This document provides 21 tips for dating and finding a girlfriend in San Leandro, California. The tips include walking dogs at local parks, hanging out at cafes and pubs, joining social networks and online dating sites, volunteering, visiting libraries and bookstores, chatting with people at the grocery store, attending classes, joining athletic teams, partner dancing, going to religious services, and attending singles events. The document encourages putting yourself out there and using your existing friend network and social activities to meet new people.