific questions
about your own situation to an
attorney.
Essential Steps:
How To Prepare
For Your
Divorce
PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
- Getting Started
- The Seven Essential
Steps
- Questions & Help
Sections Covered
PART 1:
Getting
Started
PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
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“By failing to prepare, you
are preparing to fail.”
-Benjamin Franklin
Benjamin Fr
Before you begin this
process
• I s t h i s m a r r i a g e t r u l y
i r r e t r i e v a b l e ?
• C a n w e w o r k i t o u t ?
• Wo u l d t a l k i n g t o a f a m i l y t h e r a p i s t
h e l p u s ?
• H a s m y s p o u s e a l r e a d y g o t a n
a t t o r n e y / f i l e d f o r d i v o r c e ?
Q: Do I have to
prove that my
spouse did
something wrong
to get a divorce?
A: No. New
Jersey permits a
no-fault divorce.
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PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
1. ANALYZE: What do you
want your future to look like ?
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• Custody
• Alimony
• Assets / Debts
• Relationships
What is your ideal outcome?
PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
2. ASSESS: How civilized can
we make this?
10
• Mediation
• Conscious Uncoupling
• Collaborative Divorce
• Uncontested
• Litigation
“The more amicable the divorce,
usually, the lower the cost.”
Q: Is it better to
be the one to file
for divorce first?
A: No. It is
irrelevant who files
for divorce.
It is irrelevant who
is the plaintiff or
defendant in
divorce, but there
may be TIMING
considerations.
You cannot afford to
make mistakes.
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PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
3. GET OPTIONS: Who can
represent me?
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Why a solo practitioner may not
be the best attorney for you…
• Research law firms
• Size
• AVVO ratings
• Reviews
• Approach
DIVORCE 101: Getting Started
4. GET INFORMED: What is
my ’actual’ situation?
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Safeguard your spending … and
that of your spouses.
Understand your financials
• Marital Assets & debts
• Savings & balances
Understand your role within home:
• Parenting responsibilities
• Parenting time
• Time away at work
Q: Does my
spouse (or do I)
have to consent
to a divorce?
A: No. Your
spouse (or you)
do not have to
agree to the
divorce.
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PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
5. GET EXPERT ADVICE: What
should I expect in my case?
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Note: One law firm cannot represent
both spouses.
Get your attorney of choice first.
Schedule a FREE consultation where you:
• Explain your situation
• Ask questions & get answers
• Understand your divorce strategy
• Figure out your next steps
PART 2:
The Seven
Essential
Steps to Take
Before Filing
for Divorce
PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
17
After you retain an attorney, they
are, then, able to work for you.
1. Have your initial consultation
2. FULL Disclosure
3. Hire your chosen attorney
PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
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4. Determine grounds for divorce &
discuss objectives
5. Devise Strategy that protects you
now & safeguards your future
6. Work with Attorney to Complete
Paperwork
7. Discuss Best Time to File with Your
Attorney
Ensuring that
you future-
proof your
divorce is the
best decision
you will ever
make
Do you have other
questions?
CALL US: (888) 855-3014
EMAIL US:
info@weinbergerlawgroup.com
PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
Questions? Can We Help?
Bedminster • Freehold • Hackensack • Mount Laurel • Parsippany
WeinbergerLawGroup.com
(888) 855-3014
S C H E D U L E A F R E E CO N F I D E N T I A L
L EG A L CO N S U LTAT I O N
TO D I S C U S S YO U R D I VO RC E I N N E W
J E RS E Y
The process and information contained in this presentation pertains to New Jersey Divorce Law.
This presentation is for information purposes only and does not constitute legal advice.
For guidance on your specific situation, please contact a divorce attorney.

