2. www.RestaurantCoachingClub.com
WORKING WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
IN THE RESTAURANT BUSINESS:
How to Maintain a Relationship Inside and Outside of Work!
LO R R I M O L I N A R I
•We started working together when my four restaurants were struggling
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•I was working with my wife and our relationship suffered
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•Lorri helped us develop strategies and habits inside and outside the
restaurants that have dramatically improved our marriage and happiness
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•Instead of me sharing what have learned from 3 years of working with
Lorri, I asked her to share her knowledge and techniques directly with you
3. www.RestaurantCoachingClub.com
WORKING WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
IN THE RESTAURANT BUSINESS:
How to Maintain a Relationship Inside and Outside of Work!
LO R R I M O L I N A R I
•Certified Anthony Robbins Coach
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•Spent 23 years as a Marketing Executive
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•Primary Coaching Focus is on setting Life Changing Goals and Eliminating
Self-Sabotaging Behavior
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•Besides Coaching, she Currently runs a Candy Shoppe with her husband
4. www.RestaurantCoachingClub.com
WORKING WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
IN THE RESTAURANT BUSINESS:
How to Maintain a Relationship Inside and Outside of Work!
FOUR steps to Successfully working with Family
1. Separate Responsibilities
2. Create Very Specific Rules for Work
3. Create Very Specific Rules for Home
4. Pre-determine how to Resolve Conflict
5. www.RestaurantCoachingClub.com
WORKING WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
IN THE RESTAURANT BUSINESS:
How to Maintain a Relationship Inside and Outside of Work!
STEP 1: Separate Responsibilities
• Pre-determine Roles and Responsibilities as Work
• Pre-determine Roles and Responsibilities as Home
• Written Contracts
• Review Monthly (discuss &adjust)
6. www.RestaurantCoachingClub.com
WORKING WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
IN THE RESTAURANT BUSINESS:
How to Maintain a Relationship Inside and Outside of Work!
STEP 2: Separate Responsibilities
• Pre-determine Roles and Responsibilities as Work
• Pre-determine Roles and Responsibilities as Home
• Written Contracts
• Review Monthly (discuss &adjust)
7. www.RestaurantCoachingClub.com
WORKING WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
IN THE RESTAURANT BUSINESS:
How to Maintain a Relationship Inside and Outside of Work!
STEP 3: Create Very Specific Rules for Home
• When / How is work shut off for the day?
• When can you discuss work at home?
• What are the rules for leaving Work at Work (especially conflict)?
• What if someone breaks the contract?
8. www.RestaurantCoachingClub.com
WORKING WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
IN THE RESTAURANT BUSINESS:
How to Maintain a Relationship Inside and Outside of Work!
STEP 4: Pre-determine how to Resolve Conflict
• There will be Conflict!
• What are your Rules?
9. www.RestaurantCoachingClub.com
WORKING WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
IN THE RESTAURANT BUSINESS:
How to Maintain a Relationship Inside and Outside of Work!
FOUR steps to Successfully working with Family
1. Separate Responsibilities
2. Create Very Specific Rules for Work
3. Create Very Specific Rules for Home
4. Pre-determine how to Resolve Conflict