7 Essential Steps to Take Before Filing for Divorce

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    Bedminster • Freehold• Hackensack • Mount Laurel • Parsippany 7 Essential Steps to Take Before You File For Divorce H O W D O P R E PA R E F O R M Y D I V O R C E ? & W H AT S H O U L D I E X P E C T ?
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    2 PREPARING FOR YOURDIVORCE DISCLAIMER This presentation contains general information and does not constitute legal advice. Be sure to direct specific questions about your own situation to an attorney.
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    Essential Steps: How ToPrepare For Your Divorce
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    PREPARING FOR YOURDIVORCE - Getting Started - The Seven Essential Steps - Questions & Help Sections Covered
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    PREPARING FOR YOURDIVORCE 6 “By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” -Benjamin Franklin Benjamin Fr
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    Before you beginthis process • I s t h i s m a r r i a g e t r u l y i r r e t r i e v a b l e ? • C a n w e w o r k i t o u t ? • Wo u l d t a l k i n g t o a f a m i l y t h e r a p i s t h e l p u s ? • H a s m y s p o u s e a l r e a d y g o t a n a t t o r n e y / f i l e d f o r d i v o r c e ?
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    Q: Do Ihave to prove that my spouse did something wrong to get a divorce? A: No. New Jersey permits a no-fault divorce. 8 PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
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    PREPARING FOR YOURDIVORCE 1. ANALYZE: What do you want your future to look like ? 9 • Custody • Alimony • Assets / Debts • Relationships What is your ideal outcome?
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    PREPARING FOR YOURDIVORCE 2. ASSESS: How civilized can we make this? 10 • Mediation • Conscious Uncoupling • Collaborative Divorce • Uncontested • Litigation “The more amicable the divorce, usually, the lower the cost.”
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    Q: Is itbetter to be the one to file for divorce first? A: No. It is irrelevant who files for divorce. It is irrelevant who is the plaintiff or defendant in divorce, but there may be TIMING considerations. You cannot afford to make mistakes. 11 PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
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    PREPARING FOR YOURDIVORCE 3. GET OPTIONS: Who can represent me? 12 Why a solo practitioner may not be the best attorney for you… • Research law firms • Size • AVVO ratings • Reviews • Approach
  • 13.
    DIVORCE 101: GettingStarted 4. GET INFORMED: What is my ’actual’ situation? 13 Safeguard your spending … and that of your spouses. Understand your financials • Marital Assets & debts • Savings & balances Understand your role within home: • Parenting responsibilities • Parenting time • Time away at work
  • 14.
    Q: Does my spouse(or do I) have to consent to a divorce? A: No. Your spouse (or you) do not have to agree to the divorce. 14 PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE
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    PREPARING FOR YOURDIVORCE 5. GET EXPERT ADVICE: What should I expect in my case? 15 Note: One law firm cannot represent both spouses. Get your attorney of choice first. Schedule a FREE consultation where you: • Explain your situation • Ask questions & get answers • Understand your divorce strategy • Figure out your next steps
  • 16.
    PART 2: The Seven Essential Stepsto Take Before Filing for Divorce
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    PREPARING FOR YOURDIVORCE 17 After you retain an attorney, they are, then, able to work for you. 1. Have your initial consultation 2. FULL Disclosure 3. Hire your chosen attorney
  • 18.
    PREPARING FOR YOURDIVORCE 18 4. Determine grounds for divorce & discuss objectives 5. Devise Strategy that protects you now & safeguards your future 6. Work with Attorney to Complete Paperwork 7. Discuss Best Time to File with Your Attorney
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    Ensuring that you future- proofyour divorce is the best decision you will ever make
  • 20.
    Do you haveother questions? CALL US: (888) 855-3014 EMAIL US: info@weinbergerlawgroup.com PREPARING FOR YOUR DIVORCE Questions? Can We Help?
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    Bedminster • Freehold• Hackensack • Mount Laurel • Parsippany WeinbergerLawGroup.com (888) 855-3014 S C H E D U L E A F R E E CO N F I D E N T I A L L EG A L CO N S U LTAT I O N TO D I S C U S S YO U R D I VO RC E I N N E W J E RS E Y The process and information contained in this presentation pertains to New Jersey Divorce Law. This presentation is for information purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For guidance on your specific situation, please contact a divorce attorney.

Editor's Notes

  • #12 END OF YEAR BONUS; Tax filing, and more
  • #14 We have a Financial checklist PDF which may help.
  • #19 Timing: end of year – tax – bonuses, etc.